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Swingers claim sex is more rather than less intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies; therefore, the partner is so confident that jealousy is not an issue
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over a year ago
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since we started swinging sex has been amazing between us...its the fact that he is part of it that makes it such a huge turn on for me...it wouldnt be the same without him x |
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"since we started swinging sex has been amazing between us...its the fact that he is part of it that makes it such a huge turn on for me...it wouldnt be the same without him x"
cheers hun ,you are both lucky to have that rob is a lucky guy .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If one didn’t know better one could take offence at this post having green eyes my self."
ya daft bugger i have green eyes too ...but no jealous monster here ...in fact i find it a massive turn on to see rob giving another woman the same pleasure he gives me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have little if any jealousy between us.. we had more before we decided to swing. Its something we do together, we both enjoy seeing each other give and recieve.. No issues between us and if anything we enjoy a better sex life between us too... |
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over a year ago
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People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit  |
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit "
I never thought of that ...i suppose that iconic image of sitting on another guys lap signifies a level of intimacy or even ownership ...but then doesn't it make the sex less intimate and your right human sexuality is bizarre  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would have to agree that our lives have been enhanced from swinging, whilst we thought we had a good sex life we would have to admit its even better now, taking the good bits from a meet and using it for each other is just mind blowing at times..just when you thought you had done everything you get another surprise..its brilliant..jealousy hasnt been an issue (so far) important words them cos you just never know what may trigger it. |
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over a year ago
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit
I never thought of that ...i suppose that iconic image of sitting on another guys lap signifies a level of intimacy or even ownership ...but then doesn't it make the sex less intimate and your right human sexuality is bizarre "
I don't think the sex is less intimate as thats a big part of why we play but I always have utmost respect for the female half of the couple and would'nt want her to feel in any way that I was being territorial with her man
You hear stories ya know  |
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit
I never thought of that ...i suppose that iconic image of sitting on another guys lap signifies a level of intimacy or even ownership ...but then doesn't it make the sex less intimate and your right human sexuality is bizarre
I don't think the sex is less intimate as thats a big part of why we play but I always have utmost respect for the female half of the couple and would'nt want her to feel in any way that I was being territorial with her man
You hear stories ya know "
Thats interesting as i always try to be like that with the guy too especially with first encounters where there is there is a male who lives by his androcentric view of what swinging should be like ...its very very territorial ... |
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit "
That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"blimey Kaz Freddie and me - all got green eyes - wonder if its the most popular colour amongst swingers "
I think you'll find that this is a common occurence amongst the swinging community brought on slowly by lengthy periods of time spent in dimly lit clubs, grope boxes etc... my eyes started off blue!!! hehehe |
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"blimey Kaz Freddie and me - all got green eyes - wonder if its the most popular colour amongst swingers
I think you'll find that this is a common occurence amongst the swinging community brought on slowly by lengthy periods of time spent in dimly lit clubs, grope boxes etc... my eyes started off blue!!! hehehe "
Mine are blue....Ill look forward to the day they become green |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well reading this thread and as ive never played with or as a cpl (as if id be so lucky )i have always wondered about the jealousy thing but seems you all have none which is great but i do now cos your all lucky F@@kers lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well first of all my eyes are greeney grey and started out blue.
Ok here goes. Patrick and I are not jealous types. But I have to admit that that was a trait that I did look for carefully before getting in deeper with. I just know that I personally could never be in a relationship with someone who was jealous, and thats without swinging even being involved. So yes that first meet, we both caught each others eyes, and we both liked seeing each other either getting pleasure or giving pleasure to someone else. So at the end of the night when the meet was drawing to an end, we both went to our respective partners and cuddled. Ironically the couple we had met and thought we had been together for a very long time.
So i have to agree, there is no room for jealousy in swinging. But once again that is just my personal view |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left
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We had a few rules but as our swinging experiences evolves so the rules bend and change depending on different situations and comfort levels
Some rules will never change though and thas something we're both happy about  |
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left
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goes to look at your two rules |
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left
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Ah i get ya.....must kiss wearing a johnny  |
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left
Ah i get ya.....must kiss wearing a johnny "
Was they aiming that at you cos they have heard where your mouth has been? lol |
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left
Ah i get ya.....must kiss wearing a johnny
Was they aiming that at you cos they have heard where your mouth has been? lol"
yeah most prob so its just as well they dont know where my arse has been |
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"well we had been married 28 years before we started on this route and happy to say there has never been any jealousy between us, envy yes jealousy no. As we had been married 28 years we had a lot to lose and once you have seen something you can't unsee it. So we took things very slowly and a step at a time, had a list of rules as long as the arm of an orangutan but now 4 years down the line we only have 2 left
Ah i get ya.....must kiss wearing a johnny
Was they aiming that at you cos they have heard where your mouth has been? lol
yeah most prob so its just as well they dont know where my arse has been "
Ah, this was on the other thread about chat up lines. So you got a mouth like a bird cage huh?  |
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"am I supposed to tell you what the rules are? opps silly me
They are that K has to be happy in any situation (and she says i have to be) and penatrative sex has to be safe sex "
what you mean no strapping explosives to the dick ...cus a condom helps but it dont make you safe . |
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"am I supposed to tell you what the rules are? opps silly me
They are that K has to be happy in any situation (and she says i have to be) and penatrative sex has to be safe sex
what you mean no strapping explosives to the dick ...cus a condom helps but it dont make you safe ."
does that mean you would climax with a bang  |
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"am I supposed to tell you what the rules are? opps silly me
They are that K has to be happy in any situation (and she says i have to be) and penatrative sex has to be safe sex
what you mean no strapping explosives to the dick ...cus a condom helps but it dont make you safe .
does that mean you would climax with a bang "
well you've heard about the explosive orgasm ...  |
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit
That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue."
i agree ...but i assume you mean women as well rather than just men ? |
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit
That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue.
i agree ...but i assume you mean women as well rather than just men ?"
I should hope, this is an equal opportunities organisation |
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit
That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue.
i agree ...but i assume you mean women as well rather than just men ?
I should hope, this is an equal opportunities organisation "
sure is |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"People who have jealousies and inscurities with swinging should'nt swing
However I think there are boundaries that should'nt be crossed
For example when playing with couples I would'nt dream of sitting on the other mans lap if we were all sitting around chatting as I think thats too intimate and its not my place to do so yet Id think nothing of shagging his brains out
strange game innit
That's the difference between intimacy and affection. You can fancy someone rotten and fuck their brains out without jealousy rearing its ugly head but if you then take that further and start doing everyday things with other men outside of sex that you enjoy with your one and only then that's where I can see jealousy becoming an issue.
i agree ...but i assume you mean women as well rather than just men ?
I should hope, this is an equal opportunities organisation
sure is "
can we see the policy please? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"If one didn’t know better one could take offence at this post having green eyes my self.ya daft bugger i have green eyes too ...but no jealous monster here ...in fact i find it a massive turn on to see rob giving another woman the same pleasure he gives me "
I so whole-heartedly agree... nothing to do with jealousy or green eyes... just emphasising the depth your own relationship has ...that is why there is no room for jealousy and possessiveness in swinging... |
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Having read the posts here, I found it interesting seeing what others count as "intimate", i.e. something that is not exceptable to do with someone else outside of your relationship.
We both love to kiss, and love to kiss whoever we are swinging with, but understand that some people do not do this with anyone but their own partner.
We both like to be tactile, neither of us minds if the other is sat with
(or on) someone, even touching or caressing them, but one anomaly in this is holding hands, that is a no-no for us to do with anyone else. Another thing we do not do with others is the whole "snuggling" thing, off in a corner, whispering sweet nothings etc.
As for jealousy, its never been an issue, but we believe swinging has helped us trust each other more, and has certainly improved our "at home" sex life!! |
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getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things |
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"getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things"
aint got a jealous bone in my body love , ....simple x |
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The one thing I'm jealous of is couples that do swing. As much as society in general may look down on the idea of swinging, married couples that do swing probably have stronger relationships than those that don't. The level of trust between a couple to share each other in such a way is pretty amazing.
I know there are couples that split up over it, but in those cases it isn't the swinging itself that causes the split. |
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"getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things
aint got a jealous bone in my body love , ....simple x"
yeah ya are, its when i put my intelligent view across |
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"getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things
aint got a jealous bone in my body love , ....simple x
yeah ya are, its when i put my intelligent view across"
but all your views are intelligent arent they ?? |
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Well as a married female who plays on her own with her husbands full knowledge, I guess you could say there isnt any jealousy here.
He could play if he wants too, he chooses not too.
As for the sex, well its always been great, but im kinky and he sint...so I go and kink other people lol...works for us. |
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"getting back to the topic i think its pd's fault coz he is a jealous swinger and forumnite and he just hates it when i put my intellectual point on things
aint got a jealous bone in my body love , ....simple x
yeah ya are, its when i put my intelligent view across
but all your views are intelligent arent they ?? "
of course they are....arnt they |
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"Swingers claim sex is more rather than less intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies; therefore, the partner is so confident that jealousy is not an issue
True or false ?"
It is not an issue with us we love eachother to bits xx |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"Swingers claim sex is more rather than less intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies; therefore, the partner is so confident that jealousy is not an issue
True or false ?
It is not an issue with us we love eachother to bits xx "
same here  |
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"Swingers claim sex is more rather than less intimate because they are with a partner who encourages their fantasies; therefore, the partner is so confident that jealousy is not an issue
True or false ?
It is not an issue with us we love eachother to bits xx
same here "
Good morning friend three days to early morning raid lol xx |
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"Im never jealous of me am I gran.
No im not.
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wots the weather out gran. am still in bed with the curtains closed. cannot hear any rain, so i dont think its wet outside. my nipples are not super hard so i dont think its cold. just cant be bothered getting out of my bed. |
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"Im never jealous of me am I gran.
No im not.
wots the weather out gran. am still in bed with the curtains closed. cannot hear any rain, so i dont think its wet outside. my nipples are not super hard so i dont think its cold. just cant be bothered getting out of my bed."
ffs ! lazy git! Wincey Willis says..... it's mild but grey and overcast. Low but wide expanse of cloud cover AND sticking my head out of the velux for you ... it looks like it could rain .....OR clear up n give a bit of sun ... Could go either way ( bit like a bi at a group session ) Get up you lazy mare ! Dee xx |
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"Im never jealous of me am I gran.
No im not.
wots the weather out gran. am still in bed with the curtains closed. cannot hear any rain, so i dont think its wet outside. my nipples are not super hard so i dont think its cold. just cant be bothered getting out of my bed.
ffs ! lazy git! Wincey Willis says..... it's mild but grey and overcast. Low but wide expanse of cloud cover AND sticking my head out of the velux for you ... it looks like it could rain .....OR clear up n give a bit of sun ... Could go either way ( bit like a bi at a group session ) Get up you lazy mare ! Dee xx "
who said you were not a scouser when you come out with that expression "lazy mare". would love to know the weather conditions for saturday as going to a wedding. any chance you could ask wincey for me what its going to be like for then
janxx |
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"Im never jealous of me am I gran.
No im not.
wots the weather out gran. am still in bed with the curtains closed. cannot hear any rain, so i dont think its wet outside. my nipples are not super hard so i dont think its cold. just cant be bothered getting out of my bed.
ffs ! lazy git! Wincey Willis says..... it's mild but grey and overcast. Low but wide expanse of cloud cover AND sticking my head out of the velux for you ... it looks like it could rain .....OR clear up n give a bit of sun ... Could go either way ( bit like a bi at a group session ) Get up you lazy mare ! Dee xx
who said you were not a scouser when you come out with that expression "lazy mare". would love to know the weather conditions for saturday as going to a wedding. any chance you could ask wincey for me what its going to be like for then
janxx"
Wincey says no .... Wincey says put the area of the wedding into your sodding computer and look for it yourself. I'd have done it for you but Wincey is a bitch.
P.S. I'm not a scouser..... i've only lived here for 52 years |
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