so lovely people, help me out. I seem to struggle to know what I am dealing with here...
what is the difference between a meet and a date? some clear guidance is needed to help my poor little soul... |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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To me a meet whether a repeat or not is when you get together with someone for some great sex. Then go back to real life.
A date is when you do the above except you're hoping to have a relationship with them at some point.
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over a year ago
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I would class a date as going somewhere like a meal or trip out, and as much sexiness as was wanted. A meet would be getting down to things straight away without having been to the cinema etc first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would class a date as going somewhere like a meal or trip out, and as much sexiness as was wanted. A meet would be getting down to things straight away without having been to the cinema etc first "
Agree  |
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How many ladies meet someone again if you like them, but are not sure on first meeting if you want to get jiggy with them??
I often know I don't, but sometimes I'm not sure if I do, and then I feel awkward for asking them to take some time and be a bit 'datey' with me lol??
I guess some guys are happy to go for that and some are not.  |
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"To me a meet whether a repeat or not is when you get together with someone for some great sex. Then go back to real life.
A date is when you do the above except you're hoping to have a relationship with them at some point.
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Yes, that's how I define it - date is always 'with a view to' a possible relationship. But a meet can be very social too, spending nights out or weekends away together or whatever. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"How many ladies meet someone again if you like them, but are not sure on first meeting if you want to get jiggy with them??
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I always have a social first and I know literally straight away if I want to shag them or not!
I don't date but I'm more than happy for repeat meets with the right kind of guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A meet means sexual contact is likely, a date implies no such thing
Wrong on both accounts - *blows a raspberry * 
OK, using your logic then, fancy a date?   "
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"How many ladies meet someone again if you like them, but are not sure on first meeting if you want to get jiggy with them??
I always have a social first and I know literally straight away if I want to shag them or not!
I don't date but I'm more than happy for repeat meets with the right kind of guys "
I'm up for either! Some I know before we even meet, but increasingly, especially with guys over 50, I'm really not sure, just willing to take a bit more time and meet again if they are.
I guess because I only really looking for fwb I'm needing to warm to them as a friend before I start to feel I want more. I very rarely feel like nsa nowadays. |
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