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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On a round about way a friend has spoken to me.
I don't give a fuck personally, as Mrs marmite knows I'm bi, and also buys the knickers for me 
Just got me wondering though, can he keep it to himself or are ALL my friends gonna know soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would you do if one of your closest friends told you he knows about you being on a swingers site... and also knows about your darkest secrets?
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Depends. Could be threats and violence, could be a laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps asking how the friend knows this may make him question his actions
If he is a real friend then perhaps he will understand the concepts of loyalty and discretion.
If not you may find out. But there is little you can do to control the situation beyond either talking with and trusting the friend or just taking what may come your way.
Good luck with this i hope your friend proves to be just that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On a round about way a friend has spoken to me.
I don't give a fuck personally, as Mrs marmite knows I'm bi, and also buys the knickers for me
Just got me wondering though, can he keep it to himself or are ALL my friends gonna know soon."
I guess there isn't anything you can do if he knows and does tell all your friends.
Your Mrs knows that's all that matters, hold your head up high and be proud of who you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing really, don’t care who’s knows what about me, wouldn’t make front page news that’s for sure.  "
This....most of my friends know, work all know. I told them in interview when they asked about my “interests”.
Anyone who doesn’t it’s only because it hasn’t come up in conversation (yet). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on what your dark secrets are I susppose.
If my friend Mark (who is a ninja) discovered I like making lamp shades out of human skin he'd be very dissapointed in me."
Because you hadn't made him one too?  |
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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago
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Many of my closest friends know I’m on Fab, so I’d be ok.
It might help to know what your “friend” might do with your deepest secrets, or if they are maybe “reaching out” in the hope you’ll hook up, or can help them with their secret.
I suggest you don’t make a big fuss about it, act cool but caring Incase they are reaching out, & be nonchalant about it.
Good luck.  |
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