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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you try your best but its all in vein. Wont get much sympathy and dont expect it but im giving up on this site. Not great meantally at the moment so its not helping me either. Ive done everything i can to try and get a meet. Being nice and writing three paragrapghs being intresting has not worked either. I feel i need to write this to get it off my chest. I may return but i doubt it at this point. All the best to you fabbers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well good luck then.... but in the (very short) six weeks since you've joined you've had a meet and a few cam veris so actually think you doing rather well, but if your expectations are higher than that you will be why you are disappointed perhaps. Take care out there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You’ve been verified by more people than you’ve been here in weeks, so you can’t say it’s not working for you. If your head isn’t it, then hide your profile and leave there in case you feel like you’d like to come back. Everyone who leaves, comes back sometime. Get yourself out of the house and have a long walk and clear your head. |
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I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving to guys.
Sorry it's just time. I love you all.
If you need further information about this horrific event for all at Fab please consult the threads below.
xxx sorry
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929
and here
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213
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"I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving to guys.
Sorry it's just time. I love you all.
If you need further information about this horrific event for all at Fab please consult the threads below.
xxx sorry
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929
and here
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213
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Funky!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well good luck then.... but in the (very short) six weeks since you've joined you've had a meet and a few cam veris so actually think you doing rather well, but if your expectations are higher than that you will be why you are disappointed perhaps. Take care out there x"
Im not disapointed as such just very hard going for me at the moment as im not great mentally. So ill take a leave of absence or a long break see if can find my self again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is my 2nd time on this site so got revaried in a hurry but my 1st account took me 6 months to meet anybody. Try local clubs. Stay on site and put to taking a break. Time to think. |
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"I don't know if anyone has heard but I'm leaving to guys.
Sorry it's just time. I love you all.
If you need further information about this horrific event for all at Fab please consult the threads below.
xxx sorry
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/67929
and here
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/69213
Funky!!! "
Please don't laugh at me... again.
This is serious. I love you xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The guy says he’s not in a good place mentally, it might be a call for help. His post may, may just be what is needed to stop the trigger in his head from going one way or the other. Don’t be taking the fucking piss out of him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guy says he’s not in a good place mentally, it might be a call for help. His post may, may just be what is needed to stop the trigger in his head from going one way or the other. Don’t be taking the fucking piss out of him."
He has only just made that comment about not being in a good place mentally, and so far, nobody has taken the 'piss' out of him since he said it. |
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"The guy says he’s not in a good place mentally, it might be a call for help. His post may, may just be what is needed to stop the trigger in his head from going one way or the other. Don’t be taking the fucking piss out of him."
It's Ron Seal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guy says he’s not in a good place mentally, it might be a call for help. His post may, may just be what is needed to stop the trigger in his head from going one way or the other. Don’t be taking the fucking piss out of him.
He has only just made that comment about not being in a good place mentally, and so far, nobody has taken the 'piss' out of him since he said it."
Perhaps you would like to read the OP’s opening post whereby he says he’s not in a good place ‘mentally’. That when he said it first and that’s what I was talking about and when he posted it the second time that he wasn’t ‘mentally’ in a good place.
Pulling me up on my comment when you haven’t read the whole piece. Really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guy says he’s not in a good place mentally, it might be a call for help. His post may, may just be what is needed to stop the trigger in his head from going one way or the other. Don’t be taking the fucking piss out of him.
He has only just made that comment about not being in a good place mentally, and so far, nobody has taken the 'piss' out of him since he said it.
Perhaps you would like to read the OP’s opening post whereby he says he’s not in a good place ‘mentally’. That when he said it first and that’s what I was talking about and when he posted it the second time that he wasn’t ‘mentally’ in a good place.
Pulling me up on my comment when you haven’t read the whole piece. Really."
Yep I missed that. Sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP here's a really crazy idea. Why not stay on fab but change your objective 180 degrees. Instead of concentrating on what you want, concentrate on what they want. Be interested in people for friendships sake and just forget about sex for a while. Fab can be a wonderful place to meet some really amazing people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This isn’t the best place if you have self esteem issues or are looking for positive reinforcement or to feel better about yourself. It’s an artificial world with a huge herd of men and very few women. Just chat on here. Relax. Use this as a vent etc but don’t put pressure on meeting. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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OP seems there's two strands to this- one to be taken seriously the other not so.
To deal with the not so seriously one first - you say you're struggling to get meets and yet have only been here 6 weeks and have 5 veris, one of them an in person one, hardly a sign of struggling by Fab standards. On that point whether you stay or leave is entirely up to you of course, but think you'll struggle to get any sympathy about it if that is what you were looking for.
On the second, more serious point, if you're not in a good place mentally and Fab has something to do with that then yes the best thing to do is walk away - whether that is by going UNLOS or just hiding your profile and not logging on is your choice but if this place is really getting to you that much continually coming back is not going to help.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another day, another whining married man.
What were your expectations when you joined? "
I missed the bit where it said he was married ?
Rightly or wrongly a lot of guys do join here thinking its a shagathon but most seem to work out within a couple of weeks that it isn't quite like that and either leave or try and be polite etc to garnish a meet.
Some are luckier than others in getting meets and some just continue to be assholes and never meet anyone and end up using this place as a bit of light hearted free pic site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks all..im just going to hide my profile for now while i concentrate on getting better. Will return hopefully with a much better frame of mind "
Fair play to you and remember, it’s good to talk, to a friend or a stranger. Try not to bottle things up. Your family and your friends want you in their lives, remember that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems like you've done well in the time you've been here in fairness. I've been here a number of weeks. No joy. But thats life.. someone might come along and swoop me off my feet haha 
Hope you get well anyways man whatever you do!  |
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OP it is a good move to hide your profile and take a break from fab.
Fab is a great place but if you are feeling down it can exacerbate those feelings and make you feel much worse. You really do need to be in a good place to get the most from being on here otherwise it will drag you down further.
Take some time out to focus on your health and wellbeing. Talk to your GP or even a call to the samaritains if you feel you need to and don't be too hard on yourself. Having depression or any other mental health issue isn't a sign of weakness - it is normal and anyone can get it.
Be kind to yourself. We will see you if/when you feel ready to try again with fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP it is a good move to hide your profile and take a break from fab.
Fab is a great place but if you are feeling down it can exacerbate those feelings and make you feel much worse. You really do need to be in a good place to get the most from being on here otherwise it will drag you down further.
Take some time out to focus on your health and wellbeing. Talk to your GP or even a call to the samaritains if you feel you need to and don't be too hard on yourself. Having depression or any other mental health issue isn't a sign of weakness - it is normal and anyone can get it.
Be kind to yourself. We will see you if/when you feel ready to try again with fab."
thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fits in with my theory that everyone on fab is damaged in some way, and naturally I include myself in that.
"Oh lord, make me chaste and pure...
...but not yet"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs here 8 weeks and still not gone 2 weeks after posting this. Says it all "
If he can't follow this through,....
Wonder if he got a meet out of this, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all i have been checking in. Took time out by hiding my profile. Feel a bit better, no meets by sympathy from this post. I was in a bad place when i posted this but thanks to all for your concern/input. I have made a pen pal who keeps in touch and asks how im doing. Will be hiding my account again shortly until i feel better to use it properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well good luck then.... but in the (very short) six weeks since you've joined you've had a meet and a few cam veris so actually think you doing rather well, but if your expectations are higher than that you will be why you are disappointed perhaps. Take care out there x"
Well thats right, I'm doing shite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ffs here 8 weeks and still not gone 2 weeks after posting this. Says it all "
What a nice and squidgy comment from a forum regular.
So warm and welcoming.
Must make lurkers so eager to post on the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all feeling a lot better now. Thought id share a bit of festive fun in my profile pic even. Hope you all have a great xmas!!"
Glad to hear you feeling a bit better, hopefully your penpal helped and taking a little break hiding your profile.
The site is a lot like a rollercoaster sometimes you feel sick and just gotta get off for a while.
Happy holidays. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all feeling a lot better now. Thought id share a bit of festive fun in my profile pic even. Hope you all have a great xmas!!"
Good to hear that, welcome back x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you try your best but its all in vein. Wont get much sympathy and dont expect it but im giving up on this site. Not great meantally at the moment so its not helping me either. Ive done everything i can to try and get a meet. Being nice and writing three paragrapghs being intresting has not worked either. I feel i need to write this to get it off my chest. I may return but i doubt it at this point. All the best to you fabbers."
Without trying to sound like we’re having a go mate, this is a swingers site not just a hook up guaranteed shag site.
Some single guys have been on here years without a meet, but are genuine swingers so stay around for the swinging banter.
That said good luck finding whatever it is you are looking for. |
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