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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You know those meets? It's all perfect, you've chatted, for all excited and worked up, you get to the door and all you can hear is them screaming at their kids to go to bed :/ I know life is life and all that but it is incredibly off putting! Anyone else had similar experiences? I'm now sat in the car wondering wether I should wait a bit and knock the door or not.. |
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If that was me I would just leave, I'm not up for playing while their children are at home. I would send them a message to explain why.
If they don't like it, tough luck. They should have said their children were at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jeez, would you seriously consider going into a strangers house and shagging her in the front room whilst the kids are asleep upstairs?! Do you really want one of the, to wander in and see your naked arse shagging their mum if they have woken up or are feeling poorly and come to find her?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hmmm my thoughts exactly! I've no problem meeting people with kids at home as long as they are positive they aren't going to walk in or anything like that lol! Never mind I guess it's just me and my hand tonight! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know those meets? It's all perfect, you've chatted, for all excited and worked up, you get to the door and all you can hear is them screaming at their kids to go to bed :/ I know life is life and all that but it is incredibly off putting! Anyone else had similar experiences? I'm now sat in the car wondering wether I should wait a bit and knock the door or not.."
Honestly I'd just go home, why wouldn't she arrange the meet for later when she knows kids will defo be asleep or better still a hotel meet ?
I wouldn't and haven't had any meets in my home where my children have to live  |
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"You know those meets? It's all perfect, you've chatted, for all excited and worked up, you get to the door and all you can hear is them screaming at their kids to go to bed :/ I know life is life and all that but it is incredibly off putting! Anyone else had similar experiences? I'm now sat in the car wondering wether I should wait a bit and knock the door or not.."
TBH I would never invite anyone round to meet when my kids are home .. in fact to date I e never had anyone round for a meet when they aren’t here either
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I reckon I'm gonna head home, grab an 8 pack and play some forza 7! Maybe later I'll treat myself to a steamy night of passion with my friend palm.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I reckon I'm gonna head home, grab an 8 pack and play some forza 7! Maybe later I'll treat myself to a steamy night of passion with my friend palm.."
Least you can relax with your friend palm |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Why on earth would anyone invite someone over for a meet with their children in the house"
Yup I'm with you. I know people have kids and may struggle with sitters etc but no way would I play knowing there were children in the house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Politely explain that you’re uncomfortable attending whilst the kids are there (making assumptions that you are), don’t just leave her high and dry. Then maybe re-arrange a more mutually agreeable rendezvous. |
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"Politely explain that you’re uncomfortable attending whilst the kids are there (making assumptions that you are), don’t just leave her high and dry. Then maybe re-arrange a more mutually agreeable rendezvous. "
Na just leg it  |
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"Hmmm my thoughts exactly! I've no problem meeting people with kids at home as long as they are positive they aren't going to walk in or anything like that lol! Never mind I guess it's just me and my hand tonight!"
No one can be positive that their kids won't walk in. You can't predict bad dreams, illness etc.
I'd just go without if my only option was to meet with my kids around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not in a million years would I enter that house let alone play! It's one thing popping over to see a fab friend socially when kids are tucked up in bed...but to have a total stranger over to fuck you when your kids are in the house let alone still awake is just wrong if you ask me...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't imagine for one minute bringing anyone home for sex with kids in the house.  "
This is my thought too. You could be letting anyone into your house for Christ's sake and what should be the most important, special people in your life are lying in bed upstairs listening to Mummy get pumped on the sofa.
Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.
Leg it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm invite a stranger into the house with your kids there. I know I'm bad but that would be a line I couldn't cross. Wouldn't out her in danger like that.
I don't blame you for backing out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't imagine for one minute bringing anyone home for sex with kids in the house.
This is my thought too. You could be letting anyone into your house for Christ's sake and what should be the most important, special people in your life are lying in bed upstairs listening to Mummy get pumped on the sofa.
Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.
Leg it."
Although the way you wrote it made me chortle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have children, but if I did, their protection would be paramount. No way should she have invited you over plus she should have mentioned that fact to you!
I'm lost for words! |
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"Politely explain that you’re uncomfortable attending whilst the kids are there (making assumptions that you are), don’t just leave her high and dry. Then maybe re-arrange a more mutually agreeable rendezvous. "
+1 for this  .
It would be rude to just not turn up without any explanation.
What I like to do is bring a bottle of the host's hostess preferred tipple or a little something to snack. That way you can break the ice/ settle the nerves/ gauge the vibe of the meeting. At worst you take it all home because your date is not in the mood now. You might have a pleasant wine and cheese evening and you will probably meet again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Politely explain that you’re uncomfortable attending whilst the kids are there (making assumptions that you are), don’t just leave her high and dry. Then maybe re-arrange a more mutually agreeable rendezvous.
+1 for this .
It would be rude to just not turn up without any explanation.
What I like to do is bring a bottle of the host's hostess preferred tipple or a little something to snack. That way you can break the ice/ settle the nerves/ gauge the vibe of the meeting. At worst you take it all home because your date is not in the mood now. You might have a pleasant wine and cheese evening and you will probably meet again. "
I think you're the only person that thinks he should have gone in ......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I couldn't imagine for one minute bringing anyone home for sex with kids in the house.
This is my thought too. You could be letting anyone into your house for Christ's sake and what should be the most important, special people in your life are lying in bed upstairs listening to Mummy get pumped on the sofa.
Wrong. Wrong. Wrong.
Leg it.
Although the way you wrote it made me chortle "
Been told I have a way with words |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Politely explain that you’re uncomfortable attending whilst the kids are there (making assumptions that you are), don’t just leave her high and dry. Then maybe re-arrange a more mutually agreeable rendezvous. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Loving all the assumptions that this is a woman/mother/she..
Welcome to the 21st century..
Dad's look after kids too! "
Dads do look after their kids too but the OP a few comments down has said she  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've realised I'm very cynical and not very trusting, how do you now the woman in the house was actually the woman you were talking to online and not just a wind up?
It's bad enough inviting a stranger round when your children are home, but not telling said stranger you have children or that they would be home seems even more bizarre.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yeah drive off mate to be honest it's sound really dodgy
Not dodgy just bloody awkward
Pity you weren't closer OP, you could have played with me  "
Oh that is a shame indeed!!
Anyway, I left it and didn't meet but did text her and said that I could hear you were having trouble with the kids so thought it best to leave it for another time. Cheers for the replies! Still horny though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Anyway, I left it and didn't meet but did text her and said that I could hear you were having trouble with the kids so thought it best to leave it for another time. "
Nice one!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know those meets? It's all perfect, you've chatted, for all excited and worked up, you get to the door and all you can hear is them screaming at their kids to go to bed :/ I know life is life and all that but it is incredibly off putting! Anyone else had similar experiences? I'm now sat in the car wondering wether I should wait a bit and knock the door or not..
TBH I would never invite anyone round to meet when my kids are home .. in fact to date I e never had anyone round for a meet when they aren’t here either
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This
Haven't some people got no shame????
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"You know those meets? It's all perfect, you've chatted, for all excited and worked up, you get to the door and all you can hear is them screaming at their kids to go to bed :/ I know life is life and all that but it is incredibly off putting! Anyone else had similar experiences? I'm now sat in the car wondering wether I should wait a bit and knock the door or not..
TBH I would never invite anyone round to meet when my kids are home .. in fact to date I e never had anyone round for a meet when they aren’t here either
This
Haven't some people got no shame????
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Hotels or clubs only
Like most clues up parents we endeavour to keep our homes as a safe sanctuary for them and I am very careful as to who actually knows where I live especially with some random meet
Bad enough with fb sharing info with their ‘people you might know’ bullshit
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