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Seems as though some very high maintenance members

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By *ookiedee OP Man over a year ago

Bradford

Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

Being on a sex site makes us horny not desperate. Our standards, likes and tastes vary. It doesn't mean we are high maintenance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have a 6 pack and I do ok

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

None of the guys I’ve met have six packs. They do have a wicked sense of humour and are all intelligent interesting guys though. So don’t know where you’re getting your information from but it’s wrong.

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I have a 6 pack of beer and a dad bod and I do ok

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have a 6 pack and I do ok

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By *ookiedee OP Man over a year ago

Bradford

Just an opinion

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Just an opinion "

Actually, you made a statement. Just because you have been turned down does not mean that only men with six packs get meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm high maintenance, I expect flowers and gifts and meals and evenings away in posh hotels.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've been here 8 months and verified so I assume you're as successful as the average guy in here?

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

You have a choice get to the gym and get some abs or unlos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not bothered if they're under 10% body fat or not. It's winter so most guys would be bulking now anyway. As long as they aren't majorly fat and have nice defined muscley arms and a big dick I'm not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have a choice get to the gym and get some abs or unlos

buurrn

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Apparently I am high maintenance and up my own backside according to some on here?

My pictures may say that but once you get to know us then you will know that I am not at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope, not come across anyone high maintenance. In fact I would say most of the people I know on here need a mental connection and to get to know someone. If they like them, they like them.

I do not agree with your opinion in the slightest OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You'll find it's the men that know how to talk to women do well on here OP

A six pack is irrelevant.

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By *ookiedee OP Man over a year ago

Bradford

I'm just curious to what people think. I'm verified by a friend I found on here. Been here 8months no luck. Don't send one sentence messages or anything not pushy. Not sure how not many replies if any at all

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Just an opinion "

L and I have a thing called the dragon scale, depending on the number of scales on the scale determines interest or not.

That is any sex, colour or kink play.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doesn't have to have a 6 pack, I'd settle for a party 7.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not bothered if they're under 10% body fat or not. It's winter so most guys would be bulking now anyway. As long as they aren't majorly fat and have nice defined muscley arms and a big dick I'm not bothered. "

Do blokes bulk up for winter in Wales? Never know it got that cold!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

if that is your perception then only you can adapt to that level, should you wish to that is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just curious to what people think. I'm verified by a friend I found on here. Been here 8months no luck. Don't send one sentence messages or anything not pushy. Not sure how not many replies if any at all"

The number of women on here vastly outweigh the number of men.

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

I’ve got a sister in the wrens

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apparently I am high maintenance and up my own backside according to some on here?

My pictures may say that but once you get to know us then you will know that I am not at all

Would love to find out....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The green arrow is great.

On another thread you've just started you said you don't care what someone looks like, was you hoping everyone was the same?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

That is just factually incorrect, on many levels.

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By *ookiedee OP Man over a year ago

Bradford

The green arrow is great.

On another thread you've just started you said you don't care what someone looks like, was you hoping everyone was the same?"

Not everyone seem to get a lot of views but no messages.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm high maintenance, I expect flowers and gifts and meals and evenings away in posh hotels.

But you're worth it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The men really outnumber women on here. Most men seem to get no replies, it's not personal. Many have a set idea of the profiles they like- text and pics. If you don't fit that then they delete your mail. But it just means you're not compatible.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Not everyone seem to get a lot of views but no messages. "

OP you are looking for a very narrow group of people on here so your chances will be less because there aren't as many of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

Ah, what can you do about it then?

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By *ookiedee OP Man over a year ago

Bradford

Thankyou for the many responses. Really appreciate the comments etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have a 6 pack and I do ok

You got two pack and we find that hard to manage as you can't even zip your top on..

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"The men really outnumber women on here. Most men seem to get no replies, it's not personal. Many have a set idea of the profiles they like- text and pics. If you don't fit that then they delete your mail. But it just means you're not compatible.

And the women outnumber the TV/TS share of the community, which the OP wants to meet with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slightly chubby 55 year old here getting meets and some more lined up

no 6 pack evident here

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

I got a lurpak and am okish.

Chin up fella.. not all women liked toned men..

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

So you’ve not been getting laid then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have a 6 pack and I do ok

You got two pack and we find that hard to manage as you can't even zip your top on..

Imagine if I had 6

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slightly chubby 55 year old here getting meets and some more lined up

no 6 pack evident here

Lined up you fucker, send me at least one lady towards me.. Very dried up here in my world

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've been told I'm high maintenance before, usually after I've turned someone done.

It has nothing to do with whether a guy has a six pack or not either!!!

Attraction is important on here, for women anyway, and that can come in many forms.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have a 6 pack and I do ok

You got two pack and we find that hard to manage as you can't even zip your top on..

Imagine if I had 6

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you can feed 6 babies at same time..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slightly chubby 55 year old here getting meets and some more lined up

no 6 pack evident here

Lined up you fucker, send me at least one lady towards me.. Very dried up here in my world

"
not a lady my friend but a very lovely couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't have a 6 pack and I do ok

You got two pack and we find that hard to manage as you can't even zip your top on..

Imagine if I had 6

you can feed 6 babies at same time..

I think I might just have given myself udders

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By *ondon-guy68Man over a year ago

London

Hardly the best way to get noticed either...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like 6 packs.

I prefer a good chat though and some of the guys on here have really really surprised me by being not only gorgeous in many varied ways but able to hold my attention, make me smile and laugh and turn me on with a sentence.

It's not all about looks.

I'm nowt special and I get meets.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Personally speaking in order to be interested enough to reply to a message from someone, I have to be intrigued either by their message or their profile (or a combination of both). I've no idea what the calibre of your opening message to someone you're interested in is like, but your profile would do nothing to encourage me to respond... It reads like no thought or effort went into it... And if someone isn't inclined to put any thought or effort into things.... Wellllllllll...

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By *hatYorkLadMan over a year ago

York

I've got a 6 pack and nobody is beating my door down!

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS over a year ago

london

Who needs a six pack when one has whiney and presumptuous! Can't get me knickers down fast enough.

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By *hamboy69Man over a year ago

huddersfield

It's up to the OP as it is all the single guys

You can stay at home typing out message after message that will just be ignored or get yourself out there to some clubs and bypass the timewasters.

In the last week I've visited 2 clubs where the ladies were commenting on the lack of quality single guys

As I said it's up to the OP to make things happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That’s one way of looking at it, OP. However, it isn’t the only way to look at it.

Plenty of men have plenty of success, plenty aren’t mirror images of Adonis himself either.

What is it Shag says, patience is key?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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"I'm high maintenance, I expect flowers and gifts and meals and evenings away in posh hotels.

I gave you my flower

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont have a six pack. I do ok and very content. Sometimes i get to play sometimes not. I dont bleat if i don't.

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

It’s fanny Avenue

Pussy place

Clunge corner

Minge Boulevard

In here mate I’m sure your luck will change

Ps feel free to add any I’ve missed out

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"It’s fanny Avenue

Pussy place

Clunge corner

Minge Boulevard

In here mate I’m sure your luck will change

Ps feel free to add any I’ve missed out

As he is looking for TV's

Bournville Boulevard or Cadbury Avenue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op I'm ugly and not as toned as in my youth but I get regular meets using charm and manners maybe you should try that approach

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

"It’s fanny Avenue

Pussy place

Clunge corner

Minge Boulevard

In here mate I’m sure your luck will change

Ps feel free to add any I’ve missed out

As he is looking for TV's

Bournville Boulevard or Cadbury Avenue

That actually made me laugh thanks for that

Note to self read the whole thread lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think looking for people you find attractive and having standards is high maintenance. What I find dull is people who don't have any standards and come across as wanting to fuck anyone who'll let them.

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By *oisisbackCouple over a year ago

exeter

"Apparently I am high maintenance and up my own backside according to some on here?

My pictures may say that but once you get to know us then you will know that I am not at all

Look bloody fantastic on it hun xx

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Apparently I am high maintenance and up my own backside according to some on here?

My pictures may say that but once you get to know us then you will know that I am not at all

Look bloody fantastic on it hun xx "

Thank you, like to keep myself in trim, especially as the BIG 5-0 is looming early next year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"
you are totally right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can you explain how that is high maintenance?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you pull in the vanilla world OP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hang on a minute. Have you had a look at the male profiles on here? There are loads-and I mean loads - of men, fucking till their hearts content, who don't have 6 packs. I've fucked hundr...a few of them myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

High maintenance, you betcha and I’m worth it!! Lol

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Do you pull in the vanilla world OP?

Green arrow, he's a virgin so I'd guess not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive not got a 6 pack more like a 12 pack lol and i don't do to bad lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve not got a 6 pack but I’ve pulled. Coz I’m a nice normal guy and not desperate.

Not saying you are OP.

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By *oisisbackCouple over a year ago

exeter

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me you are totally right

Just a tip hun , Maybe lose the tartan jim jams pic it may help to get meets x

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By *isarrayTV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm generally suspicious of profiles which show guys with six packs... I don't know why, but if a profile just shows a load of really good photos of someone with an impressive body I tend to think it's more likely to be a fake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive not got a 6 pack more like a 12 pack lol and i don't do to bad lol

See! Here's your evidence. And he's older than you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm generally suspicious of profiles which show guys with six packs... I don't know why, but if a profile just shows a load of really good photos of someone with an impressive body I tend to think it's more likely to be a fake.

Or it's the 6 pack they had 10 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive not got a 6 pack more like a 12 pack lol and i don't do to bad lol

See! Here's your evidence. And he's older than you

"
what you doing next weekend lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive not got a 6 pack more like a 12 pack lol and i don't do to bad lol

See! Here's your evidence. And he's older than you

what you doing next weekend lol

Working on me 6 pack

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apparently I am high maintenance and up my own backside according to some on here?

My pictures may say that but once you get to know us then you will know that I am not at all

Look bloody fantastic on it hun xx

Thank you, like to keep myself in trim, especially as the BIG 5-0 is looming early next year

You're joking?

You certainly don't look it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do you pull in the vanilla world OP?

Green arrow, he's a virgin so I'd guess not "

Aha I see.... but it’s only the girls on fab that are high maintenance..... if you can’t pull normally what makes anyone think they can pull here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my opinion, Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me

FTFY

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"It's up to the OP as it is all the single guys

You can stay at home typing out message after message that will just be ignored or get yourself out there to some clubs and bypass the timewasters.

In the last week I've visited 2 clubs where the ladies were commenting on the lack of quality single guys

As I said it's up to the OP to make things happen

Not the best marketing, unfortunately.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Apparently I am high maintenance and up my own backside according to some on here?

My pictures may say that but once you get to know us then you will know that I am not at all

Look bloody fantastic on it hun xx

Thank you, like to keep myself in trim, especially as the BIG 5-0 is looming early next year

You're joking?

You certainly don't look it. "

Thank you too.

My girlfriends hate me, say its not fair (they are only joking though)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hang on a minute. Have you had a look at the male profiles on here? There are loads-and I mean loads - of men, fucking till their hearts content, who don't have 6 packs. I've fucked hundr...a few of them myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's down to preference and how you get along,the click chemistry and then you go from there in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and I have a cracking bum I'm told op lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A guy with a six pack could be really boring, be crap in bed and a selfish lover so no OP I dont agree it comes down to charm and banter and veri with me x

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

"A guy with a six pack could be really boring, be crap in bed and a selfish lover so no OP I dont agree it comes down to charm and banter and veri with me x"

Have you been copy and pasting my profile

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By *cedHoneyWoman over a year ago

Bristol

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

Sounds like a bit of an incel comment if u ask me

Having standards isn't the same as being very high maintenance. No one owes anybody a shag.

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

My six pack abandoned me when I had kids and never came back

All I can manage now is a 4 pack and i'm doing quite well thank you

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By *K430Man over a year ago

Tipperary

Dad bod here ,stuck with it so I'm quite ok with that

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By *hamboy69Man over a year ago

huddersfield

Or it's the 6 pack they had 10 years ago. "

Ha ha that's what I tell my gfs on here when they get excited by some guys profile

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

Or they're looking for playmates honest and confident in what they're seeking.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah let's put your lack of success on here down to you not having a six pack!

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

"Yeah let's put your lack of success on here down to you not having a six pack!"

Or maybe whit and charm

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Do blokes bulk up for winter in Wales? Never know it got that cold!

Like bears and sleep until spring I bet

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Yeah let's put your lack of success on here down to you not having a six pack!

Or maybe whit and charm

No comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could always draw a 6pack on.

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

"Yeah let's put your lack of success on here down to you not having a six pack!

Or maybe whit and charm

No comment

A dazzling array of social skills even

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Chance for a proper experiment to prove or disprove the supposition OP. Work on getting a six pack, keep everything else the same and see if your fab experience changes for the better or not once said six pack is achieved. Then you'll know if it is down to one single factor or not. I would think not, but only true scientific rigour could prove it either way.

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By *ilent.KnightMan over a year ago

Swindon

OP, I can imagine you’re not feeling great at having so many people challenge ur views ... and maybe not it the most sensitive ways. But ask yourself, how much evidence do you have for your beliefs ... and how much have yoU tested other lines of thoughts. It’s easy to go looking at profiles of lads with the bodies and see the verifications ... but not go looking at the lads who are just normal. Or podgy. Plenty have luck. And plenty have luck with gals you and I would walk over glass for. Work out what they do. And copy.

Or employ a PT. and get a six pack. After all, if it works ...

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By *hamboy69Man over a year ago

huddersfield

"Chance for a proper experiment to prove or disprove the supposition OP. Work on getting a six pack, keep everything else the same and see if your fab experience changes for the better or not once said six pack is achieved. Then you'll know if it is down to one single factor or not. I would think not, but only true scientific rigour could prove it either way."

Easier said than done Ive been working on mine for s couple of years.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Easier said than done Ive been working on mine for s couple of years."

And do you feel that has enhanced or not made one iota of difference to your fab experience?

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Gosh you are too sensible, what a brilliant suggestion

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Apparently I am high maintenance and up my own backside according to some on here?

My pictures may say that but once you get to know us then you will know that I am not at all

Look bloody fantastic on it hun xx

Thank you, like to keep myself in trim, especially as the BIG 5-0 is looming early next year

Me too

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

Or it's the 6 pack they had 10 years ago.

Ha ha that's what I tell my gfs on here when they get excited by some guys profile"

They could always message someone’s recent veri to check how ‘current’ the guy’s pics are.......

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

If you have a 6 pack it may be high maintenance if you enjoy your pies but otherwise find people who like your profile of details.

If your personality and looks aren't to others tastes, don't knock them, just accept it and keep sourcing the high volumes of High grade partners from your current sources.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I almost have a 6 pack and no meets here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Negativity is a big turn off, nothing to do with lack of 6 pack.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I'm high maintenance, I expect flowers and gifts and meals and evenings away in posh hotels.

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By *ammyharrogateWoman over a year ago

Harrogate

I’m high maintenance !!! I expect a decent chat and sense of humour

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've got a 6 string inflatable guitar if that's any good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try bringing champagne instead of a 6 pack

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

Very few of my meets have had a six pack, some have had a keg and most have been great company! More importantly they've Smelt fresh, dressed well, made me laugh and been polite

Your opinion sucks and isn't going to help you attract anyone starting a forum post about it

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?"

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page."

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Couple must be harder, everyone has to have the same taste

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Couple must be harder, everyone has to have the same taste "

Yes indeed.

Our first other was with us for 6 years, so you can see why we are selective

Great fun when you all click.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being on a sex site makes us horny not desperate. Our standards, likes and tastes vary. It doesn't mean we are high maintenance"

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Couple must be harder, everyone has to have the same taste "

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

It’s not high maintenance it’s a preference

Everyone like different things and just as we choose who we are attracted to in life for friendships and relationships and careers we do the same with our choice for nsa sex

High maintenance - no

Picky who we want to have sex with - yes

And why not ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I've fucked hundr...a few of them myself

They're all hot though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm doing sit ups as I read this OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm doing sit ups as I read this OP"

I'll help you

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit, the expectation of some men when they join here is such a turn off, they seem to think it is as easy as ordering out of the Argos catalogue, change your bloody mindset!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm doing sit ups as I read this OP

I'll help you

you going to stand over me and give me motivation

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page."

I call it a cop out answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm doing sit ups as I read this OP

I'll help you

you going to stand over me and give me motivation

Absolutely

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By *typical guyMan over a year ago

wigan

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site as they all have people that will sleep with anyone and also those that are incredibly selective. Infact the same people are often on here and the "swipe left" type sites.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower.."

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

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By *revaunanceCouple over a year ago

Exeter

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

Your a 26 year old virgin, yet your content to call other people dull?

And whilst your at it you call other people high maintenance.

Let's just assume that they are. SO wy would they want to meet you?

Sorry, but this site is all about publicising yourself.

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By *typical guyMan over a year ago

wigan

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response."

Unfortunately the attitude that swingers are superior is what breeds threads like this.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

Unfortunately the attitude that swingers are superior is what breeds threads like this."

You missed the point completely.

Nobody said that swingers think they are superior.

My point was single guys seem to have the perception that as swingers, they are guaranteed to be easier to bed, then moan when they can’t get a meet on here.

The latter should say it all.

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By *iversong321Woman over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

High maintenance - damn right! Dull - noooooo.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A very English argument

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By *typical guyMan over a year ago

wigan

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

Unfortunately the attitude that swingers are superior is what breeds threads like this.

You missed the point completely.

Nobody said that swingers think they are superior.

My point was single guys seem to have the perception that as swingers, they are guaranteed to be easier to bed, then moan when they can’t get a meet on here.

The latter should say it all.

I didn`t miss the point at all and you implicitly said that swingers have higher standards. You continue to show contempt for single men and stereotype them and seem surprised that some may think this could be considered a little stuck up/high maintenance/offensive.

I`m not excusing the behaviour of the `entitled` men, just pointing out the `them and us` dynamic, which they use to justify their moans/rants to themself leading to posts like this. And also the conceited opinions of those that like to think being a swinger means they have "higher standards" (your words)

Thankfully most people here are down to earth but there is a definite elitist aura about this place sometimes.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Thankfully most people here are down to earth but there is a definite elitist aura about this place sometimes.

Why that is I can't fathom. We're on a swingers site, yet some adopt an air of pseudo superiority: risible really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had to fit a new cowl to my chimney pot a few months ago. That was very high maintenance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How can anyone on here be high maintenance ? It's all about personality. I usually offer a diet ,two straws and share a pack of Pringles....everyone loves Pringles !

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By *typical guyMan over a year ago

wigan

Thankfully most people here are down to earth but there is a definite elitist aura about this place sometimes.

Why that is I can't fathom. We're on a swingers site, yet some adopt an air of pseudo superiority: risible really."

For some it is an over inflated ego, others it overcompensating against appearing "easy", or maybe a touch of "keeping up appearences"/virtue signalling

Imo, obviously.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response."

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some very high maintenance members here. If you ain't got a 6pack you won't pull. Dull if you ask me"

I did 'better' when I was fatter. No excuse mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why does liking a 6 pack mean you're high maintenance? I have no preference although think 6 packs are overrated preferring a bit more padding!

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By *ungmagic10Man over a year ago

Northampton

That hasn't been my experience but if that was the case then I'd find myself in the gym-even though I already am. And you do Know you don't need a 6pack to have a so called 'attractive body' Right? Everyone likes what they like.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I'm gonna say it....

You knew it was coming....

Would you like some cheese with your whine?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm gonna say it....

You knew it was coming....

Would you like some cheese with your whine?

Stilton and vintage port plesse Peach

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I'm gonna say it....

You knew it was coming....

Would you like some cheese with your whine?

Stilton and vintage port plesse Peach "

No worries, if you can just grab the stilton and vintage port on your way that'll be quite dandy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm gonna say it....

You knew it was coming....

Would you like some cheese with your whine?

Stilton and vintage port plesse Peach

No worries, if you can just grab the stilton and vintage port on your way that'll be quite dandy

I'll stop by the shops on the way..

You any preference for the whine...err wine

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I'm gonna say it....

You knew it was coming....

Would you like some cheese with your whine?

Stilton and vintage port plesse Peach

No worries, if you can just grab the stilton and vintage port on your way that'll be quite dandy

I'll stop by the shops on the way..

You any preference for the whine...err wine

Nah but make it snappy I'm doing home made lasagne

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm gonna say it....

You knew it was coming....

Would you like some cheese with your whine?

Stilton and vintage port plesse Peach

No worries, if you can just grab the stilton and vintage port on your way that'll be quite dandy

I'll stop by the shops on the way..

You any preference for the whine...err wine

Nah but make it snappy I'm doing home made lasagne "

And garlic fries?

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I'm gonna say it....

You knew it was coming....

Would you like some cheese with your whine?

Stilton and vintage port plesse Peach

No worries, if you can just grab the stilton and vintage port on your way that'll be quite dandy

I'll stop by the shops on the way..

You any preference for the whine...err wine

Nah but make it snappy I'm doing home made lasagne

And garlic fries?

Salad. I need to eat more healthily

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have my standards and i will stick to them! Not going to break them just to get a shag, I'd sooner masterbate!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm gonna say it....

You knew it was coming....

Would you like some cheese with your whine?

Stilton and vintage port plesse Peach

No worries, if you can just grab the stilton and vintage port on your way that'll be quite dandy

I'll stop by the shops on the way..

You any preference for the whine...err wine

Nah but make it snappy I'm doing home made lasagne

And garlic fries?

Salad. I need to eat more healthily

You want me to bring the cucumber too

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By *typical guyMan over a year ago

wigan

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

the only person twisting anything is you. My comment about swingers having lower standards was to show the idiocy of your statementas, assumptions and logic. Immediately before i made that sentance i stated my opinion on standards

"There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site"

and

"You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards."

so to imply that i am a single male of the type you where ranting about is nothing but you twisting things to suit your bullshit, and avoid answering the question, again.

Tbh i didn`t expect anything else from you and you display my point perfectly with your default criticise and scapegoat single men approach.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

"There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site"

and

"You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards."

so to imply that i am a single male of the type you where ranting about is nothing but you twisting things to suit your bullshit, and avoid answering the question, again.

Tbh i didn`t expect anything else from you and you display my point perfectly with your default criticise and scapegoat single men approach."

And there you show your true colours as a single guy who thinks he is entitled.

There are people with low standards on all sites, both male and female.

It was a comment on how it looks when guys message but like many others you have bitten and chosen to turn it into a witch hunt.

Sorry if we offended or hit a nerve

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

I go for chemistry and personality too,obviously there has to be attraction.That doesn't mean a six pack ,as i'm far from perfect.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try tinder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have higher standards on a dating site. I would be looking for different things, and that may reflect on the people I am interested in.

I wouldn't be on a dating site looking for just sex.

I wouldn't be on here looking for a forever partner.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Apologies to the OP and all from me, Mr.

Was only making a statement and got into a battle.

We are all here for fun and to find people who we gel with.

Sorry if we ended up stealing your thread and good luck.

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By *typical guyMan over a year ago

wigan

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

"There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site"

and

"You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards."

so to imply that i am a single male of the type you where ranting about is nothing but you twisting things to suit your bullshit, and avoid answering the question, again.

Tbh i didn`t expect anything else from you and you display my point perfectly with your default criticise and scapegoat single men approach.

And there you show your true colours as a single guy who thinks he is entitled.

There are people with low standards on all sites, both male and female.

It was a comment on how it looks when guys message but like many others you have bitten and chosen to turn it into a witch hunt.

Sorry if we offended or hit a nerve

And there you go falsly accusing single men of being contemptable, again. In what way am i behaving "entitled"?

You were not simply commenting on how it looks when guys message, you where stereotyping and criticising others because you think you are superior. As proven by your comments on swingers having higher standards and guys on fab being the rejects from other sites.

Being pulled up on your ignorant, arrogant and offensive views is not a "witch hunt" it is stating fact. Facts that you continue to prove by again blaming the single man and trying to cast a shadow to hide your own faults.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

"There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site"

and

"You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards."

so to imply that i am a single male of the type you where ranting about is nothing but you twisting things to suit your bullshit, and avoid answering the question, again.

Tbh i didn`t expect anything else from you and you display my point perfectly with your default criticise and scapegoat single men approach.

And there you show your true colours as a single guy who thinks he is entitled.

There are people with low standards on all sites, both male and female.

It was a comment on how it looks when guys message but like many others you have bitten and chosen to turn it into a witch hunt.

Sorry if we offended or hit a nerve

And there you go falsly accusing single men of being contemptable, again. In what way am i behaving "entitled"?

Give it up, you need to get out more

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

I've never shagged a guy with a six pack in all my years on here

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By *rCurious1Man over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Where am I going wrong

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By *typical guyMan over a year ago

wigan

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

"There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site"

and

"You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards."

so to imply that i am a single male of the type you where ranting about is nothing but you twisting things to suit your bullshit, and avoid answering the question, again.

Tbh i didn`t expect anything else from you and you display my point perfectly with your default criticise and scapegoat single men approach.

And there you show your true colours as a single guy who thinks he is entitled.

There are people with low standards on all sites, both male and female.

It was a comment on how it looks when guys message but like many others you have bitten and chosen to turn it into a witch hunt.

Sorry if we offended or hit a nerve

And there you go falsly accusing single men of being contemptable, again. In what way am i behaving "entitled"?

Give it up, you need to get out more

Another false accusation to try and discredit me and avoid having to stand by your own words. Just like when you avoided piemans questions in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cup of tea anyone?

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Cup of tea anyone?"

Yes please, no sugar thank you

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By *hamboy69Man over a year ago

huddersfield

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

"There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site"

and

"You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards."

so to imply that i am a single male of the type you where ranting about is nothing but you twisting things to suit your bullshit, and avoid answering the question, again.

Tbh i didn`t expect anything else from you and you display my point perfectly with your default criticise and scapegoat single men approach.

And there you show your true colours as a single guy who thinks he is entitled.

There are people with low standards on all sites, both male and female.

It was a comment on how it looks when guys message but like many others you have bitten and chosen to turn it into a witch hunt.

Sorry if we offended or hit a nerve

And there you go falsly accusing single men of being contemptable, again. In what way am i behaving "entitled"?

Give it up, you need to get out more

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By *hamboy69Man over a year ago

huddersfield

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

"There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site"

and

"You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards."

so to imply that i am a single male of the type you where ranting about is nothing but you twisting things to suit your bullshit, and avoid answering the question, again.

Tbh i didn`t expect anything else from you and you display my point perfectly with your default criticise and scapegoat single men approach.

And there you show your true colours as a single guy who thinks he is entitled.

There are people with low standards on all sites, both male and female.

It was a comment on how it looks when guys message but like many others you have bitten and chosen to turn it into a witch hunt.

Sorry if we offended or hit a nerve

And there you go falsly accusing single men of being contemptable, again. In what way am i behaving "entitled"?

Give it up, you need to get out more

Or maybe they should discuss brexit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My members very easy to maintain...

Keep it clean

Keep the general area trimmed

Keep it warm

Drain regularly

Pull a glove on to meet strangers

Always shake well after use

Simples.

*top tip** if you have a member with foreskin then pull the skin back when draining for added target accuracy

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By *typical guyMan over a year ago

wigan

"Only my personal view (Mr).

It seems as if guys come onto Fabs after having no success on the other sites.

They seem to be under the impression that because we are Swingers then the ladies are going to be just sitting here waiting.

What they don't seem to realise is that as Swingers, we probably have far higher standards than the ones that they have been hunting on the other sites.

On what basis would swingers have higher standards than none swingers?

If you need to ask then there is your answer.

I call it being on the right page.

But I'm just trying to get in the same room and the same bed as someone

So are we but we aren’t just swiping left or right to start start the process

We like to get a sense of who they are first.

From a couples point of view of course.

As I said, just my thoughts

Swiping left or right is no different to viewing a profile on fab and deciding to message or move on.

You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards.

Also your statement about the guys on fab being the failures from other sites would imply that people on the other site are actually more selective and the standard here is actually lower..

That was my point and I wanted them to quantify there comments rather than come back to me with a if you don't know your not worth telling response.

You’re fellow rantee above has answered for us.

His comment that people on here have lower standards was the point that I was trying to get across in my first comment, before the usual twisting witch hunt began.

I rest my case

"There is also no difference in standards between here and any dating site"

and

"You may have high standards, and be a swinger but one is not a prerequisite of the other. Nor does it mean that people on other sites don`t have standards."

so to imply that i am a single male of the type you where ranting about is nothing but you twisting things to suit your bullshit, and avoid answering the question, again.

Tbh i didn`t expect anything else from you and you display my point perfectly with your default criticise and scapegoat single men approach.

And there you show your true colours as a single guy who thinks he is entitled.

There are people with low standards on all sites, both male and female.

It was a comment on how it looks when guys message but like many others you have bitten and chosen to turn it into a witch hunt.

Sorry if we offended or hit a nerve

And there you go falsly accusing single men of being contemptable, again. In what way am i behaving "entitled"?

Give it up, you need to get out more

Or maybe they should discuss brexit"

You seem like a yes man. And i`m not talking about brexit...

Do you have anything of substance to contribute?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cup of tea anyone?

Yes please, no sugar thank you

Help your self to biscuits

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Cup of tea anyone?

Yes please, no sugar thank you

Help your self to biscuits

Did someone say tea?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cup of tea anyone?

Yes please, no sugar thank you

Help your self to biscuits

Did someone say tea?

Yes, and biscuits.

Would you like milk and sugar?

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