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Is fab heightist towards men?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right I've done a bit of research in that I've searched threads to do with struggling with meets and out of 29 (that's all I could check) 26 of those were started by men under 5'9, now those profiles looked good in other areas so is it a height thing?

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have indeed encountered that. Although often I’ve seen the height requirement so not bothered messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right I've done a bit of research in that I've searched threads to do with struggling with meets and out of 29 (that's all I could check) 26 of those were started by men under 5'9, now those profiles looked good in other areas so is it a height thing?

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

Amazing tattoo by the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve come across a few profiles and the women have insisted on no one under 6 foot, like everything else, it’s just another preference of theirs.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t use height as a filter, I usually go with the fact I like the man himself rather than using a set of requirements.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Definitely. I never realised height was such a big thing (pardon the pun) until I started internet dating and saw the amount of profiles specifying height.

Women have got a massive thing (pardon the pun) about tall guys. I guess it goes back to caveman days and finding a protector and good genes for your kids.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never used height as a filter...I've met men that were almost same height as me ( 5ft4.)

And I've met met 6ft 9 I think was the highest.....had great fun with whatever height they have been

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

I can wear 70s platform shoes if you like wilky

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

The guy I've just kinda finished with was 6ft I'd love this again now that feeling of being protected. My ex husband was 5'7" and I'm 5'4" so he was only a tidgy bit taller than me.

I quickly realised something on here if I at least want to meet someone of 5'7" I need to be looking at profiles that say they're 5'10"

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

When my full profile is showing I state a preference of at least 5ft 9 but that's just a preference and my actual cut-off point is 5ft7, however, that's the same in real life too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never put height as a filter, it's not something I'm overly fussed about x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I can wear 70s platform shoes if you like wilky

I'm 5'3 everyone is taller than me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm guilty of being a bit heightist...but it's not cast in stone, I like chunky guys so if they are one the shorter side I have made exceptions..

I dated a guy for a long time who was only 5'8 so for me anyway it's all down to what the person is like...

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've met a couple of guys shorter than me, and would again. I think I'd maybe be more heightist if I was looking to date someone properly, but on here i don't really even look at it.

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By *icky-discoMan over a year ago

oxford

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I can wear 70s platform shoes if you like wilky

I'm 5'3 everyone is taller than me!"

Apart from jimmy crankie

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By *ugga81Man over a year ago

West Malling

I'm 6'3 and height has never been on my mind much (apart from fitting in plane seats) but does seem important to a high percentage of ladies on Fab.....

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By *ranimallxl5Man over a year ago

Winchester

Mainly age..i see girls I adore and I'm like one year too old and wonder to myself if a year makes a big differce

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5,7 and height doesn't bother me at all. There are far more important things to me. I love how a man does not have an issue how big I am. He shows his own self confidence which is such a turn on. I am however hung up on other measurements

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ha ha well if the ladies I have met used a height filter I would be a virgin!! im 5ft 5 ex jockey and when I was 16 I was 6 and 1/2 stone and had no problem getting women even very tall older ones!! One of my lady friends on here with high heels towers over me but it has never prevented me and her have some awesome fun. I think if a woman likes you she wont care how short you are. Lucky enough women seen to like my personality so if they choose by height then that is their choice but they may miss out on a real gem!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mainly age..i see girls I adore and I'm like one year too old and wonder to myself if a year makes a big differce"

My thoughts exactly. Such a pity. There have been threads about this and I can tell you that people will have preferences no matter how hard one wishes that there were not.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

I’ve done similar research, and my conclusion brought me to develop the Fab ‘Holy Trinity’ for guys and meets;

Under 45

Over 6ft

Can accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Brilliant. So there's absolutely nothing I can do about it now. Pissing against the wind... what if I wore heels?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"ha ha well if the ladies I have met used a height filter I would be a virgin!! im 5ft 5 ex jockey and when I was 16 I was 6 and 1/2 stone and had no problem getting women even very tall older ones!! One of my lady friends on here with high heels towers over me but it has never prevented me and her have some awesome fun. I think if a woman likes you she wont care how short you are. Lucky enough women seen to like my personality so if they choose by height then that is their choice but they may miss out on a real gem!"

You add an inch to the height on your profile?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Height is a filter: I prefer taller men. That said, one of the best shags and still a good friend was someone who contacted me on another site over ten years ago.

I had a preference for tall men he had one for women under a size 16...he's 5ft 6 and about 8st wet! He messaged me saying I sounded arrogant and up my own arse. I enquired why his preference which excluded me was okay but mine that excluded him equated to my being up myself and arrogant.

He couldn't answer and he offered to buy me a drink to apologise. We met, got on great and we met up again. Saw each other for about 18 months. The locals in his pub were fascinated by us, we were an odd looking couple. He said every Monday evening he went in he'd be met with "She didn't kill you then!"

With that one exception I like em tall. Partner is 6ft 1: perfect!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

I have to admit I do use height as a filter... I prefer taller men and women (I like to feel both dominated and protected) and usually if someone messages me and the profile says they are under 5'10 I won't reply (I also filter by age... I like filters lol). However I have been swayed on occasion when someone's personality really shines

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

I think height would probably matter to me if I was tall but as I'm only 5ft 2" most people are taller than me anyway so I'm not fussed x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think people tend to have an ideal in mind when they set filters which can cut out people they'd be attracted to in reality. I don't make a big deal of being tall in my profile but maybe I should lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You add an inch to the height on your profile?"

Have I omg a whole inch better get that changed

there is a story about that... when I was a jockey I was measured intially as 5ft 6 inches at my medical however a year later at my next one another doctor measured me at 5ft 5 and I was mortified so I complained made hi get a tape measure out and check the wall.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I’ve done similar research, and my conclusion brought me to develop the Fab ‘Holy Trinity’ for guys and meets;

Under 45

Over 6ft

Can accommodate.

And as a result people are not embracing their true age. I see that as conforming instead of taking a stand in who they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over the years I have had a few regular partners. My current two are 6ft 8 (at least) and 5ft 6. I'd say half of them were shorter than me-I'm 5ft 8-and half were taller-5ft11 and above.

I've never chosen someone because of their height, but taller men are able to get into positions and be more comfortable than shorter men; especially being fucked from behind, as I can't open my hips wide to lower my body.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do prefer men who are taller than me. I make no apologies for this. I’m sure some guys have written me off for certain physical attributes, like my teeny boobs!

I state over 5 ft 10 on my profile as some will probably add a couple of inches to their height.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think people tend to have an ideal in mind when they set filters which can cut out people they'd be attracted to in reality. I don't make a big deal of being tall in my profile but maybe I should lol."

Yeah you're nice all over.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You add an inch to the height on your profile?

Have I omg a whole inch better get that changed

Those electronic height measuring machines make me different heights. One makes me 5'7.2, another 2 make me 5'7.9.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ideally I want to meet 6' or above as I am 5'11" but I have met guys 5'9" and 5'10" ... it depends on the guy really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not 6ft but I've never been told I'm too short.

That being said I don't contact the profiles who state 6ft as a minimum.

Who knows, fab could be heightest. It just makes me wonder how people go about this in real life....like "hi, you look nice...is it ok if I whip my tape measure out? I need to check your height and cock length before we go any further.."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must admit at being more taken aback at opening the door to my 6ft 8 long term partner, than having the door opened by a man who looked about 5ft 3/4, maybe shorter.

I had great sex with both.

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By *ugga81Man over a year ago

West Malling

"I do prefer men who are taller than me. I make no apologies for this. I’m sure some guys have written me off for certain physical attributes, like my teeny boobs!

I state over 5 ft 10 on my profile as some will probably add a couple of inches to their height. "

Your teeny boobs look spectacular with your gorgeous body and lingerie: )

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

Soooo, you are that person working for Sydney university and doing all these research?.

Anyway it is always good to share your research outcome here, apart from height what else you think women looking for??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah you're nice all over. "

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ideally I want to meet 6' or above as I am 5'11" but I have met guys 5'9" and 5'10" ... it depends on the guy really

6 foot here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shortarse here, but that's the sum total of zero to do with why I don't get meets. I don't get meets because I'm lazy and can never be arsed putting the effort in

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

I’m 5ft 8 and I’m usually attracted to men taller than me, however it’s not set in stone (my ex was the same height as me). I’m more interested in personality than physical attributes (yes, even on Fab).

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By *emptd2Man over a year ago

Burgess Hill

If you're under 6ft you don't exist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I’m 5’8 and have been told I’m too short on many occasions despite them saying I’m funny and a lively character, it is what it is and they are right to have their choices, hey ho

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You add an inch to the height on your profile?

Have I omg a whole inch better get that changed

Those electronic height measuring machines make me different heights. One makes me 5'7.2, another 2 make me 5'7.9. "

In 1985 it was high tech having a tape measure stuck to a wall!!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I'm not 6ft but I've never been told I'm too short.

That being said I don't contact the profiles who state 6ft as a minimum.

I think the reality is you don't "see" them. If you're only attracted to white women say, black women are subconsciously invisible. If you know what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's all preference isn't it. Like prefering a certain body shape.

I've not got a preference for height but might be something to do with all men being taller than me as i'm 5'1 ish.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, height is a filter.

I’m 5ft 10”, average height of a man, and I have an Amazonian build, and a hefty weight, almost 80kg. If I add heels to that...

Aside from that, my look is noticeable and I’m confident.

The whole package means men are often different with me.

I’ve been called ‘intimidating’, ‘she-hulk’ ‘too tall’... etc. Guys say things like, I like your size cause I know you’re not so breakable... as opposed to some petite fem... who they’d be more careful with.

I look like a girl who could handle etc

I have had more than one guy rest his head in my shoulder when we were dancing! Makes me feel weird... and not very feminine!

Most men automatically feel protective of smaller women.

I’m capable and independent, but I’d like that feeling too.

I want to feel like I’m with a man, physically stronger than me.. feel the weight of him on me... feel like he could physically master me!

And when I’m in the mood for Domination... it’s much more fun to break a bigger guy..

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men. "

I'm heightist and weightist

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Yes, height is a filter.

I’m 5ft 10”, average height of a man, and I have an Amazonian build, and a hefty weight, almost 80kg. If I add heels to that...

Aside from that, my look is noticeable and I’m confident.

The whole package means men are often different with me.

I look like a girl who could handle etc

I have had more than one guy rest his head in my shoulder when we were dancing! Makes me feel weird... and not very feminine!

Most men automatically feel protective of smaller women.

I’m capable and independent, but I’d like that feeling too.

I want to feel like I’m with a man, physically stronger than me.. feel the weight of him on me... feel like he could physically master me!

And when I’m in the mood for Domination... it’s much more fun to break a bigger guy..

Eloquently put: pretty much sums it up for me too.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"If you're under 6ft you don't exist

Says the man with a verification from last week. Being under 6ft obviously isn't doing you any harm!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships. "

I fear I may be a man at time's...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's... "

One thing i legitimately don't get it why some women (i have a friend in mind) would rather date a tall, objectively fugly guy with a shit job than a 5 foot 10 guy (not me), who is objectively good looking and has a good income. I totally get why women would want height as part of the total package, but if you are going to make compromises then I'd have assumed it would be one of the earlier criteria.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

This is how sorting and filtering tools are changing relationships.

Before, a woman may have preferred a taller man. But in reality, she meets a man who's a an inch shorter that her preference allows, but they get chatting, hit it off, have sex, have a relationship, whatever.

Now, with sorting and filtering, she wouldn't even see him, or simply rule him out just for his 1 inch lack of height. And never speak to him.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

Well yeah that would be daft give me the 5'10" any day,things are not set in stone are they. Just so long as that 5'10" has a well toned body!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

If a woman factors my income in as a reason to be with me, then I wouldn't want to be with her. Income should play no part in whether or not two people are attracted to each other.

/rant.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

Well yeah that would be daft give me the 5'10" any day,things are not set in stone are they. Just so long as that 5'10" has a well toned body!

Well to be honest that wasn't one of his strong points but you get the point. This girl was 5 foot 11 herself and absolutely would not date anyone that wasn't taller than her. Being a bit of a plain jane she ended up with a guy that looked like the result of a zombie that had been put on one of those medieval torture racks and stretched.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

If a woman factors my income in as a reason to be with me, then I wouldn't want to be with her. Income should play no part in whether or not two people are attracted to each other.

/rant. "

Do yourself a favour and don't research the scientific literature on the subject. You won't like what you'll find. Stay in your bubble.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't use height as a filter, there is no point. At 6ft 2 i'm taller than most men on here

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

Well yeah that would be daft give me the 5'10" any day,things are not set in stone are they. Just so long as that 5'10" has a well toned body!

Maybe they both have hidden talents and together they rocked the world and were soul mates,medieval torture racks can be fun so I hear...

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

Well yeah that would be daft give me the 5'10" any day,things are not set in stone are they. Just so long as that 5'10" has a well toned body!

Maybe they both have hidden talents and together they rocked the world and were soul mates,medieval torture racks can be fun so I hear..."

Well she wasn't very forthcoming when we asked what else she liked about him...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

If a woman factors my income in as a reason to be with me, then I wouldn't want to be with her. Income should play no part in whether or not two people are attracted to each other.

/rant. "

That's very true,however a guy who have huge debts would be a worry and I may think twice. Don't know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

If a woman factors my income in as a reason to be with me, then I wouldn't want to be with her. Income should play no part in whether or not two people are attracted to each other.

/rant.

Do yourself a favour and don't research the scientific literature on the subject. You won't like what you'll find. Stay in your bubble. "

Meh, at my age it's less "You're the one" and more "You'll do"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

Soooo, you are that person working for Sydney university and doing all these research?.

Anyway it is always good to share your research outcome here, apart from height what else you think women looking for??

Ha!

Height is just another preference as some have mentioned already.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

If a woman factors my income in as a reason to be with me, then I wouldn't want to be with her. Income should play no part in whether or not two people are attracted to each other.

/rant.

Do yourself a favour and don't research the scientific literature on the subject. You won't like what you'll find. Stay in your bubble.

Meh, at my age it's less "You're the one" and more "You'll do"

You're only 37!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

Looking at the profiles of the men who post these, height is the least of their worries. usually it's a bad profile, or, mainly, they're just unattractive. Now, is height a thing? Of course, just like you've said you're a "size queen" in precious posts. Is fab sizeist VWE men? Yes, of course.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

I did.

But funny what can happen when you meet the right person!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Height is a big issue for a lot of women the way weight is a big issue for a lot of men.

I'm heightist and weightist

Like most men, i have different standards for fucking and relationships.

I fear I may be a man at time's...

If a woman factors my income in as a reason to be with me, then I wouldn't want to be with her. Income should play no part in whether or not two people are attracted to each other.

/rant.

Do yourself a favour and don't research the scientific literature on the subject. You won't like what you'll find. Stay in your bubble.

Meh, at my age it's less "You're the one" and more "You'll do"

People who live life by absolute standards are happier than those who employ relative ones. "You'll do" isn't such a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like the way a 5ft3 lady starts a post about height. How many men under 5ft have you met??

As a woman of 5ft10 I have dated men 5ft8 any lower is a complete turn off not to mention awkward for positions. An how many tall men here go for tall ladies. ?? We are entitled to like what we like. An most people’s filters are there comfort zones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never think to check up on heights on profiles. I certainly wouldn't have a 6ft cut off point. Same size as me or taller is fine, easier to reach for kissing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I'm not a size queen, I'm the high priestess of penis. Size queens like big and bigger and huge. I have a cut off point. 7-9 being the max with decent girth and turtle neck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I'm not a size queen, I'm the high priestess of penis. Size queens like big and bigger and huge. I have a cut off point. 7-9 being the max with decent girth and turtle neck. "

A good sweater on a willy, eh? Do the balls go in the arm holes?

*runs away*

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I'm not a size queen, I'm the high priestess of penis. Size queens like big and bigger and huge. I have a cut off point. 7-9 being the max with decent girth and turtle neck.

A good sweater on a willy, eh? Do the balls go in the arm holes?

*runs away*"

That would be so cute though. If I had a penis I would dress it up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I'm not a size queen, I'm the high priestess of penis. Size queens like big and bigger and huge. I have a cut off point. 7-9 being the max with decent girth and turtle neck.

A good sweater on a willy, eh? Do the balls go in the arm holes?

*runs away*

That would be so cute though. If I had a penis I would dress it up. "

We need a good range of Cosplay willy warmers. Something more imaginative than an elephant's trunk for those of us who aren't that well hung!

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

Unfortunately this is one of those things that is difficult to combat, it’s our survival instinct. To find the best mate to keep the species from dying out. Height is one of those characteristics that we subconsciously find attractive. I think it’s been said about about feeling protected and that means your young would also be safe. It’s all about survival even on a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Also blonde hair is supposed to be more attractive to men because its supposed to symbolise youth and again good genes for breeding.

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By *ilent.KnightMan over a year ago

Swindon

Is it definitely a case of short guys are less likely to get meets....

Or are equally likely, but are more likely to moan if they don’t.

Or just make up a higher % of fab so make up more of all kinds of posts

We need more control groups and analysis.

(Yes, I’m a mathmo. Something has to offset my height!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 5'8" and I only find myself interested in taller men, both on here and in the real world... aside from the only true male love I've ever had and he's my height.

Plenty would think I'm too tall, too fat, too slim, too flat chested, the wrong hair/eye colour. That doesn't bother me as it's just individual preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its such a funny subject I still dont care how short or how tall if I do not fancy you I just wont go further than a social. Your mind and attitude followed by the sexual connection that is what matters!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Speaking as a single guy who's 6'4, height ain't worth shit around here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have lower and upper height limits.

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By *oubyLoverWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Heightest, ageist, meh, I look beyond to the person. Are they nice, do I connect, do they give a fuck, that’s what matters to me.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have to admit when I'm looking at profiles height is one of the first things I look at. I like my guys to be at least 5'10. I'm only 5'5 myself but I like my guys to tower over me when I've got heels on. It makes me feel more womanly

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

Not just fab. It is a british/Irish and American thing.

I'm 5'10 so I miss out on a few women on here who only want 6' plus, although most of them will make an "exception" for me once they see my body. Lucky me.

In school I was actually the smallest in my class all the way up until leaving really. I got my growth spurt fairly late. So all my teen years I got rejected by girls smaller than me, often openly telling me I am too short. Even though I was taller than them all, I was still too short.

When I went and lived abroad, at 5'10 as an adult. I was surprised that this was not universal among French women. Loads my height or taller would flirt with me. Loads taller than me in high heels would flirt with me. To be fair they rarely wore heels, only on nights out where they wanted their legs to look long.

In Ireland and UK you have 5'6 girls putting on 4 inch heels, going out and telling 6' guys that they are too short.

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By *olliPineCouple over a year ago

swingers clubs

I think it is. I've seen loads of profiles with height limits.

Tbf we know quite a few tall women.

That's cool with us though, neither are tall and we don't like to meet with the majority of profiles who have physical limits (dress size, penis size, hair colour etc).

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

I can confirm that being a tall guy doesn't get you more shags on fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I found that women's filters be it height, age or anything else on that matter is flexible.

Yes some women bend their preferences more than others but unless a guy is under 5' I don't think height would make him unmeetable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I can confirm that being a tall guy doesn't get you more shags on fab

How many times does a woman have to ask ... or do they have to beg?

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I'm 6ft tall and been hear over a year with no meets.

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By *londieddWoman over a year ago

fife

I'm just over 5ft so it does not bother me if men are short

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I can confirm that being a tall guy doesn't get you more shags on fab

How many times does a woman have to ask ... or do they have to beg?

I'm not very good at reading the signs so try being more blunt

lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefere men tall and it's my preference on fab and in real life .tall dark and handsome men get my attention and catch my eye .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefere men tall and it's my preference on fab and in real life .tall dark and handsome men get my attention and catch my eye .

Hello... you talking about me?

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By *ex LutherMan over a year ago

Closer than you think

I’m not the tallest but I believe that it’s the person not the height, I’ve been very lucky that one of the tallest women on here took a shine to me too

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By *ex LutherMan over a year ago

Closer than you think

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I did.

But funny what can happen when you meet the right person! "

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

"Not just fab. It is a british/Irish and American thing.

I'm 5'10 so I miss out on a few women on here who only want 6' plus, although most of them will make an "exception" for me once they see my body. Lucky me.

In Ireland and UK you have 5'6 girls putting on 4 inch heels, going out and telling 6' guys that they are too short."

And just check out the 6ft2" russian girls with their 5ft6" boyfriends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" do men encounter this height barrier?"

at 6' 2" no I haven't .... can't speak for the blokes of a lesser stature though. it might be different for them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must be the only woman that's not keen on men over 6 foot tall.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?

I can confirm that being a tall guy doesn't get you more shags on fab

How many times does a woman have to ask ... or do they have to beg?

I'm not very good at reading the signs so try being more blunt

lol"

Pfffft

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm 6ft 3 so never noticed

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

I don't think Fab is heightist, but a large chunk of women like their men to be, at the very least, taller than them.

And I'm one of them

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm 6ft 3 so never noticed

I'd not noticed you before

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By *on and TammyCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Tammy undoubtedly prefers tall men and routinely mocks me for being a shortarse

That being said she has played with guys who are around my height, or shorter. It's just a preference, it's the whole package she's interested in really.

Got to be honest, I don't notice THAT many women's/couples profiles stating height preferences. We respect peoples preferences and filters but don't think we've ever been put off messaging or winking at a profile because of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

IM six foot four. No issues there. I have other issues!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 6ft 3 so never noticed

I'd not noticed you before

Damm I was doing well squeezing under the radar

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm 6ft 3 so never noticed

I'd not noticed you before

Damm I was doing well squeezing under the radar "

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

Not at all i am 6’3 and i struggle to get meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 6ft 3 so never noticed

I'd not noticed you before

Damm I was doing well squeezing under the radar

Oh well

Don't tell anyone okay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer taller men but I don't use it as a filter, I,'ve met much shorter men. XXX

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm 6ft 3 so never noticed

I'd not noticed you before

Damm I was doing well squeezing under the radar

Oh well

Don't tell anyone okay

No one will guess at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It makes no difference. I'm not here to be protected, or anything else like that. Not that tall equals handy in a fight!

It's all just part of the 'dream'. How demure little women get the big man. And I bought out of that early on. A d wear my heels with a wink whoever i'm out with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm 6ft 3 so never noticed

I'd not noticed you before

Damm I was doing well squeezing under the radar

Oh well

Don't tell anyone okay

No one will guess at all

Excellent, our secret then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love taller men! Sorry guys! But being a bigger girl, I can feel small in a tall guys arms.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love taller too 5:7 is my cut off even then they have to be hot haha (sorry

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love taller too 5:7 is my cut off even then they have to be hot haha (sorry

) "

5'10 ok?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

Are you from Sydney University?

I'm not bothered by height, shortest guy 5'1" tallest 6'4".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love taller too 5:7 is my cut off even then they have to be hot haha (sorry

)

5'10 ok?

Yeah that’s good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to prefer 6 foot plus. Im tall and broad and i find it makes me feel sexier and more femine. And i just find it sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm only 5 foot 3 so not match height for those that have it listed in their profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

5ft 10 and over!

No short arses!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"5ft 10 and over!

No short arses!! "

But you said I have a nice ass

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I never look at heights on profiles. It's never occurred to me to do so.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm afraid I am heightist - I'm a big strapping girl and I find that men of about 5'10" are nearly all just too light for my taste, I like a man that's bigger-boned than me, as well as taller.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao"

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

26 threads started by men under 5'9 you say ?

Well at 5'3"&1/2 im well fucked,and not in the Fab sense

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth. "

I think she's talking about herself

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

I think she's talking about herself

Actually I expected that remark to be made by a man,rather depressing it's by a woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

I think she's talking about herself

Actually I expected that remark to be made by a man,rather depressing it's by a woman."

Why would it be less depressing if a man made this comment?

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By *inglehotchickWoman over a year ago

blackpool

I do prefer a tall guy. Though the height is probably the last thing I look at and this is to decide whether I wear heels or not. I simply am not attracted to guys shorter than 5”9 5”10. I don’t think this is heightism it’s just my personal taste. Just the same as some not finding people with blond hair attractive I have a preference for dark haired guys. Does that mean I am blondist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

I think she's talking about herself

Actually I expected that remark to be made by a man,rather depressing it's by a woman.

Why would it be less depressing if a man made this comment?

Because men normally make that kind of comment off the back of being frustrated by not getting meets and cos they've been rejected. A woman saying it is purely to put other women down.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I never look at heights on profiles. It's never occurred to me to do so."

This

Its something that I rarely remember or bother looking at on a profile.

Height isn't a deciding factor for me.

Maybe, I'd feel different if I were taller. I don't know.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

I think she's talking about herself

Actually I expected that remark to be made by a man,rather depressing it's by a woman.

Why would it be less depressing if a man made this comment?

Because men normally make that kind of comment off the back of being frustrated by not getting meets and cos they've been rejected. A woman saying it is purely to put other women down. "

women are supposed to have each others backs,yeah I know that's total bollocks...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

I think she's talking about herself

Actually I expected that remark to be made by a man,rather depressing it's by a woman.

Why would it be less depressing if a man made this comment?

Because men normally make that kind of comment off the back of being frustrated by not getting meets and cos they've been rejected. A woman saying it is purely to put other women down. "

Aha now you've explained it that way it makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks the lord I am 6ft 2"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thanks the lord I am 6ft 2" "

With a handsome face and big knob!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks

I do collect train sets and stamps too, keep them all in my box bedroom I share with my sister and 7 cats

Hehe x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Thanks

I do collect train sets and stamps too, keep them all in my box bedroom I share with my sister and 7 cats

Hehe x

Does that mean you're attached??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To my sister?

Haha no I'm not x

(To anyone)

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By *aenMan over a year ago

Here and There

I’m 6’3” and had a lady suggest recently that I was at the lower end of her preferred scale.

So I guess that makes me a fab short arse

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"To my sister?

Haha no I'm not x

(To anyone) "

Just checking,we need another forum coupling. Don't worry I don’t mean me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh you don't make me worry

From what I can see haha x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Oh you don't make me worry

From what I can see haha x "

That's good to hear

. Anyway Manchester isn't that far from South Wales is it?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah it's not that far

Just watched weather forecast and it's on the same map

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Nah it's not that far

Just watched weather forecast and it's on the same map

and there's some beautiful thing's to see and do in South Wales!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have heard

And I can see

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I have heard

And I can see

Have you never been to South Wales?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

MissWilkes would certainly be something beautiful to do in South Wales

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"MissWilkes would certainly be something beautiful to do in South Wales

Well don't tell us that tell her

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth. "

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion...."

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?"

Height is just another “requirement” that is seen often, such as no beards, no white guys, no black guys etc etc....when surely swinging is about being open minded and non judgemental.....it is amazing how so many profiles read like profiles on dating sites...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?"

In fairness the Op does basically say that she is more picky on here with regards to height than in the real world.

The numbers obviously do mean less competition for women so why wouldn't they be more picky on here?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

There's a difference between being open minded and non judgemental and not finding someone attractive who has a beard,isn’t there?! I don’t particularly like a full on beard,do I still have to shag them to prove I'm open minded,even though I can't see half their face because it's covered in hair?

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple over a year ago

st helens

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

Yes, Who'd of thought height would be such a big deal on fab? Dating yes. But fab? Its not been a big issue for us but we do avoid messaging if the lady is way taller than him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am just about 5'7" and it definitely has an impact. It's been an issue throughout my life not with just dating but being involved in sports when younger and even career opportunities.

It's not my fault that am not 6ft and I am a nice guy. And not all guys at 6ft are either nice or good in bed.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

Yes, Who'd of thought height would be such a big deal on fab? Dating yes. But fab? Its not been a big issue for us but we do avoid messaging if the lady is way taller than him."

So height is an issue for you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion...."

You could look at my profile (when it's showing) and think I wouldn't have anyone interested in me, on a night out; you would be surprised.

Men on nights out, who are looking for sex, would approach a woman like me. I blow them out, obviously; I'm not that easy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes most definitely. I so wish I was taller but I have had to cope with it. I even make fun of myself to hide my feelings. I know some larger ladies make fun of their weight but inside it hurts.

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By *_Yeah19Couple over a year ago

Lincoln

Being tall, height has always been quite an important quality to me in a guy, and when on my single profile I did used to use it as a kind of filter.

Having said that however, ultimately it’s not a make or break thing as SSS is a bit shorter than me so I’m soooooo glad I didn’t let that get in the way of meeting or who knows what I may have missed out on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a tall guy of 6'4" with a decent bod. I do find that women prefer tall men especially if they are above average height themselves. I do think that a lot of smalller ladies have a wee fascination for a tall guy. Just my thoughts on what I've experienced.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could look at my profile (when it's showing) and think I wouldn't have anyone interested in me, on a night out; you would be surprised.

Men on nights out, who are looking for sex, would approach a woman like me. I blow them out, obviously; I'm not that easy. "

Do you blow them out even if you find them very attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am just about 5'7" and it definitely has an impact. It's been an issue throughout my life not with just dating but being involved in sports when younger and even career opportunities.

It's not my fault that am not 6ft and I am a nice guy. And not all guys at 6ft are either nice or good in bed."

Ahem I don't know about that lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could look at my profile (when it's showing) and think I wouldn't have anyone interested in me, on a night out; you would be surprised.

Men on nights out, who are looking for sex, would approach a woman like me. I blow them out, obviously; I'm not that easy.

Do you blow them out even if you find them very attractive?"

Yes, I have done that. I don't go out with my family and friends to leave with a stranger to have sex. If he wanted my number I would give it to him, for later.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You could look at my profile (when it's showing) and think I wouldn't have anyone interested in me, on a night out; you would be surprised.

Men on nights out, who are looking for sex, would approach a woman like me. I blow them out, obviously; I'm not that easy.

Do you blow them out even if you find them very attractive?

Yes, I have done that. I don't go out with my family and friends to leave with a stranger to have sex. If he wanted my number I would give it to him, for later. "

Even if they are tall

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"
I'm 6ft3 and I get told by females that most wouldn't date/go with someone under 6ft,I guess it's the who man protecting his woman feel and security.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

Again, interesting how we all view things differently.

I'm here to meet sexually submissive men. They also have to meet a certain criteria ie tall, white, straight, over 50, alpha males. My other half, who I met on here can't even pronounce the word "sub".

I'm here to fulfil my fantasy with men that meet what I'm looking for.

What I've noticed however, is if you have the temerity to ask for what you want you're ridiculed. Why is that? Why the need for bitchy comments if people have a preference that differs from your own?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

In fairness the Op does basically say that she is more picky on here with regards to height than in the real world.

The numbers obviously do mean less competition for women so why wouldn't they be more picky on here? "

I'm just as picky in the real world as I am on here it's just on here you have to apply some filters otherwise it would take ages to go through the guys I want to pursue.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

In fairness the Op does basically say that she is more picky on here with regards to height than in the real world.

The numbers obviously do mean less competition for women so why wouldn't they be more picky on here? "

Fantasy!

My previous partners/husband/current partner differ from those I meet for sex.

Those I love come in all colours and sizes but fantasy men don't!

Why people get butt hurt if they're excluded from someone's fantasy list is a mystery to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

In fairness the Op does basically say that she is more picky on here with regards to height than in the real world.

The numbers obviously do mean less competition for women so why wouldn't they be more picky on here?

Fantasy!

My previous partners/husband/current partner differ from those I meet for sex.

Those I love come in all colours and sizes but fantasy men don't!

Why people get butt hurt if they're excluded from someone's fantasy list is a mystery to me. "

I agree, but as with everything, simple numbers does effect competition and choice. I'm not suggesting it's a bad thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like in the real world I've looked at guys that are under 5'9 and thought yeah I'd shag you but on here I use height as a filter, hypocrisy? Maybe.

Do other women use height as a filter, do men encounter this height barrier?"

100% - on here it as always been a barrier, but in real life it hasnt. Most ladies I have dated have been taller and one over 6ft+.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Constantly on here we are told about the fact that men way outnumber women by whatever ratio seems to be popular on any particular day. We are further told that women can be more picky as a result. There was a topic about a week ago where i said men could still be picky. The response was no they can't if they want a shag.

So it seems ok to belittle men in that way but not ok to suggest a woman might be able to choose from a hotter selection due to the numbers. The fact that it was made by a woman isn't depressing at all. It shows that anyone can see that sometimes this occurrs.

This shouldn't be an us and them battle. Sadly it often is on fab. What does the phrase women should have each others back mean? Defend each other against nasty men? Don't you think good men also dislike nasty men? I want to use the phrase we are all in this for the same thing. We aren't of course. Be it meeting, chatting or just foruming whatever. Regardless let's have everyone's back.

Sorry for going off track OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have heard

And I can see

Have you never been to South Wales?"

Alas I haven't

North Wales a plenty x

That could change though

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

You could look at my profile (when it's showing) and think I wouldn't have anyone interested in me, on a night out; you would be surprised.

Men on nights out, who are looking for sex, would approach a woman like me. I blow them out, obviously; I'm not that easy.

Do you blow them out even if you find them very attractive?

Yes, I have done that. I don't go out with my family and friends to leave with a stranger to have sex. If he wanted my number I would give it to him, for later. "

That's not blowing him out. That's quite normal behaviour.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Fab....the world where those that would never get a second look on a night out suddenly get to be the picky ones lmao

and who is this bitchy little comment towards?

Fab, the world where people can say shitty things without the fear of being smacked in the mouth.

Nobody in particular at all....just a general opinion about profiles of both men and women....this is social media...everyone is entitled to an opinion....

Very true,shame some opinions just come across bitchy though. Do pray tell how does your comment correspond to the opening post?

Again, interesting how we all view things differently.

I'm here to fulfil my fantasy with men that meet what I'm looking for.

What I've noticed however, is if you have the temerity to ask for what you want you're ridiculed. Why is that? Why the need for bitchy comments if people have a preference that differs from your own?"

Psych 101 would suggest that bitchy comments nearly always come from someone projecting or compensating for their own neuroses or inadequacies! I don't know why the people that make them don't get that.

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