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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you find that you crave one sex over the other? Does it ever change?
Until recently id have said I preferred men and although I have experience with girls it has been a fair bit less.
Recently I can't stop thinking about girls! My problem being im super shy around them and not sure how to approach any!
Does this happen to other people? I feel frustrated  |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
under my rock cleethorpes |
I’ve always had a tendency to lean 60/40 towards men, recent personal events have put me off women for a while although I’m starting to look a little again, I think it all depends on each individual |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I can't quite define it in percentage terms, and my sense of traditional attraction to women will always be strongest, but I once heard it described something like, preferring women but with the occasional side helping of cock, and that pretty much sums up how I feel.
Would certainly not rule out meeting another guy one to one, but unfortunately this is where I get a sense of how the ladies on here feel, as most of the messages I get from guys are of the one line FAF variety  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find that you crave one sex over the other? Does it ever change?
Until recently id have said I preferred men and although I have experience with girls it has been a fair bit less.
Recently I can't stop thinking about girls! My problem being im super shy around them and not sure how to approach any!
Does this happen to other people? I feel frustrated "
I go through phases, currently going through the man phase but it could break at any point.
Why be shy around girls? Most like me are very easy going.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently craving cock. 
So am I ... but not sure who to choose at the moment 
I have my eyes on one. "
I have to say I have my eye on 3 ... I'm just waiting to see which one bowls me over the most  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. Every now and then I'll crave cock. Then I'll go months without really thinking about it.
Well, until someone writes a thread about it  "
Challenge accepted.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't class myself as fully bi, as I wouldn't seek out a relationship or a 1-1 meet with another lady. But within a play meet I enjoy being with a lady, so I think it's more of the bi playful for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently craving cock.
So am I ... but not sure who to choose at the moment
I have my eyes on one.
I have to say I have my eye on 3 ... I'm just waiting to see which one bowls me over the most "
Sure it's not 4  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I go through phases, currently going through the man phase but it could break at any point.
Why be shy around girls? Most like me are very easy going.
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Im not sure. Ive always been that way. Most of my friends are male too.
I guess its a lot to do with doing the approaching, im used to being on here and guys approaching me.
Even girls Ive met in "the real world" they've been the ones to flirt first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Craving for cock occasionally, but definitely lean more towards the ladies
Got one on particular o have an eye on, but can't pluck up the courage to ask her out for a coffee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. Every now and then I'll crave cock. Then I'll go months without really thinking about it.
Well, until someone writes a thread about it "
Welcome back to bi-ness |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Craving for cock occasionally, but definitely lean more towards the ladies
Got one on particular o have an eye on, but can't pluck up the courage to ask her out for a coffee "
Do it! The worst that can happen is she says no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't class myself as fully bi, as I wouldn't seek out a relationship or a 1-1 meet with another lady. But within a play meet I enjoy being with a lady, so I think it's more of the bi playful for me x "
This is me also |
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"Craving for cock occasionally, but definitely lean more towards the ladies
Got one on particular o have an eye on, but can't pluck up the courage to ask her out for a coffee
Do it! The worst that can happen is she says no! "
this..
faint heart and all that.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently craving cock.
So am I ... but not sure who to choose at the moment
I have my eyes on one.
I have to say I have my eye on 3 ... I'm just waiting to see which one bowls me over the most
Sure it's not 4 x"
Put your bid in!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only recently discovered my Bi side. Always been interested in men. But would occasionally have thoughts / curious about being with a woman but never did anything about it and pushed it to one side until now, think about women alot now which Mr loves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. Every now and then I'll crave cock. Then I'll go months without really thinking about it.
Well, until someone writes a thread about it
Welcome back to bi-ness "
It's currently simmering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Craving for cock occasionally, but definitely lean more towards the ladies
Got one on particular o have an eye on, but can't pluck up the courage to ask her out for a coffee
Do it! The worst that can happen is she says no!
this..
faint heart and all that.."
I have spoken with her on the forums recently, and also by message, but only jokingly offering myself up to her.
Maybe she sees me as a funny bloke but not sexual encounter material? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. Every now and then I'll crave cock. Then I'll go months without really thinking about it.
Well, until someone writes a thread about it
Welcome back to bi-ness
It's currently simmering "
*turns up the heat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Craving for cock occasionally, but definitely lean more towards the ladies
Got one on particular o have an eye on, but can't pluck up the courage to ask her out for a coffee
Do it! The worst that can happen is she says no!
this..
faint heart and all that..
I have spoken with her on the forums recently, and also by message, but only jokingly offering myself up to her.
Maybe she sees me as a funny bloke but not sexual encounter material? "
Maybe she's sitting wondering why you haven't asked her yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Craving for cock occasionally, but definitely lean more towards the ladies
Got one on particular o have an eye on, but can't pluck up the courage to ask her out for a coffee
Do it! The worst that can happen is she says no!
this..
faint heart and all that..
I have spoken with her on the forums recently, and also by message, but only jokingly offering myself up to her.
Maybe she sees me as a funny bloke but not sexual encounter material? "
As Nike says ... JUST DO IT!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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While I'm a sucker for a sexy man and at the moment with my mojo through the roof I'm fancying, well, everyone, I'm kinda craving for some lady loving I think it's the cute arses in tight jeans and wooly hats that gets me
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't class myself as fully bi, as I wouldn't seek out a relationship or a 1-1 meet with another lady. But within a play meet I enjoy being with a lady, so I think it's more of the bi playful for me x
This is me also "
Me too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely. Every now and then I'll crave cock. Then I'll go months without really thinking about it.
Well, until someone writes a thread about it
Welcome back to bi-ness
It's currently simmering
*turns up the heat "
Uh oh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all about cock for me at the moment 
It's been a really long phase - I don't feel very Bi at all recently.
But sometimes a woman comes along that is so beautiful inside and out that I get a little twinge  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on Marmite.
Haha damn you woman!
Ok I will try....
Estella, would you like to have a coffee with me sometime?
You have to say YES Estella "
I only just checked back on the thread!!
I didn’t think it was me!! Didn’t mean to leave anyone hanging! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s 75/25 for me. I like relationships with men but I am attracted to woman and enjoy playing with girls... it’s all about the men for me at the minute- I think I’ve had some events in my life that have left me vulnerable and a strong mans arms holding me can make me forget the bad stuff. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on Marmite.
Haha damn you woman!
Ok I will try....
Estella, would you like to have a coffee with me sometime? "
Marmite, I would be delighted to have a coffee with you sometime. I am genuinely surprised you were nervous. Am I scary? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on Marmite.
Haha damn you woman!
Ok I will try....
Estella, would you like to have a coffee with me sometime?
Marmite, I would be delighted to have a coffee with you sometime. I am genuinely surprised you were nervous. Am I scary? "
Yay!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As someone who's romantically interested in both men and women, I'm going to be old fashioned and say it tends to be particular people I crave, rather than men or women. If anyone can follow that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As someone who's romantically interested in both men and women, I'm going to be old fashioned and say it tends to be particular people I crave, rather than men or women. If anyone can follow that. "
Makes perfect sense, and you’re absolutely right |
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It's fascinating how the guys typically will say they are attracted to women but fancy cock - almost as if it's de-personalised, lacking gender too. It's so common that guys don't fancy guys as such, just attributes or what a guy can give them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't class myself as fully bi, as I wouldn't seek out a relationship or a 1-1 meet with another lady. But within a play meet I enjoy being with a lady, so I think it's more of the bi playful for me x "
this is how I see myself xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on Marmite.
Haha damn you woman!
Ok I will try....
Estella, would you like to have a coffee with me sometime?
Marmite, I would be delighted to have a coffee with you sometime. I am genuinely surprised you were nervous. Am I scary? "
I'm very shy lol
Out now for the evening, will see how this thread progresses later tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go on Marmite.
Haha damn you woman!
Ok I will try....
Estella, would you like to have a coffee with me sometime?
Marmite, I would be delighted to have a coffee with you sometime. I am genuinely surprised you were nervous. Am I scary?
I'm very shy lol
Out now for the evening, will see how this thread progresses later tonight "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As someone who's romantically interested in both men and women, I'm going to be old fashioned and say it tends to be particular people I crave, rather than men or women. If anyone can follow that. "
Yeah id agree with that in a romantic sense. Ive dated people because of who they are not what they are.
Sexually I seem to crave one or the other (or both!). |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yeah, when I first became sexually active I was only interested in women (romantically as well). Three years later I discovered the joys of men and now I go through phases - sometimes I like both, sometimes men, sometimes women. What I like or crave sexually isn't necessarily connected to what I want emotionally either. The rare person comes along and how they identify isn't of any importance to me.
I can't explain it that well so I'll end this dire stream of consciousness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently craving cock.
A lovely bit of alliteration
I do a good line in assonance too
I bloody bet you do "
have I told you that I think you’re hot?
I may be craving something other than cock now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently craving cock.
A lovely bit of alliteration
I do a good line in assonance too
I bloody bet you do
have I told you that I think you’re hot?
I may be craving something other than cock now. "
Hahaha oh my dear, I’ve just been looking at your pretty pics after seeing your other thread... if you were closer I would have replied to that, very tempting, you are delicious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Currently craving cock.
A lovely bit of alliteration
I do a good line in assonance too
I bloody bet you do
have I told you that I think you’re hot?
I may be craving something other than cock now.
Hahaha oh my dear, I’ve just been looking at your pretty pics after seeing your other thread... if you were closer I would have replied to that, very tempting, you are delicious "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's all.
Is that to me?  "
Nope... just got to go to work soon and it's bloody cold out, and nobody to keepmne warm! Haha
Psssst... billericay train station til 11pm tonight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's all.
Is that to me?
Nope... just got to go to work soon and it's bloody cold out, and nobody to keepmne warm! Haha
Psssst... billericay train station til 11pm tonight. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's all.
Is that to me?
Nope... just got to go to work soon and it's bloody cold out, and nobody to keepmne warm! Haha
Psssst... billericay train station til 11pm tonight.
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Oh and madam, look at your bloody messages! Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's all.
Is that to me?
Nope... just got to go to work soon and it's bloody cold out, and nobody to keepmne warm! Haha
Psssst... billericay train station til 11pm tonight.
Oh and madam, look at your bloody messages! Haha "
Do I have to? I’ve neglected the inbox for a while and looks like a major chore! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's all.
Is that to me?
Nope... just got to go to work soon and it's bloody cold out, and nobody to keepmne warm! Haha
Psssst... billericay train station til 11pm tonight.
Oh and madam, look at your bloody messages! Haha
Do I have to? I’ve neglected the inbox for a while and looks like a major chore! "
You will never get that coffee if you don't open the messages |
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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago
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Not sure if it's a TV thing and I am unable to explain it but as soon as I have a dress on and feel pretty I crave mens attention.. When I'm in man mode I prefer women's attention.... Odd.... But so am I..!!.. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's fascinating how the guys typically will say they are attracted to women but fancy cock - almost as if it's de-personalised, lacking gender too. It's so common that guys don't fancy guys as such, just attributes or what a guy can give them. "
That’s certainly true for me, but i don’t think it’s a conscious thing. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I don't class myself as fully bi, as I wouldn't seek out a relationship or a 1-1 meet with another lady. But within a play meet I enjoy being with a lady, so I think it's more of the bi playful for me x
This is me also "
Me too. Definitely more than curious - but more biplayful than full bisexual. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It's fascinating how the guys typically will say they are attracted to women but fancy cock - almost as if it's de-personalised, lacking gender too. It's so common that guys don't fancy guys as such, just attributes or what a guy can give them.
That’s certainly true for me, but i don’t think it’s a conscious thing. "
It's not so much "don't fancy" as "fancy in a different way" - whilst Idon'T look at other guys and think "I fancy you" in the same way as I do women, there still has to be an attraction for me to want to play with a specific guy, how that attraction is defined though I can't explain |
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"I don't class myself as fully bi, as I wouldn't seek out a relationship or a 1-1 meet with another lady. But within a play meet I enjoy being with a lady, so I think it's more of the bi playful for me x "
I would agree with this as far as fancying guys. I have yet to be totally blown away by a guy but the playtime scenario always pops into my head. Maybe we need to arrange a foursome. |
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"As someone who's romantically interested in both men and women, I'm going to be old fashioned and say it tends to be particular people I crave, rather than men or women. If anyone can follow that. "
I totally get where you are coming from. I look at the person and if there is chemistry there not the sex of the person. I just tend to still lean towards women. |
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