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Have you ever given someone the benefit of doubt and later regretted it?
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I like it - kind of the reverse of teh other thread. I tend to assess, I guess as most people would, a situation and I form a "provisional" opinion which I am happy to re_iew at a later stage. When I was younger I was more black and white in my thinking, experience has taught me to give people the benefit of doubt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do you find your instincts or first assessments right?
Yes I have and thats why I always go with my gut instinct now. It serves me well..."
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
my gut feeling tends to serve me well.. i do give some people the benefit of the doubt but only after seeing how they are...
been burnt in the past and now this is sort of my protection clause so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the chap above said (sorry forgot to quote), I am only human, I make good choices and bad ones, but I learn from my bad ones and take a positive from a negative... If I didnt make mistakes, I probably wouldnt have had half as much fun, or experienced "life" in such vivid detail.
I sound like a fortune cookie......meh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i would love to say ive been right all the time but alas no
i met a guy who seemed nice the social meet was ok then he went into pushiness (not on this site)
and then someone who wasnt for me met him out of my criteria s and i should have listened and i didnt 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do you find your instincts or first assessments right?
Yes I have and thats why I always go with my gut instinct now. It serves me well...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I am a pretty good judge of character and like what Fabio said my gut instint is pretty spot on most of the time , although will be honest there are a few who did not like at all when first met but love then to bits now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many times to mention but as Ive gotten longer in the tooth I realise they need these little injections of forgiveness to thrive and therefore if they need so much assurance and acceptance then they are in a worse place than I am so I will always offer a hand and if it keeps getting rejected well thats up to them - not me.
I am talking about petty human behaviour - not big stuff. Piss me off big style and you can go fuck yourself. Rhetorically speaking |
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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago
Blackpool |
"Too many times to mention but as Ive gotten longer in the tooth I realise they need these little injections of forgiveness to thrive and therefore if they need so much assurance and acceptance then they are in a worse place than I am so I will always offer a hand and if it keeps getting rejected well thats up to them - not me.
I am talking about petty human behaviour - not big stuff. Piss me off big style and you can go fuck yourself. Rhetorically speaking "
nicely put lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How often do you find your instincts or first assessments right?
Yes I have and thats why I always go with my gut instinct now. It serves me well..."
I always think gut instinct is the best way but i was reading about these old ladies who get hit over and over by these lottery scams and couldn't understand why they keep getting taken in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do you find your instincts or first assessments right?
Yes I have and thats why I always go with my gut instinct now. It serves me well...
I always think gut instinct is the best way but i was reading about these old ladies who get hit over and over by these lottery scams and couldn't understand why they keep getting taken in. "
They're not - think Harry Enfield and wobbly randy old ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm of a school of thought which believes, you can only learn the value of good judgement from your own bad experience…….
Observing other peoples mistakes only teach us, that is the case!!    |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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I though my relationship with my ex-girlfriend would change for the better when she moved out of her childhood home and into her own home. It didn`t. I have met some bosses and took an instant dislike to them and been proven right that they we "no good". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My gut instinct is pretty good and I usually go with it
If I think someone is lying to me I'm usually right in the end
But I would never let on that that's what I think
The truth nearly always outs in the end xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to many times to count,got a t-shirt with my name on it, but im to laid back to care these days, life is to short for regrets, make a mistake, forgive/forget and move on. |
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