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Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
Obviously he thinks you're the hottest female that's why he's your MR  |
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Oh my word this size thing is  at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake  |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
Are you feeling vulnerable, on edge, worried he may find her more attractive than you? I doubt he will so stop worrying about it and be confident honey  |
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He more than likely has the same concerns as you when it comes to male meets. But if yer comfortable enough to do this I think yer bond is strong enough to withstand a slightly more attractive sex partner. Plus from your pic you're in great shape. It is a natural worry but one I think you can relax on |
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I’ve been attracted to both slim women and women with curves.
It’s not quite as easy as saying curvy or slim, since curvy is a shape rather than a size. So a slim woman could be really curvy. |
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake "
Exactly 
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes.
Obviously he thinks you're the hottest female that's why he's your MR "
Exactly,so stop worrying! |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as "
I'll second this...
Throw in personality and sense of humour to the mix too. |
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If I had to be 100% honest, not trying to win forum brownie points. Aside from personality, chemistry, matching sex high drive, similar levels of kink. Face is 90%, body is 10% of what I find attractive in a woman physically.
I find curvy or slim women attractive. I guess the exception is the far ends of the spectrum either way, aren’t what I personally find attractive. |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record? "
No I’ve previously seen some ‘fat bash’ in less than 3 minutes on here! |
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I think the size and shape of the plus one isn’t the real issue here. The issue is you appear to be lacking in confidence (which I can relate to) it’s a tricky one, but in my case it’s not the person themselves but what represent.
I may be wrong of course xxx |
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake "
What she said. Hate when people make it a competition on here of what body shape is hotter |
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"Personality, personality, personality.
Your turning that into your own catchphrase...but I agree "
Just between you and me I'm trying to get myself noticed as the really nice person I actually am, sugar have I posted this, aw well, back to being a pariah!  |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record?
That's hardly fat bashing is it?!  "
Yep it seems it is. |
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Intelligent fun charismatic confident content in their own skin able to get inside my mind and me their mind, communicative friendly and prepared to accept my not insignificant failings.
After that not much else matters...
And yeah I'm bored with all the body shaming threads in whatever form they appear...
Believe in yourself be yourself and if others don't accept that then it's their issue not yours.
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
Variety is the spice of life, hence the reason most of us are on here  |
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"If I had to be 100% honest, not trying to win forum brownie points. Aside from personality, chemistry, matching sex high drive, similar levels of kink. Face is 90%, body is 10% of what I find attractive in a woman physically.
I find curvy or slim women attractive. I guess the exception is the far ends of the spectrum either way, aren’t what I personally find attractive."
Wee brownie point from me anyways! |
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I get like this too sometimes. At the moment we/I am looking for a woman for me to play with. But I can imagine all sorts of insecurities coming out of the woodwork if Mr said he wanted to meet someone.
You look lovely in your pic. Speak to Mr about how you're feeling x |
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"Personality, personality, personality.
Your turning that into your own catchphrase...but I agree
Just between you and me I'm trying to get myself noticed as the really nice person I actually am, sugar have I posted this, aw well, back to being a pariah! "
Don't worry I'm a c*nt too |
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Does your mister prefer the slimmer frame, does he rave about that in photos of other women? If so then yes I can see why you might feel that way.
If he doesn't then I suspect he likes a bit of variety |
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"I think the size and shape of the plus one isn’t the real issue here. The issue is you appear to be lacking in confidence (which I can relate to) it’s a tricky one, but in my case it’s not the person themselves but what represent.
I may be wrong of course xxx"
This.
You’re worried he may be more attracted to another person he plays with than you. You then stipulate this is about curvy or slim preferences. What’s really going on? A lack of confidence that he is attracted to you? A fear of losing him based on some other info you have or perceive? A lack of self esteem about your own sexiness? An issue with your own body that makes you perceive this to be a critical factor for him to use to compare you and someone else (as opposed to a myriad of other factors)? Whatever is going on, he’s your partner — talk to him. Listen to him. Ask him questions. Ask yourself questions. Listen to yourself. And don’t either of you do a meet if you’re not ready to. |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record? "
Hardly fat bashing. The OP asked for honest answers. People are giving them. |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record?
Hardly fat bashing. The OP asked for honest answers. People are giving them."
The first paragraph was a preference, the second unnecessary, unless of course he thinks he'll be inundated with messages on the strength of the first one....unlikely |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes.
Obviously he thinks you're the hottest female that's why he's your MR
Exactly,so stop worrying!"
What she said. |
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If your panicking about meets is this really the real problem?
I’ve been on this scene with a few different partners and there was only one where I felt insecure about meets and same thing I was so scared of losing him that I was worried he would prefer the other woman where as I’m normally super confident so I would say get to the route of the real problem and only go ahead if your 100% sure |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record?
Hardly fat bashing. The OP asked for honest answers. People are giving them.
The first paragraph was a preference, the second unnecessary, unless of course he thinks he'll be inundated with messages on the strength of the first one....unlikely "
Unnecessary to you obviously.
Obese is a medical term. Fat is a casual/colloquial term. |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record?
That's hardly fat bashing is it?!
Yep it seems it is."
Well I'm fat and I don't feel particularly bashed. |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
Who gives a fuck? I like different sized cock ... different strokes for different folks as the saying goes  |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes.
Who gives a fuck? I like different sized cock ... different strokes for different folks as the saying goes "
I’m with you |
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake "
It's rather depressing isn't it? Why do people think they'll have universal appeal? Why do insecure people swing? |
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake
It's rather depressing isn't it? Why do people think they'll have universal appeal? Why do insecure people swing? "
I think even the most confident person will have some insecurities...universal appeal! On here....feck off |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record?
That's hardly fat bashing is it?!
Yep it seems it is.
Well I'm fat and I don't feel particularly bashed. "
I'm fatter and neither did I! |
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake
It's rather depressing isn't it? Why do people think they'll have universal appeal? Why do insecure people swing?
I think even the most confident person will have some insecurities...universal appeal! On here....feck off "
I'm morbidly obese, my other half looks like Jason Statham and is a self employed heating engineer in and out of women's houses on a daily basis. I leave him twice a year to go holidaying with friends...two of whom are male friends I've known for twenty years. We all meet up every six weeks and Ben's never invited.
We don't get jealous or insecure so I do struggle to empathise. I was never jealous or insecure with my husband either.
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake
It's rather depressing isn't it? Why do people think they'll have universal appeal? Why do insecure people swing?
I think even the most confident person will have some insecurities...universal appeal! On here....feck off
I'm morbidly obese, my other half looks like Jason Statham and is a self employed heating engineer in and out of women's houses on a daily basis. I leave him twice a year to go holidaying with friends...two of whom are male friends I've known for twenty years. We all meet up every six weeks and Ben's never invited.
We don't get jealous or insecure so I do struggle to empathise. I was never jealous or insecure with my husband either.
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Well you seem to have it cracked girl
But I know I have some insecurities..I think it goes with the territory in my case though...more on the male side then the female side  |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as "
This
I would say slim is like Margot Robbie and curvy is Kelly Brook. And I’m madly attracted to them both |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as "
Omg. My man!!!!. If i had a penny for every time I read curvy and to only find out that they're not curvy to me and to majority of the others too. Curvy wins hands down |
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I like slim ladies, fit and tidy. I find people describing themselves as curvy can be overweight. There is a difference between having big boobs and ass or having a tyre around your belly. That's not curvy! So I will go with slim at least I know what the lady is going to look like when the clothes come off |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as "
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook |
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"I like slim ladies, fit and tidy. I find people describing themselves as curvy can be overweight. There is a difference between having big boobs and ass or having a tyre around your belly. That's not curvy! So I will go with slim at least I know what the lady is going to look like when the clothes come off"
I'm slim with tyre! |
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Although I'm not slim I don't have a tyre round my middle, I do have a big arse but small boobs ........... describe me ???
I'm a pear and I usually describe myself as chubby or squidgy exterior |
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake
It's rather depressing isn't it? Why do people think they'll have universal appeal? Why do insecure people swing?
I think even the most confident person will have some insecurities...universal appeal! On here....feck off
I'm morbidly obese, my other half looks like Jason Statham and is a self employed heating engineer in and out of women's houses on a daily basis. I leave him twice a year to go holidaying with friends...two of whom are male friends I've known for twenty years. We all meet up every six weeks and Ben's never invited.
We don't get jealous or insecure so I do struggle to empathise. I was never jealous or insecure with my husband either.
Well you seem to have it cracked girl
But I know I have some insecurities..I think it goes with the territory in my case though...more on the male side then the female side "
In all honesty I tend not to worry about things I have no control over. There will always be someone younger, prettier, slimmer etc than me. I can lose weight doesn't guarantee my partner won't look elsewhere or I'll live forever.
So why waste the time I have left on things outwith my control? |
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake
It's rather depressing isn't it? Why do people think they'll have universal appeal? Why do insecure people swing?
I think even the most confident person will have some insecurities...universal appeal! On here....feck off
I'm morbidly obese, my other half looks like Jason Statham and is a self employed heating engineer in and out of women's houses on a daily basis. I leave him twice a year to go holidaying with friends...two of whom are male friends I've known for twenty years. We all meet up every six weeks and Ben's never invited.
We don't get jealous or insecure so I do struggle to empathise. I was never jealous or insecure with my husband either.
Well you seem to have it cracked girl
But I know I have some insecurities..I think it goes with the territory in my case though...more on the male side then the female side
In all honesty I tend not to worry about things I have no control over. There will always be someone younger, prettier, slimmer etc than me. I can lose weight doesn't guarantee my partner won't look elsewhere or I'll live forever.
So why waste the time I have left on things outwith my control? "
Seems like a good philosophy. ..I must give it a try |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook "
Yes please! Where do i sign up?! |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
Hope you don't mind a lady replying but I prefer women to have curves.Im wondering if I dare say that most men do too. |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes.
Hope you don't mind a lady replying but I prefer women to have curves.Im wondering if I dare say that most men do too. "
I prefer men to speak for themselves.I'm slim but have curves which is good otherwise I'd be a pity fuck if what you say is true. |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes.
Hope you don't mind a lady replying but I prefer women to have curves.Im wondering if I dare say that most men do too.
I prefer men to speak for themselves.I'm slim but have curves which is good otherwise I'd be a pity fuck if what you say is true. "
Point taken and I'm sure your not! |
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Slim tends to catch my eye more....but that's just my preference... so means sod all in reality....i do tend to look at peoples veris and if i see a gym fit guy it does put me off as i know I'm no match so i do understand your point in my own little way...
Personality counts for sooo much more anyway xx |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook "
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
If we're talking 'hotter', you'd do best to be most wary of those tall skinny women with big ol' cocks on 'em.
I can't say fairer than that, can I now. You're welcome.  |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes.
Hope you don't mind a lady replying but I prefer women to have curves.Im wondering if I dare say that most men do too. "
Curves in the Salma Hayek style then yes please. IMO |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
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Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes.
Who gives a fuck? I like different sized cock ... different strokes for different folks as the saying goes
I’m with you "
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
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There's an exception to ever rule. And Kelly is an exceptional shape! |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
There's an exception to ever rule. And Kelly is an exceptional shape! "
Oh I’m not denying she’s not got an exceptional shaped she’s a stunner and one of my personal lady crushes
Was just wondering if overweight automatically means unattractive to some that posted using a certain tone to their post |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
There's an exception to ever rule. And Kelly is an exceptional shape!
Oh I’m not denying she’s not got an exceptional shaped she’s a stunner and one of my personal lady crushes
Was just wondering if overweight automatically means unattractive to some that posted using a certain tone to their post "
Don't be so sensitive. You can't please all the people all of the time. |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record?
How is that fat bashing? "
I thought the same? but personally I’ve never understood the issue with being called fat, if you are..?! It’s just descriptive.
If someone calls me tall, I don’t get offended? Short/slim etc.. it’s just a way to differentiate.. if you’re trying to point someone out or describe yourself.
‘Fat pig’ ‘Beached whale’ etc are offensive. And it’s not kind to call people names. But ‘overweight’ ‘fat’ or ‘obese’ What’s so awful about using these words? |
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"Size doesn't come into it for me, a confident woman well presented who feels good, is happy in herself and has dressed to please herself will always ooze sex appeal x "
This |
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Curvy all the way, but I'd like to raise a discussion, so in general women are unsecure about there boob size... (general issue), this seems to be a public accepted issue, and a almost accepted body issue for women as surgery is common practice, the vaginer on the other hand is mostly accepted without judgement, (lovely things btw) so even if you have small tits don't be sad you could be a bloke with a small cock! Lol moral of the story is stop the insecure Brest thing, normal men like female form of all kinds, on top of the fact you all have a vaginer regardless. D*unk rant done xx |
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If your asking men then I believe there will be no definitive answer, personally I like different sizes dependent on mood, it's women who think men want slim x |
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"If your asking men then I believe there will be no definitive answer, personally I like different sizes dependent on mood, it's women who think men want slim x "
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"If your asking men then I believe there will be no definitive answer, personally I like different sizes dependent on mood, it's women who think men want slim x "
Case closed with that answer I personally have no preference I don't look at slim or not slim but some men do...not that there is anything wrong with that either...it's the same argument that women prefer tall men to short. There should be enough trust between partners to not have insecurities...if u do have them, fabswingers is not for you |
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake "
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not a man sorry- but I had fun with slim and not so slim. that has no impact on how much I like a person. I can find a guy sexually atractive but wouldn't want to spend time with him due to personality. I think there might be more than "just" your body that your husband is attracted to in you!! |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
There's an exception to ever rule. And Kelly is an exceptional shape!
Oh I’m not denying she’s not got an exceptional shaped she’s a stunner and one of my personal lady crushes
Was just wondering if overweight automatically means unattractive to some that posted using a certain tone to their post
Don't be so sensitive. You can't please all the people all of the time. "
Oh don’t worry I’m not
I could look like kelly brook and they’re still be people that wouldn’t want to fuck me as there’s no one size fits all when it comes to attraction
Was just curious but as I suspected you were the only one with the balls to answer me clem |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
There's an exception to ever rule. And Kelly is an exceptional shape!
Oh I’m not denying she’s not got an exceptional shaped she’s a stunner and one of my personal lady crushes
Was just wondering if overweight automatically means unattractive to some that posted using a certain tone to their post
Don't be so sensitive. You can't please all the people all of the time.
Oh don’t worry I’m not
I could look like kelly brook and they’re still be people that wouldn’t want to fuck me as there’s no one size fits all when it comes to attraction
Was just curious but as I suspected you were the only one with the balls to answer me clem "
Your suspicions were wrong then as I answered you too. |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
There's an exception to ever rule. And Kelly is an exceptional shape!
Oh I’m not denying she’s not got an exceptional shaped she’s a stunner and one of my personal lady crushes
Was just wondering if overweight automatically means unattractive to some that posted using a certain tone to their post
Don't be so sensitive. You can't please all the people all of the time.
Oh don’t worry I’m not
I could look like kelly brook and they’re still be people that wouldn’t want to fuck me as there’s no one size fits all when it comes to attraction
Was just curious but as I suspected you were the only one with the balls to answer me clem
Your suspicions were wrong then as I answered you too. "
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
Wow 3 minutes to fat bash, is that a record?
How is that fat bashing?
I thought the same? but personally I’ve never understood the issue with being called fat, if you are..?! It’s just descriptive.
If someone calls me tall, I don’t get offended? Short/slim etc.. it’s just a way to differentiate.. if you’re trying to point someone out or describe yourself.
‘Fat pig’ ‘Beached whale’ etc are offensive. And it’s not kind to call people names. But ‘overweight’ ‘fat’ or ‘obese’ What’s so awful about using these words? "
I call myself fat on my profile, hey there's no point trying to hide it. Obese however, to me, seems a much more offensive word than fat. No idea why, maybe it's because it's a 'medical term' and therefore when used I feel (ok I get maybe SOME people don't mean it this way) it's more judgemental. |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
It's normal for you to think that but he married you not the other woman
He probably worries you'll prefer the other man |
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"I like slim ladies, fit and tidy. I find people describing themselves as curvy can be overweight. There is a difference between having big boobs and ass or having a tyre around your belly. That's not curvy! So I will go with slim at least I know what the lady is going to look like when the clothes come off
I'm slim with tyre! "
You been out to too many Michelin restaurants?
Or has it just been a Goodyear |
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"I like slim ladies, fit and tidy. I find people describing themselves as curvy can be overweight. There is a difference between having big boobs and ass or having a tyre around your belly. That's not curvy! So I will go with slim at least I know what the lady is going to look like when the clothes come off
I'm slim with tyre!
You been out to too many Michelin restaurants?
Or has it just been a Goodyear "
Just a joke btw |
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"I like slim ladies, fit and tidy. I find people describing themselves as curvy can be overweight. There is a difference between having big boobs and ass or having a tyre around your belly. That's not curvy! So I will go with slim at least I know what the lady is going to look like when the clothes come off
I'm slim with tyre!
You been out to too many Michelin restaurants?
Or has it just been a Goodyear "
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"I like slim ladies, fit and tidy. I find people describing themselves as curvy can be overweight. There is a difference between having big boobs and ass or having a tyre around your belly. That's not curvy! So I will go with slim at least I know what the lady is going to look like when the clothes come off
I'm slim with tyre!
You been out to too many Michelin restaurants?
Or has it just been a Goodyear
Just a joke btw "
Sad you had to qualify it for the over sensitive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The biggest classic and contemporary female sex symbols of all time basically all "curvy".
Think; June Wilkinson, Marilyn Monroe, Sophia Loren, Dolly Parton, Barbara Eden, Christina Hendricks, Anita Ekberg, Liz Taylor, Rita Hayworth, Mae West... I mean I can go on...
These women are a mix of shapes and sizes with one thing in common. They all have meat on the bones and curves (without calling "rolls" of fat "curves") and none are really "slim".
Let's face it, you don't call a hairpin bend on a road; curvy, and a curve-ball doesn't chuck a uey and come back at you... |
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"I like slim ladies, fit and tidy. I find people describing themselves as curvy can be overweight. There is a difference between having big boobs and ass or having a tyre around your belly. That's not curvy! So I will go with slim at least I know what the lady is going to look like when the clothes come off
I'm slim with tyre!
You been out to too many Michelin restaurants?
Or has it just been a Goodyear
Just a joke btw
Sad you had to qualify it for the over sensitive. "
I know but don’t like to upset anyone |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. ""
Obviously he thinks you're the hottest female that's why he's your MR
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Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake "
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"The biggest classic and contemporary female sex symbols of all time basically all "curvy".
Think; June Wilkinson, Marilyn Monroe, Sophia Loren, Dolly Parton, Barbara Eden, Christina Hendricks, Anita Ekberg, Liz Taylor, Rita Hayworth, Mae West... I mean I can go on...
These women are a mix of shapes and sizes with one thing in common. They all have meat on the bones and curves (without calling "rolls" of fat "curves") and none are really "slim".
Let's face it, you don't call a hairpin bend on a road; curvy, and a curve-ball doesn't chuck a uey and come back at you..."
The fat rolls are curves comment was a joke
Clearly we do have to clarify these things  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh my word this size thing is at the moment,it's not a competition everyone likes different thing's. One person may like small boobs,slim build,the next a fuller figure,it's not one size fits all for heaven's sake "
Of course its a competition, everyone wants to be Mr or Ms popular, did you miss the memo  |
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I am 12st 2 ish ... I have boobs and a bit of a belly and describe myself as curvy. I’m a 12-14 in clothes. Happy ish with my body... not perfect in any way but my mind, eyes and lingerie ensure I am a tiger in the bedroom and not a dumpy middle aged women! It all comes from how you feel! Xxx |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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I couldn't give a toss whether people think I'm curvy or not I have curves, I have big boobs, big but and a belly a size 14/16.
It's all about the confidence you have in yourself.
Theres too much body shaming in the world as it is, no wonder may ppl like me dislike narrow minded people who insist on labeling others.
We all have our own personal preferences only we need to know what they are, we don't need to keep telling the world we don't like other things and the be disrespectful or damning of others personal views or preferences. |
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"I am 12st 2 ish ... I have boobs and a bit of a belly and describe myself as curvy. I’m a 12-14 in clothes. Happy ish with my body... not perfect in any way but my mind, eyes and lingerie ensure I am a tiger in the bedroom and not a dumpy middle aged women! It all comes from how you feel! Xxx"
Ok I'm well jel. I'm taller than you and weigh less than you yet I'm a size 14/16. Life is so unfair!!  |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
There's an exception to ever rule. And Kelly is an exceptional shape!
Oh I’m not denying she’s not got an exceptional shaped she’s a stunner and one of my personal lady crushes
Was just wondering if overweight automatically means unattractive to some that posted using a certain tone to their post
Don't be so sensitive. You can't please all the people all of the time.
Oh don’t worry I’m not
I could look like kelly brook and they’re still be people that wouldn’t want to fuck me as there’s no one size fits all when it comes to attraction
Was just curious but as I suspected you were the only one with the balls to answer me clem "
That's because I'm one of the few with no agenda.. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Well I'm approx 5'1 and a half, I'm 7.2 stone(wait until I come back from hols and all the brandy Alexander's I've d*unk  )
I'm slim, petite have at least one spare tire going, if only a dog wants to 'enjoy my bones' then so be it, I'd rather stick with a man who knows what he likes rather than please the masses |
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"I am 12st 2 ish ... I have boobs and a bit of a belly and describe myself as curvy. I’m a 12-14 in clothes. Happy ish with my body... not perfect in any way but my mind, eyes and lingerie ensure I am a tiger in the bedroom and not a dumpy middle aged women! It all comes from how you feel! Xxx
Ok I'm well jel. I'm taller than you and weigh less than you yet I'm a size 14/16. Life is so unfair!! "
Aw, I think my ‘weight’ is in my boobs!
People are often amazed how much I weigh! Body shape I’d bizzar isn't it xx |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
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None of us are doctors though . I'm medically overweight as my bmi is high bcz of muscle. And nobody would say I'm fat so that's a bit of a silly thing to say about her to bring into a discussion like this |
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"I definitely prefer curves, I don't find really thin underweight women attractive "
There is an ‘in between’ also, not curvy yet neither thin/underweight.
Why do so many guys assume non curvy girls are therefore thin? |
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"I definitely prefer curves, I don't find really thin underweight women attractive
There is an ‘in between’ also, not curvy yet neither thin/underweight.
Why do so many guys assume non curvy girls are therefore thin? "
You’re certainly in a class of your own |
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
Men don't look at our bodies like we do. He chose you for a reason x |
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By *wo4FemCouple
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
Slim |
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"I like both
Provided curvy actually means curvy and not just what obese people label themselves as
This! Curvy to me is Salma Hayek with that snake wrapped around her in Dusk till Dawn, or Kelly Brook
Exactly. This is curvy to me. Or, a Jennifer Lopez, or Shakira body type - womanly curves.
Not fat. Not overweight.
Kelly Brook just recently admitted in Cosmo and on an episode celebrity juice that she’s medically classed at over weight
So Is she no longer attractive to you now she as that diagnosis? Or is she still attractive as an overweight person because of her weights bodily distribution?
None of us are doctors though . I'm medically overweight as my bmi is high bcz of muscle. And nobody would say I'm fat so that's a bit of a silly thing to say about her to bring into a discussion like this "
You and Kelly may well be medically overweight. But neither of you are medically obese.
And both of you look healthy. That's the important thing.
Curves on fab can mean anything from a size 10 to a size 20. But, for me, if a woman has a waist bigger than her hips, it isn't curves she has got.
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"Ok I’m asking u men for a honest answer. So I panic about meets if the female is slim ( is this normal) thinking my mr might think she is hotter (I’m most prob being stupid). But what’s ur opinions on female sizes. "
you I’m sure have nothing to worry about you are delightful I’m sure he is very happy. My fella always prefers curvy but it all down to individual preferences.
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