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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s hard to look forward to when the entire build up now starts in October
I like December and the final two weeks before but the other 6 weeks take the piss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't like Christmas,never have.
It just seems so false. the notion of 'peace on earth and goodwill to all',why can't we have that all year round?
I'm not a huge fan of mince pies or turkey either.
I'm not a Christian and I don't want children to sing me songs on my doorstep.And why is it that they only ever seem to know 'we wish you a merry Christmas' when there are much better Christmas carols?
All my Scrooge like miserableness fades away though on Christmas eve.When I go down to the village of Tickhill,where they close off the main street and the salvation army band plays. Can't help but be moved by the sounds of 'once in royal davids city' on a cold and frosty night,with the aromas of mulled wine and all the cheery red faces and smiling children.
Actually,thinking about it,I love certain aspects of Christmas. |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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I dont like the fact that its months build up to it and decorations/advertising out in october. (Although i admit to having done all my shopping )
But i enjoy the couple.of days where the whole family get together. Its a rarity for my family. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do like being with my family on Xmas day (but to be honest I see them twice a week anyway) but as I don't have kids there's nothing magical in it for me plus December has three huge life changing event anniversaries for me so it's just miserable...
One year something is gonna happen to make me realise I have something GREAT to look forward to in December and the bad stuff will fade away (she says silently praying even though she doesn't believe in prayer!!!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christmas depresses me because I'm always alone and feel like a failure at relationships because of that.
I'm already starting to try to think of ways to make it pass faster."
Treat yourself to a lovely holiday, somewhere hot!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Christmas depresses me because I'm always alone and feel like a failure at relationships because of that.
I'm already starting to try to think of ways to make it pass faster."
But you're a couple?? |
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"Christmas depresses me because I'm always alone and feel like a failure at relationships because of that.
I'm already starting to try to think of ways to make it pass faster.
But you're a couple?? "
We don't live together, he's 400 miles away and usually spends Christmas with his daughter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A few years back,I was supposed to go to a friends house for Xmas dinner but I fell ill and couldn't go. I spent the entire day on my own,lying on the sofa in my nightie with just a bottle of champagne and a box of chocolates.
I still have fond memories of that as one of the best Christmases I ever had.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Christmas depresses me because I'm always alone and feel like a failure at relationships because of that.
I'm already starting to try to think of ways to make it pass faster.
But you're a couple??
We don't live together, he's 400 miles away and usually spends Christmas with his daughter."
Ahhh, ok ... not so good then.
It's not just aboit relationships for me though ... all my friends are becoming grandparents now and I feel horribly detached from them at this time of year because my babies were born sleeping so I've never had the "magic of Xmas" with my own kids never mind grandkids |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A few years back,I was supposed to go to a friends house for Xmas dinner but I fell ill and couldn't go. I spent the entire day on my own,lying on the sofa in my nightie with just a bottle of champagne and a box of chocolates.
I still have fond memories of that as one of the best Christmases I ever had.
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That made me feel happy and sad all at the same time ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate it. I hate the build up from October. I hate xmas shopping. I hate all the hype, the ridiculous amounts of money people spend being nice to people you dont like...
Jesus would be twirling in his grave- if he had one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the fact that the build up for Christmas starts in October. It's just greedy commercial corporate shit trying to sell us shit that hasn't really got anything to do with Christmas.
I hate Christmas up until the week before when most people have got it sorted and their stress levels are coming down again and people start to embrace the true spirit of it. I'm not religious but I enjoy the time off work with my family, the odd carol and a glass of mulled wine. I like the peace and quiet when I step out side early on Christmas morning and everything is still. I like hearing stories about acts of kindness from random strangers. Christmas is OK when it finally arrives once the build up bullshit has finished. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I hate it. I hate the build up from October. I hate xmas shopping. I hate all the hype, the ridiculous amounts of money people spend being nice to people you dont like...
Jesus would be twirling in his grave- if he had one."
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"I hate the fact that the build up for Christmas starts in October. It's just greedy commercial corporate shit trying to sell us shit that hasn't really got anything to do with Christmas.
I hate Christmas up until the week before when most people have got it sorted and their stress levels are coming down again and people start to embrace the true spirit of it. I'm not religious but I enjoy the time off work with my family, the odd carol and a glass of mulled wine. I like the peace and quiet when I step out side early on Christmas morning and everything is still. I like hearing stories about acts of kindness from random strangers. Christmas is OK when it finally arrives once the build up bullshit has finished."
People's stress levels coming down the week before Christmas?! In my experience that's when they soar. Try being an online retailer and copping flack from people because they didn't do their shopping in time, they get seriously nasty |
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"Christmas depresses me because I'm always alone and feel like a failure at relationships because of that.
I'm already starting to try to think of ways to make it pass faster.
But you're a couple??
We don't live together, he's 400 miles away and usually spends Christmas with his daughter.
Ahhh, ok ... not so good then.
It's not just aboit relationships for me though ... all my friends are becoming grandparents now and I feel horribly detached from them at this time of year because my babies were born sleeping so I've never had the "magic of Xmas" with my own kids never mind grandkids "
That's so sad, no wonder Christmas isn't happy for you, I guess it's similar to me in that it rams down the throat all you don't have. I don't have a family to have Christmas with and seeing it everywhere, telly, ads, other people, just reminds me constantly whereas most of the time I just get on with life and consider myself lucky for what I do have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it. I love the build up (in December not before).
I try to look at the things I do have and be grateful for those. Spending time with friends and family is so important and it can go amiss the rest of the year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate the fact that the build up for Christmas starts in October. It's just greedy commercial corporate shit trying to sell us shit that hasn't really got anything to do with Christmas.
I hate Christmas up until the week before when most people have got it sorted and their stress levels are coming down again and people start to embrace the true spirit of it. I'm not religious but I enjoy the time off work with my family, the odd carol and a glass of mulled wine. I like the peace and quiet when I step out side early on Christmas morning and everything is still. I like hearing stories about acts of kindness from random strangers. Christmas is OK when it finally arrives once the build up bullshit has finished.
People's stress levels coming down the week before Christmas?! In my experience that's when they soar. Try being an online retailer and copping flack from people because they didn't do their shopping in time, they get seriously nasty"
Sounds horrible, my son used to work a customer service desk. Amazing how un christmasy people can be while they are sorting out their Christmas. I hope you don't get to much shit this year and you get a few days off to unwind. Take deep breaths and count to ten and don't let the bastard's get you down. |
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The annual ritual of standing in the gift aisles of Boots, staring at the ranked masses of 'gifts' (for your mum, your brother, your niece, your brother-in-law) and thinking, "This is it. With these gifts, chosen not by me, but by a buyer for a national chain of chemists shops, I will display to the people I am notionally closest to in the world - people I see for 2 days per year - that I care about them with some bubble bath they'll never use, or a novelty Guinness mug which no-one wants. What is the point? What if I just scratched it?" |
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I hate Christmas, weeks of unorganised chaos everywhere for people to just celebrate one day, rubbish television, Once a year wankers out on their Christmas parties, Christmas jumper wankers, Crap Christmas songs played absolutely everywhere, Christmas decorations going up in November... Roll on New Years Eve where the proper fun starts! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Heart warmed by the number of people who aren't all fluffy and "oh I love it" ... I'm often made to feel that I'm a misery for not liking it which is weird especially when the people who say this know Damn well that I am nowhere near miserable ... I'm not miserable at Xmas either ... I just don't like it ... big difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's fucking awesome.
Three years ago I was told I was terminally ill. Making another Christmas is pretty damn good, and I intend to make many more. |
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The only thing wrong with Christmas is that it’s been ambushed by the big corporations and commercialism.
It’s a nice break for us after another year at work.
But Christmas as it used to be died many years back.
There is no spirit there any longer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sure once my youngest child has grown up and realised Father Christmas was just a big con and Christmas is sooooo commercialised, that’s when the excitement for Christmas will leave me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s a nice break for us after another year at work.
But Christmas as it used to be died many years back.
There is no spirit there any longer."
Ain't that the truth ... |
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I don’t ‘do’ Christmas anymore. I did the whole thing when my kids were young but for the last 10 years I haven’t. I’m not religious at all and have a very small family so now I just get together with my kids if they’re about and enjoy a long hike to our favourite place, do a few daft ( now traditional) things, eat and drink what ever we like and no presents. I give to charities instead. If kids are elsewhere then I’m happy on my own. no tree, no turkey, no presents no drama. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are definitely not alone .. an important thread!
It means a lot to me that I haven't been battered over it ... I did think I might! "
It’s another socially taboo topic ... at least you are being authentic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are definitely not alone .. an important thread!
It means a lot to me that I haven't been battered over it ... I did think I might!
It’s another socially taboo topic ... at least you are being authentic "
Unfortunately I'm not good at being fake |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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You're not the only one. I do Christmas for my boys. I do my best to make it happy for them but I hate it. Its just us so feels like any other day. Im on my own and have been for years. It still hurts that I play Santa alone. I cry every xmas eve as I spend hours wrapping. I feel guilty for the boys that we aren't surrounded by masses of people.
It is what it is and can't be avoided. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're not the only one. I do Christmas for my boys. I do my best to make it happy for them but I hate it. Its just us so feels like any other day. Im on my own and have been for years. It still hurts that I play Santa alone. I cry every xmas eve as I spend hours wrapping. I feel guilty for the boys that we aren't surrounded by masses of people.
It is what it is and can't be avoided. "
I guess I'm "lucky" not having kids so I CAN avoid it to a degree ...
Sorry you have so much hurt xxx
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No, it doesn't really do anything for me anymore. It's all become a bit of a drag. There's personal reasons at the heart of it. That magic around it that used to be there has now gone. When I was younger I used to love it more than anything and that makes my current feelings towards it even more difficult to deal with. Now it's just a time of melancholy and loneliness and 'getting through it'. I'm glad when it's over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are definitely not alone .. an important thread!
It means a lot to me that I haven't been battered over it ... I did think I might!
It’s another socially taboo topic ... at least you are being authentic
Unfortunately I'm not good at being fake "
Unlike a traditional capitalist Xmas |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No, it doesn't really do anything for me anymore. It's all become a bit of a drag. There's personal reasons at the heart of it. That magic around it that used to be there has now gone. When I was younger I used to love it more than anything and that makes my current feelings towards it even more difficult to deal with. Now it's just a time of melancholy and loneliness and 'getting through it'. I'm glad when it's over."
sending compassionate hugs |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I dread it. I'm not religious, and I hate the greed that Christmas brings out in too many people and the spoilt brats that it creates. So for me personally I'm not a fan.
Although it's got better as I've got older because I've just said no, I also hate the forced parading around to different family members. You don't see them all year or they don't want to see you but at Christmas, one of the busiest times of year where in some cases you're fighting with others for time off, family get pissy if you can't go see them when they demand.
Then you have the, in my step-family anyway, if it isn't on your Amazon wishlist you aren't getting it because actually getting to know your family is just too damn hard. Then there's the hassle from them to keep the list full and up to date but theirs is empty! Even if you don't want anything it needs to have stuff on it because they don't do vouchers, they apparently are crap presents. So you end up with stuff you don't want, that you know is coming and had no thought put into it.
It used to be fun as a child, the excitement, the surprise, the fun, but as an adult all I see is stress, forced fun and greed.
Thankfully the family has got a lot smaller as my parents have split (although this is the first Christmas of that so let's see how much guilt makes it uncomfortable) and so it's going to be a smaller one, more relaxed, less stress, less traipsing around the country to fill up everyone else's children's bedrooms with plastic tat that gets ignored after Christmas. I'm looking forward to it, I haven't looked forward to Christmas for a long time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...look forward to Xmas, or is it just me?
It's alway's a false happiness with me,I'm happy when the xmas period has fucked off completely."
This
Wanna come to the pub with us? Drinks, and people watching. |
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"...look forward to Xmas, or is it just me?
It's alway's a false happiness with me,I'm happy when the xmas period has fucked off completely.
This
Wanna come to the pub with us? Drinks, and people watching. "
I do actually have my girl's and family so I'm not really alone,I just feel like it's a forced happiness when my heart doesn't feel it.
I know I have a lot to be thankful for and shouldn’t feel like that. My ex many year's ago when the girls were little had to confess exactly a week before xmas he'd been cheating which ended our family unit,my decision. Since then xmas has just been flat... |
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Christmas is a dread now tbh best one was in Tenerife to escape it, but now kids grown up & left looking forward to the day itself with them. We prefer New Year as its Tenerife for us, our main holiday of the year xx |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I used to love it but over the past 10 years or so I've found I look forward to it less and less and become more Grinchy about it as the years go by - probably not helped by the blatant commercialism around it that seems to start in September nowadays |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dread this time of year. Always feel so alone. "
Oh no that's no good at all. If you'd like to put aside the fact I'm a single guy I'd be happy to talk. I know what it feels like myself. I'm Sam here if you want to talk to someone :D |
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I used to enjoy it but last year was the first since my dad died and even though us kids are all adults we always spent it together as a family and it was really hard, so I'm not looking forward to it this year either |
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It's not just you, I not only don't look forward to it but pretty much dread it. I find the enforced expectation of how you 'should' view the occasion really stressful and wish I could just run away (though appreciate it's different for kids). In fact the best Xmas I ever had as an adult was when I was abroad in Israel and spent the day walking because there was no pressure.
What gets me is that on a specific date - and unfortunately, also on several surrounding dates - you're 'supposed' to get together with people you don't actually want to be with for prolonged periods (appreciate of course that some families get on very well which must make a big difference). That brings up a lot of longstanding issues about family relationships for me and the enforced jollity actually has quite the opposite effect. Then there's family politics - and an emotive occasion like Xmas is a prime opportunity for some people to shit stir and emotionally black mail - which sucks out any genuine joy and makes it all exhausting.
Emotionally the whole thing is and always has felt like huge effort for very little return and that's before you get onto the practical and financial aspects which I often end up resenting too. Again, the outlay (in all senses of the word) horrifies me and can be a real worry but it's often been very difficult to circumvent that without causing ructions in the wider family.
I know I sound like a horrid Grinch and I do 'do' Xmas for my children but I think I just struggle to see the real benefit of it and the way it's pushed (if you have no religious interest) as the most important family occasion doesn't allow for people who don't have supportive families. I also find the more general and often competitive greed and excess quite obscene |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to enjoy it but last year was the first since my dad died and even though us kids are all adults we always spent it together as a family and it was really hard, so I'm not looking forward to it this year either "
Sorry to hear that buddy. I'm sure he was a great man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...look forward to Xmas, or is it just me? "
Always loved Christmas but after I lost my wife 4 years ago its never been the same for me, I still miss her very much.
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I have started heading over to warmer climates for Christmas and heading out to the The Vans Triple Crown of Surfing, Hawaii. this is the world's premier series of professional surfing events that runs from November 12 through December 20
This takes my mind off Christmas, but I do find myself sitting in a bar at the end of the night, few glasses too much to drink and tears in my eye |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...look forward to Xmas, or is it just me? "
I stopped celebrating it four years ago... and ever since it's been lovely lol... just chill out for two weeks and hibernate doing creative shizzle... it's a lovely time of year without all the stress! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not just you, I not only don't look forward to it but pretty much dread it. I find the enforced expectation of how you 'should' view the occasion really stressful and wish I could just run away (though appreciate it's different for kids). In fact the best Xmas I ever had as an adult was when I was abroad in Israel and spent the day walking because there was no pressure.
What gets me is that on a specific date - and unfortunately, also on several surrounding dates - you're 'supposed' to get together with people you don't actually want to be with for prolonged periods (appreciate of course that some families get on very well which must make a big difference). That brings up a lot of longstanding issues about family relationships for me and the enforced jollity actually has quite the opposite effect. Then there's family politics - and an emotive occasion like Xmas is a prime opportunity for some people to shit stir and emotionally black mail - which sucks out any genuine joy and makes it all exhausting.
Emotionally the whole thing is and always has felt like huge effort for very little return and that's before you get onto the practical and financial aspects which I often end up resenting too. Again, the outlay (in all senses of the word) horrifies me and can be a real worry but it's often been very difficult to circumvent that without causing ructions in the wider family.
I know I sound like a horrid Grinch and I do 'do' Xmas for my children but I think I just struggle to see the real benefit of it and the way it's pushed (if you have no religious interest) as the most important family occasion doesn't allow for people who don't have supportive families. I also find the more general and often competitive greed and excess quite obscene "
Nail and head springs to mind. You've so eloquently put into words, what goes through my mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a lovely family i adore. A daughter and a son and 3 lovely granddaughters.i at times wish i had a partner also to be with as well.however i will spend xmas day with my family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really look forward to it. The last few years I've not bothered with any decorations or cards, last year I sent no gifts, I feel guilty and this year I've made all my gifts.
Religious reasons aside it's gotten out of hand and it's not fun. A lot of money spent on giving presents and a roast dinner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s hard to look forward to when the entire build up now starts in October
I like December and the final two weeks before but the other 6 weeks take the piss "
Exactly this. Went for a drink in a local pub last weekend with trees and Decs up. No need yet. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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The only thing I look forward to with Christmas is the few days that we have off work together.
Oh, and Mr Bs homemade mince pies.
I can't bear all the adverts/ build up that seem to start earlier each year. Family that you're expected to visit, that you don't want to. Cost and general hassle of it. How busy the shops are and how rude people get. I could go on, but I won't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christmas depresses me because I'm always alone and feel like a failure at relationships because of that.
I'm already starting to try to think of ways to make it pass faster.
But you're a couple??
We don't live together, he's 400 miles away and usually spends Christmas with his daughter.
Ahhh, ok ... not so good then.
It's not just aboit relationships for me though ... all my friends are becoming grandparents now and I feel horribly detached from them at this time of year because my babies were born sleeping so I've never had the "magic of Xmas" with my own kids never mind grandkids "
I can relate to this OP. I'm pleased for my friends but it still hurts that I won't be able to experience the same joy. That said I'm greatful for what I do have and although I'm always glad when Christmas is over I do get to spend a lovely day with my niece and nephews. Big hugs to those who feel bad over the festive season x |
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I used to love Christmas. In some ways it's still my favourite time of year and I have happy memories of Christmases past.
My children are grown with families of their own and the other half having no family since he was 17 has never celebrated Christmas and loathes it. He thinks "alternating" how we spend Christmas is a compromise, I don't, so don't bother. Ignoring Christmas is not an option.
Still love Christmas though and already bought my Bailey's so I'm all set! |
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"Heart warmed by the number of people who aren't all fluffy and "oh I love it" ... I'm often made to feel that I'm a misery for not liking it which is weird especially when the people who say this know Damn well that I am nowhere near miserable ... I'm not miserable at Xmas either ... I just don't like it ... big difference "
Misery loves company.
Why should other people's happiness reflect on you? Find your own happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meh ....
I'm not that bothered about it.
I dont have children or much family so I don't panic about buying presents or who is going where.
I'll have Xmas Dinner with my sister and her family and then it will be over.
- Grinch Face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate this time of year, coz people spend so much money on presents even for friends that aren't best friends !!
Then complain they are skint for a few months after !!!
Grrrr bah humbug !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hate it , never have liked it.
i havent spent a christmas in the uk for 20 odd years.
i fly to the sun .
tenerife again this year
cant beat lazing round the pool christmas day , going out in the evening to a bar and not thinking , oh there going to close in a minute , they dont even open here..
its not dear either , only paid 270 return for flights to south tenerife, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you know what after a busy morning I have just read through this thread with a smile on my face (and a tear in my eye for some of the comments) and want to thank most of you for taking away the "guilt" I have carried for hating Xmas ... we who don't have really valid reasons (and I haven't posted mine as they are extremely personal) for not liking it but to be able to share with like-minded people has brightened my day.
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...look forward to Xmas, or is it just me? "
I tend not to get involved in all the hype but come Christmas eve I'm quite enjoying it!Im sick of all the movie channels showing cheesy xmas films at the moment though! |
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"...look forward to Xmas, or is it just me?
I tend not to get involved in all the hype but come Christmas eve I'm quite enjoying it!Im sick of all the movie channels showing cheesy xmas films at the moment though!"
Same here. |
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"...look forward to Xmas, or is it just me?
I would enjoy it more if i could unwrap you
Cheeky "
If only you was near i would have more of a chance like what i see in your pics x |
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Not just you OP stick can’t stand it at all ,he reckons lot fuss over one day only thing he likes is cooking and eating dinner and walk with dogs afterwards |
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"I'm not a fan. My son died 21St Dec, I participate for my daughter, or I'd just work through it."
Oh my god, that is dreadful. Loads of love coming your way xx |
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"I've told my kids I'm not having a Xmas this year because I'm on the naughty list.
Bah fecking humbug "
But if you have kids you probably should like it ... |
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Grossly over hyped for far too long before hand and then crashes by about 3pm when the Easter/holiday adverts start, but saying that, would love to see someone in a stocking or two this year! |
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