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By *arkRich OP   Man  over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

Hey everyone,

I’ve worked for online businesses since 2004, and like to think that I’m pretty good at all this web-based stuff...

But I was duped the other day by a fake profile, and I’d like to explain how...

This profile had verifications and a verified photo from Admin, and she also sent me some really normal looking pictures... great looking girl, but nothing over the top, like model pics.

Her verifications seemed to state that she was genuine and that she looked great in real life too...

So, normally I would ‘Reverse image search’ anyone who I am unsure of... but she seemed really nice and not overly interested...

Then she asked to chat on kik...

No problem for me, lots of fakes use kik, but so do normal people too...

She then started asking for pics, so I sent her one... nothing rude... and asked for a pic of where she was, just for context...

I got a nude...

Not that I was objecting...

But I’m not massively into pic swapping, I like the real thing...

If someone sends a pic, I do also prefer it to be ‘live’, rather than a pic you took 2 years ago that you’ve been sending to guys ever since...

This pic was clearly an old pic, as it was low quality, and we were chatting on an iPhone app...

I immediately did a reverse image search, as I had specifically asked for a selfie of her at work, and not a pic of her naked...

Anyway... to my surprise, the pics belonged to another girl... all if them... even the ones she sent me via FAB

I asked her why... and she gave me some bs about not being pretty enough... but I still think it’s a guy with fake reviews... or a very weird woman...

Also, I have just had a message from a couple who liked my pics, and I initially ignored it... but then I realised there were pics attached...

A really normal looking, beautiful woman, supposedly from near me...

I get messages a lot from fake people on other sites, so it’s pretty normal to find that it happens here too... but they have actual verifications on their account....

I did a reverse image search on the pics they sent me, and found them to have come from an amateur porn site in the USA...

This couple had verifications on their profile...

So what else can we do to avoid all of this?

It seems that you can get admin to verify your picture, and then hide it and upload fake ones...

Can’t we get admin to make your verified image available to others, or at least have another level of security, such as having a public pic that has been reverse image searched by admin? And checked against your original verified image...?

It’s getting a bit of a joke now how often I’ve had a message off a fake profile that had been verified by admin and lotd of other fab users

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By *iSTARessWoman  over a year ago

London

It happens, it's shit, just reverse image on anything sent to you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Doesn't matter what rules admin put in place, unfortunately there will always be a way round it

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By *rladytoyMan  over a year ago

bournemouth

I spend 75% of my time on here these days spotting and abusing fakes. Its funny some of them block me before even filling out there profiles now lol .

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By *arkRich OP   Man  over a year ago

Manchester City Centre


"It happens, it's shit, just reverse image on anything sent to you? "

That’s a valid point... but it just pre-supposes that everyone knows to do this...

My point was, maybe I should’ve made it clearer, that I was caught out because I thought FAB was safe if the person had reviews and a verified profile...

So if I was duped by a fake, then what about everyone else?

I’m good at technology...

but not everyone is...

Are we pre-supposing that everyone should already know this?

Or should admin be putting up a warning for all users every time they get a message?

My theory is that although fake users and catfishes are unwanted...

They probably still pay subscription fees, and therefore contribute enough for admin to ‘turn a blind eye’

If they made it more difficult for people to be a catfish... could this deter a large number of paying customers?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get a lot of messages accusing me of being a fake profile. I guess you can never really tell but I am real.. honest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get a lot of messages accusing me of being a fake profile. I guess you can never really tell but I am real.. honest "

Are you sure?

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By *arkRich OP   Man  over a year ago

Manchester City Centre


"I spend 75% of my time on here these days spotting and abusing fakes. Its funny some of them block me before even filling out there profiles now lol ."

I fucking love doing it on tinder...

I had one person a few weeks ago admit they were a gay guy in sham marriage... and they were never ever going to be able to come out... fucking insane!

I do feel sorry for them though

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

Leeds

It’s part of live on here I’m afraid so many fakes and picture stealing. I’ve been accused of stealing other people’s photos and using them as my own which is total bull. Some of my photos have appeared online in search engines and Pinterest’s and thiers nothing I can do other than now I print my name across my photos. It’s part of life on here really. Lots of time wasters fakes and down right rude people xx

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By *rladytoyMan  over a year ago

bournemouth


"I spend 75% of my time on here these days spotting and abusing fakes. Its funny some of them block me before even filling out there profiles now lol .

I fucking love doing it on tinder...

I had one person a few weeks ago admit they were a gay guy in sham marriage... and they were never ever going to be able to come out... fucking insane!

I do feel sorry for them though"

Lol its mad but its almost as if ive started enjoying seeking them out ect. Can feel sorry for an individual, sure. But in general- no way, there literally ruining it for everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I saw a profile where admin had approved a photo of the fairly well known actor, Dean Cain, who played Superman on TV.

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By *rladytoyMan  over a year ago

bournemouth


"I saw a profile where admin had approved a photo of the fairly well known actor, Dean Cain, who played Superman on TV."

That says a lot actually, far to easy.

Oh and goodbye thread lol

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By *arkRich OP   Man  over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

I think it’s one of those things

Money talks volumes...

It’s supposed to deter bots and fakes

But it can actually work to the advantage of some people, as paying a subscription is buttons if it means they can exploit the naivety of others...

Add more security... lose money, more trust

Lower security... more money, less trust

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS  over a year ago

London


"I saw a profile where admin had approved a photo of the fairly well known actor, Dean Cain, who played Superman on TV."

Lol.

I had recently a fake profile with pics of David Zepeda, mexican soap actor.

Asking to meet me in Dublin.

Reported him.

He went unlos but create a new profile with same name.

Pic verified and recently meet verified.

I'm baffled.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I noticed a man i had social with last time I was on fab .He had pics on and I messaged him saying thats not him in pics .I did report the pics and pics were deleted .But he did have recent veries off a few couples .may of been dark or they were blind

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