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By *raleebi OP Man
over a year ago
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Hey guys,
So my gf was out on froday night and ended up at a house party with 8 guys and 2 of girl pals.
Anyway my gf came home sat very upset as she said she was getting a lot of attention from one guy and she ended up flirting with him and kissed him.
She says that is all that happened do I believe her or do you think more happened that she feels so guilty?
Thanks for some advice |
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"Hey guys,
So my gf was out on froday night and ended up at a house party with 8 guys and 2 of girl pals.
Anyway my gf came home sat very upset as she said she was getting a lot of attention from one guy and she ended up flirting with him and kissed him.
She says that is all that happened do I believe her or do you think more happened that she feels so guilty?
Thanks for some advice "
Not knowing your girlfriend I couldn't possibly say. However if you swing together successfully I reckon the chances of her being honest with you are pretty good.
How's your emotional communication? You seem to have doubts that it's effective maybe work on that together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The spur of the moment kiss I would forgive but not the flirting. It's good that she told you tho. People do make mistakes....just don't let her away with another one x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Just speaking for myself here but if my partner went out with her friends and kissed and flirted with other men I’d be royaly pissed off. Whether we’re on this site or not that’s not part of our agreement with regards ton involving other people, making an individual decision like that would raise trust issues for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And she’s on here with you on a joint profile? Does she have access? I suspect she may be green arrowing you and then will be wondering why you are posing the question on the forums.
Wear a hard hat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it's all to do with consent. If you both agree to something that's one matter.
Doing it without prior debate is a totally different beast. I'd be very annoyed.
As for her trust worthiness.. Only you can say. |
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"Should I question her more "
why? If you believe her, you believe her...move on and forget it. If you don't believe her what can she say that will make you change your mind?
You need to deal with this between the two of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guessing that your "couples profile" is only ran by you or otherwise there is a slight possibility that she could she this post on the forum. If you don't trust her then why are you together. it seems strange to me. But oh well im gonna sit back and enjoy. |
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All you can do is talk to her till you feel better. I can't see how airing your laundry on a forum will help settle your mind.
Mistrust is a rot and being on a swing site can surely only complicate matters and speed up the rotting process. |
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