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Please help, i'm keen to fit in.
It’s been a while since I’ve been on Fabswingers and I’m hoping some of the new faces I see on the forum can let me know how things are on the site in general these days.
I made some great friends on here previously, but to be honest there were a few people who just put me off the whole thing.
Everyone I actually met was really nice and I love swinging, but to be honest some of the people on the forums were beyond belief.
There was a lot of sarcasm went on, and it was really, really obvious that people had formed what we called “cliques” and were ganging up on people – it got to the stage that they were all emailing each other about me behind my back and pretending they weren’t. They even had the gall to deny that these “cliques” even existed!!!
Some people used to get incredibly het up about the smallest of things and gigantic arguments would break out. Often threads had to be closed by the moderators, it was a real shame.
Bullying used to be another major problem, and the poor moderators could only do what they could.
To be honest I felt so bullied I felt I had no option but to stop using Fab for a while.
So I guess my question is, that hopefully all that nonsense is behind the site and the forum can be the fun place it used to be.
Can anyone here shine any light on the current ‘state of play’ for me?
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Have to say, I love the forums. I find them a great source of entertainment. Have made a few very good friends on them as well. Havn't witnessed any bullying, as for cliques yes some people know each other, but its like that in life in general, but if you make the effort and join in and have fun, then there is no reason for you not to like the forums as well  |
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"I turned straight..
All couples are genuine
Single guys rule the site
Single bi fems are just so last season...
Welcome back "
Darling View!
You've still got sequins and glue in a special drawer for me I hope. |
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Apparently the things you mention are still live and kicking but come on - its only a swinging site. Dont take it to heart. I really dont let what anyone says on here give me more than a moments thought. Welcome back. There are plenty of nice friendly people on here. I laugh at those who are sad enough to take it so seriously they have to form bitching parties. Hilarious. Hope they discuss me.... they do say there is no such thing as bad publicity 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Socks aren't allowed now
+1 Ever !
not even with sandals ?
closes ones ears, how can you say socks and sandals in the same sentence. "
ur not tellin me i need to rethink my wardrobe again are ya ? |
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"Socks aren't allowed now
+1 Ever !
not even with sandals ?
closes ones ears, how can you say socks and sandals in the same sentence.
ur not tellin me i need to rethink my wardrobe again are ya ?"
i'm afraid i am |
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"Yes I still have that special something all packed up and waiting for you...."
...I look forward to unwrapping that one day.
half the women on the site would pay £££ to watch.
(But not the men. They're all straight) |
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"it is what it is.....
the one thing i will say is this... you can only change something from the inside....
sitting on the sidelines achieves nothing"
I like that Fabio....
evil happens when good men do nothing (lazy sods) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the forum was getting u down why not just enjoy the site for meeting people. I guess all of this should be taken with a big pinch of salt and not take it too seriously.
We can all get a bit jaded from time to time. Sniping and bullying is a tricky thing to control.
Nice ur back though!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Socks aren't allowed now
+1 Ever !
not even with sandals ?
No way
I'll set Diana on you "
haha
don't dare me because that is one outfit that i could rustle up quite easily
desert docks, greying white socks pulled up to mid shin and a pair short shorts
you'd never be the same again ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Socks aren't allowed now
+1 Ever !
not even with sandals ?
closes ones ears, how can you say socks and sandals in the same sentence.
ur not tellin me i need to rethink my wardrobe again are ya ?
i'm afraid i am "
oh ffs
i'm moving to eastern europe - i'd be quite 'with it' there |
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"Socks aren't allowed now
+1 Ever !
not even with sandals ?
closes ones ears, how can you say socks and sandals in the same sentence.
ur not tellin me i need to rethink my wardrobe again are ya ?
i'm afraid i am
oh ffs
i'm moving to eastern europe - i'd be quite 'with it' there "
ahh not to worry, bring your credit card and we will go shopping,it might be a little cheaper than going to eastern europe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Socks aren't allowed now
+1 Ever !
not even with sandals ?
closes ones ears, how can you say socks and sandals in the same sentence.
ur not tellin me i need to rethink my wardrobe again are ya ?
i'm afraid i am
oh ffs
i'm moving to eastern europe - i'd be quite 'with it' there
ahh not to worry, bring your credit card and we will go shopping,it might be a little cheaper than going to eastern europe "
it got bent at weekend am afraid
sandals aren't as cheap as they used to be ya know - and i couldn't decide between the open toed 'jesus creeper' classics or the closed toed lattice effect (with comfort soles). so i had to have both.
pissed me right off though - i couldn't find any beige socks anywhere |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"Please help, i'm keen to fit in.
It’s been a while since I’ve been on Fabswingers and I’m hoping some of the new faces I see on the forum can let me know how things are on the site in general these days.
I made some great friends on here previously, but to be honest there were a few people who just put me off the whole thing.
Everyone I actually met was really nice and I love swinging, but to be honest some of the people on the forums were beyond belief.
There was a lot of sarcasm went on, and it was really, really obvious that people had formed what we called “cliques” and were ganging up on people – it got to the stage that they were all emailing each other about me behind my back and pretending they weren’t. They even had the gall to deny that these “cliques” even existed!!!
Some people used to get incredibly het up about the smallest of things and gigantic arguments would break out. Often threads had to be closed by the moderators, it was a real shame.
Bullying used to be another major problem, and the poor moderators could only do what they could.
To be honest I felt so bullied I felt I had no option but to stop using Fab for a while.
So I guess my question is, that hopefully all that nonsense is behind the site and the forum can be the fun place it used to be.
Can anyone here shine any light on the current ‘state of play’ for me?
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your sincerity,is touching,i'm welling up.
i did feel for you,last time,you were such a shrinking violet.
a mere lamb,circled by wolves.
better luck this time.
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your sincerity,is touching,i'm welling up.
i did feel for you,last time,you were such a shrinking violet.
a mere lamb,circled by wolves.
better luck this time.
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.....(....."
You're so very, very kind.
Last time people were calling each other allsorts.
And then a racism fight would break out between those who did and those who didn't like liquorice... |
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Hello,
Welcome to The Lounge. If you wish to fit in - may I suggest that you lose the arrogant streak you are readily displaying and write your posts in the inferior manner of the majority.
If I have made a grave error and you were ,in fact, trying to locate a satisfactorily tight vagina I can inform you that Rugby now carries a set of cock rings and plays 'match maker' with them; lovingly named after the appearance of your very own muscle.
I am sorry to hear that you were bullied. I know it's all in hand as there appear to be less capitals and exclamation marks about these days. I can safely say that you will never be bullied here as the 'current state of play' of which you enquire is total fucking inertia.
How bad is your lobotomy scar ?
P.S. My name is Granny-Crumpet. I'm newish too. |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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your sincerity,is touching,i'm welling up.
i did feel for you,last time,you were such a shrinking violet.
a mere lamb,circled by wolves.
better luck this time.
.
.....(.....
You're so very, very kind.
Last time people were calling each other allsorts.
And then a racism fight would break out between those who did and those who didn't like liquorice..."
soon after you left,the jelly babies,midget gems,and the dolly mixtures got involved.
it all got a bit messy.best forgotten.
on a happier note,rugby looks up for a shag.  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Ps .... Loved your last season in Will and Grace... Your portrayal of Beverley Leslie was stunning x
biatch!
Who was the sassy rich girl in that, Karen? Loved her!"
Aye
Jack and Karen |
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And then a racism fight would break out between those who did and those who didn't like liquorice...
soon after you left,the jelly babies,midget gems,and the dolly mixtures got involved.
it all got a bit messy.best forgotten.
on a happier note,rugby looks up for a shag. "
Rugby ALWAYS looks like she's up for a shag.
And then she bans you from the forums.
Even if the person you called a c*nt really WAS a c*nt.
Honestly, some people.
(she wants me though, i can tell)
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"Ps .... Loved your last season in Will and Grace... Your portrayal of Beverley Leslie was stunning x
biatch!
Who was the sassy rich girl in that, Karen? Loved her!Aye
Jack and Karen"
Quality from the top drawer. Like all the best American stuff, the writing is exquisite. |
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"Oh FFS can you and View get a room please OP- then you can watch re-runs of Will and Grace together and enjoy 'room sevice' "
Are you bullying me?
This is EXACTLY the kind of thing i'm talking about.
what's wrong with two guys watching a bit of Will and Grace.
it's not my fault he keeps tugging at the buttons on my 501's... |
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"Oh FFS can you and View get a room please OP- then you can watch re-runs of Will and Grace together and enjoy 'room sevice'
Are you bullying me?
This is EXACTLY the kind of thing i'm talking about.
what's wrong with two guys watching a bit of Will and Grace.
it's not my fault he keeps tugging at the buttons on my 501's..."
That his dog you daft thing!
He's busy looking for the box set lol |
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"Oh FFS can you and View get a room please OP- then you can watch re-runs of Will and Grace together and enjoy 'room sevice'
Are you bullying me?
This is EXACTLY the kind of thing i'm talking about.
what's wrong with two guys watching a bit of Will and Grace.
it's not my fault he keeps tugging at the buttons on my 501's...
That his dog you daft thing!
He's busy looking for the box set lol"
That would certainly explain the breath.
And the smell of wee on the sofa.
(I didnt like to mention it...) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bugger me sensy "
Some people are way too forward, a welcome back would have been more appropriate at this early stage.
Welcome back OP - I hope you don't get bullied or talked about in pm again, but remember no publicity is bad publicity, when they're talking about ya, you've got em
Nice to see you back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I still have that special something all packed up and waiting for you....
...I look forward to unwrapping that one day.
half the women on the site would pay £££ to watch.
(But not the men. They're all straight)"
I would pay all that I have in the bank to see that.
Think I have £3.62.....will that be enough?
Welcome back. |
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