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By *.justme OP Man
over a year ago
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Is it just me who’s hopeless with women. I don’t think I’m boring in fact most people want to know me cause I’m fun and a bit of a dare devil. I don’t think I’m ugly cause I’ve been in relationships with some beautiful women. What can it be just seem to be getting nowhere in general not just on here. Anyone help |
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If messaging people on here isn't working for you try attending socials or clubs, There was a fab Birmingham social a few months ago and more then one club in your area, The more you get your face noticed the more chance of getting meets |
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By *.justme OP Man
over a year ago
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I will have to try a social. I know I’m not very intrsting I have strange hobby’s. It’s just you hear throughout social media I want a man who’s got his own house got his own money not boring. Well I have all of that and all payed for and still no interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile. "
Doesn't seem to bother anyone (barring in the forums..they always say it's a no no for some reason)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile. "
This Instant turn off for me.
Yes we know we all have sex with others but no need to advertise the fact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.
Yeah that may put some women off as well."
But it attracts others...checks and balances  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of your pictures show you hanging out of a bird. You're not part of a couple and I assume you're looking to attract single females.
Speaking as a single female the number one thing that puts me off guys pictures is seeing them hanging out of a woman. I and most other women will not be turned on by seeing action shots. |
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.
Yeah that may put some women off as well.
But it attracts others...checks and balances "
Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's  |
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By *.justme OP Man
over a year ago
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.
Yeah that may put some women off as well.
But it attracts others...checks and balances
Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's "
I’ve removed all the pictures now probably a stupid move on my behalf |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.
Yeah that may put some women off as well.
But it attracts others...checks and balances
Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's "
I'm not jealous I just don't like bragging by photos  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.
Yeah that may put some women off as well.
But it attracts others...checks and balances
Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's "
I find some do like it, i guess some don't because I just won't have heard from those people who look and don't like my profile but I like to take pictures, I like people seeing them so it makes that known and acts as it's own sort of filter in a way..I feel I'm more likely to get on with folk who like my profile...those are my thoughts anyhow |
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.
Yeah that may put some women off as well.
But it attracts others...checks and balances
Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's
I'm not jealous I just don't like bragging by photos "
I'm only messing,but I bet there is a bit of truth in there. Well not jealous that's probably the wrong word actually,just more that someone may not live up to the people they've previously shagged,I know I can be like that a bit. |
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After reading all of the supposed help, maybe death by wanking with sandpaper oh am taking nob shots off, oh and giving up your lifestyle of smoking and then just maybe then, a tv will get incontact and ask why your not gay. Just be you and no one else! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t sweat it too much pal, just be yourself.
Obviously haven’t met the right girl yet.
Oh, and just for your own personal view of yourself.... the vast majority of the people on here chatting shit aren’t very interesting, hence they’re on here instead of interacting in the real world !
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"After reading all of the supposed help, maybe death by wanking with sandpaper oh am taking nob shots off, oh and giving up your lifestyle of smoking and then just maybe then, a tv will get incontact and ask why your not gay. Just be you and no one else!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you are already ahead of most guys when you identify boring as a problem.
I think most ladies are here for fun. They say "fun". We read "sex". But when they say fun they really mean fun.
If you can demonstrate that you can be fun the first time you contact them then it always helps.
I think you got good advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your less interesting than you think? Happened to me a while back..thought I was all interesting and that..apparently not though "
I think that's a good point. We've got loads of tales and interests, but only those who like those things are going to want to know about them. We're all a little boring to someone, and attractive to others.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.
Yeah that may put some women off as well.
But it attracts others...checks and balances "
It depends on the others you are trying to attract |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most of your pictures show you hanging out of a bird. You're not part of a couple and I assume you're looking to attract single females.
Speaking as a single female the number one thing that puts me off guys pictures is seeing them hanging out of a woman. I and most other women will not be turned on by seeing action shots. "
Completely agree |
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