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By *arkco OP Man
over a year ago
Lichfield |
I'm pondering on a bit of a dilemma.
I've had several hotel meets. Those that involve a bit of a chat and drink/ meal first as well as the straight to the room type.
I'm sort of learning towards the chat/drink/meal first as a preferred option. But do enjoy the discovery of just getting on with it.
Any preferences out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t just go to a room and get down to it, prefer to socialise first to see if there’s a connection, which is why I prefer drink and maybe a meal if they wish first before going any further, what if the women gets to the room then decides not to go any further and leaves? |
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By *arkco OP Man
over a year ago
Lichfield |
"Can’t just go to a room and get down to it, prefer to socialise first to see if there’s a connection, which is why I prefer drink and maybe a meal if they wish first before going any further, what if the women gets to the room then decides not to go any further and leaves?"
Good point! Not had that scenario as hotel meets straight to room weren't a first meeting. There'd been a couple of socials beforehand |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First meet straight to the room normally. I've already decided through extensive research that I want sex if I'm meeting them. If I'm not sure I don't meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I ( Cali) dont like hotel meets where we are the ones visiting.
If we are having a hotel meet... we prefer a quick drink to see if we click but the longer the social the more chance I will lose interest. So prefer to get to it quick.
In fact best ones.. we have had... Mr hasn't told me about the meet till he needs me to get my clothes on and ready. X |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
We talk via fab, exchange our pics and meet at the hotel room. We tend to meet the ‘established’ and current to eliminate surprises, (none so far) plus we like an ‘edge’ to our meets. It’s not for everyone but this works great for us. |
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By *arkco OP Man
over a year ago
Lichfield |
" First meet straight to the room normally. I've already decided through extensive research that I want sex if I'm meeting them. If I'm not sure I don't meet. "
I'm curious of the extensive research.....are there an interrogation of questions? Phone conversation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had little social build ups and I've had times where guests have arrived and I've answered the room door with my pants off and cock out..depends who it is, how the play is planned and what everyone is expecting I guess. All meets are different, no need to have a single formula, be fluid. |
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" First meet straight to the room normally. I've already decided through extensive research that I want sex if I'm meeting them. If I'm not sure I don't meet. "
This is how i used to meet when I met outside of clubs before. Worked well for me also. |
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" First meet straight to the room normally. I've already decided through extensive research that I want sex if I'm meeting them. If I'm not sure I don't meet. "
This is how i used to meet when I met outside of clubs before. Worked well for me also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Admittedly I've never done a hotel meet but there would have to be some preamble. I couldn't just turn up at the door and get straight down to business. What if there's no attraction, or worse, they're nothing like their profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My preference is a social meet first..... then test the waters with a little kiss, tease and feel so to speak.... if the chemistry is there.... then a follow up hotel meet can be arranged....  "
I was just going to say the very same  |
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"My preference is a social meet first..... then test the waters with a little kiss, tease and feel so to speak.... if the chemistry is there.... then a follow up hotel meet can be arranged....
I was just going to say the very same "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not had the pleasure yet but certainly would be socialising first so has to allow the excitement and anticipation to slowly build while allowing the atmosphere to become relaxed.  |
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"Drink first and maybe a bite to eat with all meets, even regulars. We find sex so much more fun if we treat our playmates like friends.
Mrs"
this.
I often stay over in Manchester so if anyone ever wants a drink and a bite to eat and see how we go, the hotel will already be booked  |
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