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One for the girls. Let's burn the photo's
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok ladies let's show our solidarity like Phoebe, Monica and Racheal for all the times our hearts get stomped on by Mr idiot. And for 'over reacting' when we are sold fully concentrate pop only after the 3rd taste finding out it's actually a supermarket savers bottle you wasted shopping space on.
Let's metaphorically burn the photo's. For all the times we remove a brick for someone in our wall only to lay 3 more tiers when they smash it. Extended to anyone not just ladies.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow! I actually have no idea what this means. Usually when that happens it's because the OP can't use English very well, but here I'm just flummoxed.
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Perhaps you're a brick smasher then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d love ideas on how to move on, keep thinking it’ll get easier but it’s not happening yet ffs "
Have the best gaggle of geese to vent with, remind you of your self worth and remind you it's not worth your time.
You'll never get back lost time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow! I actually have no idea what this means. Usually when that happens it's because the OP can't use English very well, but here I'm just flummoxed.
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A woman builds a wall around her heart/ emotions.
A knight in shining armour encourages her to lower her hair, and the Knight scales the wall.
She learns to trust him, so removes a few bricks to make it easier for him to scale it.
Turns out the knight is a knave in tin foil. The maiden is distraught, so builds the wall higher to keep the knaves at bay. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow! I actually have no idea what this means. Usually when that happens it's because the OP can't use English very well, but here I'm just flummoxed.
A woman builds a wall around her heart/ emotions.
A knight in shining armour encourages her to lower her hair, and the Knight scales the wall.
She learns to trust him, so removes a few bricks to make it easier for him to scale it.
Turns out the knight is a knave in tin foil. The maiden is distraught, so builds the wall higher to keep the knaves at bay."
Exactly this.
Bravo, applause and may I suggest a fab mexican wave x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How on earth it goes from
Your awesome, amazing, last thought of day, first of morning, reams of messages, hearts, hours of chat, to I want nothing
Then when I put my actual feelings forward for such treatment. I am over reacting.
3rd time trying dating beyond fab clearly stating seeking relationship to start off with that burning emotion to barely being an ember. I was clear from the start, expressed reservations from the get go only to be given the sales pitch of a luxyry yacht to end up with a dinghy.
I'll have my day of venting, then he'll be shelved like the rest. The wall will go back up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How on earth it goes from
Your awesome, amazing, last thought of day, first of morning, reams of messages, hearts, hours of chat, to I want nothing
Then when I put my actual feelings forward for such treatment. I am over reacting.
3rd time trying dating beyond fab clearly stating seeking relationship to start off with that burning emotion to barely being an ember. I was clear from the start, expressed reservations from the get go only to be given the sales pitch of a luxyry yacht to end up with a dinghy.
I'll have my day of venting, then he'll be shelved like the rest. The wall will go back up. "
Too many Knaves about.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow! I actually have no idea what this means. Usually when that happens it's because the OP can't use English very well, but here I'm just flummoxed.
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Me too ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow! I actually have no idea what this means. Usually when that happens it's because the OP can't use English very well, but here I'm just flummoxed.
A woman builds a wall around her heart/ emotions.
A knight in shining armour encourages her to lower her hair, and the Knight scales the wall.
She learns to trust him, so removes a few bricks to make it easier for him to scale it.
Turns out the knight is a knave in tin foil. The maiden is distraught, so builds the wall higher to keep the knaves at bay."
Oh. Ok  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Absolutely.
Romance and effort died cause of technology and phones.
Our grandad's would somersault in their graves. Who treats people that way and justifies it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there a masdive assumption here that it's only one person's fault? It's chemistry...use the wrong ingredients and it's potent. Use the correct ones and it's amazing.
Sure there's jerks out there, but you have a gift of life...uts not a spectator sport choose to live it and you'll experience anazing things...or don't and simply watch it go by. We don't just heal or become happy. It's a state of mind that takes us there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely.
Romance and effort died cause of technology and phones.
Our grandad's would somersault in their graves. Who treats people that way and justifies it. "
I miss handwritten letters. My hubby still writes them to me when he's away but I agree the art of romance is dead! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Is there a masdive assumption here that it's only one person's fault? It's chemistry...use the wrong ingredients and it's potent. Use the correct ones and it's amazing.
Sure there's jerks out there, but you have a gift of life...uts not a spectator sport choose to live it and you'll experience anazing things...or don't and simply watch it go by. We don't just heal or become happy. It's a state of mind that takes us there."
That makes sense too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Is there a masdive assumption here that it's only one person's fault? It's chemistry...use the wrong ingredients and it's potent. Use the correct ones and it's amazing.
Sure there's jerks out there, but you have a gift of life...uts not a spectator sport choose to live it and you'll experience anazing things...or don't and simply watch it go by. We don't just heal or become happy. It's a state of mind that takes us there."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Is there a masdive assumption here that it's only one person's fault? It's chemistry...use the wrong ingredients and it's potent. Use the correct ones and it's amazing.
Sure there's jerks out there, but you have a gift of life...uts not a spectator sport choose to live it and you'll experience anazing things...or don't and simply watch it go by. We don't just heal or become happy. It's a state of mind that takes us there.
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Well I would agree had it not been very over the top to start, but you can't claim someone over reacted for falling for it.
Go in either reserved n closed for nothing or don't give it. The chemistry was defined by him from the start. Then over each meet back tracking so yes, in this case it is one's persons fault. I did not falsely sell myself. He did. The effort of the things I were sent were not the actions of someone who wanted nothing. He wanted everything a girlfriend gives so I gave the effort for it. To turn into an affirmation, personal shopper, counsellor, PA for mothing. Go figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Is there a masdive assumption here that it's only one person's fault? It's chemistry...use the wrong ingredients and it's potent. Use the correct ones and it's amazing.
Sure there's jerks out there, but you have a gift of life...uts not a spectator sport choose to live it and you'll experience anazing things...or don't and simply watch it go by. We don't just heal or become happy. It's a state of mind that takes us there.
Well I would agree had it not been very over the top to start, but you can't claim someone over reacted for falling for it.
Go in either reserved n closed for nothing or don't give it. The chemistry was defined by him from the start. Then over each meet back tracking so yes, in this case it is one's persons fault. I did not falsely sell myself. He did. The effort of the things I were sent were not the actions of someone who wanted nothing. He wanted everything a girlfriend gives so I gave the effort for it. To turn into an affirmation, personal shopper, counsellor, PA for mothing. Go figure. "
It sounds as if he changed his mind over time. At least hes made it clear now. Always difficult if things dont turn out the way wanted and/or expected. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" Is there a masdive assumption here that it's only one person's fault? It's chemistry...use the wrong ingredients and it's potent. Use the correct ones and it's amazing.
Sure there's jerks out there, but you have a gift of life...uts not a spectator sport choose to live it and you'll experience anazing things...or don't and simply watch it go by. We don't just heal or become happy. It's a state of mind that takes us there.
Well I would agree had it not been very over the top to start, but you can't claim someone over reacted for falling for it.
Go in either reserved n closed for nothing or don't give it. The chemistry was defined by him from the start. Then over each meet back tracking so yes, in this case it is one's persons fault. I did not falsely sell myself. He did. The effort of the things I were sent were not the actions of someone who wanted nothing. He wanted everything a girlfriend gives so I gave the effort for it. To turn into an affirmation, personal shopper, counsellor, PA for mothing. Go figure.
It sounds as if he changed his mind over time. At least hes made it clear now. Always difficult if things dont turn out the way wanted and/or expected."
Indeed. But wall back up. It's been over 18 months since my last effort blue cheese chaka khan vodka n Christmas jumper to the ready x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok ladies let's show our solidarity like Phoebe, Monica and Racheal for all the times our hearts get stomped on by Mr idiot. And for 'over reacting' when we are sold fully concentrate pop only after the 3rd taste finding out it's actually a supermarket savers bottle you wasted shopping space on.
Let's metaphorically burn the photo's. For all the times we remove a brick for someone in our wall only to lay 3 more tiers when they smash it. Extended to anyone not just ladies.
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Eh. What I miss? No man got to stomp
on my cold heart |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are telling you what you want to hear. You lap it up. They keep it coming.
Lamb to the slaughter.
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I don't though. I am quite a closed person. But you gotta try. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyway, thanks everyone. I feel far calmer now. The comments are definitely food for thought. I think occasionally the empathy people offer can often make things less dark.
Hugs, love n peace.
I'll probably leave it there x x x |
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