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"[Removed by poster at 14/11/17 03:01:48]"
Listen ladies this really annoys me that I just can't seem to cum from a blow job .. 1 ex of mine us the only person to succeed in making this happen ...
Yes I can relax and really enjoy it but I just can't seem to cum ..
Have any of you lovely ladies proved men on same scenario wrong with your super skills and also very cheeky put but I'm open to offers of you ladies that are 100%
That you could make this happen for me without a doubt in your mind ..
Thanks for reading looking forward to some of these replies ... xx |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 14/11/17 03:01:48]Listen ladies this really annoys me that I just can't seem to cum from a blow job .. 1 ex of mine us the only person to succeed in making this happen ...
Yes I can relax and really enjoy it but I just can't seem to cum ..
Have any of you lovely ladies proved men on same scenario wrong with your super skills and also very cheeky put but I'm open to offers of you ladies that are 100%
That you could make this happen for me without a doubt in your mind ..
Thanks for reading looking forward to some of these replies ... xx"
You've got to love a trier!  |
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"[Removed by poster at 14/11/17 03:01:48]Listen ladies this really annoys me that I just can't seem to cum from a blow job .. 1 ex of mine us the only person to succeed in making this happen ...
Yes I can relax and really enjoy it but I just can't seem to cum ..
Have any of you lovely ladies proved men on same scenario wrong with your super skills and also very cheeky put but I'm open to offers of you ladies that are 100%
That you could make this happen for me without a doubt in your mind ..
Thanks for reading looking forward to some of these replies ... xx"
You're not alone.
It's only ever happened once with me before, as well. |
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"[Removed by poster at 14/11/17 03:01:48]Listen ladies this really annoys me that I just can't seem to cum from a blow job .. 1 ex of mine us the only person to succeed in making this happen ...
Yes I can relax and really enjoy it but I just can't seem to cum ..
Have any of you lovely ladies proved men on same scenario wrong with your super skills and also very cheeky put but I'm open to offers of you ladies that are 100%
That you could make this happen for me without a doubt in your mind ..
Thanks for reading looking forward to some of these replies ... xx"
Have you thought about getting s woman to edge you real close and then having her clamp her mouth around your cock to finish you off? |
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"[Removed by poster at 14/11/17 03:01:48]Listen ladies this really annoys me that I just can't seem to cum from a blow job .. 1 ex of mine us the only person to succeed in making this happen ...
Yes I can relax and really enjoy it but I just can't seem to cum ..
Have any of you lovely ladies proved men on same scenario wrong with your super skills and also very cheeky put but I'm open to offers of you ladies that are 100%
That you could make this happen for me without a doubt in your mind ..
Thanks for reading looking forward to some of these replies ... xx
You've got to love a trier! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pfft I've never had an orgasm at all.
Likely a menatl thing. Keep trying different women. Problem solved. "
I suggest you learn how to make yourself orgasm . If you can't so it what chance has anyone else go.  |
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By *ancduoCouple
over a year ago
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I’ve had guys say that. Then cum. Maybe it depends on the person. Technique. Mood. But then again some guys can’t.
It’s very rare I cum from oral even though I love it. But the occasional guy has managed it.
Don’t give up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just for the record...just because I've not found a man I can't crack, doesn't mean I want to double check and suck every guys cock. It also doesn't mean I'll give it a go with anyone who asks.
Inbox is filling up with stupidity based on that one post  |
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"Just for the record...just because I've not found a man I can't crack, doesn't mean I want to double check and suck every guys cock. It also doesn't mean I'll give it a go with anyone who asks.
Inbox is filling up with stupidity based on that one post "
These silly men assuming ey... we should of kept our convo private really .... hahaha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lie back. Close your eyes and enjoy the moment. Be lucky someone’s actually giving you a BJ as thier are many out thier that don’t even get one. Smile and enjoy "
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"Lie back. Close your eyes and enjoy the moment. Be lucky someone’s actually giving you a BJ as thier are many out thier that don’t even get one. Smile and enjoy
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Got a mate who's in a relationship ( stays only because he's scared his kids will be taken away if he splits up ). He hasn't had a blowjob for over ten years! |
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"Just for the record...just because I've not found a man I can't crack, doesn't mean I want to double check and suck every guys cock. It also doesn't mean I'll give it a go with anyone who asks.
Inbox is filling up with stupidity based on that one post "
Alright calm down love  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 14/11/17 03:01:48]Listen ladies this really annoys me that I just can't seem to cum from a blow job .. 1 ex of mine us the only person to succeed in making this happen ...
Yes I can relax and really enjoy it but I just can't seem to cum ..
Have any of you lovely ladies proved men on same scenario wrong with your super skills and also very cheeky put but I'm open to offers of you ladies that are 100%
That you could make this happen for me without a doubt in your mind ..
Thanks for reading looking forward to some of these replies ... xx"
Only one woman has ever made me cum from a blowjob and that was earlier this year. I think a lot of men are the same |
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A few of you guys have said it's only happened once or twice. Can you define what was different/special about it?
Was it how connected you felt to that person?
Was it the fact they enjoyed doing it?
If you could put it into words, what would you say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely do as i think its down to how much friction and movement im getting from it. Theres been some sloppy ones were all that was happening was my groin was getting soaked so no chance of cumming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 14/11/17 03:01:48]Listen ladies this really annoys me that I just can't seem to cum from a blow job .. 1 ex of mine us the only person to succeed in making this happen ...
Yes I can relax and really enjoy it but I just can't seem to cum ..
Have any of you lovely ladies proved men on same scenario wrong with your super skills and also very cheeky put but I'm open to offers of you ladies that are 100%
That you could make this happen for me without a doubt in your mind ..
Thanks for reading looking forward to some of these replies ... xx"
.... it's more common than you think.. I've had guys say I've been the first to make them Cum from a blow job. I personally think it is a mix of skills and also the guys ability to relax and enjoy. Not to be watching everythingthat's being done to him... I think it's about him giving up the control. |
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It wasn't about not being relaxed or anything mental, for me.
It was purely her technique that got me off. It simply 'felt' better than any other I'd had, up till then. I don't know what she did, but, she was obviously in tune with my body and knew what she was she doing.
She failed at it the following week though, but, again I was very close and it felt better than any others I'd had.
Wish she was still 'available'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest it's rare we have found guys that dont. But if a guy says he doesn't.. then I just don't try .. as pointless if he isn't going to. "
I met a 45 yr old guy last week , he told me he had never been able to cum with oral , he was a bit apologetic about it before I even tried , didn't want me to feel offended if he cudnt , 5 mins later I was swallowing his cum , sucked him off and was his first ever time , so never say never ,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hate the ones who try saying any guy who says this is giving you a line just to get you to suck his cock 
I can imagine some guys will say this for that reason, but being a guy who genuinely never has cum during blowjobs I can say I am open to the concept that I’m not the only genuine one!
I’ve come pretty damn close on a few occasions, I absolutely love receiving a blow job, but I just can’t get over the finish line
Don’t know if it’s a mental block or what... trust me I’d love to see my hot cum shooting into someone’s mouth or over their face, but just doesn’t happen.
Would love to know others who have had his issue and managed to overcome it (I’ve been attempting for far too many years - and possibly over think it!?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a blow job..like 0.01% of sex...don't worry about it. I hardly ever can either, I just tend not to bother getting one now unless the lady happens to want to but it's just a cock in a gob at the end of the day, plenty more to be enjoying. Not EVERY sex act HAS to make you cum..that's not how it works |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It's just a blow job..like 0.01% of sex...don't worry about it. I hardly ever can either, I just tend not to bother getting one now unless the lady happens to want to but it's just a cock in a gob at the end of the day, plenty more to be enjoying. Not EVERY sex act HAS to make you cum..that's not how it works "
I see blow jobs as an enjoyable way to get a man hard. If they came that early I'd be rather disappointed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest it's rare we have found guys that dont. But if a guy says he doesn't.. then I just don't try .. as pointless if he isn't going to. "
The only point of a bj is for a man to produce cum?
That's like saying the only reason to go down on a woman is to make her cum.
Things can be enjoyed for themselves, not just for an orgasm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just a blow job..like 0.01% of sex...don't worry about it. I hardly ever can either, I just tend not to bother getting one now unless the lady happens to want to but it's just a cock in a gob at the end of the day, plenty more to be enjoying. Not EVERY sex act HAS to make you cum..that's not how it works
I see blow jobs as an enjoyable way to get a man hard. If they came that early I'd be rather disappointed "
They can be a useful part of play but I don't see the connection of having to cum from one either..it's like cumming is the only point of one
Save the spunky goodness for a bit later!
I think popular porn has promoted the idea of finishing with a bj too though, but that just makes a good 'pop shot', rather than a guy just cumming unseen, inside |
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"A few of you guys have said it's only happened once or twice. Can you define what was different/special about it?
Was it how connected you felt to that person?
Was it the fact they enjoyed doing it?
If you could put it into words, what would you say?"
The only woman who could consistently bring me to orgasm orally, and I mean in a "Bloody Hell I can't hold this back" way, wasn't any different in her technique, than any other woman, she just genuinely loved it, and couldn't wait to suck the cum out of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pfft I've never had an orgasm at all.
Likely a menatl thing. Keep trying different women. Problem solved.
I suggest you learn how to make yourself orgasm . If you can't so it what chance has anyone else go. "
Believe me I've tried. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong  "
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though! 
Or not... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest it's rare we have found guys that dont. But if a guy says he doesn't.. then I just don't try .. as pointless if he isn't going to. I met a 45 yr old guy last week , he told me he had never been able to cum with oral , he was a bit apologetic about it before I even tried , didn't want me to feel offended if he cudnt , 5 mins later I was swallowing his cum , sucked him off and was his first ever time , so never say never , "
I'd just rather not bother if they say the dont or wont cum... Mr knows if someone says to me mid play " oh I don't cum".. then I will basically stop and move on
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have been lucky enough to find it easy to cum from oral but I can also relax so that I can last longer something i struggle to do when having full sex ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A few of you guys have said it's only happened once or twice. Can you define what was different/special about it?
Was it how connected you felt to that person?
Was it the fact they enjoyed doing it?
If you could put it into words, what would you say?
The only woman who could consistently bring me to orgasm orally, and I mean in a "Bloody Hell I can't hold this back" way, wasn't any different in her technique, than any other woman, she just genuinely loved it, and couldn't wait to suck the cum out of me "
I do think that helps. Sometimes I watch other women and think omg why are you doing something you so obviously dislike.... and think it can't be that great for the guy either. Personally its my favourite thibg to do with a guy other than my partner. X |
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"In my experience most guys don't.
Really? In my experience 99% do"
Yeah...my experience too babe. And I swallow every last drop. Just before the guy cums tickle his bumhole with your fingernail..wow! The jet of spunk will hit the back of your throat |
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"That's nothing OP. I can't cum unless the lady salutes me and shouts 'ALL ABOARD CAP'N!'  hahaha... does she have to do it in the right accent to? "
Yes indeed and then and only then do all my little seamen board! |
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not..."
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try getting away from focussing on ejaculating as an end goal. Just enjoy the fact that someone is sucking your cock, and hopefully that person is enjoying it too. If you do cum, then it's a bonus.
Or just give it here and I'll do it |
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not...
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind "
Guarantee or not..it's still pretty cringey coming from anyone |
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not...
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind "
When the guy's eyes roll back in his head, that's a good sign he's about to cum lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not...
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind
Guarantee or not..it's still pretty cringey coming from anyone "
to be fair I find it cringy coming from anyone.. male or female. |
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"To be honest it's rare we have found guys that dont. But if a guy says he doesn't.. then I just don't try .. as pointless if he isn't going to.
The only point of a bj is for a man to produce cum?
That's like saying the only reason to go down on a woman is to make her cum.
Things can be enjoyed for themselves, not just for an orgasm. "
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not...
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind "
Happy to let you try on me lol. Once in 20 odd years. You like a challenge right |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not...
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind
Guarantee or not..it's still pretty cringey coming from anyone "
That's the great thing about forums....we can all have different opinions and don't have to agree on everything...isn't it great! |
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not...
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind
Guarantee or not..it's still pretty cringey coming from anyone
That's the great thing about forums....we can all have different opinions and don't have to agree on everything...isn't it great! "
In fact some people will automatically take up a contrary stance just for the sake of it |
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not...
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind
Guarantee or not..it's still pretty cringey coming from anyone
That's the great thing about forums....we can all have different opinions and don't have to agree on everything...isn't it great!
In fact some people will automatically take up a contrary stance just for the sake of it"
That doesn't happen here, surely |
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"Try getting away from focussing on ejaculating as an end goal. Just enjoy the fact that someone is sucking your cock, and hopefully that person is enjoying it too. If you do cum, then it's a bonus.
Or just give it here and I'll do it "
Deal me in on this kind offer x  |
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"A few of you guys have said it's only happened once or twice. Can you define what was different/special about it?
Was it how connected you felt to that person?
Was it the fact they enjoyed doing it?
If you could put it into words, what would you say?"
The one person that made me cum ... she litterally loved sucking my dick so I think it was fown yo that fact ... the more the woman enjoys it then the more it pleasures me = bingo xx |
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"To be honest it's rare we have found guys that dont. But if a guy says he doesn't.. then I just don't try .. as pointless if he isn't going to.
The only point of a bj is for a man to produce cum?
That's like saying the only reason to go down on a woman is to make her cum.
Things can be enjoyed for themselves, not just for an orgasm. "
I have often met just to give a bj. They haven't touched me and my pleasure comes from giving the bj and getting covered.. so it would be pointless for me if a guy was not going to give me the pleasure im there for. And I dont let them go down on me |
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I've met 2 guys who "didn't cum from blow jobs". One I was seeing for about 6 months, told me from the start that I shouldn't take it as a challenge, so I never did, and never made him cum from it. The other always said it was difficult to make him cum, but about 8 weeks in when I did make him cum he told me I was the first person to do so without him lending a hand. Since then, I manage it most of the time. Which makes me think a lot of it was mental and him thinking he couldn't cum meant he didn't before.
I sometimes wonder if I'd have kept at it so much if he'd told me before that he'd never cum from one. I do love a good blow job though. |
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"I've yet to meet a man I can't crack with a blow job. Many I've met have claimed to not be able to cum from oral....I've soon proved them wrong
guys who guarantee to make women cum and say things like 'never met a woman i can't crack' or I've soon proved them wrong' Rarely go down well and are often met with sarcasm or rolls of the eyes.
Sounds ace when a woman says it about guys though!
Or not...
No one made any guarantees....simply stated that I'd never met a man that didn't cum from oral sex. Roll your eyes...I don't mind
Guarantee or not..it's still pretty cringey coming from anyone
That's the great thing about forums....we can all have different opinions and don't have to agree on everything...isn't it great!
In fact some people will automatically take up a contrary stance just for the sake of it
That doesn't happen here, surely "
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"I've met 2 guys who "didn't cum from blow jobs". One I was seeing for about 6 months, told me from the start that I shouldn't take it as a challenge, so I never did, and never made him cum from it. The other always said it was difficult to make him cum, but about 8 weeks in when I did make him cum he told me I was the first person to do so without him lending a hand. Since then, I manage it most of the time. Which makes me think a lot of it was mental and him thinking he couldn't cum meant he didn't before.
I sometimes wonder if I'd have kept at it so much if he'd told me before that he'd never cum from one. I do love a good blow job though."
Yea maybe you would of not tried to please so hard ... and as you said you love a good blow job so obviously it would be a turn on for you to be sucking my dick know ING that your loving it so everyone's happy xx |
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