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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

How do people feel about random friends requests...

I mean a person who you hav enever spoken to or even viewed their profiles trying to add you as a friend.

for me its a massive turn off.. a bit of "who do you think you are?" comes to mind and all just to see my private pictures... you haven't earned that right...

What does everything else think??

xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think some people don't really know what it means. Probably similar to Facebook or such sites. They just want to make a connection.

Some want to see your friends pics and have a wank.

Harmless.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we've not spoken then I delete it the same as I'd do on facebook

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I delete them..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get them, I don't accept them but the cheek makes me giggle

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If we've not spoken then I delete it the same as I'd do on facebook "

But doesn't it frustrate you that they think it is acceptable to just randomly add you even though they haven't taken a moment to send you a message?? grrr.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It used to but I see it now as part of fab you'll get it sadly but I've also done it myself I've winked someone and it's sent a friend request instead so that sometimes can be the case.

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east

I very rarely get them ....I want some I'm missing out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it's damn right rude and an instant turn off.

Poppy

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By *iss SJWoman  over a year ago

Hull

It’s just one of those things that happens on fab. I just leave them so they can’t request again if I don’t want to accept

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By *zamiWoman  over a year ago

LONDON


"If we've not spoken then I delete it the same as I'd do on facebook

But doesn't it frustrate you that they think it is acceptable to just randomly add you even though they haven't taken a moment to send you a message?? grrr. "

Maybe some people dont understand how the site works

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I leave them on there so they can't keep re adding

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I very rarely get them ....I want some I'm missing out "

Sent you one

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By *hispers-40Woman  over a year ago

up the garden path


"How do people feel about random friends requests...

I mean a person who you hav enever spoken to or even viewed their profiles trying to add you as a friend.

for me its a massive turn off.. a bit of "who do you think you are?" comes to mind and all just to see my private pictures... you haven't earned that right...

What does everything else think??

xx"

I totally agree And they are shocked when you tell them that you wont allow them to look at your private pictures because you dont know them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I leave them on there so they can't keep re adding "

Ohhhh didn't realise that happened!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow

Even more cheeky when they've NO pics of their own to share. But generally I only 'friend' people I know fairly well others get an instant delete

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I ignore them. Sometimes I miss them, but an introduction would be more accepted, that's what I'd be doing for them. If you've never spoke to them, how can you be friends, there's a clue in the description

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I leave them on there so they can't keep re adding

Ohhhh didn't realise that happened! "

I never respond to them unless I've met them in person lol

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman  over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

I ignore them they obviously just want pics for their wank bank!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I only sent a friend request if I have actually chatted to someone and always ask first if it's OK to do so. If they decline then I don't send one. It's just good manners and politeness.

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By *UNKIEMan  over a year ago

south east


"I very rarely get them ....I want some I'm missing out

Sent you one "

Woohoo I got 1 and from a hotty go meeeee

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I leave them on there so they can't keep re adding "

I read this and my OCD organising screamed at me lol.... but then how do you get a '0 friends request' and make the account look all neat, and how do you know you have another request!?! HAHA.

May have to start doing this as there is a guy who has requested me about 20 time, never spoken to him and I keep deleting the request - GET THE HINT!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just ignore them especially they don't have any public pics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If we've not spoken then I delete it the same as I'd do on facebook "
we do the same. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Completely agree.

Did accept one but actually more by mistake than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It’s just one of those things that happens on fab. I just leave them so they can’t request again if I don’t want to accept "

This is what we do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Too many profiles local too me have no pics no site supporter or been verified .i take them as fake and block them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Too many profiles local too me have no pics no site supporter or been verified .i take them as fake and block them "

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By *uciyassMan  over a year ago

Leeds

I now will message them and paste my profile bio. Usually never hear from them again. O and delete friend request unless they make a decent effort to send me a messsge

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By *cotGirlWoman  over a year ago

Manchester


"I leave them on there so they can't keep re adding

I read this and my OCD organising screamed at me lol.... but then how do you get a '0 friends request' and make the account look all neat, and how do you know you have another request!?! HAHA.

May have to start doing this as there is a guy who has requested me about 20 time, never spoken to him and I keep deleting the request - GET THE HINT!!!"

That's when the block button becomes your friend, stops them sending another one whilst placating your obsessive tendencies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I delete them.."

We just ignore them if you delete they can resend one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is she hot?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I leave them on there so they can't keep re adding

I read this and my OCD organising screamed at me lol.... but then how do you get a '0 friends request' and make the account look all neat, and how do you know you have another request!?! HAHA.

May have to start doing this as there is a guy who has requested me about 20 time, never spoken to him and I keep deleting the request - GET THE HINT!!!"

I'd have blocked WAY before that point

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By *eliciousladyWoman  over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Could be the result of a previous thread ‘send a friend request to someone on your hotlist’

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By *ampWithABrainWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Could be the result of a previous thread ‘send a friend request to someone on your hotlist’

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Yea I think that kinda stuff should be kept to those on the thread participating.

I'm on other forums (non sex related) where this type of game is sometimes suggested and end up getting messages I have no interest in - bloody annoying

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By *othrockercplCouple  over a year ago

Halloween Town

We always ignore them and only reply to them if the person actually speaks to us first.

Way to many picture collectors on here.

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