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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you have anyone you talk to about your swinging exploits? How detailed do you go?
I'm guessing it's a bit different for couples as you have each other but do you tell friends too? Just for a different perspective or to share experiences?
I realised recently I seem to have become a listener. I hear a lot of naughty secrets and know some people's sex lives quite intimately! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a best friend on here who was one of the corrupters into my journey and a guy friend I met on here who I can talk to. I love it I love how I can talk about anything at all sexual or emotional and not be judged |
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"Do you have anyone you talk to about your swinging exploits? How detailed do you go?
I'm guessing it's a bit different for couples as you have each other but do you tell friends too? Just for a different perspective or to share experiences?
I realised recently I seem to have become a listener. I hear a lot of naughty secrets and know some people's sex lives quite intimately! "
No one in our vanilla world knows about this side of us. I don't think they'll approve or be able to handle it.  |
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
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I have a friend at work who knows what I get up to. Her brother, who she is very close to, is on the scene but more into fet stuff so she likes that she can talk to me about him and I don’t judge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't talk about my CD side a lot but have had 2 decades of swinging in many scenes with ex-wife and g/f's so pretty much it's easy to know they guess I dip my 'toe' into XD... and am not bothered really if they find out as what they ganna do ! x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes, a very good friend of mine who I met on here. We don't go in to the ins and outs but we do talk about some things safety wise (and really really really good/disappointing meets!).
My partner and I speak about things (who we are interested in etc) but not what goes on in our meets - I found it a bit  when I was single and meeting people so wouldn't want to do it to others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" I found it a bit when I was single and meeting people so wouldn't want to do it to others. "
I think that's what was going through my head a bit too. I wonder if people talk about meeting me?! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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" I found it a bit when I was single and meeting people so wouldn't want to do it to others.
I think that's what was going through my head a bit too. I wonder if people talk about meeting me?! "
Hopefully not/possibly/probably!
It just depends on the person and their circumstances. It's a minefield at times. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Everyone knows in my life - even my mum. I’d purely hate for anyone to catch me out with a partner and assume I was cheating on my other half.
To actually talk about...only a couple of friends. Amazingly my colleagues don’t want to hear all the gory details about who I did last night. Sorry, what I did last night...  |
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I have a late night kik buddy who's lovely. We can say anything, offload, share, help, bitch all without judgement. She's ace!
I also have 2 female buddies and we have a 3 way chat. Wider than swinging, we can share anything and they'll always be there for me.
I'm very lucky to have such great friends.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have someone outside my family that I have confided in a lot over the last year. I don't find it easy to discuss things face to face with people so it's nice to have an anonymous 'friend' to unburden on.(we've never met) I'm a good listener so I do reciprocate too. I don't think I'd discuss swinging details though, unless it was with the person I'd met, as I don't think I'd really like to be discussed either
"Oh I remember her yes, she's a crap shag etc"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm surprised sometimes at the things people tell me but perhaps it because they know they can trust me never to repeat it.
I've always been a little self contained though and never talk to anyone about this part of my life or many other things that maybe I should. But then I wonder if burdening others with my problems is a good thing or indeed if I could trust another person enough to tell them my innermost me.
Maybe it's something I need to change, maybe it's something that just evolves. I don't really know which it may be but the idea of that level of trust with another person...who knows one day I may find it or it may find me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, my best friend. He knows everything about me (without the full details!) he has access to my phones, my house, safe, bank accounts. In the event that I’m involved in an accident or such things he is responsible for ensuring everything remains private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm most definitely a listener and gatherer of chatter but also very very open about our lifestyle and choices! My family have their ideas but haven't asked and most of my friends know either through me talking or them guessing! Apparently they wouldn't expect anything else haha!
Good to have you back Rubi 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm most definitely a listener and gatherer of chatter but also very very open about our lifestyle and choices! My family have their ideas but haven't asked and most of my friends know either through me talking or them guessing! Apparently they wouldn't expect anything else haha!
Good to have you back Rubi
Peach x"
Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!
I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well  |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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Three of my closest friends know, and two of them I let them know details of where I’m going and check in with them. But I don’t discuss the finer details, they ask if I’ve had a good time and we leave it there.
Oh and I have a fab friend who I discussed an issue with, that I had on a recent meet. So that’s probably the most detail I’ve ever gone in to about a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm most definitely a listener and gatherer of chatter but also very very open about our lifestyle and choices! My family have their ideas but haven't asked and most of my friends know either through me talking or them guessing! Apparently they wouldn't expect anything else haha!
Good to have you back Rubi
Peach x
Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!
I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well "
Nobody ever believes I'm innocent...
Peach x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm most definitely a listener and gatherer of chatter but also very very open about our lifestyle and choices! My family have their ideas but haven't asked and most of my friends know either through me talking or them guessing! Apparently they wouldn't expect anything else haha!
Good to have you back Rubi
Peach x
Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!
I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well
Nobody ever believes I'm innocent...
Peach x
I wonder why x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm most definitely a listener and gatherer of chatter but also very very open about our lifestyle and choices! My family have their ideas but haven't asked and most of my friends know either through me talking or them guessing! Apparently they wouldn't expect anything else haha!
Good to have you back Rubi
Peach x
Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!
I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well
Nobody ever believes I'm innocent...
Peach x
I wonder why x
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Cheeky
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm most definitely a listener and gatherer of chatter but also very very open about our lifestyle and choices! My family have their ideas but haven't asked and most of my friends know either through me talking or them guessing! Apparently they wouldn't expect anything else haha!
Good to have you back Rubi
Peach x
Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!
I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well
Nobody ever believes I'm innocent...
Peach x
I wonder why x
Cheeky
Peach x"
You look innocent, you act innocent. People really must get the wrong end of the stick.
I'd like to give you the wrong end of the stick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. I wouldn't give someone that power over me.
It's all fine and dandy when things are going great when everyone is getting on. But, as i've seen on Fab, things can go tits up quite quickly and i don't want my Fab life used against me by some malicious twit with an axe to grind. |
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"Do you have anyone you talk to about your swinging exploits? How detailed do you go?
I'm guessing it's a bit different for couples as you have each other but do you tell friends too? Just for a different perspective or to share experiences?
I realised recently I seem to have become a listener. I hear a lot of naughty secrets and know some people's sex lives quite intimately! "
Yes I think that it’s good that people do ..... I think that I have and thankful too - they know who they are xxx |
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