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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? " I have no idea why that would be, as if you were local to me I would at least send a wink  | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! "cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics "But you expect them to accommodate you????  | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? " Maybe sort out your profile do a search on profile advice tbh i would pass you buy with your lack of profile although love the body show it off more xx | |||
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? I have no idea why that would be, as if you were local to me I would at least send a wink " then see a face pic and block me haha | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics "The swingers use this and go to events. Because of the best quantity of penis wankers you are just 1 penis in a sea of penis | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? Maybe sort out your profile do a search on profile advice tbh i would pass you buy with your lack of profile although love the body show it off more xx" it just attacts the attention if morr gay men | |||
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" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!" wondering why myself? | |||
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? Maybe sort out your profile do a search on profile advice tbh i would pass you buy with your lack of profile although love the body show it off more xx it just attacts the attention if morr gay men" You can block single guys from messaging you. Then you can "sell" yourself as someone worth meeting to women. | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
a hotel?"lol Sorry you got the profile bit in as I was replying x you don't have to let anyone into your home but least let them know you can accomadate when get to know if you were closer i woukd love reg meets with you x | |||
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"Yah.... Sell yourself in everything about you... Except sex and penis... They want to know what makes you different. " im a weirdo | |||
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"And before you all say make an effort in your profile i have tried it makes no diff all i get is gays offering me blow jobs" Well then block men! | |||
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" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here! wondering why myself?" Well you have your answer right there | |||
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"It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis.... Acommodate" Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them! | |||
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"Firstly block men from messaging you, that will solve that problem. It must be frustrating I can understand that. This is meant to be fun and if you can't see the point you might need to step back for a bit or rethink your approach. Have you tried organised socials or clubs? " yea i need to actually talk to someone to arrange that lol | |||
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" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!" I am forced here cause i just cant stop checking out all u sexy fuckers on here lol | |||
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" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!" I know, some act like it's mandatory, so why make an effort. After all, where all waiting legs akimbo awaiting all comers...or should that be cummers!  | |||
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"Acommodate Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!" Well i can't accomodate so you miss out really. | |||
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? " if you don't want attention from men tv/ts then use ur filters | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! "No info = no meet | |||
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" They want to know what makes you different. im a weirdo "Yeah, we're all weirdos though. | |||
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"Firstly block men from messaging you, that will solve that problem. It must be frustrating I can understand that. This is meant to be fun and if you can't see the point you might need to step back for a bit or rethink your approach. Have you tried organised socials or clubs? yea i need to actually talk to someone to arrange that lol" You're just making excuses now though aren't you. What do you mean you need to actually talk to someone to arrange that,yes of course you do the person who is arranging the organised social or the club owner,both should be pretty easy to talk to. | |||
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"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !" go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites " Well if this site is so bad and you can't be bothered to use the tools the site gives you, why should any woman bother contacting you? At the moment it would appear that you think so much of yourself that a couple of pictures of your body are enough to get women dropping their knickers for you, it really isn't that easy. | |||
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"Yah.... Sell yourself in everything about you... Except sex and penis... They want to know what makes you different. " | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites " Hypocrites because it's supposed to be a site where people have sex yet no one is having sex with you? | |||
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"Acommodate Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them! Well i can't accomodate so you miss out really." nope. i dont accommodate till i get to know someone here and i have never have issues | |||
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"It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis.... Acommodate Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!" This! 99% of my meets were at home. In bed with one regular playmate I said we'd have to meet at his next time as my daughter was coming home from uni. He was aghast and said he didn't let people he'd met off the net into his home. I kicked him out of my house and never spoke to him again. After that I changed my meet criteria. I only meet those that accommodate in their homes too: not hotel. I assume I'm not worthy of entering your home, fine...you're not entering mine. | |||
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"Acommodate Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them! Well i can't accomodate so you miss out really." I'm gutted  . However I did say if someone "won't" not can't. | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites " And this attitude is why are you not meeting anyone | |||
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"It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis.... Acommodate Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them! This! 99% of my meets were at home. In bed with one regular playmate I said we'd have to meet at his next time as my daughter was coming home from uni. He was aghast and said he didn't let people he'd met off the net into his home. I kicked him out of my house and never spoke to him again. After that I changed my meet criteria. I only meet those that accommodate in their homes too: not hotel. I assume I'm not worthy of entering your home, fine...you're not entering mine." My sentiments exactly! | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites " A social might work well for you. People are often different in real life- more friendly as they can see your face and body language. If the site is making you feel crap it's not worth it. I think dating sites are worse. Sorry I can't help... just wanted to say I understand. x | |||
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"It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis.... Acommodate Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them! This! 99% of my meets were at home. In bed with one regular playmate I said we'd have to meet at his next time as my daughter was coming home from uni. He was aghast and said he didn't let people he'd met off the net into his home. I kicked him out of my house and never spoke to him again. After that I changed my meet criteria. I only meet those that accommodate in their homes too: not hotel. I assume I'm not worthy of entering your home, fine...you're not entering mine." dont be silly. Letting a stranger into you home is asking for trouble | |||
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"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird "You're too scared aren't you | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites " Yet you expect to get stark bollocks naked with said strangers...yep...see what you mean about hypocrites. You couldn't make this shit up!  | |||
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"Are you sending out messages or hoping they will come to you? It's a decent message that attracts my attention, couldn't care less if you have a one liner profile. Pics are good, maybe add some more and block men as several people have said" rarely send messages as they either dont get read or just get deleted. See im getting hate mail now sad individuals | |||
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"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird
You're too scared aren't you "probably but come on you have to agree its desperate. | |||
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"Firstly block men from messaging you, that will solve that problem. It must be frustrating I can understand that. This is meant to be fun and if you can't see the point you might need to step back for a bit or rethink your approach. Have you tried organised socials or clubs? yea i need to actually talk to someone to arrange that lol You're just making excuses now though aren't you. What do you mean you need to actually talk to someone to arrange that,yes of course you do the person who is arranging the organised social or the club owner,both should be pretty easy to talk to." Hmmm...still struggling to understand why the op is struggling...give me a minute... | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites Yet you expect to get stark bollocks naked with said strangers...yep...see what you mean about hypocrites. You couldn't make this shit up! "I'm thinking this thread is nothing but attention seeking... Well, good luck to him, I hope the minimal effort approach works for him... well, eventually starts working for him | |||
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"Yah.... Sell yourself in everything about you... Except sex and penis... They want to know what makes you different. " I think the profile advice may have some merit however a good profile will never change your life.I have said before on similiar threads that what you need is good friends and contacts who are genuine swingers,the only way you can do this is by visiting right socials and clubs and speaking to people,that way you eliminate the time wasters who make up the majority on here. | |||
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"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird
You're too scared aren't you probably but come on you have to agree its desperate. "It's not creepy or weird, lots of guys do it and successfully. Perhaps you should try it before you make assumptions. You never know.... | |||
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"Are you sending out messages or hoping they will come to you? It's a decent message that attracts my attention, couldn't care less if you have a one liner profile. Pics are good, maybe add some more and block men as several people have saidrarely send messages as they either dont get read or just get deleted. See im getting hate mail now sad individuals"If you get abusive mail report it. | |||
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"Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back "i really am though
Im a nice guy who has manners and respect. What more could a girl want from a meet? | |||
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" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!" This exactly, but my guess is it's an attempt to get a woman to pm him saying I'll meet you. Good luck if it works though | |||
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"Are you sending out messages or hoping they will come to you? It's a decent message that attracts my attention, couldn't care less if you have a one liner profile. Pics are good, maybe add some more and block men as several people have saidrarely send messages as they either dont get read or just get deleted. See im getting hate mail now sad individuals
If you get abusive mail report it."no point | |||
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"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird
You're too scared aren't you probably but come on you have to agree its desperate. "No it's not,this thread is desperate. At least they're getting out there. | |||
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"Asks for advice, gets it, does nothing about it "didnt ask for advice to be fair | |||
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"Btw do you all think in 10 months i havent tried filling my profile out? "Have you tried changing your postcode on your profile? That area has weird boundaries on Fab searches. If you try changing it to a few miles away it can make a big difference on searches. | |||
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"Btw do you all think in 10 months i havent tried filling my profile out? "Yes or else it would be filled out | |||
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? " It's not that easy for all the women in here either believe me | |||
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"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses." i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return | |||
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"Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back i really am though
Im a nice guy who has manners and respect. What more could a girl want from a meet?"Your profile is not written well and it doesn't say anything about you | |||
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"Asks for advice, gets it, does nothing about it didnt ask for advice to be fair "Fair enough, stay for the forums then | |||
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"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return" Some of us make an effort not excuses, realise it's not Instashag, and get plenty in return  that's why we are here, for us that is the point. | |||
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"Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back i really am though
Im a nice guy who has manners and respect. What more could a girl want from a meet?
Your profile is not written well and it doesn't say anything about you "what though? Personal info? My job? My hobbies? What? I dont know why people cant see a pic decide if they fancy the person then chat see if there's a spark and so on. Selling yourself is cringy and weird imo | |||
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"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return" There's no point whatsoever,so if it's not working for you then simply delete. Problem solved. | |||
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"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return There's no point whatsoever,so if it's not working for you then simply delete. Problem solved." paid my silver membership ao ill use it up first. Might get lucky | |||
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"Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back i really am though
Im a nice guy who has manners and respect. What more could a girl want from a meet?
Your profile is not written well and it doesn't say anything about you what though? Personal info? My job? My hobbies? What? I dont know why people cant see a pic decide if they fancy the person then chat see if there's a spark and so on. Selling yourself is cringy and weird imo"Lol that is not what I ment .but good luck | |||
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"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return There's no point whatsoever,so if it's not working for you then simply delete. Problem solved.paid my silver membership ao ill use it up first. Might get lucky" Well yeah you don't want to be wasting any of that fiver do you | |||
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"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return There's no point whatsoever,so if it's not working for you then simply delete. Problem solved.paid my silver membership ao ill use it up first. Might get lucky Well yeah you don't want to be wasting any of that fiver do you "20 quid i paid | |||
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? " You have no interests checked, and your about me is five or six words long. I think your problem starts there | |||
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"Btw do you all think in 10 months i havent tried filling my profile out? "well then if the last profile attempt didn't work... how about actually sitting down, pen and pad, and thinking about what you want to get across before typing it in..... its all about helping yourself "help yourself!"... the site gives you the tools to help yourself, for example, you complain about getting mail for guys and gay people... well the site gives you the oppotunity to block those people if you want!.... so why are you not using them? the site isn't just the be all and end all, it is part of a bigger jigsaw that you can use to stand out... so are you using them? you can be as defeatist as you want.... for suggestion after suggestion i am seeing excuse after excuse... you get one great chance to make a great first impression.... at the moment you are not screaming " fun, fun,fun!" | |||
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"This is a windup! " Got to be as he thinks his profile is good | |||
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? It's not that easy for all the women in here either believe me "Or couples x storm x | |||
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" im a weirdo "I'm weirder, but in all the best ways | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people "Where? Nasty? Are we reading the same stuff? People are being brutally honest, rather than nasty. If you don't want to help yourself to improve your chances then go. That's brutal honesty not nastiness. | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people "And highlight those who can't be arsed but expect so much. The little green arrow next to your name is a link to all your forum posts and comments. I don't think, no, scrap that, I know your attitude on this one is also not going to help your chances of meeting. | |||
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"Sundays are great in the forum. Everyone is hungover and grumpy and ready to rip the shit out of someone. They love a good rant-fest. Better than a bacon butty. "That's just what I was thinking, everyone has a sore head | |||
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"Sundays are great in the forum. Everyone is hungover and grumpy and ready to rip the shit out of someone. They love a good rant-fest. Better than a bacon butty. "Now I want a bacon butty, but I have no bacon! | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people "no... threads like bring out people who will either sugarcoat and say there there there.... or will be brutally honest and tell it like it is!! you so far have poo-poo'd every single suggestion people have put forward so far, and since you said you are not asking for advice.... then i would ask why are you here as well.... no one is holding a gun to your head making if stay if you truely feel that way..... again it comes back to helping yourself help yourself.... if you are not prepared to listen, why should others invest their time trying... sorry to rain on your pity party..... oh and please don't paint yourself as a victim.... people persecuted around the world are victims, people robbed are victims..... you are not! | |||
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Dammit, it's like subliminal messaging, now I'm definitely gonna buy bacon at the shops. | |||
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"Ooooo someone mention bacon?
Dammit, it's like subliminal messaging, now I'm definitely gonna buy bacon at the shops. "I couldn't be arsed to get out of bed, but I think I'm going to have to now to go and do the same! | |||
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"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird "Nope, a lot of people go by themselves. Not gonna lie, my first time I did go with a friend but what eased my nerves most was how nice people were. Very easy to talk to -except the occasional odd ones- but It was a fab night. And I did have fun with a few... and for my first ever club meet I was thinking 'that wasn't bad at all' lol and after that it was like chain reaction, couples in my town started noticing the veri's and within few days after I had a local meet. | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! " | |||
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"Ooooo someone mention bacon?
Dammit, it's like subliminal messaging, now I'm definitely gonna buy bacon at the shops.
I couldn't be arsed to get out of bed, but I think I'm going to have to now to go and do the same! "There's no thinking to be done, get on it. I'm out the door. My pregnant, hormonal wife say go and buy bacon. Only an insane person would argue with her. | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
"Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you? Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up? Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me | |||
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"Ooooo someone mention bacon?
Dammit, it's like subliminal messaging, now I'm definitely gonna buy bacon at the shops.
I couldn't be arsed to get out of bed, but I think I'm going to have to now to go and do the same!
There's no thinking to be done, get on it. I'm out the door. My pregnant, hormonal wife say go and buy bacon. Only an insane person would argue with her. "Why are you still on here?! Go! Go! Go! Hahaha! I'm up, I'm up! | |||
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"Triggered "And therein lies the real purpose of this thread | |||
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"You have been given some very good advice Op but have only made excuses and put up barriers to everything. Whole attitude and even post is coming across as very negative to me . As part of the target group you are trying to attract can assure you that's only going to put me off and get you precisely where you are now . Now you can blame everything else and continue saying you've already tried everything or take on board some of the valid pointers from those who had meets . Plenty of single guys get meets so step back and ask your self what they are doing different to you . If this is too much bother or effort to you then just go ..no need to make a song and dance over it . If you stay and just continue way you are the only time you are wasting is your own . Your journey on the site is only dictated by you and you alone . " they good looking haha | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?
Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?
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"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return" There is no point in you being here really.. Shut the door on the way out. | |||
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch" That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months. I just go on the pictures and the height. | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?
Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?
Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me"Because women are delicate flowers, and should not have to to have a reason as to why she can't accommodate..it's her right not to have strangers at there home if she so chooses and either way..she doesn't have to explain why..it's her call and hers alone..modern independent woman and all that (quite right too) Blokes though are dribbling sex pests and obviously have a wife if they can't accommodate and have to explain themselves thoroughly and give good account of how come they can't...bastards | |||
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months. I just go on the pictures and the height. " this
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch" I agree with you to a point, Physical attraction usually triggers that first message, Maybe they do look but your pictures are not enough for them to send a message, Having more then a couple of words on your profile might improve that | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch" Some people do understand that there's a person behind every profile. Some people are only attracted to bright objects- lots of pics and words describing sexual acts. Seems robotic to me though, like they're looking for a sex object to fulfill their fantasy and not a real person.
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch I agree with you to a point, Physical attraction usually triggers that first message, Maybe they do look but your pictures are not enough for them to send a message, Having more then a couple of words on your profile might improve that" theres a pic of.my.body and a pic to prove im who im.posting pics of. Womem dont like cock pics and im not putting my face public. So i cant see what else i can poat other than me in different poses which is pointless | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people
and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself "Still ain't got any meets though eh! | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people
and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?
Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?
Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me"Maybe because some women have had guys turn up d*unk or with out any prior arrangement because they had the horn and thought they'd be garented a shag. A lot of women for safety prefer not to accommodate or have children at home .Or they prefer to keep swinging totally separate. Some due to fact they don't want hubby walking in . What ever their reason that's up to them just same for a guy . Just more guys happy to meet women who don't accom, less women will be inclined to do that . Not double standard just fact . | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people
and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself
Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab "Yayyyy there's your reason to stay! You need yin and yang. Shite on Fab means real life will be brilliant. | |||
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch I agree with you to a point, Physical attraction usually triggers that first message, Maybe they do look but your pictures are not enough for them to send a message, Having more then a couple of words on your profile might improve thattheres a pic of.my.body and a pic to prove im who im.posting pics of. Womem dont like cock pics and im not putting my face public. So i cant see what else i can poat other than me in different poses which is pointless" Well if I was looking at a woman's profile that looked like your one I wouldn't send a message, If what you're doing isn't working change your approach to the site, People have given you loads of ways how to do that, If you don't want to change like I said before play the waiting game, | |||
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"You have been given some very good advice Op but have only made excuses and put up barriers to everything. Whole attitude and even post is coming across as very negative to me . As part of the target group you are trying to attract can assure you that's only going to put me off and get you precisely where you are now . Now you can blame everything else and continue saying you've already tried everything or take on board some of the valid pointers from those who had meets . Plenty of single guys get meets so step back and ask your self what they are doing different to you . If this is too much bother or effort to you then just go ..no need to make a song and dance over it . If you stay and just continue way you are the only time you are wasting is your own . Your journey on the site is only dictated by you and you alone . they good looking haha" That response makes no sense op. | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people
and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself
Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab "I'm so glad to hear it,so why don't you have any meets from here that we can see? How can someone do well in 'real' life,do so badly here? Oh I know the answer actually there's too many men isn't there. Thank heaven's I'm a woman | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people
and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself
Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab
Yayyyy there's your reason to stay! You need yin and yang.
Shite on Fab means real life will be brilliant. "Does that work the other way around? I fear it does | |||
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people
and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself
Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab
I'm so glad to hear it,so why don't you have any meets from here that we can see? How can someone do well in 'real' life,do so badly here?
Oh I know the answer actually there's too many men isn't there. Thank heaven's I'm a woman "see youre assuming again like as if you know me. I mean my life in general is good as in ive had a promotion and passed my driving test amd im doing a course to start a totally new career. But yea its all about sex | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?
Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?
Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me"I'm not here complaining about fab being pointless in order to get attention....
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"Women love a defeatist "its not really defeatist.... its trolling!! well he may as well go out in a blaze of glory and the green arrow will always be his memory of this occasion forever.... | |||
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months. I just go on the pictures and the height. this
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On the other hand maybe they went about things differently from many guys here. Maybe they didn't see their body/cock as being their most important or attractive attribute. Maybe they read our profile, liked what it said and chatted to us about normal things just like people do in real life. Maybe instead of being pushy, they created a rapport with us, became friends and got to the point where we met socially. Maybe they felt it important to actually get to know and trust potential partners before taking the next step and adding a physical dimension. Maybe they weren't just expecting to mailshot a couple of messages/cock shots and get a flood of offers from sexy, accommodating, females and/or couples.
If what you're doing hasn't worked either change it as advised above or give up as you're suggesting you will. Do accept though that there are far more single guys here than anyone else so yes it is tough but those guys who've been successful prove it can be done with the right approach.
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"Women love a defeatist
Yeah we love to trample them under our feet
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"Threads like this draw out the nasty people
and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself
Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab
I'm so glad to hear it,so why don't you have any meets from here that we can see? How can someone do well in 'real' life,do so badly here?
Oh I know the answer actually there's too many men isn't there. Thank heaven's I'm a woman see youre assuming again like as if you know me. I mean my life in general is good as in ive had a promotion and passed my driving test amd im doing a course to start a totally new career. But yea its all about sex "Nope I haven't a clue who you are,well done! | |||
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Have you had replies from pm's/or the forums. If you have, that's kind of what the site is for, to get you to interact.
The rest is up to you.
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months. I just go on the pictures and the height. this
Do you agree its weird to write loads of bollocks abpot yourself?
It's not weird but profile text isn't what influences my decision to meet someone either.
I go off pictures and then have further conversations with them. "and that might work for you.. (or actually may not bearing in mind what you have posted in the past under other names...) but the point is that not everyone uses the site the same way.... and that is the bit the OP seems to not understand... see... the dictionary definition of "insanity" is doing the same thing again and again and expecting a different result! so if he is doing the same thing... and the same result is happening again and again... you don't go blaming the result!.... | |||
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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months. I just go on the pictures and the height. this
Do you agree its weird to write loads of bollocks abpot yourself?
It's not weird but profile text isn't what influences my decision to meet someone either.
I go off pictures and then have further conversations with them.
and that might work for you.. (or actually may not bearing in mind what you have posted in the past under other names...)
but the point is that not everyone uses the site the same way.... and that is the bit the OP seems to not understand...
see... the dictionary definition of "insanity" is doing the same thing again and again and expecting a different result!
so if he is doing the same thing... and the same result is happening again and again... you don't go blaming the result!....
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Yeah we love to trample them under our feet
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? " Having read the advice offered and the reactions to them, I’m not sure there can actually *be* a point? | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?
Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?
Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me
Because women are delicate flowers, and should not have to to have a reason as to why she can't accommodate..it's her right not to have strangers at there home if she so chooses and either way..she doesn't have to explain why..it's her call and hers alone..modern independent woman and all that (quite right too)
Blokes though are dribbling sex pests and obviously have a wife if they can't accommodate and have to explain themselves thoroughly and give good account of how come they can't...bastards "Funny how the delicate flowers seem to be having more luck than the dribbling sex pests though....
At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly women outnumber the men massively on fab. So we naturally have more to choose from and get the luxury of being picky. It's not some massive plot to make men feel bad, it's just the reality of the site.
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? " I no how you fill op. | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites And this attitude is why are you not meeting anyone" Lol apply cold water here
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"I feel your pain. I have so many lovely ladies I would love to meet I don't have enough time. If I arranged to meet them all it would take me into the new year. Calling bullshit on all of these preunlos threads. Profiles DO work. Fab works like a dream! Women DO reply. Women DO meet. If you aren't having the time of your life on fab then YOU are doing something wrong
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" At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly women outnumber the men massively on fab. So we naturally have more to choose from and get the luxury of being picky. It's not some massive plot to make men feel bad, it's just the reality of the site. " You mean men outnumber the women massively on here! | |||
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"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? I no how you fill op." When I started here I got no replies. Got no meets. Today I am inundated. Why? Because I took the time and effort to learn what I was doing wrong and evolved as a single male. Its like deciding to learn to play a sport and without doing any training expecting to win tournaments. This is a learning process like any other. | |||
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" At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly women outnumber the men massively on fab. So we naturally have more to choose from and get the luxury of being picky. It's not some massive plot to make men feel bad, it's just the reality of the site. You mean men outnumber the women massively on here! " No. Males totally outnumber the females. Women totally outnumber the men | |||
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"I'd have to agree with a sport comparison Do you're training and learn your trade and then your laughing really isn't that difficult on here" | |||
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" At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly women outnumber the men massively on fab. So we naturally have more to choose from and get the luxury of being picky. It's not some massive plot to make men feel bad, it's just the reality of the site. You mean men outnumber the women massively on here! No. Males totally outnumber the females. Women totally outnumber the men "Haha yes that 
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"Women love a defeatist
Yeah we love to trample them under our feet
Like a herd of...something
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
"I do. But that's up to them. I know I'm not a psycho bitch who will stalk someone or turn up at their door after they tell me they don't want to see me any more. I don't know if the men I meet are the same. I can't risk someone knocking on my door to be met by my son, who wouldn't take kindly to someone stalking his mummy. | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites And this attitude is why are you not meeting anyone Lol apply cold water here
Just cos you've done some crunches doesn't mean you're going to get women throwing themselves at your feet. TBH you've been lucky to get guys offering fun. And it's a swinging site... Can you really get offended by same sex offers?"just because ive dome some crunches dont do crunches actually dont even work on my abs but haters gona hate | |||
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"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. " But you don't think it's weird to fuck a stranger? | |||
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"No face pic = no meet. Cannot accommodate = no meet. Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics
But you expect them to accommodate you????
Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?
Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?
Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me
Maybe because some women have had guys turn up d*unk or with out any prior arrangement because they had the horn and thought they'd be garented a shag.
A lot of women for safety prefer not to accommodate or have children at home .Or they prefer to keep swinging totally separate. Some due to fact they don't want hubby walking in .
What ever their reason that's up to them just same for a guy . Just more guys happy to meet women who don't accom, less women will be inclined to do that . Not double standard just fact . "Well before anyone knew HIS reason for not being able to accommodate one of the first comments that loads of people jumped on was the "cannot accommodate = no meet" Another part of this you brilliantly brought up for me, its ok for woman to say cannot accommodate because im cheating...but its not ok for a guy, good luck justifying that one I use to get properly abusive messages off some woman when i was on here a few years ago as i lived at home with my parents accusing me of being a cheater, but woman can flaunt their infidelity with no fear of judgement What if your a single dad and have kids at home? Does "cannot accommodate = no meet" still apply? What if a guy just doesnt want some woman off a swingers site to know where he lives and he is protecting himself and or his privicy? Does it apply then? Just because something is "just the way it is" doesnt mean its not a double standard | |||
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