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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Have your say in here. 
Btw this thread will probably be ignored and I have to go so will be back later
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I ignored? Yes
Do I ignore some? Sometimes
Is it deliberate? Not all the time, but I will actively ignore some
Am I bothered? Does this look like the face of concern?  |
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You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I ignored? Yes
Do I ignore some? Sometimes
Is it deliberate? Not all the time, but I will actively ignore some
Am I bothered? Does this look like the face of concern? "
*ignores*
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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago
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Welcome to fab..
It's a place full of people posting random nonsense that no one else reads or even cares about..
Still, at least you are not being ignored today.. Enjoy your 15 minutes of fab fame, that's about as long as it lasts usually.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you find yourself getting ignored on here - Yes
Do people respond to some posters and not all - some do Yes
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance - it's not ignorance and occasionally I do feel miffed!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck "
Much appreciated, it is hell.
People with no veris are like a person applying for a job where they ask for experience.
How can anyone get experience if experience if no one gives you a chance
Take care |
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If someone ignores my initial message fair enough, it's when you've been chatting to someone a while and seem to be getting on well, then they just suddenly stop! I'm old and experienced enough to know it's because they've had a better offer so I just leave it at that, but it's still crap  |
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Have your say in here.
Btw this thread will probably be ignored and I have to go so will be back later
Lol"
With the exception of 2 or 3 people, most TVs comments are skipped over. At first I thought it was just me but having spoken to a few others who fairly regularly use the forums it seems its something they have also noticed. Not sure what the reason is  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you even care??? 
I certainly don't 
Someone's going the right way for a smacked bottom
Ohhhh, when can I collect that then?  "
When would you like to collect it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The strange thing is that even the ones you think of as popular here think they always get ignored. Everyone does get ignored from time to time, especially blokes as we have to work very hard to stand out. But don't let it bother you, just crack on, and someone will notice you.
Probably? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am I ignored? Yes
Do I ignore some? Sometimes
Is it deliberate? Not all the time, but I will actively ignore some
Am I bothered? Does this look like the face of concern?
*ignores*
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Did you say something? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome to fab..
It's a place full of people posting random nonsense that no one else reads or even cares about..
Still, at least you are not being ignored today.. Enjoy your 15 minutes of fab fame, that's about as long as it lasts usually.. "
15 minutes?
Damn I've had wanks last longer than that lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here - Yes
Do people respond to some posters and not all - some do Yes
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance - it's not ignorance and occasionally I do feel miffed!
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Let it out. Shout and scream about it. We are all ears |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone ignores my initial message fair enough, it's when you've been chatting to someone a while and seem to be getting on well, then they just suddenly stop! I'm old and experienced enough to know it's because they've had a better offer so I just leave it at that, but it's still crap "
curtesy costs nothing. Neither do manners |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Have your say in here.
Btw this thread will probably be ignored and I have to go so will be back later
Lol
With the exception of 2 or 3 people, most TVs comments are skipped over. At first I thought it was just me but having spoken to a few others who fairly regularly use the forums it seems its something they have also noticed. Not sure what the reason is "
*skips*
Only kidding
I dunno why either? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People with no veris are like a person applying for a job where they ask for experience.
How can anyone get experience if experience if no one gives you a chance
Take care "
All joking aside I get ignored quite a bit but I choose to ignore the ignoring if that makes sense ... I learnt quickly that this can be very cliquey but I just jump in and post where I feel like it ... if people respond then great, but if they don't well it's their choice.
If I directly reply to someone and get ignored then that smarts a bit sometimes but hey that's people for you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Have your say in here.
Yep, I’m totally with you, the forum is very cliquey and the clique tend to acknowledge other cliques post, and no others. X
Btw this thread will probably be ignored and I have to go so will be back later
Lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck
Much appreciated, it is hell.
People with no veris are like a person applying for a job where they ask for experience.
How can anyone get experience if experience if no one gives you a chance
Take care "
Hold on a mo, you're opening post was about the forums and now it's about the site in general - that's a whole different entity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a regular forum poster, I’m fairly well known.
I post quite often and most of my posts are skipped past because they’re not inspiring posts from others.
Now and then I post something that makes someone spit their tea.
Post something that others might requote otherwise you just add your thoughts. It doesn’t mean they aren’t read and it doesn’t mean your thoughts didn’t add something to the thread.
It’s unlikely this post will be requoted but that’s fine. I had so much fun writing it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The strange thing is that even the ones you think of as popular here think they always get ignored. Everyone does get ignored from time to time, especially blokes as we have to work very hard to stand out. But don't let it bother you, just crack on, and someone will notice you.
Probably?"
Nah, I'm invisible lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes very much so. It's funny that you get ignored in front of other posters yet they blow up your inbox in private  "
Oh yeah that's a classic
Something to do with not wanting to show favouritism perhaps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See look you're not ignored at all.
Some threads fly, others don't.
I don't deliberately try to ignore, sometimes i can write something then go offline and forget where I'd been so don't reply to people who did to me.
Thick skin required |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Am I ignored? Yes
Do I ignore some? Sometimes
Is it deliberate? Not all the time, but I will actively ignore some
Am I bothered? Does this look like the face of concern?
*ignores*
Did you say something? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its a man thing on fab.. Pretty much any man says anything on here or sends a message and single women or couples tend to ignore us..
But I guess as men we are used to rejection "
No it’s not just a guy thing, Women get ignored too x |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes very much so. It's funny that you get ignored in front of other posters yet they blow up your inbox in private
Oh yeah that's a classic
Something to do with not wanting to show favouritism perhaps "
Yeah I find it highly amusing. Flirt with everyone but the one they've just fucked haha |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Post for fun, 100% not fussed if ignored, blocked, whatever. Having fun posting on the forums without taking anything seriously, it’s just the interwebs, interactions with strangers for laughs and giggles and sometimes informative swingers stuffs. Hehe!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes very much so. It's funny that you get ignored in front of other posters yet they blow up your inbox in private
Oh yeah that's a classic
Something to do with not wanting to show favouritism perhaps
Yeah I find it highly amusing. Flirt with everyone but the one they've just fucked haha "
But why would they flirt with someone they don't need to? They've fucked you, so chase is over, surely? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?"
Yes, fairly often.
"Do people respond to some posters and not all?"
Yes. And there are a few posters I avoid myself. I wouldn't say that was purposely ignoring out of any other reason other than not wanting to get drawn into negativity or a conversation where our opinions are poles apart and there will be no point.
"Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?"
Only when I am ignored for saying something nigh on identical to someone else who is quoted and responded to left, right and centre. I understand why, never having been one of the 'popular' kids, but it still rankles occasionally. We are our wealth of experiences. |
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In the short time we've been site members we've learned that the whole Fab community is awash with little cliques.
You see them all the time responding to each other but ignoring everybody else.
It's not a problem. It is what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens to everyone. Dont let it bother me. Cant be everyones cup of tea! You will meet a few poeple on here you will consider friends at some point and then you will no longer be ignored. Just takes time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I,'ve had good responses to the few threads I have started. I don't know if i am ignored or not,i'm not really bothered if I am ignored or not. Sometimes people are going to be interested in posts, sometimes not. It's not a problem XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d be surprised if even 10% of what I post is acknowledged and to be honest I’m surprised it’s that high considering the drivel I post.
Do I feel ignored? Not usually
Does it bother me? No
I do try to deliberately respond to a few people who have posted something interesting or are asking for help that have been overlooked.
I’ve never felt excluded on the forum in the four years I have been on it. I guess I just dived in and started splashing around, eventually a few have noticed me and chatted with me, a few got soaked and blocked me, and the rest probably ignore the knobhead splashing around trying to avoid getting wet |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Everyone gets ignored at some point. Yeah, sometimes it's a bit crap but honestly it's not that big a thing. Some times the posters aren't particularly friendly (understatement) and moan a heck of a lot - how are people meant to interact with that?
For most people the forums aren't to be taken too seriously. Not all posts need to be added to or commented on either. You can just leave them be, people will read them without thumbing you up.
OP, you ignore posters on here. You've responded to some posters and not others on threads. Are you ignorant OP?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the short time we've been site members we've learned that the whole Fab community is awash with little cliques.
You see them all the time responding to each other but ignoring everybody else.
It's not a problem. It is what it is."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My posts are just so good that no one can think of a good enough reply, they'd only embarrass themselves. The only explanation I can think of as to why it looks like I get ignored. Which I don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some days you’re the lamp post other days you’re the dog ! Just the way it is mate
Did you just call me a dog? 
Or a lamp post ! Take your pick "
I'm ignoring that remark. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a regular forum poster, I’m fairly well known.
I post quite often and most of my posts are skipped past because they’re not inspiring posts from others.
Now and then I post something that makes someone spit their tea.
Post something that others might requote otherwise you just add your thoughts. It doesn’t mean they aren’t read and it doesn’t mean your thoughts didn’t add something to the thread.
It’s unlikely this post will be requoted but that’s fine. I had so much fun writing it "
I enjoyed reading it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a regular forum poster, I’m fairly well known.
I post quite often and most of my posts are skipped past because they’re not inspiring posts from others.
Now and then I post something that makes someone spit their tea.
Post something that others might requote otherwise you just add your thoughts. It doesn’t mean they aren’t read and it doesn’t mean your thoughts didn’t add something to the thread.
It’s unlikely this post will be requoted but that’s fine. I had so much fun writing it
I enjoyed reading it "
Cheers!
You still don’t get to whip me.  |
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Have your say in here.
Btw this thread will probably be ignored and I have to go so will be back later
Lol
With the exception of 2 or 3 people, most TVs comments are skipped over. At first I thought it was just me but having spoken to a few others who fairly regularly use the forums it seems its something they have also noticed. Not sure what the reason is "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Yep.
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Yep.
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Nope.
The people that have met at social gatherings tend to group together and ignore people out of their circles. They natter together because they have a connection. Plus people who have been on here like forever, also know what each other eats for breakfast, so they have a connection and natter together. Just try to enjoy the banter and don't sweat the small stuff |
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If anyone wants attention, they will post a "Look at me" type thread, which to be honest, all threads really are. Sometimes you will get the required response, at othertimes things don't go according to plan, i.e. it's a shit thread that nobody is interested in, or you just posted it at the wrong time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a regular forum poster, I’m fairly well known.
I post quite often and most of my posts are skipped past because they’re not inspiring posts from others.
Now and then I post something that makes someone spit their tea.
Post something that others might requote otherwise you just add your thoughts. It doesn’t mean they aren’t read and it doesn’t mean your thoughts didn’t add something to the thread.
It’s unlikely this post will be requoted but that’s fine. I had so much fun writing it
I enjoyed reading it
Cheers!
You still don’t get to whip me. "
Ffs go and bump that thread up.. I bloody enjoyed that |
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"Yes very much so. It's funny that you get ignored in front of other posters yet they blow up your inbox in private
Yes that's my norm. No one wants to be seen agreeing with me. Ever
Amuses the hell outta me "
I agree that no one ever wants to be seen agreeing with you, this is a one off exception btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Yep.
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Yep.
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Nope.
The people that have met at social gatherings tend to group together and ignore people out of their circles. They natter together because they have a connection. Plus people who have been on here like forever, also know what each other eats for breakfast, so they have a connection and natter together. Just try to enjoy the banter and don't sweat the small stuff "
I don't have breakfast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Yep.
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Yep.
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Nope.
The people that have met at social gatherings tend to group together and ignore people out of their circles. They natter together because they have a connection. Plus people who have been on here like forever, also know what each other eats for breakfast, so they have a connection and natter together. Just try to enjoy the banter and don't sweat the small stuff
I don't have breakfast "
Bloody lunch then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes very much so. It's funny that you get ignored in front of other posters yet they blow up your inbox in private
Yes that's my norm. No one wants to be seen agreeing with me. Ever
Amuses the hell outta me
I agree that no one ever wants to be seen agreeing with you, this is a one off exception btw "
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We're constantly ignored on the forums but it certainly doesn't bother us. Sometimes we're a bit naughty and post a controversial thread which will always get a wide response, just for entertainment purposes.
All forums can be a bit cliquey. Nature of the beast. Some people regularly go to alot of clubs or spend every waking minute on here. But yes we're all human and its nice to get a response. Even if its not an agreeing one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're constantly ignored on the forums but it certainly doesn't bother us. Sometimes we're a bit naughty and post a controversial thread which will always get a wide response, just for entertainment purposes.
All forums can be a bit cliquey. Nature of the beast. Some people regularly go to alot of clubs or spend every waking minute on here. But yes we're all human and its nice to get a response. Even if its not an agreeing one."
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're constantly ignored on the forums but it certainly doesn't bother us. Sometimes we're a bit naughty and post a controversial thread which will always get a wide response, just for entertainment purposes.
All forums can be a bit cliquey. Nature of the beast. Some people regularly go to alot of clubs or spend every waking minute on here. But yes we're all human and its nice to get a response. Even if its not an agreeing one.
I agree "
Sometimes it's aggressive on here and that really makes me guffaw .. pathetic keyboard warriors |
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"We're constantly ignored on the forums but it certainly doesn't bother us. Sometimes we're a bit naughty and post a controversial thread which will always get a wide response, just for entertainment purposes.
All forums can be a bit cliquey. Nature of the beast. Some people regularly go to alot of clubs or spend every waking minute on here. But yes we're all human and its nice to get a response. Even if its not an agreeing one.
I agree "
Theres also no notification system on the forum when you're quoted so if you post on a few threads you can easily overlook a response aimed at you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Yep.
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Yep.
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Nope.
The people that have met at social gatherings tend to group together and ignore people out of their circles. They natter together because they have a connection. Plus people who have been on here like forever, also know what each other eats for breakfast, so they have a connection and natter together. Just try to enjoy the banter and don't sweat the small stuff
I don't have breakfast
Bloody lunch then "
Been know to skip that too...see your already getting to know me |
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"We're constantly ignored on the forums but it certainly doesn't bother us. Sometimes we're a bit naughty and post a controversial thread which will always get a wide response, just for entertainment purposes.
All forums can be a bit cliquey. Nature of the beast. Some people regularly go to alot of clubs or spend every waking minute on here. But yes we're all human and its nice to get a response. Even if its not an agreeing one.
I agree
Sometimes it's aggressive on here and that really makes me guffaw .. pathetic keyboard warriors "
We've been the brunt of it a few times. Quickly learnt humour is read well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lol I recognised you Op so checked your profile says I messaged you 3 months ago, you haven’t messaged me so can only think you ignored me, How rude "
Apologies I never saw said message  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Yep.
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Yep.
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Nope.
The people that have met at social gatherings tend to group together and ignore people out of their circles. They natter together because they have a connection. Plus people who have been on here like forever, also know what each other eats for breakfast, so they have a connection and natter together. Just try to enjoy the banter and don't sweat the small stuff
I don't have breakfast
Bloody lunch then
Been know to skip that too...see your already getting to know me "
It's not healthy to skip meals!
Shall we form a Clique and ignore all the others |
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Yep.
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Yep.
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Nope.
The people that have met at social gatherings tend to group together and ignore people out of their circles. They natter together because they have a connection. Plus people who have been on here like forever, also know what each other eats for breakfast, so they have a connection and natter together. Just try to enjoy the banter and don't sweat the small stuff
I don't have breakfast
Bloody lunch then
Been know to skip that too...see your already getting to know me
It's not healthy to skip meals!
Shall we form a Clique and ignore all the others "
It would only be a clique if you're not in it. Otherwise its invisible. You wouldn't realise you were in it once you joined |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes very much so. It's funny that you get ignored in front of other posters yet they blow up your inbox in private
Oh yeah that's a classic
Something to do with not wanting to show favouritism perhaps "
Yep this makes me smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Yep.
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Yep.
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Nope.
The people that have met at social gatherings tend to group together and ignore people out of their circles. They natter together because they have a connection. Plus people who have been on here like forever, also know what each other eats for breakfast, so they have a connection and natter together. Just try to enjoy the banter and don't sweat the small stuff
I don't have breakfast
Bloody lunch then
Been know to skip that too...see your already getting to know me
It's not healthy to skip meals!
Shall we form a Clique and ignore all the others "
I know but it was to loose a couple of stones....yeah when the feck not..we can be all cliquey |
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Have your say in here.
Btw this thread will probably be ignored and I have to go so will be back later
Lol"
Aww u ok hun?
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What I meant to say earlier, was if I posted on a Kiss, Fuck, Murder with a pitchfork thread (which I avoid like the plague), I would most likely be overlooked, but if I were to offer copious amounts of cake on another thread, then......
We're not fickle on here really
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"What I meant to say earlier, was if I posted on a Kiss, Fuck, Murder with a pitchfork thread (which I avoid like the plague), I would most likely be overlooked, but if I were to offer copious amounts of cake on another thread, then......
We're not fickle on here really
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Ironically you don't get ignored on an I'm ignored post. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"lol I recognised you Op so checked your profile says I messaged you 3 months ago, you haven’t messaged me so can only think you ignored me, How rude "
Oooh do you need some water for that burn op? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"lol I recognised you Op so checked your profile says I messaged you 3 months ago, you haven’t messaged me so can only think you ignored me, How rude
Oooh do you need some water for that burn op? "
Nah, just a back rub will do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still haven't had a reply.....
A reply about what?"
Scroll up ^^ way up!
I asked you whether you were talking about being ignored on the site in general or the forums...? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Still haven't had a reply.....
A reply about what?
Scroll up ^^ way up!
I asked you whether you were talking about being ignored on the site in general or the forums...?"
A bit of both really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still haven't had a reply.....
A reply about what?
Scroll up ^^ way up!
I asked you whether you were talking about being ignored on the site in general or the forums...?
A bit of both really. "
Who said that |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck "
How true!!!
A few years back when I joined, there was a broad range of "characters", a lot of whom have gone their own ways.
That eclectic range if views, styles etc has gone and replaced by what has been said above.
Yes, people are ignored on here if you don't fit within the "cliquey" style.
That's why I don't appear on here so often. I know of others who avoid the Forums like the plague. |
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck
How true!!!
A few years back when I joined, there was a broad range of "characters", a lot of whom have gone their own ways.
That eclectic range if views, styles etc has gone and replaced by what has been said above.
Yes, people are ignored on here if you don't fit within the "cliquey" style.
That's why I don't appear on here so often. I know of others who avoid the Forums like the plague."
20 to 30,000+ on fab at any one time. Its looks like the forum users are a tiny percentage of that. |
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck "
Haha! Tis a bit cliquey sometimes. Most people are cool though.
They may close my thread but they’ll never take my FREEDOM! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck
How true!!!
A few years back when I joined, there was a broad range of "characters", a lot of whom have gone their own ways.
That eclectic range if views, styles etc has gone and replaced by what has been said above.
Yes, people are ignored on here if you don't fit within the "cliquey" style.
That's why I don't appear on here so often. I know of others who avoid the Forums like the plague."
I like you. I worried about you when you had crap going on at work. x
I think it's been the same in the 7 years I've been on here. Sometimes it's friendlier than others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think they're ignoring me as such, they just don't like me cos I say stupid shit. 
Stop saying stupid shit please!
Who doesn't like you ? I'm available as a hit granny for a heavy fee ?"
I owe you a Victoria sponge with a kilo of whipped cream. You cheer me up Granny. I can't do a hit, they're entitled to not like me but thank you.
However you could flick the arm of the woman ignoring her little girl in this cafe I'm sat in. She looks really sad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Have your say in here.
Btw this thread will probably be ignored and I have to go so will be back later
Lol"
Eh sorry? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck "
Haha love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck
Haha love it "
How's it going mate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck
Haha love it
How's it going mate?"
Im ok ta,and yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are not alone OP
There are what we call the forum elite who blow smoke up each other and give each other verifications.
We get ignored and have threads turn into a witch hunt on regular occasions.
And this on an “open minded” swingers site.
It must be hell as a single guy on here
We wish you luck
Haha love it
How's it going mate?
Im ok ta,and yourself?"
Pretty fecking good mate |
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A different mind set and range of interpretations is needed when you are using fab.
Reinterpret ignored, to mean something else instead that doesn't knock you. Likewise rejections.
Those who send the most messages likely get the most rejection - all things being equal. But they also likely get the most meets. If you want to succeed them you have to use rejections to improve your resolve and effectiveness. Otherwise consider the alternatives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes very much so. It's funny that you get ignored in front of other posters yet they blow up your inbox in private "
Snap!
I have experienced that with a few people. I know why they do it, but after a while I just remove them from friend list.
Nobody wants to be seen engaging with a headless suit in public.
That would be crazy |
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
Have your say in here.
Btw this thread will probably be ignored and I have to go so will be back later
Lol"
Yes at times
Yes at times
No bcz most i wouldn't meet anyway |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you find yourself getting ignored on here?
Yes.
Do people respond to some posters and not all?
Yes.
I'm guilty of it myself on occasion.
Do you feel annoyed at the ignorance?
No. If it bothered me, I would have stopped posting ages ago.
I don't take the forums seriously or use them to meet people. It's just bit of light entertainment and a way to pass some time.
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