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Skirt club? For bi-curious ladies only
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To just Bi curious fems, have you heard of or have been to Skirt club.
Came across it in a search and seems very intriguing for those wanting to but have not yet had the joy of being with a woman.
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I never heard of it also, kind of stumbled across it and think this type of thing should be more of a thing for us bi curious/ bi sexual ladies who feel swing clubs are to overwhelming.
Definitely will be looking more into it! |
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"Looks like a lot of faff to me  "
It may be, like a lot of sites I've look at lately but no harm having a nosey about it and seeing the options i guess.
Finding that losing the bi-curious badge is harder than I thought. Most women don't want to be the experiential one for 1st timers which I totally respect and understand. Leaves a lack of options for us "virgins" i guess  |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Looks like a lot of faff to me
It may be, like a lot of sites I've look at lately but no harm having a nosey about it and seeing the options i guess.
Finding that losing the bi-curious badge is harder than I thought. Most women don't want to be the experiential one for 1st timers which I totally respect and understand. Leaves a lack of options for us "virgins" i guess "
Would love to pm you |
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"Looks like a lot of faff to me
It may be, like a lot of sites I've look at lately but no harm having a nosey about it and seeing the options i guess.
Finding that losing the bi-curious badge is harder than I thought. Most women don't want to be the experiential one for 1st timers which I totally respect and understand. Leaves a lack of options for us "virgins" i guess
Would love to pm you"
You're more than welcome to x |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"Looks like a lot of faff to me
It may be, like a lot of sites I've look at lately but no harm having a nosey about it and seeing the options i guess.
Finding that losing the bi-curious badge is harder than I thought. Most women don't want to be the experiential one for 1st timers which I totally respect and understand. Leaves a lack of options for us "virgins" i guess
Would love to pm you
You're more than welcome to x "
I can't; I'm out of your age range..  |
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over a year ago
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It would be great to learn and explore with someone who is new and stumble through it together. Id feel a little silly with an experienced woman cause i wont have much idea of what to do |
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"It would be great to learn and explore with someone who is new and stumble through it together. Id feel a little silly with an experienced woman cause i wont have much idea of what to do"
Exactly the same for me! I'd like a novice like me too that way if any mistakes or fumbles are made it could be a laugh off situation and a learning curve and move on, rather than feel like a complete twat and shy away |
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"It would be great to learn and explore with someone who is new and stumble through it together. Id feel a little silly with an experienced woman cause i wont have much idea of what to do
Exactly the same for me! I'd like a novice like me too that way if any mistakes or fumbles are made it could be a laugh off situation and a learning curve and move on, rather than feel like a complete twat and shy away "
Yup exactly! Ive found a few profiles that say they dont want bi curious new women, they want one who knows what they are doing. We have to learn somewhere dont we! |
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"It would be great to learn and explore with someone who is new and stumble through it together. Id feel a little silly with an experienced woman cause i wont have much idea of what to do
Exactly the same for me! I'd like a novice like me too that way if any mistakes or fumbles are made it could be a laugh off situation and a learning curve and move on, rather than feel like a complete twat and shy away
Yup exactly! Ive found a few profiles that say they dont want bi curious new women, they want one who knows what they are doing. We have to learn somewhere dont we!"
Amen sista! lol but jeez how will we learn if no one is willing 
Ah to be forever curious it seems  |
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"It sounds like a good idea to me. Personally, if it’s one on one I’m not so bothered about it being a woman’s first time but when it’s as part of a mf couple that always sits uneasy with me."
Could i ask why? Just out of curiosity as thats what our dynamic is?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess if it would put your mind at ease. I don't know, we all had a first time.
I've been the f in mff with varying levels of experience. It's incredubly important for me to be desired by (and desire) both parties. Sometimes there's a sense of just ticking a box.
I think it's sometimes forgotten that when you finish, you're going home alone, leaving behind a cozy couple with a fantasy fulfilled. My "aftercare" needs are higher with a couple than a 1 to 1 meet! |
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"Could i ask why? Just out of curiosity as thats what our dynamic is? "
As Jenny says, it’s because it can often feel like an after thought or there’s the danger of it feeling performative for the guy. Plus, sex between two women is a beautiful thing in its own right. If you’re interested in women sexually I think some time and space should be made for that. Just my preference  |
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"Could i ask why? Just out of curiosity as thats what our dynamic is?
As Jenny says, it’s because it can often feel like an after thought or there’s the danger of it feeling performative for the guy. Plus, sex between two women is a beautiful thing in its own right. If you’re interested in women sexually I think some time and space should be made for that. Just my preference "
Thats fair enough. Theres nothing i wont do without my partner being there so its kinda of a no go it just being me with a woman. But we are very happy to spend time before and after with whoever it may be. Also parnter would be happy to just watch and not take part but then people dont want to feel like they are having to perform for the guy? Its a difficult situation to be in. I think the best bet would be in a club and then theres less pressure ect x thank you for the insight! |
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I would have no problem being the first for a bi-curious lady, but do understand why single ladies wouldn't want to be the first for the female half of a couple.
Most single ladies want a fully inclusive experience, not to be a Guinea Pig. Especially if the lady decides she doesn't like women after all, or has agreed just to keep hubby happy.
On this basis, if the skirt club thing does exist, it might be a good idea.
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I’ve heard of skirt club, never been, but there are a lot of swingers clubs that do ladies only nights, or ladies only areas in the club. I’ve been to Cupids and La chambre ones- I do love playing with other bi ladies - curious or experienced, so long as they want to do it it’s all good
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
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How do you 'learn' to be bisexual?
You either are or your not in my opinion.
I was never taught or indeed practiced at being bisexual. I just am.
I'm confused (a permanent state for me these days). |
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