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Do guys think less of women on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Say your average guy with a busy lifestyle or job, joins here to see what it's about, unaware of the forums and just seeing the site for what it is. Many women with pictures of their tits and fanny hanging out, how likely would you be to consider dating one of these women or are we viewed as non date material because we're on here.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In all honesty, and this is not being said just for effect, I certainly don't think any less of anyone (regardless of gender) just because they are on this site - why would I? I'm on it after all!!

I may however think less of them if I find them to be a complete arse, or have a personality that is repellent etc - but that would be the same anywhere in the world, not just because they are on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd absolutely date someone from this site, infact, I'd still date her now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are hoping for a lot.

But I have had guys that would meet me ( when I was on as a single) but then said they didn't want a veri as they didnt want others to know they had met a woman like me.

There are a lot that would hate their wife/gf to behave like some on here do.. but obviously with so many swinging couples many that dont think like that too.

Overheard a convo in a cafe earlier. Group of builders talking about the "slapper " up the road who has supposedly had sex with 10 men in the past two years... the general convo was they wanted to have a go but we're also demeaning about being such a loose woman.

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By *eorgetaylor200Man over a year ago

Southend

I wouldn't, not do I think any less. Perhaps before social media really picked up this may have looked odd, but people are posting fancy photos of themselves on other sites anyway. What difference does it make if it's their private parts?

Being open isn't a bad thing, in my mind. I do nudism/naturism where I can, so for me nudity isn't something to be shameful about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've ended up in relationships with women from sites like this before. Personally I don't think any less of women on here, if anything I'm impressed by their confidence in posting sexy pics and going out and looking for what they want. And the forum ladies are a cut above the rest in my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

honesty, people treat people with less value nowadays and on the net too many keyboard warriors and people thinking its Ok to abuse people or treat them like shit

and its men and women not just men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had some great meets here and for me it's definitely not just about the sex with a woman on here.

There has to been a connection that develops to get the most out off it.

Had one off quickies and they are not for me.

Sex is part of the package but it doesn't do it if I felt I couldn't meet for socials too,to build on it

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By *eady and Willing 9Man over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Only way i think less of anyone on here is when see that they've slept with folk who i wouldn't touch with someone else's cock,never mind my own. Apart from that fact then Yeah,i'd date someone as we could do this together. How can you say otherwise if you're on here yourself already. Would be a bit hypercrtical wouldn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The way I see this site is it's a sex site so people's pictures are going to be of a sexual nature, it's not Facebook never will be, I treat women on here like I would treat them if i met them in a bar because they are still a human being and deserve respect. I would genuinely date a woman off here. I would find it quite hypocritical of myself to say no I wouldn't when everyone on here was something in common that's this place and they like sex so to date someone on here could have some major advantages compared to a normal relationship away from here

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By *rladytoyMan over a year ago

bournemouth

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

Unless very extreme then it would make me more likely to date them, as would be more comfortable exploring with them ect. Iv met so many girls which i liked but how do you ask, oh before we get serious, do u like this that or the other ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

Better chance than vanilla to be honest. I’m a man who enjoys company but equally enjoys my own space, I can’t seem to find anyone in vanilla life who enjoys me without feeling like my time is an entitlement. Probably just a bad run of it but even so, I have a lot of kinks, many of which one person alone could not fulfil. I like to openness most people show on here and the level of comfort they have in what they want and to me thats the trump card. As long as it’s an agreed lifestyle on both parts and it was a relationship that has a reciprocated amount of feelings and such how could it be any different. Besides which I treat people with the same amount of respect they show me, their lifestyle choices are not my concern and hypothetically entering a relationship through here I’d like to think you know what you’re signing up for sexually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive had guys tell me im not date material because im on here and find me intimidating.

Good enough to fuck though.

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By *ruesome-twosomeCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

We actually met on here so no I wouldn't think any differently of a single woman on here why should it be ok for a man to be on her but not a woman.

And at the least is shows you both have similar sexual tastes so less chance of disappointment in that department hahaha

Op would you date a man from here ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had guys tell me im not date material because im on here and find me intimidating.

Good enough to fuck though.

and yet they are on here LOL

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple over a year ago

bedford

I don't think any of it for anyone on here, I'm old and wise enough to have experienced what life throws at people. Much better to be on here having fun and enjoying your time while you have. We were given body parts to use them , think people should be worried more about religious freaks of all faiths or paedophilia rapist and any other that want to hurt people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had guys tell me im not date material because im on here and find me intimidating.

Good enough to fuck though.

I've been told similar in the past... X luckily Mr doesn't think like that. In fact I'm sure he thinks I'm to tame theas days

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Genuinely I don't think of them as any different.

We are all simply open minded and honest about what makes us tick.

Why should that be direspected.

I treat everyone the same regardless of colour, religion, politics, sexual orientation or kink.

If you're not a dick we'll get along.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just seems like it's more acceptable for a man to be on here than a woman.

Like the men that marry nice but secretly shag nasty when they should just make nasty the wifey in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think less of anyone on here... in fact I admire people more so as being liberated and open brings so much more pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met my mrs on here as a single. We weren't looking for a relationship it just happened. So do I think any less of the women on FAB no, why should I, they are confident they know what they want and don't want. Are they any more promiscuous than the women falling out of bars and having one nighters with anyone they meet I don't think so, they are actually more fussy because they know exactly who they want.

It's a site just like any other only perhaps people can be honest with what they like and don't like instead of hiding it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think ‘sometimes’ men think they want someone who enjoys this lifestyle but the reality is, some are threatened by having a relationship with someone in the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a male speaking: Nah. They're empowered, they can do what they want, freely, subverting society's traditional view of them. Given the market forces at play, they will no doubt attract more attention here than they do in the real world, and that raises their confidence, and experience.

By asking this question, it fits within a broader patriarchal narrative - why does it matter what men "think" of women?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the stigma of women's sexuality has lifted massively. The fact it was there in the first place is shit.

If a woman is comfortable with herself to be here and have pics up who is anyone to pass judgement? We're all sexual beings let's not discriminate.

Though I do recall a great saying from the whole "man fucks many women=Legend and woman fucks many men=Slut days..

"A key that can open many doors is a Master key whereas a door that can be opened by many keys is no good at all."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes I would date someone from here but with us being mutually exclusive to each other.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

By the way OP, you’re gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just seems like it's more acceptable for a man to be on here than a woman.

Like the men that marry nice but secretly shag nasty when they should just make nasty the wifey in the first place!"

I think that would be only if the woman allowed it to be that way.

Still it wouldn't be for me...and I'm single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I would date someone from here but with us being mutually exclusive to each other. "
so you wouldn't share your partner?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think the stigma of women's sexuality has lifted massively. The fact it was there in the first place is shit.

If a woman is comfortable with herself to be here and have pics up who is anyone to pass judgement? We're all sexual beings let's not discriminate.

Though I do recall a great saying from the whole "man fucks many women=Legend and woman fucks many men=Slut days..

"A key that can open many doors is a Master key whereas a door that can be opened by many keys is no good at all."

You think the stigma has lifted?

Not from where I'm standing it hasnt!! Sexism and double standards are rife. Even on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I would date someone from here but with us being mutually exclusive to each other. "

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutey not. 90% of the women i have spoken to on here are smart,funny and so much fun to be around because there not shy about saying what they want. And the fact i can be who i want to be with out being judged for having a high sex drive or a dirty mouth is so liberating. So i say to all you women out the BRAVO keep being true to your self...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You think the stigma has lifted?

Not from where I'm standing it hasnt!! Sexism and double standards are rife. Even on here"

Lifted massively**

Its all an abuse of power to suppress the feminine energy.

Don't let it!

You go girls haha

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

Since joining this site I honestly think different about people in general, which has been negative. Totally scarred my views on what constitutes relationships too. I was grown up to respect women (my mother was a strong woman) but since joining I'm not sure that respect still holds. But if men can are seen as studs when they fuck hundreds of people, then why can't women? Do what you're comfortable with is my motto as long as no one is purposefully getting hurt. No I wouldn't consider dating anyone (male or female) off this site, I couldn't trust them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You think the stigma has lifted?

Not from where I'm standing it hasnt!! Sexism and double standards are rife. Even on here

Lifted massively**

Its all an abuse of power to suppress the feminine energy.

Don't let it!

You go girls haha"

No. Its because a sexually liberated, experienced woman is a threat to men with fragile egos

Ive had first hand experience of it.

To be fair though, men who are intimidated by my sexual confidence, arent the kind of men that would do it for me anyway.

I need a man who knows who he is, and has a strong sense of self

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I would date someone from here but with us being mutually exclusive to each other. "

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I wouldn't consider dating anyone (male or female) off this site, I couldn't trust them."

Same here. I just wouldn't be able to trust a man i met on here, at all. That may be my issue, but it's an issue i couldn't get over.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is based on my experience of forum posts which obviously doesn't equate to everyone on site!

I believe men generally join here out of sexual curiosity,and on first arriving it's a complete contrast to your classic porn site. It's full of people wanting to shag and talk sex and show pictures! Then reality bites. The people actually have to be interested in you, you have competitors, it takes effort and doesn't just happen when horny and surprise surprise you find yourself in normal life situations with regards to relations. Oddly enough some folk get angry at that!

Would I look at people on here as relationship material? That's so subjective and no reason why not BUT...I hate to say it, but there appear to be a lot of damaged and bitter people here at times and I do wonder what drew them here in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think to be a single lady on site you need to be happy with who you are and what you are looking for ?

Also have thick skin for some of the idiots who hangout on site seeming to get off by insulting and generally abusing the lady for being here whilst still trying to get them to meet ?

My partner has had some messages that are laughable because she has shown me ? Without anyone there could be quite hurtful !!

So as a guy I have to respect the strength of any lady on site and why should having good fun and sex be looked at differently between the sexes ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In all honesty, and this is not being said just for effect, I certainly don't think any less of anyone (regardless of gender) just because they are on this site - why would I? I'm on it after all!!

Why he said!!

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

There is some absolute beauties on this site and I would happily date a few “like normal dating”

I think the woman and men on here are just saying and doing what people darent do in real life

I for one don’t think any less of you lovely lot x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" This is based on my experience of forum posts which obviously doesn't equate to everyone on site!

There are alot of damaged and bitter people in the outside world too

Alot of people out there are living a lie

At least here, people have SOME balls to be a tiny bit real

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

" This is based on my experience of forum posts which obviously doesn't equate to everyone on site!

There are alot of damaged and bitter people in the outside world too

Alot of people out there are living a lie

At least here, people have SOME balls to be a tiny bit real"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You think the stigma has lifted?

Not from where I'm standing it hasnt!! Sexism and double standards are rife. Even on here

Lifted massively**

Its all an abuse of power to suppress the feminine energy.

Don't let it!

You go girls haha

No. Its because a sexually liberated, experienced woman is a threat to men with fragile egos

Ive had first hand experience of it.

To be fair though, men who are intimidated by my sexual confidence, arent the kind of men that would do it for me anyway.

I need a man who knows who he is, and has a strong sense of self"

That's pretty much what I meant by its all an abuse of power from the male side to suppress the power of woman.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!

Lilith is an idol haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

TROLLOPS!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You think the stigma has lifted?

Not from where I'm standing it hasnt!! Sexism and double standards are rife. Even on here

Lifted massively**

Its all an abuse of power to suppress the feminine energy.

Don't let it!

You go girls haha

No. Its because a sexually liberated, experienced woman is a threat to men with fragile egos

Ive had first hand experience of it.

To be fair though, men who are intimidated by my sexual confidence, arent the kind of men that would do it for me anyway.

I need a man who knows who he is, and has a strong sense of self

That's pretty much what I meant by its all an abuse of power from the male side to suppress the power of woman.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!

Lilith is an idol haha

Hell hath no fury, indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's like the show naked attraction. You get to see everything before you meet

And when all said and done its a swingers/sex site so you should know what it's is. It's breaks down barriers. And why should I think less of anyone who is brave enough to bare all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"TROLLOPS!!!!

And fucking proud

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's like the show naked attraction. You get to see everything before you meet

And when all said and done its a swingers/sex site so you should know what it's is. It's breaks down barriers. And why should I think less of anyone who is brave enough to bare all. "

This sums it up really!

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By *loppsyWoman over a year ago

marlow

"TROLLOPS!!!!

And fucking proud"

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" This is based on my experience of forum posts which obviously doesn't equate to everyone on site!

There are alot of damaged and bitter people in the outside world too

Alot of people out there are living a lie

At least here, people have SOME balls to be a tiny bit real"

Yes you're right, but percentage wise as a ratio I'd guess it's higher here.

I guess I wonder why folk who have had such negative experiences in relationships, would be drawn to a place where's there a greater risk of being treated objectively or even negatively. It's not a criticism, after all I'm here; more of a question I'm posing? If it makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes I would date someone from here but with us being mutually exclusive to each other. "

Me to but I like the sharing lifestyle and would want it to continue.

Do you think you could be happy with one person again OP? I know I could not go back to a vanilla manogomous lifestyle ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

Never judge a book by its covers.

Never look at people's profiles and think any less of them or think of them in any different way.

If I met them in a bar then it's just they are wearing more clothes, but everyone has a different reason for being here wether it's singles or couples.

No one is undateable unless they are not attracted to them.

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

I think there are some men that think less of the women on here and one of the easiest ways to spot them is when I get as message that says something like “What’s a nice girl like you, doing on a site like this?”.

Now I know they are trying to flatter, but it’s all there, in that sentence. They don’t think a woman worthy of any respect would be here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think there are some men that think less of the women on here and one of the easiest ways to spot them is when I get as message that says something like “What’s a nice girl like you, doing on a site like this?”.

Now I know they are trying to flatter, but it’s all there, in that sentence. They don’t think a woman worthy of any respect would be here.

But maybe that's culturally engrained in many of us?

The assumption that people outwardly sexually promiscuous are seedy? Then to find someone who's attractive and lo and behold intelligent, is a shock as we've always been led to believe such people are dumb and slutty by influential mediums.

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By *hatYorkLadMan over a year ago

York

It depends in the woman, there are some whose profiles suggest desperate and will shag pretty much anything, then there are those who look classy and like they take good care of themselves who for whatever reason are here looking for new experiences or someone they can fit into their busy lives for a bit of fun. I guess I'd think less of the former but not the latter. I'm sure the ladies have the same opinions about the guys on here too.

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By *odernLoveDublinMan over a year ago

dublin

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

I think thats a question more for people not on this site.

If a guy is here surely he cannot be judgemental on a woman who is!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" This is based on my experience of forum posts which obviously doesn't equate to everyone on site!

There are alot of damaged and bitter people in the outside world too

Alot of people out there are living a lie

At least here, people have SOME balls to be a tiny bit real

Yes you're right, but percentage wise as a ratio I'd guess it's higher here.

It does

For some women though, a sexually liberated lifestyle can have a hugely positive effect. Its like taking the 'control' back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd absolutely date someone from this site, infact, I'd still date her now."

Ha ha I married mine!

I actually get more respect via men via fab than I do in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"TROLLOPS!!!!

And fucking proud

Me too! "

Happy to be a self confessed trollop myself too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I were to date again, I would date someone from here or similar. I like people who know what they like sexually and are open about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have received a lot of messages from men who comment about how nice it is to see a profile where I haven’t got everything hanging out. I also don’t engage in sexual chats with anyone and I don’t send any pictures.

I suspect it is the way that some people may present themselves that may mean some men behave or think differently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have met someone recently who wants to swing with me and perhaps become exclusive. We have both been on fabs for a while and had plenty of meets and fuckbuddies. But unlike some guys and I say `some' guys he has the upmost respect for me and is willing to wait as long as it takes to get intimate with me. Just because you have slept with many people doesnt mean you will always want that and it doesnt mean that you cannot find someone to have a relationship with.

I have found very rude messages from guys saying I should be on a dating site and they ask me why wont i just meet them for a fuck? its just a fuck? nothing else?

Ive been there done that and its time for change. Daily I get messages with offers for a relationship. So some guys do seem to want more

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By *wesomeSauce!Man over a year ago

Brighton

I would have no problem dating many women here - if that was why I was here.

I probably think that women here would be better to date than someone from vanilla dating sites, because they probably know there is more to sex than just laying there and expecting the man to do it all - and I have found this a lot (elsewhere).

Not that sex is everything - but it is pretty damned important.

After having a 16 year long relationship with unbelievably dull sex (and stayed faithful), I vowed I'd never do that again.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

I think some do,ive seen men say"I couldnt date anyone i met here" and the lik before.

Miss

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

I have been for the most part treated with more respect and honesty by the people on here than I ever was in the vanilla world!

I recently tried vanilla dating again - if I portrayed a more vanilla personality u wasn't getting the type of people interested that were compatible with me, if I was more honest that was interpreted as 'will shag anyone'

Similar to a pp I would love to date but I also need my own space sometimes, and I'd want to still play with others (and I would be happy for them to play with others too either separately or together - I am really struggling to find someone that matches that (plus all my other criteria

) fussy bugger ain't I?

But yea I've found most people on here respectful - and at swinging parties and socials too.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

honesty, people treat people with less value nowadays and on the net too many keyboard warriors and people thinking its Ok to abuse people or treat them like shit

and its men and women not just men

I agree with this. Internet anonymity has changed peoples attitudes generally.

Membership of this site would neither improve nor decrease the likelihood of me wanting to date someone.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Yes I would date someone from here but with us being mutually exclusive to each other. "

This is what I'm looking for. I want someone who I'm sexually compatible with. It's the glue that keeps you together, initially. It's damn important to me. I did meet a young lady from here a few years ago and we were mutually exclusive for about eighteen months. It was a great arrangement and worked very well for us both.

If YOU were closer to me, I'd be interested. I've read your kinks and find them a turn-on. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would turn it around, how would the ordinary vanilla woman feel vice versa? Finding out her new man was on this site with a string of verifications over a number of years.l I suspect he would be binned as a player and for being unable to maintain a relationship.

Even if a relationship started, if her vanills mates knew his history I suspect they would be talking against him.

I would say for the record that I did date someone from here with a view to settling together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im certainly open to meeting someone from here. I would hope a women would judge me less. Im certainly open minded when it comes to sex.

I dont think any less of anyone being here. If i did surely i would be thinking less of myself?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ive had guys tell me im not date material because im on here and find me intimidating.

Good enough to fuck though.

Yep. Me too.

But (and, yes I'm sure I'm not the only one) I've also had marriage proposals, so.....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes I think they do for definite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regardless of what the men on this thread are saying a large majority of men on here do think less of the women on here, the type of messages we women on here receive is a very clear indication of that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would turn it around, how would the ordinary vanilla woman feel vice versa? Finding out her new man was on this site with a string of verifications over a number of years.l I suspect he would be binned as a player and for being unable to maintain a relationship.

Even if a relationship started, if her vanills mates knew his history I suspect they would be talking against him.

I would say for the record that I did date someone from here with a view to settling together.

I wouldn't want to date a guy from here, not because he'd shagged x number but because I'd never feel I was enough.

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By *wesomeSauce!Man over a year ago

Brighton

"Regardless of what the men on this thread are saying a large majority of men on here do think less of the women on here, the type of messages we women on here receive is a very clear indication of that "

I bet they are the guys not getting meets.

Sadly, it probably colours many women's view of men in general. I don't blame them really.

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By *wesomeSauce!Man over a year ago

Brighton

"I wouldn't want to date a guy from here, not because he'd shagged x number but because I'd never feel I was enough. "

Really? If the guy wants to date you - you are definitely enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now I know they are trying to flatter, but it’s all there, in that sentence. They don’t think a woman worthy of any respect would be here.

Yes. I often get that. They then learn that I'm far from nice. I only wish I could warn every women about them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't want to date a guy from here, not because he'd shagged x number but because I'd never feel I was enough.

Really? If the guy wants to date you - you are definitely enough.

Nah. Not if he's on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nah, not really; I prefer women who atre sexually a bit more adventurous and with a higher libido anyway.

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By *od ThrusterMan over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

My opinion for what it's worth is that Joe Public (male or female) would more than likely think women (or men) on here were good only for sex.

Those in living the lifestyle I would say, on the whole, are more likely to view the person rather than the genitals.

Sweeping statements are never right though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now I know they are trying to flatter, but it’s all there, in that sentence. They don’t think a woman worthy of any respect would be here.

Yes!!!! As if "nice girls" aren't allowed to be sexually active

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By *hatYorkLadMan over a year ago

York

A lot of men have a really bad attitude to women, and the way they talk to them when trying to get laid or when rejected is vile, I'm not sure what makes them think it's ok to be like that. Manners cost nothing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It seems to me that when people the honest truth to a question...there are still people who will only believe what they want to believe..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems to me that when people the honest truth to a question...there are still people who will only believe what they want to believe.. "

Or maybe peoole aren't prepared to push aside their own personal lived experiences based on the opinions of a select few

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think both men and women think less of eachother for being on here - while making the appropriate exceptions for themselves, of course. I've seen it time and again on the forums and in person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It seems to me that when people the honest truth to a question...there are still people who will only believe what they want to believe..

Or maybe peoole aren't prepared to push aside their own personal lived experiences based on the opinions of a select few "

Fair point

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

You expect honest answers?!!

Alrighty then!

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By *ornCouple over a year ago

Sedgemoor

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

To answer a couple of points, no I wouldn't want to share any man that I was romantically involved with but that being said, I have been on here many many years and know that guys can stray. With that in mind I would give the guy a hall pass where if he was presented with an opportunist fuck then he could do it if he told me and used protection. It's the pre planning and sneaking behind my back that would annoy me more or being made to look like a cunt.

Another point was the 'what's a nice girl like you doing on a site like this'

I'm here because I'm the high priestess of penis. I have an obsession with penis size. I could never meet someone in the real world unless I knew what size his willy was.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

You expect honest answers?!!

Alrighty then!

I can only speak for myself...so I find that remark so cynical

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By *ornCouple over a year ago

Sedgemoor

" This is based on my experience of forum posts which obviously doesn't equate to everyone on site!

There are alot of damaged and bitter people in the outside world too

Alot of people out there are living a lie

At least here, people have SOME balls to be a tiny bit real

Yes you're right, but percentage wise as a ratio I'd guess it's higher here.

It does

For some women though, a sexually liberated lifestyle can have a hugely positive effect. Its like taking the 'control' back. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I wouldn't consider dating anyone (male or female) off this site, I couldn't trust them.

Same here. I just wouldn't be able to trust a man i met on here, at all. That may be my issue, but it's an issue i couldn't get over.

"
so I take it you couldn't be trusted then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly. I did consider dating someone from Fab. (Or at least asking for a date) For a relationship? Yes, no, maybe. But I did want to enjoy all of her and not just the sex. I fancied finding out all about her, so maybe some people do see some women in here intriguing them enough to date them. And like I'm real life, not everyone is going to appeal that way, it's rare when people connect that way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there is no such thing as the generic average guy or woman.

We are all unique with our own experience hopes dreams and expectations and to lump together groups of people to determine their views on the datability of others is rather like trying to plat sawdust.

To suggest that women are somehow lessor because they are on fab seems to be the height of double standards especially if the guy in question is on here too.

If I have a relationship with someone then they are going to come with a history...we all have one. The concept of dating or a relationship is always far more about the future than the past which is something none of us can change.

And we are always all more drawn to those who we feel a connection with or share some common interests with.

Would I refuse to consider a relationship with someone I met on fab...

No.

Would I have a relationship with someone I met on fab

Yes

Many here prove it can and does work. Many here may seek that. Many may wish not to. But to judge others on a life they may live before we meet them seems to be be an exercise in trying to mould some one into our idealised image of who or what they should have been before meeting them. Surely an exercise in futility and a route to possibly denying ourselves the future we may seek.

As with much in life the answer is probably for each of us...

Follow your

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

I don't tend to contradict. Being here dosent make me a lesser person, I shouldn't be judged at all.

Unless asked I don't judge and if I felt less of a woman for being on here then I'd also be that lesser person as I am on here too.

Hope that makes sence

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No way I respect women all the same brought up in all women house with mum and two sisters Love women and keep up most respect for them surely a woman can have same fun as much as men without being looked down on but ive spoke to alot off here that get spoken to like shit so shame really i never think less just think DING FUCKING DONG fair play lets face it with out women all of us guys wouldnt be here xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

Depends on the woman 100%

Would absolutely date someone off here (and have) if they come across as sane and sexy. Have had 2 relationships with people off this site, one exclusive one open, and neither time was how we met an issue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To answer a couple of points, no I wouldn't want to share any man that I was romantically involved with but that being said, I have been on here many many years and know that guys can stray. With that in mind I would give the guy a hall pass where if he was presented with an opportunist fuck then he could do it if he told me and used protection. It's the pre planning and sneaking behind my back that would annoy me more or being made to look like a cunt.

Another point was the 'what's a nice girl like you doing on a site like this'

I'm here because I'm the high priestess of penis. I have an obsession with penis size. I could never meet someone in the real world unless I knew what size his willy was. "

What size wedding dress do I buy you?

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

For definate theres a heck of a lot of women who think more of themselves on here. I wonder if that contributes to the thought that men think less of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I wouldn't consider dating anyone (male or female) off this site, I couldn't trust them.

Same here. I just wouldn't be able to trust a man i met on here, at all. That may be my issue, but it's an issue i couldn't get over.

so I take it you couldn't be trusted then? "

Yes, i'm a one woman gal. But i have trust issues, due to fallout from a previous relationship.

I know not all men are the same, but i wouldn't be 100% confident that a man on here with a vast array of naked women to peruse and lust over wouldn't keep his dick just for me. So i wouldn't put myself through the self doubt, nor the jealous feelings it would bring up. It would make me paranoid and miserable.

Because, to me, if i'm in a relationship i expect it to be a monagamous one. Boring as that may sound to many on here.

I know not all men are the same, but temptation is hard to resist at the best of times.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We’re all on here for a reason right, if we as men think less of women or TG women then surely we’re just hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For definate theres a heck of a lot of women who think more of themselves on here. I wonder if that contributes to the thought that men think less of them. "

They think more of themselves than you think of them, you mean. Your opinion of them is worthless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

I don't tend to contradict. Being here dosent make me a lesser person, I shouldn't be judged at all.

Unless asked I don't judge and if I felt less of a woman for being on here then I'd also be that lesser person as I am on here too.

Hope that makes sence"

You're a man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meant one man woman not one woman gal. It's been a long assed day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For definate theres a heck of a lot of women who think more of themselves on here. I wonder if that contributes to the thought that men think less of them. "

More than you think of them. They're not the losers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I meant one man woman not one woman gal. It's been a long assed day

Hell of a day to turn a straight woman bi

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"No I wouldn't consider dating anyone (male or female) off this site, I couldn't trust them.

Same here. I just wouldn't be able to trust a man i met on here, at all. That may be my issue, but it's an issue i couldn't get over.

so I take it you couldn't be trusted then?

Yes, i'm a one woman gal. But i have trust issues, due to fallout from a previous relationship.

Because, to me, if i'm in a relationship i expect it to be a monagamous one. Boring as that may sound to many on here.

I know not all men are the same, but temptation is hard to resist at the best of times.

Yes, I would prefer the kind of guy who would prefer not to be here to be honest.

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

I joind hear hopeing to find a sex mad date and thinking that most on hear wood be Mor relaxed and woodount mind if sumone had a lak of experience in the bed room as thay wood soon get them up to date over a fue days lol

Turned out everyone is just as pikky and non sex mad as everyone els off fab

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By *iss.HoneyWoman over a year ago

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My being on here means I am a cock hungry cum slut.

Obviously

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By *sThunderThighsWoman over a year ago

Toy Land

I think some men do think less of women on a site like this yes, for sure ... But I have had a few meets where the men wanted a relationship (some wanted a swinging relationship and one wanted me to stop meeting others) to be honest I would do that for the right person! But I have not found that yet! Ever hopeful tho ... The trouble with asking a question like this, you would have to be very brave/stupid to admit that you thought less of swingers! It would result in a virtual blood bath!!

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By *r_PinkMan over a year ago

london stratford

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

On the contrary, I myself WANT a relationship with a woman from here who is as kinky and naughty as me!!!!

Looked at your profile, If only we lived closer and if only I was 97!!!!!!

coz you in DELISH girl!!!!!

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"For definate theres a heck of a lot of women who think more of themselves on here. I wonder if that contributes to the thought that men think less of them.

They think more of themselves than you think of them, you mean. Your opinion of them is worthless. "

I would hope that anyone would think more of themselves than anyone else would think of them. I believe self worth is very important. Lack of self worth is a major issue for many people sadly. But that is not what I meant. I was referring to the attitude I have observed in the forum and wording on profiles from a fair few ladies. By no means am I saying all ladies. My opinion of them is not worthless to me. I choose not to interact with them based on my opinion. I am sure you act in a similar manner.

Doubtless some men are tools, but I do believe fab and other net tools allow them to show their true colours. A genuinely nice chap doesnt become a tit when using such medium. Conversely a git on here is a git in the real world.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Yea had a few want a 'relationship' where I stop meeting but he can carry on meeting

As we say up here - aye right!!

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"For definate theres a heck of a lot of women who think more of themselves on here. I wonder if that contributes to the thought that men think less of them.

More than you think of them. They're not the losers "

See my reply to the brain. Additionally no ones saying anyone is a loser.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

Here's the flip side...

If sexually I'm getting all I need from a woman, I have no interest in sleeping with others.

The key is, you find someone who physically is your ideal AND sexually complements and satisfies you.

Once you've found that, you'll have no interest in sowing your seed elsewhere.

I've been in this position twice in my life thus far. Needless to say, I had no interest in other women.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Here's the flip side...

If sexually I'm getting all I need from a woman, I have no interest in sleeping with others.

The key is, you find someone who physically is your ideal AND sexually complements and satisfies you.

Once you've found that, you'll have no interest in sowing your seed elsewhere.

I've been in this position twice in my life thus far. Needless to say, I had no interest in other women. "

I feel like that, but sadly not everyone does. I read an interesting quote the other day :

"Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how bad things are. Others will always cheat no matter how good they have it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Here's the flip side...

If sexually I'm getting all I need from a woman, I have no interest in sleeping with others.

The key is, you find someone who physically is your ideal AND sexually complements and satisfies you.

Once you've found that, you'll have no interest in sowing your seed elsewhere.

I've been in this position twice in my life thus far. Needless to say, I had no interest in other women. "

I'd like to think I was enough for someone sexually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I wouldn't consider dating anyone (male or female) off this site, I couldn't trust them.

Same here. I just wouldn't be able to trust a man i met on here, at all. That may be my issue, but it's an issue i couldn't get over.

so I take it you couldn't be trusted then?

Yes, i'm a one woman gal. But i have trust issues, due to fallout from a previous relationship.

Because, to me, if i'm in a relationship i expect it to be a monagamous one. Boring as that may sound to many on here.

I know not all men are the same, but temptation is hard to resist at the best of times.

Personally my word is my bond and in my opinion it would depend on the depth of the relationship, if it was a case of you enjoyed their company and such and just wanted a relationship but continue to explore on here so be it but if it was a connection that sideswiped both parties then my views would be the same as yours in the sense that I’d want exclusivity. But it depends on the reasons the other person is on the site initially because you have to factor in that if they’re single and you’re single they’re just as capable of loving as you are and it’s not an impossibility that they’re also feircely loyal when in one.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Some guys do, some guys don't. The same is true of women.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Here's the flip side...

If sexually I'm getting all I need from a woman, I have no interest in sleeping with others.

The key is, you find someone who physically is your ideal AND sexually complements and satisfies you.

Once you've found that, you'll have no interest in sowing your seed elsewhere.

I've been in this position twice in my life thus far. Needless to say, I had no interest in other women.

I'd like to think I was enough for someone sexually.

I'd love to find out, to be honest.

The fact someone is on this site, to me, is a good sign. It means they're a sexual person. I know people that aren't. It's not a priority for them in their relationships. That's fine. But, we're all different.

Like yourself, MissWilkes, there's certain things I'm looking for in a partner in a sexual context that I'm unable to say on a conventional dating site. I'll just get labelled as a player, a creep, that I'm only after one thing, etc.

So, I can empathise with where you're coming from with this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No I wouldn't consider dating anyone (male or female) off this site, I couldn't trust them.

Same here. I just wouldn't be able to trust a man i met on here, at all. That may be my issue, but it's an issue i couldn't get over.

so I take it you couldn't be trusted then?

Yes, i'm a one woman gal. But i have trust issues, due to fallout from a previous relationship.

Because, to me, if i'm in a relationship i expect it to be a monagamous one. Boring as that may sound to many on here.

I know not all men are the same, but temptation is hard to resist at the best of times.

very true, i need to remember this a bit more.

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

The only reason I wouldn't date a woman on fab is because I'm currently not looking for anything serious so I'm not dating whether that be on or off fab.

However There are a few ladies that I would date off fab given different circumstances

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it's no different at all.

I'd date a woman I met on Fab the same as I'd date anyone else who I wanted to see more of despite where the initial meeting originated.

However, i wouldnt share her with other men.

Once feelings are involved it changes the game.

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

You're not datable to 90% of my friends if you're on here.

It's just not their thing to date a girl that meets up with strangers to have sex. To be fair to them, none of them sleep around themselves.

Most guys I know dont sleep around. I lived in a house with 5 guys, all good mates of mine. Only one of them had a one night stand, and he cheated on his gf doing it. He had to tell her it happened, even though none of us would have, and most of us didnt know.

The rest of them wnted to date girls, and if had a girl didnt cheat.

They are the type of guys who after a night in a night club, all leave together laughing, and are not running around trying to find a girl to take home, any girl will do, they are happy to laugh the way home in the group, or walk home alone.

They all know I am more liberal, but they all assume even I have limits. That I wouldn't pick a girl that would have sex with anyone any time. And they are right, I wouldn't date a girl who is up for anything, anytime.

But a lot of people on here, have a lot of limits, and wont sleep with anyone, and are just looking for a bit of spice on the side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You're not datable to 90% of my friends if you're on here.

It's just not their thing to date a girl that meets up with strangers to have sex. To be fair to them, none of them sleep around themselves.

The rest of them wnted to date girls, and if had a girl didnt cheat.

But a lot of people on here, have a lot of limits, and wont sleep with anyone, and are just looking for a bit of spice on the side."

Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

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By *rLucky777Man over a year ago

Leeds

Honestly I wouldn’t want to date a woman from this site in the normal sense. I would like to see a woman regularly from here and get up to all kinds of filth. Whether it leads to anything serious I don’t think I’d want a wife that had more cocks than a pornstar.

I find a woman that only wants one man very attractive and appealing to me.

If we met as swingers id guess we’d stay as swingers. I’ve never had that kind of relationship before so I don’t know if I’d like it or not.

Short answer. No. I’m selfish and I want my girl all for me without her been fucked by half of Fab.

I’m only looking to fuck girls on fab, not date them. I’m on dating sites to date.

The world is complex though so whenever you meet someone you click with and fall in love with then all bets are off.

I’m only looking to date pure wholesome ladies not on fab who have only ever had one boyfriend, do yoga are 100% loyal and can also rim, deepthroat, ride cock like a cowgirl and love to swallow.

When we going on a date Ms Wilkes?

I would like to test this theory. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't not date someone just because they were on fab. It would really depend how they conduct themselves on here and if it's in line with what I consider attractive and desirable in a partner. Just being on Fab in itself isn't enough for me to write someone off. In fact if I was looking to date I would probably start looking on here first as I've realised sex is more important to me than I ever realised and I feel I might have a better chance of meeting someone compatible on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Honestly I wouldn’t want to date a woman from this site in the normal sense. I would like to see a woman regularly from here and get up to all kinds of filth. Whether it leads to anything serious I don’t think I’d want a wife that had more cocks than a pornstar.

I find a woman that only wants one man very attractive and appealing to me.

If we met as swingers id guess we’d stay as swingers. I’ve never had that kind of relationship before so I don’t know if I’d like it or not.

Short answer. No. I’m selfish and I want my girl all for me without her been fucked by half of Fab.

I’m only looking to fuck girls on fab, not date them. I’m on dating sites to date.

The world is complex though so whenever you meet someone you click with and fall in love with then all bets are off.

I’m only looking to date pure wholesome ladies not on fab who have only ever had one boyfriend, do yoga are 100% loyal and can also rim, deepthroat, ride cock like a cowgirl and love to swallow.

When we going on a date Ms Wilkes?

I would like to test this theory. Xx"

But people in the real word and on dating sites could have fucked 100's of guys, you just wouldn't know about it like you do on here.

These are the responses I was expecting to be honest.

The next guy I fuck will be my future husband!

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

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By *wesomeSauce!Man over a year ago

Brighton

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all"

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath?

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath? "

Don't...

You're turning me on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath?

Don't...

You're turning me on!

Haha and a hairy cunt doing that would be like striking gold x1000000 hey J

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath?

Don't...

You're turning me on!

Haha and a hairy cunt doing that would be like striking gold x1000000 hey J

You fucked him before?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath?

Don't...

You're turning me on!

Haha and a hairy cunt doing that would be like striking gold x1000000 hey J

You fucked him before?"

Only in my mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women looking for safe sex with strangers online as opposed to a club?

What difference does it make, here at least they make the decision sober.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't not date someone just because they were on fab. It would really depend how they conduct themselves on here and if it's in line with what I consider attractive and desirable in a partner. Just being on Fab in itself isn't enough for me to write someone off. In fact if I was looking to date I would probably start looking on here first as I've realised sex is more important to me than I ever realised and I feel I might have a better chance of meeting someone compatible on fab."

Mr Moriarty, you have taken the very words out of my mouth! I've always felt this way. I especially like your line "I've realised sex is more important to me than I ever realised and I feel I might have a better chance of meeting someone compatible on fab"!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think sadly that many guys judgement and perception of ladies IS coloured by fab and this is apparent by the tone of messages I receive.

Of course most guys are decent but many of these same guys will still see us ladies as slappers and in many cases, desperados for being on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think sadly that many guys judgement and perception of ladies IS coloured by fab and this is apparent by the tone of messages I receive.

Of course most guys are decent but many of these same guys will still see us ladies as slappers and in many cases, desperados for being on here."

Tracey, in essence it's because they feel like that about themselves. Don't you see it. It's a reference on their behalf. So really there is no judgement we should feel. It's indeed a powerful way of thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

V I V A to owning and celebrating who we are regardless of others! Who's with me? I'm going to start another revolution

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I would be more interested in a relationship with a sexually active woman than one who turns it on until they have "hooked their man".

Obviously all the other myriad of things need to match before things progress. But being on here is a good start.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath?

Don't...

You're turning me on!

Haha and a hairy cunt doing that would be like striking gold x1000000 hey J

You fucked him before?

Only in my mind

Just an enlightening chat one time

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

Firstly, men want to spread their seeds Modern term shag as many beautiful women as possible but of course, maturity changes those views. Yes, men view most women on here as just sex other things can develop but the core reason for joining in the first place would be something relating to sex, same goes for women's view on the average guy here as just cock you see it everytime looking for mmmmf

The reason women will get a bad rep for having casual sex with multiple partners all boils down to men are conquerors. There is a perception that it is easier for women to have sex which brings up the question what is a gorgeous woman doing here mentality, that does not factor in enjoyment so the value put upon sex is different from both men and women.

The old saying a freak in the bedroom a woman on the street applies.

For instance, if a woman walks up to a random guy and ask for sex or hit on a guy generally I would assume most men will immediately think something is wrong but the opposite is looked at as confident from both sexes. Why?

So for women to be here hunting men can be seen as out of character, of course, outdated ideas but we are all hypocrite to an extend a guy join on the site sees tits and fanny, of course, he will get a reaction but is it a classy woman seduce me reaction or a fuck me slut reaction. However, of course, we are all different some of us wants the classy woman seduce me, fuck me slut or in-between be mindful of your pics the old saying “a pic is worth a 1000 words”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath?

Don't...

You're turning me on!

Haha and a hairy cunt doing that would be like striking gold x1000000 hey J

You fucked him before?

Only in my mind

Just an enlightening chat one time

You know how I feel about you. I had to take you off my hotlist.

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Doesn't matter what gender they are we are all on here looking for something, until I have met them or had contact with them some other way I reserve judgement on them as a person.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath?

Don't...

You're turning me on!

Haha and a hairy cunt doing that would be like striking gold x1000000 hey J

You fucked him before?

Only in my mind

Just an enlightening chat one time

You know how I feel about you. I had to take you off my hotlist."

Sorry

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath? "

yes what's not to like but you can't say the same work the other way round.

you really do paint a good picture with your words, there goes my imagination

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

The only way they would be with a girl who had sex with 300 men in that amount of time, is if she lied about it.

If you told them you were on an nsa sex swing site, they would probably never get to part of the conversation where you said you had only been with a few.

If you said to them "I have only been with 20 people in my life, and experimented a bit with them people and am open minded"

They likely wouldnt mind at all

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath?

Don't...

You're turning me on!

Haha and a hairy cunt doing that would be like striking gold x1000000 hey J

You fucked him before?

Only in my mind

Just an enlightening chat one time

You know how I feel about you. I had to take you off my hotlist.

Sorry"

No sorry my darling. It's perfectly ok.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"You're not datable to 90% of my friends if you're on here.

It's just not their thing to date a girl that meets up with strangers to have sex. To be fair to them, none of them sleep around themselves.

The rest of them wnted to date girls, and if had a girl didnt cheat.

But a lot of people on here, have a lot of limits, and wont sleep with anyone, and are just looking for a bit of spice on the side.

Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

You aren’t a typical swinger though .

You are looking for a very niche type , and most guys wouldn’t believe you’ve only met 4 men off here in 7 years .

Outside fab the vast majority of guys would run a mile rather than have a swinger as a girlfriend . We know this as most guys have made it clear that they couldn’t cope with a wife like mine . The fact that many are attached seems hypocritical , but hey ho .

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't think Anita would approve of me dating women who ate on Fab... if I was a Singleton, then I would have no problem with dating a woman who enjoys sex.

Cal x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just because you have been on fabs for months/years doesnt mean that you would be useless at a committed relationship. I cant believe some of the comments to be honest. I would be committed if the right person comes along .. but just because a person likes casual sex .. maybe with lots of people it really doesnt mean they cant commit. If you cant trust someone to date on here then you might as well say you can trust any person really.

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By *rLucky777Man over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t only think less of women on here I think less of men on here too. Including me when I’m on here.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I bet they are the guys not getting meets.

Sadly, it probably colours many women's view of men in general. I don't blame them really."
This is why most block from messaging and ignore unfortunately

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I'd absolutely date someone from this site, infact, I'd still date her now."

Indeed! I think the thing is the reason some of are on here, is because they are actually swingers lmao

And swingers have a different attitude/mindset to sex and social matters....

I know I could not have a totally vanilla relationship again....and so then consequently you have to look in the places where non monogamous/polyamourous people/open minded kinky people socialise....

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"You're not datable to 90% of my friends if you're on here.

It's just not their thing to date a girl that meets up with strangers to have sex. To be fair to them, none of them sleep around themselves.

The rest of them wnted to date girls, and if had a girl didnt cheat.

But a lot of people on here, have a lot of limits, and wont sleep with anyone, and are just looking for a bit of spice on the side.

Think the fact I've been on here almost 7 years and only had sex with 5 guys in that time (4 off here) shows that I'm not here to sleep with lots of random strangers.

Your mates could date a girl in the real world who may have fucked 300 guys or more in the last 7 years but she's not on this site, with that logic she would be a better catch than me then?

You aren’t a typical swinger though .

You are looking for a very niche type , and most guys wouldn’t believe you’ve only met 4 men off here in 7 years .

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"V I V A to owning and celebrating who we are regardless of others! Who's with me? I'm going to start another revolution

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

There seem to be two distinct types of people on Fab - those who follow a more traditional swinging lifestyle and whose focus is the excitement of sleeping with lots of new people, and those who simply see the site as a way of meeting one or more members of whichever sex they prefer, with whom they share common sexual interests. There are men and when in both camps. I fall into the latter category - I'm only really here to find a woman or women who like watersports and pee play. As such, if I met a lady on here with those interests and for whom I had romantic feelings, I would have no trouble becoming monogamous. That's what I'd expect from my partner too, once the goalposts changed and our relationship became a "Relationship".

For those reasons, I don't think you can necessarily assume that someone who has been on here, male or female, will always want other people or couldn't be trusted. The OP is another perfect example of someone who is selective and looking for specific things from Fab. I know "I'm not looking to sleep my way through the site" is a bit of a Fab cliche, but it's quite often meant genuinely.

I would consider myself rather hypocritical if I thought less of a woman just because she'd been a Fab member. That said, would I choose to date a woman (from Fab or the vanilla world) whom I knew to have slept with literally hundreds of guys? Inevitably it would depend on the individual, but for me it's probably less likely.

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan over a year ago

Yorkshire

Would these same guys appreciate me climbing on their face whilst they slept and fucking their nose, or covering their mouth with my cunt so I can look down and watch them struggling to breath? "

Wow OP, first you mention making sexy pee videos then this - I think that's my main boxes ticked!! When are we getting married?

Edit: Just read the bit about size being so important to you - perhaps I wouldn't measure up! The wedding's off!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I don’t only think less of women on here I think less of men on here too. Including me when I’m on here.

That's an incredibly sad view,especially of yourself. Not badly enough of yourself though to not be here eh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not here for a life partner, I joined in the search for a like minded woman, who is good company,to enjoy regular and mutually satisfying sex with. I know there are women in that situation, because I've been there before and I don't judge them,

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By *anny77Man over a year ago

glasgow

I think less of women on here. In fact, I’m hating all women. Need to work out if it’s ingrained misogyny or latent homosexual feeling...

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By *m3232Man over a year ago

maidenhead

"Ive had guys tell me im not date material because im on here and find me intimidating.

Good enough to fuck though.

Sexually confident women are a real turn on for me. The question is why would you not want to date a lady like this

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By *rLucky777Man over a year ago

Leeds

"I don’t only think less of women on here I think less of men on here too. Including me when I’m on here.

That's an incredibly sad view,especially of yourself. Not badly enough of yourself though to not be here eh!"

Morally I know it’s probably not good to seek out strangers just for sexual gratification. People are more than just sex objects.

When I get horny my sexual drive often overides all else and my penis starts making the decisions.

Women are not sex objects. Fab kind of makes people into sex objects. We all need sex and a feeling of connection. I want a woman to date that wouldn’t dream of meeting strangers online for sex and is extremely fussy and exclusive with her partners. Higher probability of monogamy and a happy long term relationship imo. I hold monogamy in higher regard than promiscuity in a potential partner.

On fab I just want to meet hot liberated naughty nymphomaniacs who crave hard cock and cum and their sexual libido is out of control just like mine!

I love hot slutty women who don’t give a fuck and get what they want. These are the women I want to nail. One cock would never be enough for these girls so an exclusive relationship would probably be doomed plus I want the girl to do whatever she wants and not have to compromise for me or anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t only think less of women on here I think less of men on here too. Including me when I’m on here.

That's an incredibly sad view,especially of yourself. Not badly enough of yourself though to not be here eh!

Morally I know it’s probably not good to seek out strangers just for sexual gratification. People are more than just sex objects.

When I get horny my sexual drive often overides all else and my penis starts making the decisions.

On fab I just want to meet hot liberated naughty nymphomaniacs who crave hard cock and cum and their sexual libido is out of control just like mine!

"Women are not sex objects": continues to paint some women as sex objects. Not the one you'd marry though, they're above all that heathenry...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's your honest thoughts then men folk? Oh and don't just say answers you think women want to hear, you will not be rewarded with sex.

Again, genuine honest answers please men

Can I ask why this 'bothers' you? I'm not taking the pee, just genuinely interested what made you post this.

Frankly men shouldn't have any specific opinion after all they are here for the same thing and equality should apply!

Thanks for "listening" and hope you reply

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I don’t only think less of women on here I think less of men on here too. Including me when I’m on here.

That's an incredibly sad view,especially of yourself. Not badly enough of yourself though to not be here eh!

Morally I know it’s probably not good to seek out strangers just for sexual gratification. People are more than just sex objects.

When I get horny my sexual drive often overides all else and my penis starts making the decisions.

On fab I just want to meet hot liberated naughty nymphomaniacs who crave hard cock and cum and their sexual libido is out of control just like mine!

I'm not sure where to start with all that really

. I feel like you presume all women are the same on here,I don't know. I hope the woman that you hope to settle down with can tolerate you for being on here having met hot slutty women for sex,I fear you may have a problem with that as it work's both way's doesn't it. The girl nextdoor type may not get past that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've read this so many times on here "we had flirty texts" or "I was going to shag him" and the texts dried up. Hand anything to a guy on a plate and it loses its appeal x"

Except BBQ ribs. They never lose appeal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes you are all dirty little whores that will fuck anything with a cock shaped appendage.. just kidding, I wouldn't personally treat a woman on here any differently than I would in the street.

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By *rLucky777Man over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not sure where to start with all that really

It does work both ways. I’ve no idea of your situation. Would you be confortable dating or marrying a guy who had actively searched online for sex with strangers?

Or would you prefer to marry a guy who has only ever dated monogamously?

I’d you had the choice between the two what would you choose and why?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I'm not sure where to start with all that really

It does work both ways. I’ve no idea of your situation. Would you be confortable dating or marrying a guy who had actively searched online for sex with strangers?

Or would you prefer to marry a guy who has only ever dated monogamously?

I’d you had the choice between the two what would you choose and why?"

Either of those choices. I look at it this way,I've been on here about 3 year's now and was looking for casual sex with men as I haven't been in a relationship for a long time. Why should I be without sex just because I can't find anyone to share my life with etc...

Anyway I've now recently started a monogamous relationship with a guy,so if I can do it why shouldn't a man. I wouldn't disregard them just because they had been on here.

The guy I'm with has never done casual sex and he did have worries he wouldn't be enough for me after I divulged about threesomes and stuff.

Anyway time will tell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely don't think worse of the females... In fact I would hope any future wife would join me on here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'd rather meet my partner on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t only think less of women on here I think less of men on here too. Including me when I’m on here.

That's an incredibly sad view,especially of yourself. Not badly enough of yourself though to not be here eh!

Morally I know it’s probably not good to seek out strangers just for sexual gratification. People are more than just sex objects.

When I get horny my sexual drive often overides all else and my penis starts making the decisions.

On fab I just want to meet hot liberated naughty nymphomaniacs who crave hard cock and cum and their sexual libido is out of control just like mine!

Yes but I've been on here for 7 years looking for that one particular guy. Not wanting to shag loads of strangers. I just want to see what their penis looks like before I date them.

One cock would be enough for me and I would love it and fuss it all the time.

If some guy called me a slut for being on here to my face, well I wouldn't take it very well and we'd have words.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think deep down we all want that one special person. That ideal. Perfection. But we've been hoodwinked by various polished novels and Hollywood fiction.

Would I fall for a woman I meet on here. Possibly. It's no different to any other walk of life. You meet and you click..

Would I stay on here and share her with other men? No.

I'd want to think I'm enough for her not only physically but emotionally as well.

I want all the soft, sensitive, mushy stuff.

I'm an old fashioned romantic at heart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think deep down we all want that one special person. That ideal. Perfection. But we've been hoodwinked by various polished novels and Hollywood fiction.

Would I fall for a woman I meet on here. Possibly. It's no different to any other walk of life. You meet and you click..

Would I stay on here and share her with other men? No.

I'd want to think I'm enough for her not only physically but emotionally as well.

I want all the soft, sensitive, mushy stuff.

I'm an old fashioned romantic at heart. "

Yeah yeah, that's my view as well. Any guy I got with that's it then for me I have my blinkers on and only have eyes for that person. My next guy would be from 8 years of looking so chances of me risking him for some extra cock are slim to none.

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I'd rather meet my partner on here

Get to know them inside and out....kinks n all

Perfect x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me, it's not the look or the profile that puts me off, but when the "lady" calls herself Bitchslut2017 or her profile is of aggressive tone. Whether she's good looking or not.

Who'd want to spend time with someone like that?!!

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