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Was just talking to a single female about meeting me and my girl. Was going really well,she sent face picture's,said we both looked like her type of people as i gave her Lexi username,and then poof. UNLOS. Not before she had told us where she was from mind you lol. I know it's been asked/said before but when is fab going to make it harder for people to piss about on this site. That's 20 minutes if my life i'll never get back. Not getting any younger you know  |
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Rant?. I thought that was just what happened. I'm more bothered that fab still let's anyone just send messages. She/he/they clearly aren't here for what the most of us are here for.  . Thanks for that insiteful response  |
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"you scarred her off the side? naughty..."
Oi you missy. Don't get bloody cheeky. Yeah i maybe did ha. Well c'mon. Not verified by any means and thought i'd send our faces haha. I expect her/most likely him or could be they will be back as someone else. I'm tempted to do a search on the pictures they sent and see what comes up |
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"What is it they can do exactly?
Also.... What would you have filled your wasted 20 minute up with if you hadn't have been messaging them? "
Unless you upload a picture. Then all you an do is browse. No posting in the forums or messaging?. That would be a good start no?
I would've made something to eat and got some planning done. |
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over a year ago
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"Was just talking to a single female about meeting me and my girl. Was going really well,she sent face picture's,said we both looked like her type of people as i gave her Lexi username,and then poof. UNLOS. Not before she had told us where she was from mind you lol. I know it's been asked/said before but when is fab going to make it harder for people to piss about on this site. That's 20 minutes if my life i'll never get back. Not getting any younger you know "
What do you suggest?
People have to join Fab in person by travelling to a regional registration centre?
You can only join Fab if you are verified genuine and are vouched for by at least two other people?
You have to sign a disclaimer that you promise to not go unlos without 1 month notice?
Have it buldled like a mobile phone contract so you have a minimum term?
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"Was just talking to a single female about meeting me and my girl. Was going really well,she sent face picture's,said we both looked like her type of people as i gave her Lexi username,and then poof. UNLOS. Not before she had told us where she was from mind you lol. I know it's been asked/said before but when is fab going to make it harder for people to piss about on this site. That's 20 minutes if my life i'll never get back. Not getting any younger you know
What do you suggest?
People have to join Fab in person by travelling to a regional registration centre?
You can only join Fab if you are verified genuine and are vouched for by at least two other people?
You have to sign a disclaimer that you promise to not go unlos without 1 month notice?
Have it buldled like a mobile phone contract so you have a minimum term?
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"Rant?. I thought that was just what happened. I'm more bothered that fab still let's anyone just send messages. She/he/they clearly aren't here for what the most of us are here for. . Thanks for that insiteful response "
Maybe she didn't fancy your girlfriend.
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"What is it they can do exactly?
Also.... What would you have filled your wasted 20 minute up with if you hadn't have been messaging them?
Unless you upload a picture. Then all you an do is browse. No posting in the forums or messaging?. That would be a good start no?
I would've made something to eat and got some planning done. "
What kind of pics exactly? Would mine do?  |
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"Rant?. I thought that was just what happened. I'm more bothered that fab still let's anyone just send messages. She/he/they clearly aren't here for what the most of us are here for. . Thanks for that insiteful response
Maybe she didn't fancy your girlfriend.
How do you want Fab to police the message system? How will they force people to meet?"
See above . I didn't say anything about forcing anyone to meet. I thought i'd get helpful replies but if you don't read previous posts then you can't make an informed reply surely. C'mon peeps. I know it's s@#tty Monday but fix up!  |
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"What is it they can do exactly?
Also.... What would you have filled your wasted 20 minute up with if you hadn't have been messaging them?
Unless you upload a picture. Then all you an do is browse. No posting in the forums or messaging?. That would be a good start no?
I would've made something to eat and got some planning done.
What kind of pics exactly? Would mine do? "
The picture they ask you to verify your profile. Don't know. What pictures are you on about?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rant?. I thought that was just what happened. I'm more bothered that fab still let's anyone just send messages. She/he/they clearly aren't here for what the most of us are here for. . Thanks for that insiteful response
Maybe she didn't fancy your girlfriend.
How do you want Fab to police the message system? How will they force people to meet?
See above . I didn't say anything about forcing anyone to meet. I thought i'd get helpful replies but if you don't read previous posts then you can't make an informed reply surely. C'mon peeps. I know it's s@#tty Monday but fix up! "
Then what exactly do you want Fab to do about it? It's a serious question.  |
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"Rant?. I thought that was just what happened. I'm more bothered that fab still let's anyone just send messages. She/he/they clearly aren't here for what the most of us are here for. . Thanks for that insiteful response
Maybe she didn't fancy your girlfriend.
How do you want Fab to police the message system? How will they force people to meet?
See above . I didn't say anything about forcing anyone to meet. I thought i'd get helpful replies but if you don't read previous posts then you can't make an informed reply surely. C'mon peeps. I know it's s@#tty Monday but fix up!
Then what exactly do you want Fab to do about it? It's a serious question. "
Obviously nothing about them as they're gone now. But if you mean going forward then that answer is above  |
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"Did you have a nice chat though?
I did you know. Bloody b@#tard lol. Wonder if he's set up another profile already "
It makes it worse, I've never met a fake I didn't like. |
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"Did you have a nice chat though?
I did you know. Bloody b@#tard lol. Wonder if he's set up another profile already
It makes it worse, I've never met a fake I didn't like. "
That's soo true. Didn't think of it like that actually. Very interesting point. F@#kers ay |
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You can't force people to stay on the site, you've got no idea what the person you were talking to had going on in the real world. Better now that going unlos the day before you were due to meet. |
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"What is it they can do exactly?
Also.... What would you have filled your wasted 20 minute up with if you hadn't have been messaging them?
Unless you upload a picture. Then all you an do is browse. No posting in the forums or messaging?. That would be a good start no?
I would've made something to eat and got some planning done. "
So you could make this a rule yourself. Don't message anyone who doesn't have pictures |
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"You can't force people to stay on the site, you've got no idea what the person you were talking to had going on in the real world. Better now that going unlos the day before you were due to meet. "
Okay okay. If they had soo much going on in their lives,then why join in the first place. Baring in mind they joined like a day ago I think it was. I get what you're saying but c'mon let's not be naive to the most obvious fact. Which is it was most likely a man |
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"What is it they can do exactly?
Also.... What would you have filled your wasted 20 minute up with if you hadn't have been messaging them?
Unless you upload a picture. Then all you an do is browse. No posting in the forums or messaging?. That would be a good start no?
I would've made something to eat and got some planning done.
So you could make this a rule yourself. Don't message anyone who doesn't have pictures "
True. Do you mean verified picture or pictures in general? |
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"What is it they can do exactly?
Also.... What would you have filled your wasted 20 minute up with if you hadn't have been messaging them?
Unless you upload a picture. Then all you an do is browse. No posting in the forums or messaging?. That would be a good start no?
I would've made something to eat and got some planning done.
So you could make this a rule yourself. Don't message anyone who doesn't have pictures
True. Do you mean verified picture or pictures in general?"
Don't mind, it's your rule |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
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"you scarred her off the side? naughty...
Oi you missy. Don't get bloody cheeky. Yeah i maybe did ha. Well c'mon. Not verified by any means and thought i'd send our faces haha. I expect her/most likely him or could be they will be back as someone else. I'm tempted to do a search on the pictures they sent and see what comes up "
What you mean you don't do this first? Blooming amateur
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"What is it they can do exactly?
Also.... What would you have filled your wasted 20 minute up with if you hadn't have been messaging them?
Unless you upload a picture. Then all you an do is browse. No posting in the forums or messaging?. That would be a good start no?
I would've made something to eat and got some planning done.
So you could make this a rule yourself. Don't message anyone who doesn't have pictures
True. Do you mean verified picture or pictures in general?
Don't mind, it's your rule "
True again. I will use it now. As i said it's the first time it's happened to me so learning from my mistakes |
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"you scarred her off the side? naughty...
Oi you missy. Don't get bloody cheeky. Yeah i maybe did ha. Well c'mon. Not verified by any means and thought i'd send our faces haha. I expect her/most likely him or could be they will be back as someone else. I'm tempted to do a search on the pictures they sent and see what comes up
What you mean you don't do this first? Blooming amateur
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That i am. Not ashamed to admit it. . First time never to happen again though |
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"You can't force people to stay on the site, you've got no idea what the person you were talking to had going on in the real world. Better now that going unlos the day before you were due to meet.
Okay okay. If they had soo much going on in their lives,then why join in the first place. Baring in mind they joined like a day ago I think it was. I get what you're saying but c'mon let's not be naive to the most obvious fact. Which is it was most likely a man "
It could've been a woman but newbies get loads of messages. She may have been put off by too much mail and just left.
Trust your gut. If it seems too good to be true it probably is. Doesn't mean you're daft or naïve. |
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"You can't force people to stay on the site, you've got no idea what the person you were talking to had going on in the real world. Better now that going unlos the day before you were due to meet.
Okay okay. If they had soo much going on in their lives,then why join in the first place. Baring in mind they joined like a day ago I think it was. I get what you're saying but c'mon let's not be naive to the most obvious fact. Which is it was most likely a man
It could've been a woman but newbies get loads of messages. She may have been put off by too much mail and just left.
Trust your gut. If it seems too good to be true it probably is. Doesn't mean you're daft or naïve."
Yeah. I'm not saying it was this or that. Just what is more likely. She could 've but i asked all those type of things and they claimed they just delete ones that don't stand out etc. They messaged me 1st by the way. Yeah i know what you're saying and thank you. That's nice of you to say so |
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"There are a lot of time wasters on here . It's part of it I guess . Keep going and you will find the good ones . "
Just never came across any to be honest. I usually stay far away from newbies and too good to be profiles. I've been off fab for a couples days. Got caught in the headlights lol |
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"I had a message from an unlos waiting for me in my mailbox... a whole 19 minutes old and theu'd given up
That long ay lol. Think they knew each other? "
It was probably the same guy |
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"I had a message from an unlos waiting for me in my mailbox... a whole 19 minutes old and theu'd given up
That long ay lol. Think they knew each other?
It was probably the same guy "
You're probably right  |
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"You can't force people to stay on the site, you've got no idea what the person you were talking to had going on in the real world. Better now that going unlos the day before you were due to meet.
Okay okay. If they had soo much going on in their lives,then why join in the first place. Baring in mind they joined like a day ago I think it was. I get what you're saying but c'mon let's not be naive to the most obvious fact. Which is it was most likely a man "
If it was that obvious out shouldn't have been a surprise worth posting about. It could have been a woman who, deluged with hundreds of crude messages the moment she joined, thought sod this and deleted. Or yes, something might have happened in 24 hrs. Either way, again better unlos after a whole 20 mins of your time than when you were about to head out the door to meet. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Was just talking to a single female about meeting me and my girl. Was going really well,she sent face picture's,said we both looked like her type of people as i gave her Lexi username,and then poof. UNLOS. Not before she had told us where she was from mind you lol. I know it's been asked/said before but when is fab going to make it harder for people to piss about on this site. That's 20 minutes if my life i'll never get back. Not getting any younger you know "
It Cood be worse op... |
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"You can't force people to stay on the site, you've got no idea what the person you were talking to had going on in the real world. Better now that going unlos the day before you were due to meet.
Okay okay. If they had soo much going on in their lives,then why join in the first place. Baring in mind they joined like a day ago I think it was. I get what you're saying but c'mon let's not be naive to the most obvious fact. Which is it was most likely a man
If it was that obvious out shouldn't have been a surprise worth posting about. It could have been a woman who, deluged with hundreds of crude messages the moment she joined, thought sod this and deleted. Or yes, something might have happened in 24 hrs. Either way, again better unlos after a whole 20 mins of your time than when you were about to head out the door to meet. "
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"Was just talking to a single female about meeting me and my girl. Was going really well,she sent face picture's,said we both looked like her type of people as i gave her Lexi username,and then poof. UNLOS. Not before she had told us where she was from mind you lol. I know it's been asked/said before but when is fab going to make it harder for people to piss about on this site. That's 20 minutes if my life i'll never get back. Not getting any younger you know
It Cood be worse op... "
Yeah true. I know. It wasn't a serious rant. Just never happened to me before and bcz i rarely make a thread,i thought why not ay . Onwards and upwards lol |
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