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Are you a flirter?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or clearly straight up and to the point?
If your clearly interested in someone on Fab, is it standard for a woman to play the flirting game? Should men play it more cool?
I'd like to meet a few ladies on Fab, they know who they are 
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No, sadly not. I just think on here it reads really poor and daft on here when I read back my 'flirting' compared to others. I guess I'm more straight to the point with a healthy dose of realism so tend not to bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or clearly straight up and to the point?
If your clearly interested in someone on Fab, is it standard for a woman to play the flirting game? Should men play it more cool?
I'd like to meet a few ladies on Fab, they know who they are
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i was told recently at work, i flirt 99.9% of the time and most people know its just me and never take me serious as if i want something ill get it
on here ill flirt but if i want someone i will ask x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here I take flirting as just that, flirting with no intention of meeting. It's fun and passes the time away on the forums nothing serious in it.
If interested in meeting then it's chat to get to know someone better with intention of meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On here I take flirting as just that, flirting with no intention of meeting. It's fun and passes the time away on the forums nothing serious in it.
If interested in meeting then it's chat to get to know someone better with intention of meeting."
So you see flirting in the forums as nothing more of a game? |
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I very very rarely feel confident enough to flirt. Mind you, I rarely feel confident enough to be straight and to the point either because I'm inhibited by fears of saying the wrong thing or misinterpreting what someone says to me. How I've ever got anything off the ground here is more to do with luck than judgement and compared to the ease and quick wit with which I see so many others flirting I often feel rather inadequate ...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I very very rarely feel confident enough to flirt. Mind you, I rarely feel confident enough to be straight and to the point either because I'm inhibited by fears of saying the wrong thing or misinterpreting what someone says to me. How I've ever got anything off the ground here is more to do with luck than judgement and compared to the ease and quick wit with which I see so many others flirting I often feel rather inadequate ... "
Don't feel inadequate...you could feel something else if you want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here I take flirting as just that, flirting with no intention of meeting. It's fun and passes the time away on the forums nothing serious in it.
If interested in meeting then it's chat to get to know someone better with intention of meeting.
So you see flirting in the forums as nothing more of a game? "
That's been my experience of it yes.....for me nothing has ever come out of flirting here. All my meets except one have been ones I've directly contacted and express my interest. The other she contacted me directly.
I find most ladies who flirt do it with loads if guys. ..its natural for some so not sure they're interested in meeting all those guts they flirt with. Some don't know how to flirt or don't realise their being flirted with either.
Others obviously have different experience. Maybe it's down to different types of characters too that were attracted to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I very very rarely feel confident enough to flirt. Mind you, I rarely feel confident enough to be straight and to the point either because I'm inhibited by fears of saying the wrong thing or misinterpreting what someone says to me. How I've ever got anything off the ground here is more to do with luck than judgement and compared to the ease and quick wit with which I see so many others flirting I often feel rather inadequate ...
Don't feel inadequate...you could feel something else if you want. "
That's a flirt V... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a naturally flirty person and I often don't realise Im doing it. Especially in chat, I get told I "lead people on" where I think Im just bent friendly.
Conversely when I am actually into someone on here Im quite forward about it. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I flirt with the idea of flirting (see what I did there) but more often than not fail miserably - neither am I very up front and blatant and have a tendency to blather on inanely.
I'm also not great at reading signals unless they're so overt even I couldn't miss them, and even then I usually think they're intended for someone else if declared publically or not to be taken entirely seriously if done privately.
Basically I'm a hapless hopeless case in the flirt stakes!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do a bit of flirting, I can be straight to the point but also be coy. It depends on my mood. If I wanted to arrange a meet I’d probably be fairly direct., but depending on who it was would modify my approach accordingly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just sit quietly in a corner and wait for the flirt to come to me...
Still waiting...
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Well I find that hard to believe,not many women can resist a sexy Irish guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs is always happy to flirt and can be very to the point depending on how keen she is... mr always a flirt and will be more forward to start than mrs when it comes to first contact. |
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I'm too straight to the point for that 
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