"For me one offs are ok but, regular contact makes for better, kinkier times as, most women including me do this best with regulars." I also find( happened me with a woman in the past)feelings can become a problem if regularly seen somebody.
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I have been lucky enough to find a couple of guys locally who I meet on a regular basis. you can explore more easily, arranging something gets easier and all that.
I do one offs as well but you just never know what you are going to get. I like the excitement- but the sex is almost always better with regular play mates. |
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Sex is so much better with a regular partner as you can build the trust needed to do certain things. I have only caught the feels for one but I am honest with him about it and I am pretty good at separating my feelings. |
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Some guys I've met more than once, others just a one off....
Only 2 that I would class as regular and its just a mutually benificial arrangement. No feelings involved other than a healthy respect  |
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"the more and more I see womens profiles on here I see looking for regular fun. does that mean you just want one man whose near you for sex time and time again? "
sometimes a one time fuck is good or ata club
sometimes i want to push boundries and one offs i cant |
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"the more and more I see womens profiles on here I see looking for regular fun. does that mean you just want one man whose near you for sex time and time again?
sometimes a one time fuck is good or ata club
sometimes i want to push boundries and one offs i cant"
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"can everyone keep it at just sex though?"
I think that depends on the individuals and what they're looking for. It's not a problem for us because we're in a very happy and fulfilling relationship, but I can see how, if you're single and looking for 'the one', feelings might get confused. Most people know their own minds, can control their emotions and know where their boundaries are.
Personally, we prefer to meet people regularly for the reasons others have stated above, but that doesn't have to be exclusively one person. Ideally, we prefer to have several people, a group of friends, who we meet regularly for fun...a bit like hanging out with your mates and enjoying social time together, with great sex as an added bonus.
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