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By *himstone OP Man
over a year ago
Northants |
Hi Guys, been a site supporter and member for about a year now.
Unlike most people I see on the forums on here and bios I feel I’m not a pushy or rude person at all. I try and put some nice messages out there and all I get is deleted messages. I understand that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, that’s understandable.
I was Just wondering if anyone has any help or advice on firstly how to get reply’s and secondly get verifications and hopefully some exciting meets!
Is there something in my bio that’s an instant turn off or that needs rewriting or is it just me!!!!
Thanks in advance everyone,
Whimstone. |
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Oh and make sure you message people who’s criteria you fit. So stick to people looking for 21 year old straight guys.
It’s a big annoyance to us the amount of messages from guys who are outside of what we specify. |
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By *himstone OP Man
over a year ago
Northants |
"Hi there.
Your age
Lack of pics
Not much written in your profile.
But id think mainly your age will put people off. "
Thanks for the honest feedback appreciate it. I didn’t know the not a lot written in my profile was a big disadvantage, didn’t want to just ramble on it! And the pics but I can definitely work on that one! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
OP, it is helpful, if you put in your profile what you have to offer a meet and what you expect from a meet. This way people can see if they are compatible with you. Maybe some more pics too. Yes, your age may be an issue, but you can't change that! Good luck.  |
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"Hi there.
Your age
Lack of pics
Not much written in your profile.
But id think mainly your age will put people off.
Thanks for the honest feedback appreciate it. I didn’t know the not a lot written in my profile was a big disadvantage, didn’t want to just ramble on it! And the pics but I can definitely work on that one! "
Doesn’t have to be war and peace like ours! Just more of an indicator of who you are and what you’re looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Guys, been a site supporter and member for about a year now.
Unlike most people I see on the forums on here and bios I feel I’m not a pushy or rude person at all. I try and put some nice messages out there and all I get is deleted messages. I understand that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, that’s understandable.
I was Just wondering if anyone has any help or advice on firstly how to get reply’s and secondly get verifications and hopefully some exciting meets!
Is there something in my bio that’s an instant turn off or that needs rewriting or is it just me!!!!
Thanks in advance everyone,
Whimstone. "
Do you think most people on the forums are pushy and rude then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unlike most people I see on the forums on here and bios I feel I’m not a pushy or rude person at all. I try and put some nice messages out there and all I get is deleted messages. I understand that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, that’s understandable.
Thanks in advance everyone,
Whimstone. "
Why do you think most people on the forum are pushy and rude? Or is that what you really meant? |
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By *himstone OP Man
over a year ago
Northants |
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Unlike most people I see on the forums on here and bios I feel I’m not a pushy or rude person at all. I try and put some nice messages out there and all I get is deleted messages. I understand that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, that’s understandable.
Thanks in advance everyone,
Whimstone.
Why do you think most people on the forum are pushy and rude? Or is that what you really meant? "
Most probably wasn’t the most optimum word but I have seen some guys on here that are very rude and direct to the point with no tact behind it. Not everyone, like I said probably poor choosing of words, no malicious intent behind it. |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
Hi OP
Firstly, being a site supporter means nothing. You have paid for a few extra features, not guarenteed sex.
I would also echo other comments regarding your age, which is similar to mant member's children. Your youth can also be linked to your presumed lack of expereience, and not everyone wants to be a teacher. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unlike most people I see on the forums on here and bios I feel I’m not a pushy or rude person at all. I try and put some nice messages out there and all I get is deleted messages. I understand that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, that’s understandable.
Thanks in advance everyone,
Whimstone.
Why do you think most people on the forum are pushy and rude? Or is that what you really meant?
Most probably wasn’t the most optimum word but I have seen some guys on here that are very rude and direct to the point with no tact behind it. Not everyone, like I said probably poor choosing of words, no malicious intent behind it. "
 some people in here like direct Ive found, some don't respond to it as well, and they themselves might think of it as pushy, but I've never really witnessed 'rude' in here.
I've witnessed people being down right cocks, but it's rare. |
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