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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I noticed from the who’s looked at me thingy that a guy has had a nose a few times. He has in his profile he likes to get to know people before a meet meet (perfect my sort of guy) he lives locally so I messaged him. He’s had another look at my profile and read the message. No reply. That’s fine but.... do I block him now or just leave it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I noticed from the who’s looked at me thingy that a guy has had a nose a few times. He has in his profile he likes to get to know people before a meet meet (perfect my sort of guy) he lives locally so I messaged him. He’s had another look at my profile and read the message. No reply. That’s fine but.... do I block him now or just leave it? "
I thought the protocol was to send them a load of abuse before blocking?? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"So I noticed from the who’s looked at me thingy that a guy has had a nose a few times. He has in his profile he likes to get to know people before a meet meet (perfect my sort of guy) he lives locally so I messaged him. He’s had another look at my profile and read the message. No reply. That’s fine but.... do I block him now or just leave it? "
Leave it a bit id say he might be too busy to reply at the moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it would depend on how long ago you messaged him?
Blocking seems a bit harsh, he may just be busy and not have the time to reply.
A bit like single females and couples. Not everyone will reply straight away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say you e done your bit, it’s up to him if he replies or not. Why block him tho, just don’t message him again if you don’t want to. Idiot blocked every girl that didn’t reply to me then there’d be nothing leftfor me to look aton here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I noticed from the who’s looked at me thingy that a guy has had a nose a few times. He has in his profile he likes to get to know people before a meet meet (perfect my sort of guy) he lives locally so I messaged him. He’s had another look at my profile and read the message. No reply. That’s fine but.... do I block him now or just leave it?
I thought the protocol was to send them a load of abuse before blocking??"
Yeah I’ve received my fair share |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Your call entirely OP - may depend on how much time has elapsed since he read your message too, could just be he hasn't had time to reply, or wants to think over how best to reply.
Personally I wouldn't block unless someone had been abusive, maybe just leave a private note on his profile (which he can't see) detailing when you messaged him, which acts as a reminder if you come across his profile again  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d say you e done your bit, it’s up to him if he replies or not. Why block him tho, just don’t message him again if you don’t want to. Idiot blocked every girl that didn’t reply to me then there’d be nothing leftfor me to look aton here. "
But that’s the point I don’t want you having a good old perv at me when you can’t even be polite and reply to say no thanks I’m not interested |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He probably thinks you’re a bloke pretending to be a single female, as the Fab rules state; ‘No woman shall ever message first!’  "
Hahahaha that’s true! I’m a complicated Ryle breaker always have been |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your call entirely OP - may depend on how much time has elapsed since he read your message too, could just be he hasn't had time to reply, or wants to think over how best to reply.
Personally I wouldn't block unless someone had been abusive, maybe just leave a private note on his profile (which he can't see) detailing when you messaged him, which acts as a reminder if you come across his profile again "
Thanks Gemini |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I guess it would depend on how long ago you messaged him?
Blocking seems a bit harsh, he may just be busy and not have the time to reply.
A bit like single females and couples. Not everyone will reply straight away."
Like one whole minute ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d say you e done your bit, it’s up to him if he replies or not. Why block him tho, just don’t message him again if you don’t want to. Idiot blocked every girl that didn’t reply to me then there’d be nothing leftfor me to look aton here.
But that’s the point I don’t want you having a good old perv at me when you can’t even be polite and reply to say no thanks I’m not interested "
If one of us guys said that we’d get slated because of the sheer volume of messages you girls get and you can’t pissibly reply to them all. Maybe he’s popular and gets a lot of messages and didn’t have the time to reply to them all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d say you e done your bit, it’s up to him if he replies or not. Why block him tho, just don’t message him again if you don’t want to. Idiot blocked every girl that didn’t reply to me then there’d be nothing leftfor me to look aton here.
But that’s the point I don’t want you having a good old perv at me when you can’t even be polite and reply to say no thanks I’m not interested
If one of us guys said that we’d get slated because of the sheer volume of messages you girls get and you can’t pissibly reply to them all. Maybe he’s popular and gets a lot of messages and didn’t have the time to reply to them all. "
Oooo never thought of that
I guess he could know me too 
Oh well I tell thee being this side of the communication doesn’t feel good lol only joking I’m in the pub |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I noticed from the who’s looked at me thingy that a guy has had a nose a few times. He has in his profile he likes to get to know people before a meet meet (perfect my sort of guy) he lives locally so I messaged him. He’s had another look at my profile and read the message. No reply. That’s fine but.... do I block him now or just leave it? "
As far as your question goes OP personally I would just leave it.
On another note...I LOVE the red spiked shoes you have in your pics xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it would depend on how long ago you messaged him?
Blocking seems a bit harsh, he may just be busy and not have the time to reply.
A bit like single females and couples. Not everyone will reply straight away.
Like one whole minute ago "
I usually give it at least 2!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I noticed from the who’s looked at me thingy that a guy has had a nose a few times. He has in his profile he likes to get to know people before a meet meet (perfect my sort of guy) he lives locally so I messaged him. He’s had another look at my profile and read the message. No reply. That’s fine but.... do I block him now or just leave it?
As far as your question goes OP personally I would just leave it.
On another note...I LOVE the red spiked shoes you have in your pics xx
MrsK"
Thank you MrsK I can’t walk in them but they are hot as hell lol ebay I know they have white ones left not sure if the red are coming back |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I guess it would depend on how long ago you messaged him?
Blocking seems a bit harsh, he may just be busy and not have the time to reply.
A bit like single females and couples. Not everyone will reply straight away.
Like one whole minute ago
I usually give it at least 2! "
You’re so generous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guessing it's quite a rarity that a woman has messaged first that it's caused such confusion in the ranks on what to do. So many different responses.
OP it depends on how much you would like tomeet him.
I've messaged one or two ladies who read but never replied and months later saying saying they liked my profile blah blah blah. I politely relied thank you , what changed? To which they replied... what you mean? I said I've messaged you in the past but was just ignored. ( They never replied back) I take it they were suddenly desperate and I was plan C or D |
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"So I noticed from the who’s looked at me thingy that a guy has had a nose a few times. He has in his profile he likes to get to know people before a meet meet (perfect my sort of guy) he lives locally so I messaged him. He’s had another look at my profile and read the message. No reply. That’s fine but.... do I block him now or just leave it? "
Thats a first on fab single girl messaging a guy first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe he's just a looker and doesn't want to take it any further. There are lots on here that talk the talk but going through with an actual meet is beyond them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm guessing it's quite a rarity that a woman has messaged first that it's caused such confusion in the ranks on what to do. So many different responses.
OP it depends on how much you would like tomeet him.
I've messaged one or two ladies who read but never replied and months later saying saying they liked my profile blah blah blah. I politely relied thank you , what changed? To which they replied... what you mean? I said I've messaged you in the past but was just ignored. ( They never replied back) I take it they were suddenly desperate and I was plan C or D "
To be honest I’m just being mischievous. I’m not bothered either way. Luckily for us girls there are loads of guys for us to pick from. I’m not in any hurry and not prepared to drop my standards. The only thing is he’s local to me, older and says he doesn’t rush into things so that did entice me in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe he's just a looker and doesn't want to take it any further. There are lots on here that talk the talk but going through with an actual meet is beyond them. "
That’s true kitty Kat for some reason I’m still replying to one who clearly is never going to meet me. It kills some time when I’m bored haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I noticed from the who’s looked at me thingy that a guy has had a nose a few times. He has in his profile he likes to get to know people before a meet meet (perfect my sort of guy) he lives locally so I messaged him. He’s had another look at my profile and read the message. No reply. That’s fine but.... do I block him now or just leave it?
Thats a first on fab single girl messaging a guy first "
We don’t really need to message first but of course those guys who haven’t seen you yet and you want them to notice you you have to put a bit of effort in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I block if my messages are read and no reply .As they are not interested ,in my opinion . Alot just look at pics and have no intentions in meeting . 
To be fair they are hot pics "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I block if my messages are read and no reply .As they are not interested ,in my opinion . Alot just look at pics and have no intentions in meeting .
To be fair they are hot pics "
Hes not wrong honey rose. Amazing boobies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I block if my messages are read and no reply .As they are not interested ,in my opinion . Alot just look at pics and have no intentions in meeting . "
I have tended to do that now as well but sometimes I'm a in a softer mood and just delete after I've messaged so as not to worry about it. The problem then is if I do get a reply which is seldom in most cases I've no idea what the message is about and think wow they messaged me first... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I block if my messages are read and no reply .As they are not interested ,in my opinion . Alot just look at pics and have no intentions in meeting .
I have tended to do that now as well but sometimes I'm a in a softer mood and just delete after I've messaged so as not to worry about it. The problem then is if I do get a reply which is seldom in most cases I've no idea what the message is about and think wow they messaged me first... "
Haha i always check the profile first as it says at the top what contact youve had |
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"I'm guessing it's quite a rarity that a woman has messaged first that it's caused such confusion in the ranks on what to do. So many different responses.
OP it depends on how much you would like tomeet him.
I've messaged one or two ladies who read but never replied and months later saying saying they liked my profile blah blah blah. I politely relied thank you , what changed? To which they replied... what you mean? I said I've messaged you in the past but was just ignored. ( They never replied back) I take it they were suddenly desperate and I was plan C or D "
Hard to believe you would be a plan c or d .....e? perhaps 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm guessing it's quite a rarity that a woman has messaged first that it's caused such confusion in the ranks on what to do. So many different responses.
OP it depends on how much you would like tomeet him.
I've messaged one or two ladies who read but never replied and months later saying saying they liked my profile blah blah blah. I politely relied thank you , what changed? To which they replied... what you mean? I said I've messaged you in the past but was just ignored. ( They never replied back) I take it they were suddenly desperate and I was plan C or D
Hard to believe you would be a plan c or d .....e? perhaps
Apples "
Oh I've last minute messages where I know I've been plan B or C before by a couple of well known northern ladies .... its not as uncommon as one would be led to believe. I never accept being B or C as I'd guess the sex wouldnt be giving A grade either.
It's the well known ones one has to think twice about IME. |
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"I'm guessing it's quite a rarity that a woman has messaged first that it's caused such confusion in the ranks on what to do. So many different responses.
OP it depends on how much you would like tomeet him.
I've messaged one or two ladies who read but never replied and months later saying saying they liked my profile blah blah blah. I politely relied thank you , what changed? To which they replied... what you mean? I said I've messaged you in the past but was just ignored. ( They never replied back) I take it they were suddenly desperate and I was plan C or D
Hard to believe you would be a plan c or d .....e? perhaps
Apples
Oh I've last minute messages where I know I've been plan B or C before by a couple of well known northern ladies .... its not as uncommon as one would be led to believe. I never accept being B or C as I'd guess the sex wouldnt be giving A grade either.
It's the well known ones one has to think twice about IME."
Precisely why I don’t like spur of the moment, last minute invites either; it reeks of ‘Plan b’, ‘any cock’ll do’, or they are d*unk and just having a giggle. I prefer to meet people who want to meet me, not just anyone with a cock. Jeez, men have feelings too you know  |
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