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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thick thighs make the dick rise....big and sexy sounds about right, and yes I’ve told a lady before she has a big arse, if they have one they will know that already, don’t skirt the subject just tell her  |
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"Any other bigger girls get told "they're not big they're sexy"
Almost as if people think it's impossible to be both at the same time.
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I've never been entirely comfortable with the concept of "no, you're not big" as a compliment in general. It seems to me that it implies "You can't possibly be attractive if you're big, but don't worry because you're not big." It just reinforces negative opinions of size. You're not slim, perhaps, but you ARE fucking hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t dwell on it. Each person will have a different view. For instance a lovely fella once said my figure is perfect. I don’t feel it is, but depends on your yardstick doesn’t it. I just say thank you. It doesn’t change anything really. I am what I am. |
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"Iv been told I'm not curvy I'm thick.... I have a thick body think most guys think they might offend if they say big and beautiful "
I'm going to completely contradict what I've just said now, because from your pictures you don't look big at all to me. "Curvy" seems fairly apt, hips and booty with a narrow waist.
And I think "thick" is an absolutely awful term.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Iv been told I'm not curvy I'm thick.... I have a thick body think most guys think they might offend if they say big and beautiful "
I understand this but surely if I am clearly a big girl and refer to myself as such I'm not going to be offended by a man saying it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv been told I'm not curvy I'm thick.... I have a thick body think most guys think they might offend if they say big and beautiful "
Your beautiful, prefectly curvy body, i wouldnt say your fat or thick x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All woman are beautiful no matter what shape or size, I think confidence is the sexiest trait any woman can have!! I'm bottom heavy, I embrace it and use it to my advantage, be proud ladies, world would be a boring place if we were all one size and shape! Kisses to all you beautiful woman x |
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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago
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"All woman are beautiful no matter what shape or size, I think confidence is the sexiest trait any woman can have!! I'm bottom heavy, I embrace it and use it to my advantage, be proud ladies, world would be a boring place if we were all one size and shape! Kisses to all you beautiful woman x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The "best" thing I ever got was "you'd be stunningly pretty if you weren't so fat"
I get this alot aswell x"
Now that I have more confidence in myself I do often come back with "I can diet but you're just ugly"
Nobody has the right to insult me these days ... until everyone is perfect they should really keep their mouths shut! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been lucky and not been called anything other than nice things, sexy and curvy, even stunning ( I know they're lying) but it's all been positive x "
I refer you to your profile pic ... and your mirror |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate when they say that "real woman" crap. I don't need you to put someone down to make me feel good. All woman are real we're just different and that's a good thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big"."
What you on about? Neither would I, women should be appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big"."
No it's not about saying someone looks big, it's when guys say I'm not big I'm sexy, when I clearly am big lol |
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big".
No it's not about saying someone looks big, it's when guys say I'm not big I'm sexy, when I clearly am big lol "
You see this is why i don't message women. Too many trip wires. Poor guys thinks they're complimenting you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big".
No it's not about saying someone looks big, it's when guys say I'm not big I'm sexy, when I clearly am big lol
You see this is why i don't message women. Too many trip wires. Poor guys thinks they're complimenting you.
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It's not a trip wire at all, I'm clearly a big girl and I'm not offended by anyone commenting on my size.
The problem lies when men tell me "you're not big, You're sexy"
It's not really a compliment because implies you cant be big AND sexy at the same time.
If a guy calls me just sexy I obviously take it as a compliment |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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Some woman look great and feel great in their own body. Regardless of size. I admire their confidence.
What annoys me is when some people jump on me for saying I don't feel that way. For me the size I am is not sexy. I'm not a bbw (I find it an insult when people call me it) and I'm not fishing for compliments. I feel and look fat. If that upsets those bigger than me that's not my intention. They have no right to have a go at me for it either though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some woman look great and feel great in their own body. Regardless of size. I admire their confidence.
What annoys me is when some people jump on me for saying I don't feel that way. For me the size I am is not sexy. I'm not a bbw (I find it an insult when people call me it) and I'm not fishing for compliments. I feel and look fat. If that upsets those bigger than me that's not my intention. They have no right to have a go at me for it either though. "
Bbw isn't an insult though, it literally means big beautiful woman.
Also the word fat isn't really an insult either it's a descriptive word.
But I understand what you're saying, it's rubbish when you feel like that about your body x |
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big".
No it's not about saying someone looks big, it's when guys say I'm not big I'm sexy, when I clearly am big lol
You see this is why i don't message women. Too many trip wires. Poor guys thinks they're complimenting you.
It's not a trip wire at all, I'm clearly a big girl and I'm not offended by anyone commenting on my size.
The problem lies when men tell me "you're not big, You're sexy"
It's not really a compliment because implies you cant be big AND sexy at the same time.
If a guy calls me just sexy I obviously take it as a compliment "
Who mentioned the big word in the first place? Example. "Do you like big women?" "Oh come on! You're not big, you're sexy!". |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
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"All woman are beautiful no matter what shape or size, I think confidence is the sexiest trait any woman can have!! I'm bottom heavy, I embrace it and use it to my advantage, be proud ladies, world would be a boring place if we were all one size and shape! Kisses to all you beautiful woman x"
Me being confident when in clubs parties or anyway tbh has helped with my insecurities 
I’d also say curvy !
Any other words I’d find offensive
But that’s just me !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big".
No it's not about saying someone looks big, it's when guys say I'm not big I'm sexy, when I clearly am big lol
You see this is why i don't message women. Too many trip wires. Poor guys thinks they're complimenting you.
It's not a trip wire at all, I'm clearly a big girl and I'm not offended by anyone commenting on my size.
The problem lies when men tell me "you're not big, You're sexy"
It's not really a compliment because implies you cant be big AND sexy at the same time.
If a guy calls me just sexy I obviously take it as a compliment
Who mentioned the big word in the first place? Example. "Do you like big women?" "Oh come on! You're not big, you're sexy!"."
This is a message i get very often.
Just this morning someone saw me comment in a Dick size forum topic and private messaged me saying "You're not big, You're very sexy" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am big and sexy, and I have a man who knows it and loves it, hence the number of photos of my big bottom in our pics.
But I used to get this type of messages on my single fem account too. My response was usually, that I just know how to work with angles |
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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago
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I'm a big girl and totally agree with this I am big and sexy and when people say no your not, it's like starting the conversation on a lie. I've learnt to embrace it and others seem to like my body |
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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago
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"I am big and sexy, and I have a man who knows it and loves it, hence the number of photos of my big bottom in our pics.
But I used to get this type of messages on my single fem account too. My response was usually, that I just know how to work with angles "
Damn sexy with it |
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"I'm a big girl and totally agree with this I am big and sexy and when people say no your not, it's like starting the conversation on a lie. I've learnt to embrace it and others seem to like my body "
It's bloody lovely! |
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"They're trying not to offend. You can definitely be big and sexy. "
If they are trying NOT to offend it follows that there must be an issue that they are avoiding.
I don't know why anyone has to make any kind of comment about someone else.
They either find them sexually attractive or they don't.
I also think that people who mention their size first are not happy in their own body shape and don't expect others to be.
I have NEVER seen a profile that says..... I'm slim and firm so if that's NOT your thing - walk on by. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get called fat, or a big girl, which I find more offensive to be honest. Call a spade a spade, I'm no skinny minnie, my profile and photos shows that. For every guy that's offended by my body I know there's someone out there who will enjoy it, so yeah, whatever.
It's taken me years to finally love my body so take it or leave it. I'm a sexy short arsed minx. Big or skinny has nowt to do with it for me. Happy days |
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"Any other bigger girls get told "they're not big they're sexy"
Almost as if people think it's impossible to be both at the same time.
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People are either sexy to me or they’re not. Size, shape, colour etc all irrelevant
And you my dear are damn sexy. |
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I’m fat, it’s just a fact. I always tell potential meets I am a big girl so that they aren’t surprised when they meet me.
I thought it would put people off, but to my surprise I’ve had so many compliments that I didn’t expect. I was nervous about joining Fab as when I looked at the most Fabbed pics it was all slim big pert boobed lasses and I never thought anyone would want to meet me.
Been proved totally wrong and have a few guys I meet regularly and make me feel like a goddess! |
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big".
No it's not about saying someone looks big, it's when guys say I'm not big I'm sexy, when I clearly am big lol
You see this is why i don't message women. Too many trip wires. Poor guys thinks they're complimenting you.
It's not a trip wire at all, I'm clearly a big girl and I'm not offended by anyone commenting on my size.
The problem lies when men tell me "you're not big, You're sexy"
It's not really a compliment because implies you cant be big AND sexy at the same time.
If a guy calls me just sexy I obviously take it as a compliment
Who mentioned the big word in the first place? Example. "Do you like big women?" "Oh come on! You're not big, you're sexy!".
This is a message i get very often.
Just this morning someone saw me comment in a Dick size forum topic and private messaged me saying "You're not big, You're very sexy" lol "
Ah yes, you referred to yourself as big. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big".
No it's not about saying someone looks big, it's when guys say I'm not big I'm sexy, when I clearly am big lol "
I think people are desperate to not offend and to be fair, there are women out there that would be unhappy if someone reminded them they were big. Not being sure which category some one falls into can make us men who wish to pay someone a compliment become extra clumsy. However you clearly own it, you are big and, very sexy... living proof that someone can be both. |
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Completely get the OP. You can be big & sexy at the same time.
Sexy is not just a look its an attitude....confident! At the end of the day my view of "big" & someone elses perception can be very different. A man who likes SSBBW would not look at me twice because my size 16 jean wearing ass would appear small n skinny to him. Yes some me say they like big girls & me in a 16 is a big girl to them......
Size like beauty is in the eye of the beholder....
LMP |
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"Completely get the OP. You can be big & sexy at the same time.
Sexy is not just a look its an attitude....confident! At the end of the day my view of "big" & someone elses perception can be very different. A man who likes SSBBW would not look at me twice because my size 16 jean wearing ass would appear small n skinny to him. Yes some me say they like big girls & me in a 16 is a big girl to them......
Size like beauty is in the eye of the beholder....
LMP"
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m saying g it’s ridiculous men say these things
I think id call someone sexy before i called them big. You are welcome to think that's ridiculous, but I'd never say "hi! You look big".
No it's not about saying someone looks big, it's when guys say I'm not big I'm sexy, when I clearly am big lol
You see this is why i don't message women. Too many trip wires. Poor guys thinks they're complimenting you.
It's not a trip wire at all, I'm clearly a big girl and I'm not offended by anyone commenting on my size.
The problem lies when men tell me "you're not big, You're sexy"
It's not really a compliment because implies you cant be big AND sexy at the same time.
If a guy calls me just sexy I obviously take it as a compliment
Who mentioned the big word in the first place? Example. "Do you like big women?" "Oh come on! You're not big, you're sexy!".
This is a message i get very often.
Just this morning someone saw me comment in a Dick size forum topic and private messaged me saying "You're not big, You're very sexy" lol
Ah yes, you referred to yourself as big. "
Yes, but only because it was relevant, generally I don't mention it and I'm not one of those "im a big girl so if that's not your thing....." kind of girls |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hate when they say that "real woman" crap. I don't need you to put someone down to make me feel good. All woman are real we're just different and that's a good thing! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I hate when they say that "real woman" crap. I don't need you to put someone down to make me feel good. All woman are real we're just different and that's a good thing! "
It's the worst thing ever tbh |
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"I hate when they say that "real woman" crap. I don't need you to put someone down to make me feel good. All woman are real we're just different and that's a good thing!
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Agreed! A woman is a woman whether she is a size 10 or a 24..... |
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