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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey fabbers, hopefully you can help, the last month are so hasn’t been great for me, a lot of profile views but no message interaction mainly winks, then once replied to the wink no response, am I doing something wrong? ??
Is my profile crap lol!?
And does anyone else experience this?
Thanks hope everyone’s well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers, hopefully you can help, the last month are so hasn’t been great for me, a lot of profile views but no message interaction mainly winks, then once replied to the wink no response, am I doing something wrong? ??
Is my profile crap lol!?
And does anyone else experience this?
Thanks hope everyone’s well! "
In our opinion, your profile sounds like something that shound be in the fantasy section.
It reads like it was made by someone who thinks he knows what people want to read, rather than speaking from experience.
And also, just how many cock photos?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers, hopefully you can help, the last month are so hasn’t been great for me, a lot of profile views but no message interaction mainly winks, then once replied to the wink no response, am I doing something wrong? ??
Is my profile crap lol!?
And does anyone else experience this?
Thanks hope everyone’s well!
In our opinion, your profile sounds like something that shound be in the fantasy section.
It reads like it was made by someone who thinks he knows what people want to read, rather than speaking from experience.
And also, just how many cock photos??"
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By *aelawMan
over a year ago
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Alas, the profile does read a little cheesy, for me anyway. Then the cocky status etc. Thing is though, you are experienced at this so you should know these things already and how to adequately sell yourself. Same advice is always to get involved in the community. Good luck!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hiya OP and welcome!
Your profile looks ok to me, although it reads a bit more literary than practical, if you get my drift. Nothing wrong with that - it certainly will appeal to a number of people.
I do like a good dick pic myself, but....there's a whole lot of dick in your gallery and little of much else. I would include a dick pic as part of a more varied gallery.
Other than that it often comes to what you are messaging people....make sure it doesnt seem too cut and paste and try to include a face pic....
And remember that no matter what you do it takes effort for a single guy to be successful on here. There are far more single men than single women or couples so keep that in mind.
That's my opinion anyway.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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that status really really made me cringe....
i was going to ask "how old are you!" but it actually made sense....
think of it like this... you get one chance to make a great first impression! so what impression would that status update give to others......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that status really really made me cringe....
i was going to ask "how old are you!" but it actually made sense....
think of it like this... you get one chance to make a great first impression! so what impression would that status update give to others......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that status really really made me cringe....
i was going to ask "how old are you!" but it actually made sense....
think of it like this... you get one chance to make a great first impression! so what impression would that status update give to others......
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At least we didn't mention age first! |
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Honestly…if you kept that & read it again when you're 45, it would probably explain an awful lot about what went wrong in your life…
I suspect you're a Lawyer or a Banker though, so at least you'll never be homeless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The status is a bit  and not in keeping with your profile text. The text is a bit too prosaic and therefore doesn’t really convey your personality and comes across a bit too cringy. That said it’s a damn sight better than a lot.
The pics are too focused on your dick which I admit is a nice one. Try and be a bit more creative and again use them to convey facets of your personality as well as show off your bod. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The status is a bit and not in keeping with your profile text. The text is a bit too prosaic and therefore doesn’t really convey your personality and comes across a bit too cringy. That said it’s a damn sight better than a lot.
The pics are too focused on your dick which I admit is a nice one. Try and be a bit more creative and again use them to convey facets of your personality as well as show off your bod."
Perfectly put, I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to applaud the effort and enthusiasm it reads a lot differently to a lot of young mens profiles. Nice cock but we get the idea after the first few photos. Give us a few more creative shot to match the words
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Felt like I was reading a mills and boon, and your photos are pretty much all of your cock.
Tone down the text and show people your more than just a cock. If that's all people wanted, we'd go to ann summers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers, hopefully you can help, the last month are so hasn’t been great for me, a lot of profile views but no message interaction mainly winks, then once replied to the wink no response, am I doing something wrong? ??
Is my profile crap lol!?
And does anyone else experience this?
Thanks hope everyone’s well! "
Think all of us men experience this ! You’re lucky you get the winks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah thabkyounso much for the advice that makes sense, wow how you look at something differently once something has been said, I agree with what you are saying my cock hasn’t changed therefore why all the pics and same sort of shots :D thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh and I’m all for having doctor in your username but FuckDoctor at age 21 - I don’t think it will be taken seriously or do you any favours."
Ah I do see where you’re coming from mate! Now you’ve mentioned it, can you change your username do you know?
Cheers mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have to applaud the effort and enthusiasm it reads a lot differently to a lot of young mens profiles. Nice cock but we get the idea after the first few photos. Give us a few more creative shot to match the words
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thank you for the response, I totally understand where you are coming from now I look at it I do see what you mean my pics are not diversely exciting , and my cock hasn’t changed so no need for the same sort of shots! Wow how you can look at something so differently with feedback haha thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to applaud the effort and enthusiasm it reads a lot differently to a lot of young mens profiles. Nice cock but we get the idea after the first few photos. Give us a few more creative shot to match the words
thank you for the response, I totally understand where you are coming from now I look at it I do see what you mean my pics are not diversely exciting , and my cock hasn’t changed so no need for the same sort of shots! Wow how you can look at something so differently with feedback haha thank you! "
All the best buddy I hope it all goes splendidly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is fine.
DO NOT and I repeat...DO NOT go to the forum for advice. If you want to meet, just soldier on and dont get put off. You have already had a meet so its not all that bad.
This is a sex site. Your cock matters to those who actually want to meet people to play with their cocks. Therefore cock pics are fine, provided they're not excessive.
You need to be more proactive in messaging people. Use the search function and the browse function. If yo REALLY want to meet people then you simply have no choice but to get out into the real world and meet people at events/clubs.
This entire thread is what is wrong with online dating in general. Nitpicking of, ultimately, irrelevant attributes of peoples profiles when what matters ultimately is getting out there and engaging.
You're 21. Not 45. Therefore, for the love of god, dont try and pretend to be one of those fake "mature" jackasses that you get here. There are plenty of women looking for young bulls and young boytoys. Stick to your market and dont deviate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hiya OP and welcome!
Your profile looks ok to me, although it reads a bit more literary than practical, if you get my drift. Nothing wrong with that - it certainly will appeal to a number of people.
I do like a good dick pic myself, but....there's a whole lot of dick in your gallery and little of much else. I would include a dick pic as part of a more varied gallery.
Other than that it often comes to what you are messaging people....make sure it doesnt seem too cut and paste and try to include a face pic....
And remember that no matter what you do it takes effort for a single guy to be successful on here. There are far more single men than single women or couples so keep that in mind.
That's my opinion anyway.
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that’s great advice thank you, yeah I do see what you mean, I need more pics of what I’m talking about etc and maybe cool down on the literature and language just be straight, I’ll have a little rethink of the profile and pics thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is fine.
DO NOT and I repeat...DO NOT go to the forum for advice. If you want to meet, just soldier on and dont get put off. You have already had a meet so its not all that bad.
This is a sex site. Your cock matters to those who actually want to meet people to play with their cocks. Therefore cock pics are fine, provided they're not excessive.
You need to be more proactive in messaging people. Use the search function and the browse function. If yo REALLY want to meet people then you simply have no choice but to get out into the real world and meet people at events/clubs.
This entire thread is what is wrong with online dating in general. Nitpicking of, ultimately, irrelevant attributes of peoples profiles when what matters ultimately is getting out there and engaging.
You're 21. Not 45. Therefore, for the love of god, dont try and pretend to be one of those fake "mature" jackasses that you get here. There are plenty of women looking for young bulls and young boytoys. Stick to your market and dont deviate. "
I haven't agree, as profiles go, it shows your intelligent and compared to a lot of the inane drivel I've read on men's profiles its a bit wafty but in the whole a nice profile, less cock shots but keep some... And do as the man suggests x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is fine.
DO NOT and I repeat...DO NOT go to the forum for advice. If you want to meet, just soldier on and dont get put off. You have already had a meet so its not all that bad.
This is a sex site. Your cock matters to those who actually want to meet people to play with their cocks. Therefore cock pics are fine, provided they're not excessive.
You need to be more proactive in messaging people. Use the search function and the browse function. If yo REALLY want to meet people then you simply have no choice but to get out into the real world and meet people at events/clubs.
This entire thread is what is wrong with online dating in general. Nitpicking of, ultimately, irrelevant attributes of peoples profiles when what matters ultimately is getting out there and engaging.
You're 21. Not 45. Therefore, for the love of god, dont try and pretend to be one of those fake "mature" jackasses that you get here. There are plenty of women looking for young bulls and young boytoys. Stick to your market and dont deviate.
I haven't agree, as profiles go, it shows your intelligent and compared to a lot of the inane drivel I've read on men's profiles its a bit wafty but in the whole a nice profile, less cock shots but keep some... And do as the man suggests x "
People dont fuck intelligence. All this is besides the point as relying solely on the site a single male is a fools errand. He will get the occasional offer here and there but most will end up coming to him should a 21 year old with a good cock be what they require.
Much of the suggestions here are superfluous. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow thank you for such a considerate response! Though now I’m back on the fence as from the comments there were a few things that needed to Be changed, maybe I won’t change everything just certain parts in my description and maybe more pics of action rather than my cock,
The advice of getting out in the world isn’t perfect and I can see why it’s true face to face is always better and more successful in any given situation!
The ‘your 21 not 45’ made me laugh mate thanks for the reassurance! Loved that! I do see what you mean don’t seem to act older becuase someone wants older be a proud 21 year old! And a good young bull! Great advise mate thank you! |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Your profile is fine.
DO NOT and I repeat...DO NOT go to the forum for advice. If you want to meet, just soldier on and dont get put off. You have already had a meet so its not all that bad.
This is a sex site. Your cock matters to those who actually want to meet people to play with their cocks. Therefore cock pics are fine, provided they're not excessive.
You need to be more proactive in messaging people. Use the search function and the browse function. If yo REALLY want to meet people then you simply have no choice but to get out into the real world and meet people at events/clubs.
This entire thread is what is wrong with online dating in general. Nitpicking of, ultimately, irrelevant attributes of peoples profiles when what matters ultimately is getting out there and engaging.
You're 21. Not 45. Therefore, for the love of god, dont try and pretend to be one of those fake "mature" jackasses that you get here. There are plenty of women looking for young bulls and young boytoys. Stick to your market and dont deviate. "
Actually I'd agree with this. The forum is a very small percentage of fab users, and you'll get lots of different advice anyway. For instance I happen to like the cock shots as long as you have other pics too. Keep your profile true to yourself I'd say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is fine.
DO NOT and I repeat...DO NOT go to the forum for advice. If you want to meet, just soldier on and dont get put off. You have already had a meet so its not all that bad.
This is a sex site. Your cock matters to those who actually want to meet people to play with their cocks. Therefore cock pics are fine, provided they're not excessive.
You need to be more proactive in messaging people. Use the search function and the browse function. If yo REALLY want to meet people then you simply have no choice but to get out into the real world and meet people at events/clubs.
This entire thread is what is wrong with online dating in general. Nitpicking of, ultimately, irrelevant attributes of peoples profiles when what matters ultimately is getting out there and engaging.
You're 21. Not 45. Therefore, for the love of god, dont try and pretend to be one of those fake "mature" jackasses that you get here. There are plenty of women looking for young bulls and young boytoys. Stick to your market and dont deviate.
I haven't agree, as profiles go, it shows your intelligent and compared to a lot of the inane drivel I've read on men's profiles its a bit wafty but in the whole a nice profile, less cock shots but keep some... And do as the man suggests x
People dont fuck intelligence. All this is besides the point as relying solely on the site a single male is a fools errand. He will get the occasional offer here and there but most will end up coming to him should a 21 year old with a good cock be what they require.
Much of the suggestions here are superfluous. "
Ohhhh wind your neck in. If I was being shitty then fair enough... But really? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your avatar shows such promise then you click on your gallery and have to pass 7 million cock pics to get to see it. 
Your profile reads like it was written by a middle aged man with a lot of time on his hands.
Chill out, stop trying to impress and let your personality shine.
Cliches and cringe wont get you no minge!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree there was no means to disrespect therefore no need for the solid remark,
You’re both right here, yes people don’t want to fuck intelligence but people aslso want someone who can hold a good intellectual conversation, on meets as not all meets are to fuck straight away or parties etc,
Also having intelligence does give off attraction playing with words, flirting, laughing, continued jokes and good flow of conversation all adds to the flirtatious and teasing attraction, I’d say
Let’s not have to much of a debate here the advise you are all giving me is taken on board I just wanted friendly opinions appreciate all the comments thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is fine.
DO NOT and I repeat...DO NOT go to the forum for advice. If you want to meet, just soldier on and dont get put off. You have already had a meet so its not all that bad.
This is a sex site. Your cock matters to those who actually want to meet people to play with their cocks. Therefore cock pics are fine, provided they're not excessive.
You need to be more proactive in messaging people. Use the search function and the browse function. If yo REALLY want to meet people then you simply have no choice but to get out into the real world and meet people at events/clubs.
This entire thread is what is wrong with online dating in general. Nitpicking of, ultimately, irrelevant attributes of peoples profiles when what matters ultimately is getting out there and engaging.
You're 21. Not 45. Therefore, for the love of god, dont try and pretend to be one of those fake "mature" jackasses that you get here. There are plenty of women looking for young bulls and young boytoys. Stick to your market and dont deviate.
I haven't agree, as profiles go, it shows your intelligent and compared to a lot of the inane drivel I've read on men's profiles its a bit wafty but in the whole a nice profile, less cock shots but keep some... And do as the man suggests x
People dont fuck intelligence. All this is besides the point as relying solely on the site a single male is a fools errand. He will get the occasional offer here and there but most will end up coming to him should a 21 year old with a good cock be what they require.
Much of the suggestions here are superfluous.
Ohhhh wind your neck in. If I was being shitty then fair enough... But really? "
I'm not sure where I suggested you were being shitty. It was just superfluous advice.
This is part of the point though. There is a strange kind of behavioral conformity on the forums...I've found that it doesn't translate well to real world swinging for single men...at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your avatar shows such promise then you click on your gallery and have to pass 7 million cock pics to get to see it.
Your profile reads like it was written by a middle aged man with a lot of time on his hands.
Chill out, stop trying to impress and let your personality shine.
Ah thank you! Now you’ve said it again I have to agree you’re right my photos aren’t set out great or diverse enough I will be changing them for sure,
With the profile I do understand what you are saying I’ve got so man pros and cons for my profile I don’t know what to do whether to change it fully or bits :/
Cliches and cringe wont get you no minge! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that I should be offering advice (having had fuck all success myself on here) but I read about the first 3 lines of your profile and just pissed my sides laughing it was that cringeworthy!
I think you'll get plenty of action based on the fact you have a big dick and you're young and in shape (although I'll get shot down for saying it as no-one is superficial on here!)
You'll also put a fair few people off (those that genuinely care about personality) because of the waffle.
I think it's fair to say, as a member of the "single guy brigade" you'll probably do better than most because of your age and your physical appearance. Just my opinion of course but if you had a huge gut, tiny cock and left the waffle on there I'm pretty convinced you'd get little to no joy!  |
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Hello OP.
Im afraid you have to face facts, your young and that will put many people off. There's nothing you can do about it, so don't fret on it. Confine your search to people that are looking for single men of your age, and that will increase your likelihood of success and save you some time.
If you are still looking to change your profile name then you can do so here: https://www.fabswingers.com/account/name_manage.aspx
Oh, and we agree, far too many cock pics.
Good luck |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey fabbers, hopefully you can help, the last month are so hasn’t been great for me, a lot of profile views but no message interaction mainly winks, then once replied to the wink no response, am I doing something wrong? ??
Is my profile crap lol!?
And does anyone else experience this?
Thanks hope everyone’s well! "
Get out there. Lots of parties and clubs that cater to the younger crowd as well as cougars and cubs events if that's what you're after.
Profile is decent. You'll do fine |
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