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Do People on the Forums Like You?
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By *imiUK OP Man
over a year ago
Hereford |
And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all? |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
Some like me, most hate me!  |
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?"
I like you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most are indifferent...I'm not here to win a popularity contest so it doesn't bother me. If it did I'd be faux nice  |
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In answer to your question, no some don't like me, many have blocked me.
I couldn't really give a shit. |
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Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care. |
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"In answer to your question, no some don't like me, many have blocked me.
I couldn't really give a shit. "
There are some I don't like, they probably know. |
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Some do some don't. Care? Not really  |
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A lot seem to, or they are all liars.
In reality I don't care either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure many even know me |
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By *imiUK OP Man
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care."
It's nice to be liked?
Some people like it, some people don't and some are indifferent.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care."
Oh I care in general but not amongst the forum users. |
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I couldn't give a shit about the morons who've blocked me though  |
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"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care."
I don't too much about people I haven't met. Its like the one who gives you a funny look on the train. I mouth a fuck off and smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm friends with some. I'm blocked by others. And most don't give me a second thought (or probably even a first one!).
I don't care, for the most part. Although to those I've met and who I consider friends, yeah I care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think people even give me a second thought. I beeze in and beeze out. End of.  |
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"I couldn't give a shit about the morons who've blocked me though "
Their loss |
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By *imiUK OP Man
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
Oh I care in general but not amongst the forum users. "
I'm sure I'm supposed to make an effort to care in general.
I make less of an effort here, I find. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Idk. I have a feeling on any GoT threads people got fed up of me replying to everything lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are those that like me, those that don’t and those who rightly think I’m a twat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope so. I try to be a friendly person and while im happy to give an opinion im not one for doing it in an aggressive or obnoxious manner.
What other people think is important to me, everyone wants to feel accepted do we not? |
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" I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care."
Why's that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How can they not like me after all there's only 1 PTU. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know but I do know no one knows me so if they judge so be it. |
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"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
It's nice to be liked?
Some people like it, some people don't and some are indifferent.. "
Well I understand people being indifferent,but why would someone not like being liked? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do, some don't, most don't care either way I should imagine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t want to be disliked, no. Or be a cunt to people. So yeah I care to an extent. But, I won’t be inauthentic or undermine my values in order to be liked and I know that whatever my intentions there’ll be plenty that don’t take to me and I’m always willing to engage and try and find mutual understanding (I’ve made friends with plenty of people who said something to me not liking me and we talked more and found there to be a miscommunication, or an ability to respect differing opinions) — but I won’t be for everyone, and that’s okay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
Why's that?"
no one ever lies on the Internet |
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"How can they not like me after all there's only 1 PTU. xxx"
You make me smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm blocked by a few women & couples so that suggests to me they're not liking my work on the forums.
Do I care? Not really but I am a little intrigued as to the reasons why.
Overall I prefer to be liked than not but I don't go out of my way to achieve it. |
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"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
I don't too much about people I haven't met. Its like the one who gives you a funny look on the train. I mouth a fuck off and smile "
What if it's some rough looking scary chick would you still do that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure but I enjoy it on hear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do and some stick up for me or try to make me smile because they 'get me". I like that. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'm me, I come here, I post on threads that interest me, I partake of some of the fun threads, dish out profile advice when it's called for, give my two bobs worth in other discussions and debates and generally have a take me or leave me attitude.
So, no doesn't overly bother me, or even cross my mind as to whether I'm liked - although it's of course a pleasant bonus when someone tells me that I am. |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
I hope so but don't give it much thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We know some do like us, we don’t actually know of anyone who doesn’t but are not naive enough to think there isn’t anyone.
We do care.
Mainly because we’re both quite caring and sensitive, usually to our detriment. |
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" I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
Why's that?"
Well isn't it kinda human nature to prefer to be liked by others rather than disliked. I think sometimes when people say they don’t care they appear a bit bitter,maybe it's just the way they say it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do, and some don't.
Those that do, I like, and have time for. Those that don't can go fuck themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some really do.
Some really really don’t.
Hey ho. |
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"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
I don't too much about people I haven't met. Its like the one who gives you a funny look on the train. I mouth a fuck off and smile
What if it's some rough looking scary chick would you still do that? "
I'd blow her a kiss as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots say they do, I think I try to be as nice to everyone here as I am off here x |
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"How can they not like me after all there's only 1 PTU. xxx"
This is so true |
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" I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
Why's that?
Well isn't it kinda human nature to prefer to be liked by others rather than disliked. I think sometimes when people say they don’t care they appear a bit bitter,maybe it's just the way they say it."
Oh, I'd not thought of it like that
I want my family and close friend to like me for sure. But it truly doesn't bother me whether strangers do or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think so, but hey, that's up to them. |
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"I'm blocked by a few women & couples so that suggests to me they're not liking my work on the forums.
Do I care? Not really but I am a little intrigued as to the reasons why.
Overall I prefer to be liked than not but I don't go out of my way to achieve it."
Yeah I noticed a few min's ago that a couple have me blocked I don't even know them and don't recall talking to them so it does make you wonder a little. |
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"Some really do.
Some really really don’t.
Hey ho. "
Some  you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm blocked by a few women & couples so that suggests to me they're not liking my work on the forums.
Do I care? Not really but I am a little intrigued as to the reasons why.
Overall I prefer to be liked than not but I don't go out of my way to achieve it."
Do people even remember why they block/don't like each other on the forum? I looked at my block list a wee bit back and had a forumite or two on there and wondered what got me to pop them on there..I don't have the capacity to hold on to some crossed word or annoyance on line from X amount of weeks/months ago
It's just such a droll way to spend your time on fab |
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"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
I don't too much about people I haven't met. Its like the one who gives you a funny look on the train. I mouth a fuck off and smile
What if it's some rough looking scary chick would you still do that?
I'd blow her a kiss as well. "
Are you good at running then |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Idk. I have a feeling on any GoT threads people got fed up of me replying to everything lol"
Not at all! |
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"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care."
Really. Really, really I couldn't give a flying f#ck.
This is a place for a certain level of escapism. And it works.
Am I on level 3 yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think some people in the forums like me, but i dont think most people on here are attracted to me. sometimes i care because im silly and sometime it doesnt bother me |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?"
I have no idea
And I'm not bothered either way |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Some do, some don't and the majority will probably have no opinion either way or range on a scale from mild irritation to extreme loathing. I like to be liked because I happen to know I'm a pretty decent human being with a wry sense of humour - but since I already know that I don't have to be liked because I can do my own liking. I think! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only recently returned and most of the regulars are different so new friendships are developing.
I don't think most people care enough to care what I think...which is fine...I'm really just 5 pictures and a few paragraphs of babble.
To anyone who becomes my friend - I care - that I can't help, and I'm glad of it.
There are some posters whose contributions I look forward to reading..both in the lounge and the politics 'rooms' - there are some really smart people here, which is why I spend more time on the forums than anywhere else on the site - plus rejection makes me sad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
Why's that?
Well isn't it kinda human nature to prefer to be liked by others rather than disliked. I think sometimes when people say they don’t care they appear a bit bitter,maybe it's just the way they say it."
With people that I interact with in real life that are an integral part of my life, yes. It's nice to be liked. Random strangers on a swinging site isn't top priority of people I'll be crying about because they don't like me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have no idea.. but no ones told me to fuck off yet.. so that's gotta be a bonus i guess.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?"
Couldn't give a flying fxxk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh i know at least 2 on here that would love to punch me in the face,and at least one i would like to kick up the fuckin ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reckon the preference police don't like me, but I don't really care |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m not blocked by every person on the forums. Yet.
So until I piss them off, I think they don’t despise me |
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" I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
Why's that?
Well isn't it kinda human nature to prefer to be liked by others rather than disliked. I think sometimes when people say they don’t care they appear a bit bitter,maybe it's just the way they say it.
With people that I interact with in real life that are an integral part of my life, yes. It's nice to be liked. Random strangers on a swinging site isn't top priority of people I'll be crying about because they don't like me. "
Well no don't ever cry over someone from here just because they don’t like you,that would be damn crazy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't like to think I was disliked, but fab life is a bit of escapism so think I would be fairly indifferent. Unless it's people I want to meet, it would help to be liked then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would like to be liked by some forumites.
I would love to be licked by other forumites.
The general forumites opinion of me? Only they know. I hold no grudge if I am not to their tastes. |
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"Well it's kinda nice to be liked isn't it. I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
Really. Really, really I couldn't give a flying f#ck.
This is a place for a certain level of escapism. And it works.
Am I on level 3 yet?"
Now what was I saying about the way people say it... |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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Most dont know me to like or dislike me ..im sure if they did some would and some wouldnt ...thats just life |
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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago
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I have no idea what othets opinions are. I only contribute on occasions, Im more of a forum lurker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I have no idea  |
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Some might, who knows. Do I care if they don't? Not particularly |
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We used to care , how naive we were !
Now we really don’t care at all .
There’s a few that seem to like us and that’s nice , but the ones that don’t , the ones that have blocked us , and the ones who ignore us can do so safe in the knowledge that we don’t mind one little bit at all . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've no idea who likes me and who doesn't but then I can't control other people's opinions of me...
And if those decisions are based on a sparse profile and a few pics then it's a superficial way to decide who we may like or not.
Those who at least talk to me ...they may know me better...
And those I would like to meet if it happens are I hope the ones who decide I'm not a tw*t.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some people have more intrinsic confidence and others get their confidence more from extrinsic sources.
I'm mainly intrinsic so I don't get as bothered about what other people think but most people who meet me seem to like me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not to everyone's taste but that's called choice which I respect.
Those that like me...well they usually tell you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guessing by my empty inbox I’m not liked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most are indifferent...I'm not here to win a popularity contest so it doesn't bother me. If it did I'd be faux nice "
This but I do want to win a popularity contest, hopefully I'll get a nice golden award too, so I can wish for world peace |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I like to be liked and don't go out to intentionally offend or hurt anyone but I'm going to be myself and that is enough to be disliked by some. I'm not going to worry about that.
I think a few on the forum like me, a few more probably dislike me and the vast majority are pretty indifferent to me. |
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think i am in the middle, some like some don't.
if it bothers me I know I am in a bad mood and remove myself from here for the evening.
I think most people who are in especially later at night know each other personally from socials ect - since that is not so much my thing I mostly just enjoy reading the threads... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm Really not sure you tell me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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don't have the foggiest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure but haven't had a meeting yet off the site. So any thoughts on my profile much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea. I just enjoy myself and join in.
There are a few groups that have known each other for ages and it's great to see that friendship.
I don't feel the need for validation in the forums though. It's for fun and that's all I do. |
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I doubt people even notice me! Although I've noticed a few blocks in place against me so maybe I have made a bad impression on some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I doubt people even notice me! Although I've noticed a few blocks in place against me so maybe I have made a bad impression on some "
I've just noticed u hun beautiful |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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I suppose some do and some don't. It's nicer to be liked, but you can't change what people think of you |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
Everyone likes me. I am ace.
That's what I tell myself anyways lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody knows the real me.
In life, people can dislike someone for any number of reasons.
On here they can only dislike you for something you say; or for giving a really bad blow job.
Someone must dislike me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't care if I'm liked on here, or in my real life. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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not everyone is going to like me and i am not into popularity contests anyway....
if you try to please everyone you'll spend every working hours spreading yourself too thinly
those who like me, like me..... those who don't, dont! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly don't know lol. I have always been nice to everyine I have chatted to and met. If they don't like me, then that's their choice but I have never been told either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wears the love gone |
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Hard to tell not many people talk or chat on here. Or that could be a sign I’m not liked lol !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty new here but I'd like to think I contribute to the forums in a positive way. I like an intellectual debate and I like to make people laugh. Some people don't like their views challenged and don't handle it well but it's never my intention to upset. And some won't get my humour. You can't please everyone all the time and I would want to if it meant not being myself. I like that some people like me and accept that some inevitably won't. That's life! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people probably don't because I've been a bit too open on here in the past. I'm barely on here these days so it doesn't bother me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fairly new so I really haven't a clue ... I'm marmite in real life so imagine I'm the same here but at the end of the day my skin is fairly thick so I'm not bothered (Which probably means I am  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people probably don't because I've been a bit too open on here in the past. I'm barely on here these days so it doesn't bother me "
I like you if that counts, a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no idea if people like me or not? Is someone keeping a tally on things like this?
I come on. Give my views on things, try not to act a dick and then go away again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suspect that they hate me due to my blunt, couldn't give a fuck attitude and also due to the fact that I won't succumb to blowing wind up the arses of the forum faithful - but am I bothered ?????
Maybe for 1 nanosecond yes but in reality I don't give a flying fuck if they like me or not because in reality I have a lovely wife and a nice life and this isn't my be all and end all in life - regards - Bob ! |
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Not sure they do, but I don't give a flying fig!!! |
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I'm genuinely touched when someone I do not really know says how much they like me and appreciate my posts  
But I'm not really bothered what a bunch of strangers think, the few I have taken a particular liking to seem to appreciate me in return, and that's enough, I am not trying to appeal to the lowest common denominator lol! |
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Umm you have me thinking now! I would say most people wouldn't even have noticed me . But am I wrong! Maybe my every word is irritating to some !! Only a few on here who I'm actually friends with who I know like me ... I'm also curious to know if I'm blocked by anyone too!  |
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"Umm you have me thinking now! I would say most people wouldn't even have noticed me . But am I wrong! Maybe my every word is irritating to some !! Only a few on here who I'm actually friends with who I know like me ... I'm also curious to know if I'm blocked by anyone too! "
Me too !! Lol |
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By *abfella40Man
over a year ago
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I'm not liked on here. Fact. I get blocked all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think people even give me a second thought. I beeze in and beeze out. End of. "
You're the beeze knees. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Infamy! Infamy! They've all got it in for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Infamy! Infamy! They've all got it in for me!"
I'd put it in for you |
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I doubt i'm liked but not to fussed...each to their own. |
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Some do, some don't. Not overly fussed tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Infamy! Infamy! They've all got it in for me!
I'd put it in for you "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do some don't. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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Overwhelmingly people are very nice to me and say they like me, so I’m going with that
I’m sure there must be people that don’t like me and they keep it to themselves.... that’s perfect!
Do I care if people don’t like me? .... yes I do, on here and off here. It’s the way I am and have always been.
I won’t change the way I am to please people though, what you see and hear is what you get. Being this way has served me well in life so I shall continue in my own way. If anyone doesn’t appreciate that, that’s their choice as always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone should b the same honest an open that’s best |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
Masked and Distant |
Hopefully yes.
I type honestly and hope my personality comes across ok.
I dare care what people think on here and in real life.
If someone is being an arse on here then I tend not to reply or get involved. |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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I always try to be kind to whoever I interact with, but then I’m like that off Fab too. If there is something I disagree with or feel strongly about I will say, but I’m not aggressive or blunt in doing so.
I think I’m liked, do I care? Yes, I guess so, I like to be liked, but I wouldn’t change how I am just to gain someone’s approval. So do, some don’t and that’s just fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know whether I’m like or not by most forum users, not something I think about really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People in the forum's unless personally known to yourself are just virtual peoplw. Your never going to meet them or actually be a real friend to them so no I couldn't give 2 hoots who does and doesn't like me but then I'm a total narcissist with psychopathic tendencies I only care about myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think no matter who you are, you will always have people who don't like you for whatever reason. It's not possible to make everybody like me, and it's certainly not vital to me that people do. I like myself and I know I'm a decent person.
But, obviously being rebuffed by others can be unpleasant as it's human nature to want to be accepted, and people that say they don't care, probably do?
As long as the people I connect with think I'm okay, that works for me. The Forum is for fun, no point in sweating the small stuff.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Forums are forums and it's all on line. Maybe they just like my online personality. The only way to find out if we really liked each other would be meeting up, at a social or 1-1. Then you know if you like the person you think they are.
Do I care? I would care greatly if I wanted to meet up with them. And yes, i'd care a little if people didn't like me, but I'm sentimental in a morning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How would you know?. As I don't, I'm guessing not........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most are indifferent...I'm not here to win a popularity contest so it doesn't bother me. If it did I'd be faux nice "
But how would we know your not already? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most are indifferent...I'm not here to win a popularity contest so it doesn't bother me. If it did I'd be faux nice
But how would we know your not already? "
There are many things I could be accused of being on here. I honestly don't think being faux nice is one of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't a clue if they do or they don't
I just go round in my own little bubble and post here and there minding my own business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most are indifferent...I'm not here to win a popularity contest so it doesn't bother me. If it did I'd be faux nice
But how would we know your not already? "
I wouldn't have it in me to be like that ... too much like hard work and it's hard enough being me as it is!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody knows the real me.
In life, people can dislike someone for any number of reasons.
On here they can only dislike you for something you say; or for giving a really bad blow job.
Someone must dislike me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don’t believe people when they say they don’t care.
Why's that?
Well isn't it kinda human nature to prefer to be liked by others rather than disliked. I think sometimes when people say they don’t care they appear a bit bitter,maybe it's just the way they say it."
I think you're right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think most are indifferent...I'm not here to win a popularity contest so it doesn't bother me. If it did I'd be faux nice
But how would we know your not already?
There are many things I could be accused of being on here. I honestly don't think being faux nice is one of them "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I post regularly, but have virtually no interaction with people so I guess not!
However, whilst I like to be liked by people I know, when it comes to online people I dont know, I really dont care.
That said, there are a few here I cant stand anyway, but thankfully the worst offender left last weekend. |
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?"
Everyone likes me...
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With the lack of people wanting to chat to or meet me. I’m not the most popular man on fabswingers sadly  |
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I think that there's a couple who do, it's easier to tell the ones who don't like you or have no time for you really. |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I’d say that no one on here knows me (apart from a few) therefore it doesn’t affect me one way or the other. I’m indifferent.
However in the real world it’s jmportant to me that people I know like me but I can’t do much about it if they don’t.
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Most don't know us or notice us on the forums but it's not something we can do much about so who cares. |
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I hope I'm not disliked ....but if I am theres nothing I can do really ....
I try to be kind to others .....everyone deserves respect until its lost ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope they like me although I am not the most frequent visitor x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The forums are just a fun sideshow for us on here. We've no idea whether we're liked or even noticed but it really doesn't matter that much as we're not using the forums to try and meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope I'm not disliked ....but if I am theres nothing I can do really ....
I try to be kind to others .....everyone deserves respect until its lost ....."
That's a perfect way of thinking. I'm going to go with this, for today anyway. Tomorrow they can go and fu..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope so. Be a bit shit if people hate me already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I shouldn't think people on here even notice me .I just post on things I want to post |
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Some do, some don't, some will, some won't.
I would care if I wasn't liked because I'd upset someone without realising it. Upsetting people isn't my intention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't know and i don't particularly care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know and i don't particularly care."
I like you.
Oh wait, I just read the last bit of your post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?"
I've likely rubbed a few people up the wrong way, and I'm really not too arsed. Everything said in here can be twisted and taken out of context when it lacks real tone like a conversation has.
The only downside is my Mrs very rarely uses the forum's so it's shit that she shares the account and therefore the flack. I try to say it's me when I feel it's necessary though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do, some don't.
I do care that the people who have met me and got to know me like me, the rest I don't care. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know and i don't particularly care.
I like you.
Oh wait, I just read the last bit of your post "
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Haven't a clue..
Never thought about it.
I am on here for me not others.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think I'm polite and try not to rub anyone up the wrong way, so hopefully folk like me, or at least don't dislike me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?
I've likely rubbed a few people up the wrong way, and I'm really not too arsed. Everything said in here can be twisted and taken out of context when it lacks real tone like a conversation has.
The only downside is my Mrs very rarely uses the forum's so it's shit that she shares the account and therefore the flack. I try to say it's me when I feel it's necessary though. "
You could always sign off a post with Mr or she could with Mrs C.
Then we'd who the real cutie was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not but it’s all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits |
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I think I’m fairly likeable so probably most do? Some probably don’t cos I am annoying at times but that’s their choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not bothered at all either way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most people probably don't because I've been a bit too open on here in the past. I'm barely on here these days so it doesn't bother me
I like you if that counts, a lot "
hello you and you know its very much mutual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, they don't, and yes, I care. |
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"In answer to your question, no some don't like me, many have blocked me.
I couldn't really give a shit. "
This |
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Your opinion of me is no concern of mine. Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being quite new to the forums as I thought I’d try a bit more on here to interact it feels quite hard to break into that inner circle as I’m presuming by the way I read it that many have been on here for yrs so have become friends I get that so I’ll just keep plodding on |
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"In answer to your question, no some don't like me, many have blocked me.
I couldn't really give a shit.
This "
well I like you both xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey Op... you'll be able to see who is liked on the forum and who cares when the results of the award ceremony are announced |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being quite new to the forums as I thought I’d try a bit more on here to interact it feels quite hard to break into that inner circle as I’m presuming by the way I read it that many have been on here for yrs so have become friends I get that so I’ll just keep plodding on "
I wouldn’t say I’m neither here nor there. I just post and be my general opinionated self, once people see your face a few times and can make a decision based on how you conduct yourself you’ll be fine. Just wing it, I do |
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" Hey Op... you'll be able to see who is liked on the forum and who cares when the results of the award ceremony are announced "
Best dust of my suit!! |
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" Hey Op... you'll be able to see who is liked on the forum and who cares when the results of the award ceremony are announced "
It'll be a long two month wait for some... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Hey Op... you'll be able to see who is liked on the forum and who cares when the results of the award ceremony are announced
It'll be a long two month wait for some..."
Have we had the nominations thread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being quite new to the forums as I thought I’d try a bit more on here to interact it feels quite hard to break into that inner circle as I’m presuming by the way I read it that many have been on here for yrs so have become friends I get that so I’ll just keep plodding on "
Plodding on is good. The inner circle is quite easy to penetrate, it just requires persistence and good humour Welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everybody wants to be liked, but its a fact of life that other people will feel threatened by you, envious of you and a whole host of other emotions. I'm jist happy that the lady writhing ony cock is happy! Live for the momemt. |
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" Hey Op... you'll be able to see who is liked on the forum and who cares when the results of the award ceremony are announced
It'll be a long two month wait for some...
Have we had the nominations thread?"
I don't think proceedings have got that far yet,it'll take a few weeks to decide on the categories no doubt |
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"Everybody wants to be liked, but its a fact of life that other people will feel threatened by you, envious of you and a whole host of other emotions. I'm jist happy that the lady writhing ony cock is happy! Live for the momemt."
It appears actually not everyone wants to be liked,some don't give a flying fuck and quite rightly so I suppose. |
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It's not a question for me as to whether forumites like me or not but more if I even register on the radar of most of them. I'm pretty introverted in real life and keep myself to myself so usually feel in the background - Fab feels the same, which doesn't surprise me.
I do suspect I may be seen as a bit boring as I don't (can't) often banter or flirt but I am very conscious when I post of trying to be fair and non offensive because my natural tendency is to be very blunt so I have to make an effort to curb that. I'm happy I make enough effort to be reasonably pleasant so if someone didn't like me it wouldn't worry me unduly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No and no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?"
I have no idea if people on the forums like me. I would imagine I'm rarely noticed by most. I no longer chose to communicate with anyone on the forums so that probably shows that people mostly don't notice me except for a couple of people who i noticed are critical of me
I'm not bothered either way though, the only people that i hope like me and care about are my very close family |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a question for me as to whether forumites like me or not but more if I even register on the radar of most of them. I'm pretty introverted in real life and keep myself to myself so usually feel in the background - Fab feels the same, which doesn't surprise me.
I do suspect I may be seen as a bit boring as I don't (can't) often banter or flirt but I am very conscious when I post of trying to be fair and non offensive because my natural tendency is to be very blunt so I have to make an effort to curb that. I'm happy I make enough effort to be reasonably pleasant so if someone didn't like me it wouldn't worry me unduly."
Same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not, but what's the point of worrying about the opinions of strangers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can they not like me after all there's only 1 PTU. xxx
You make me smile "
Oh your hiding again xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?"
Erm .....
I dunno ( shrug)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everybody wants to be liked, but its a fact of life that other people will feel threatened by you, envious of you and a whole host of other emotions. I'm jist happy that the lady writhing ony cock is happy! Live for the momemt.
It appears actually not everyone wants to be liked,some don't give a flying fuck and quite rightly so I suppose."
I find it hard to believe that people would really not give a flying fuck if everyone disliked them, however I do think ambivalence about some people disliking you is more likely. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Some do, some don't.
I do care that the people who have met me and got to know me like me, the rest I don't care. "
Perfectly put. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can they not like me after all there's only 1 PTU. xxx
This is so true "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I doubt whether anyone takes much notice of what I say to care. Therefore I'm probably not liked or at the very least not thought of.
No, it doesn't bother me. |
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"In answer to your question, no some don't like me, many have blocked me.
I couldn't really give a shit.
This well I like you both xxx "
You too |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
I'd guess most are indifferent or are even aware I'm here.
Does it bother me, no.
I dont use the forums to be popular. It's just a bit of light entertainment.
If I was bothered then, I would have stopped posting a long, long time ago.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if so; why do you care?
And if not: Do you really care at all?"
I've likely rubbed a few people up the wrong way, and I'm really not too arsed. Everything said in here can be twisted and taken out of context when it lacks real tone like a conversation has.
The only downside is my Mrs very rarely uses the forum's so it's shit that she shares the account and therefore the flack. I try to say it's me when I feel it's necessary though. |
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