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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, so maybe that's a bit over the top. But I think I use fab not just to get shags and veris, But to actually make a significant connection that hopefully leads to more...so I guess at the back of my mind I choose my meets with that in mind. Now I don't honestly belive that's too different from normal dating sites, people are just more open and up front on fab...so my question is how many people on here go to meets with an open mind and look for potentially more then just a one off shag? Or is it really just about the sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not looking to meet to tally up on my scoreboard. I actually like the people I meet, if I only met 1 fantastic time, that's better than 6 not so fantastic meets.
Although I'm not looking for a loving/dating relationship, I do look for a connection of some kind. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it hasn't.
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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Well as our profile says, met each other as singles with no expectations of anything more than Fab sex, ended up falling madly in love and making some amazing plans for the future.
It’s awesome not having to hide your ‘Fab’ self and being able to openly share everything, would highly recommend it 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were both on here just for the sex, that didn’t quite work out as planned 
I moved in 6 months after we met and we’ve been married 2.5 years"
Ahh I love this  congrats x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There has to be a click , a spark and a connection. As looking for love? More I think a mutual friendship some one I can have a laugh and share times together social and sexually with none of the jealousy issues .
A friend with benefits if you like .
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"then there is the side nobody want to talk about. you start on here as a long term couple . and end up as a single guy. when she falls for the guy you cannot compete with, "
I’m sure it’s happened the other way round too |
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"There has to be a click , a spark and a connection. As looking for love? More I think a mutual friendship some one I can have a laugh and share times together social and sexually with none of the jealousy issues .
A friend with benefits if you like .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were both on here just for the sex, that didn’t quite work out as planned
I moved in 6 months after we met and we’ve been married 2.5 years"
Aw congrats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never say never 
Never
Zip it!! Go back to the cave you have been very naughty "
Almost thought you were about to spank me 
I'll be very good....
Tomorrow |
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It is just about sex for some people and that's not a bad thing.
It's possible to find "the one" anywhere, so why not here?
We like to be sociable and friendly with the people we meet but that's as far as it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with you OP, I would ideally like to find something more than just sex and find men on Fab are more direct and upfront than on the usual dating sites. But there aren't many local chaps looking for the same as me unfortunately. Good luck with your search! I'll keep looking... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t say I’m looking for the one or to date however I haven’t dropped my standards. I’m not just looking to fuck anyone who asks me. In fact stranger sex does nothing for me at all (hence what I’m looking for in my profile).
If I met someone and we had that connection then I’d be open to dating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t say I’m looking for the one or to date however I haven’t dropped my standards. I’m not just looking to fuck anyone who asks me. In fact stranger sex does nothing for me at all (hence what I’m looking for in my profile).
If I met someone and we had that connection then I’d be open to dating "
Good outlook totally relate to that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that you can find special people anywhere, even on swingers sites  I've been here 3 years and have had a couple of guys that turned into more than just sex even tho neither of us were looking for more - none of them worked out in the long run but it's part of the journey and it was nice to rediscover that part of me again.
Congratulations to those on this thread that have found their One here - lovely stuff  xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, so maybe that's a bit over the top. But I think I use fab not just to get shags and veris, But to actually make a significant connection that hopefully leads to more...so I guess at the back of my mind I choose my meets with that in mind. Now I don't honestly belive that's too different from normal dating sites, people are just more open and up front on fab...so my question is how many people on here go to meets with an open mind and look for potentially more then just a one off shag? Or is it really just about the sex?"
For me it's totally about the potential |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm here looking for a man i can have repeat sex with. I'm not here to date or find romance.
I have a jealous passionate nature and don't like sharing men. The majority of men on here want to share themselves with other women, they flirt openly etc., so i would not put myself through the drama of a relationship and having to watch that or endure it.
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"Ok, so maybe that's a bit over the top. But I think I use fab not just to get shags and veris, But to actually make a significant connection that hopefully leads to more...so I guess at the back of my mind I choose my meets with that in mind. Now I don't honestly belive that's too different from normal dating sites, people are just more open and up front on fab...so my question is how many people on here go to meets with an open mind and look for potentially more then just a one off shag? Or is it really just about the sex?"
Yes, I am choosing people who I think might have potential for 'more', whatever that might turn out to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not looking for someone. however I am also a big believer of you can't help who you fall for and if it felt right with someone I wouldn't be against a "relationship" (I have quite specific ideas of what I want/need though ) and I would absolutely insist they would stop meeting as a single man.  |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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I absolutely wasn’t looking for anything more, had only recently become single so was just planning to find a few select people to keep me occupied over the coming months and continue the expanding of the horizons. But then along came SSS and we just totally clicked on all levels so seemed silly not to just go with it.
Now we’re both ridiculously happy and enjoying Fab life as a couple with all the new fun that it brings |
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I was not interested in anything more than a shag! If playmates got too clingy I stopped seeing them. I had no intention of getting serious, married, divorced...been there, simply seeking casual occasional fun.
Four years ago Ben contacted me. Not what either of us was looking for, it was simply a comment about my profile...and it started from there.
Ben is a ukip voting, right wing, self employed, child loathing Jason Statham/Bruce Willis hybrid Dutch man who speaks seven languages and used to dating leggy Scandinavian types with a find em, fuck em and forget em approach.
I'm a tree hugging, leftie lovvie union busy body, according to Ben. I'm also a mother of three and grandmother of four. I'm about eight stones overweight and black.
We shouldn't work at all, and sometimes I wonder how we do...we are both hot heads...but we celebrate four years together this month.
Cupid has a sense of humour! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was not interested in anything more than a shag! If playmates got too clingy I stopped seeing them. I had no intention of getting serious, married, divorced...been there, simply seeking casual occasional fun.
Four years ago Ben contacted me. Not what either of us was looking for, it was simply a comment about my profile...and it started from there.
Ben is a ukip voting, right wing, self employed, child loathing Jason Statham/Bruce Willis hybrid Dutch man who speaks seven languages and used to dating leggy Scandinavian types with a find em, fuck em and forget em approach.
I'm a tree hugging, leftie lovvie union busy body, according to Ben. I'm also a mother of three and grandmother of four. I'm about eight stones overweight and black.
We shouldn't work at all, and sometimes I wonder how we do...we are both hot heads...but we celebrate four years together this month.
Cupid has a sense of humour! "
Wow this is amazing. Congratulations, you give me hope xx |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"Ok, so maybe that's a bit over the top. But I think I use fab not just to get shags and veris, But to actually make a significant connection that hopefully leads to more...so I guess at the back of my mind I choose my meets with that in mind. Now I don't honestly belive that's too different from normal dating sites, people are just more open and up front on fab...so my question is how many people on here go to meets with an open mind and look for potentially more then just a one off shag? Or is it really just about the sex?"
Sounds like you're talking about hook ups that might lead to a relationship rather than swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without Fab I wouldn't of met my Tom.
It's an exhilarating and liberating relationship. Not sure we'd have the same dynamic had we met conventionally. I like to think so, but we wouldn't of progressed as quickly in our explorations I don't think. |
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"Ok, so maybe that's a bit over the top. But I think I use fab not just to get shags and veris, But to actually make a significant connection that hopefully leads to more...so I guess at the back of my mind I choose my meets with that in mind. Now I don't honestly belive that's too different from normal dating sites, people are just more open and up front on fab...so my question is how many people on here go to meets with an open mind and look for potentially more then just a one off shag? Or is it really just about the sex?"
My profile pretty much says that I am open to whatever I don't use fab for random hook ups - I go to clubs for that. The people I meet outside of clubs I do so as I feel I have a connection with them. If that just ends up being a one-off shag then that's fine but I am open minded to more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was not interested in anything more than a shag! If playmates got too clingy I stopped seeing them. I had no intention of getting serious, married, divorced...been there, simply seeking casual occasional fun.
Four years ago Ben contacted me. Not what either of us was looking for, it was simply a comment about my profile...and it started from there.
Ben is a ukip voting, right wing, self employed, child loathing Jason Statham/Bruce Willis hybrid Dutch man who speaks seven languages and used to dating leggy Scandinavian types with a find em, fuck em and forget em approach.
I'm a tree hugging, leftie lovvie union busy body, according to Ben. I'm also a mother of three and grandmother of four. I'm about eight stones overweight and black.
We shouldn't work at all, and sometimes I wonder how we do...we are both hot heads...but we celebrate four years together this month.
Cupid has a sense of humour! "
Can't believe it's been 4 years already!!  |
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Love the stories of people that have found love on here. I couldn’t imagine it happening to me. I am extremely picky over who I meet more so than when I vanilla date. I would love to meet someone on here who shares the same outlook on life as me |
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"I was not interested in anything more than a shag! If playmates got too clingy I stopped seeing them. I had no intention of getting serious, married, divorced...been there, simply seeking casual occasional fun.
Four years ago Ben contacted me. Not what either of us was looking for, it was simply a comment about my profile...and it started from there.
Ben is a ukip voting, right wing, self employed, child loathing Jason Statham/Bruce Willis hybrid Dutch man who speaks seven languages and used to dating leggy Scandinavian types with a find em, fuck em and forget em approach.
I'm a tree hugging, leftie lovvie union busy body, according to Ben. I'm also a mother of three and grandmother of four. I'm about eight stones overweight and black.
We shouldn't work at all, and sometimes I wonder how we do...we are both hot heads...but we celebrate four years together this month.
Cupid has a sense of humour!
Can't believe it's been 4 years already!! "
Yes. He contacted me 17 November 2013, we met 24 November and that was it. He moved in 6 July (what would have been my wedding anniversary) 2014. |
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