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Moving near you

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

most of us get these messages occasionally

"hey im moving to blah blah blah, fancy a chat and getting to know each other and maybe a meet" (not the exact message can i add)

out of curiosity i added a few to hot list and kept and eye out (research purposes and im a nosy bugger)

not moved or moved profiles in locations

does this trick work, or is it me who thinks just another chat up line?

thoughts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe it’s just another chat up line tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tell them to message me when they have moved.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another line used to try ans trick women into one off's when they specify on thier profile they dont do one offs

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I get this quote often too.

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

I haven't had a single one yet. Harrumph.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I havent got a message like that lol.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Its up there there with the "I travel up your way with work"

No thanks on both counts!

Usually means Married playing away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it translates roughly to “hey, I’m passing by and looking for a quickie. You down?” Just reworded to make it sound like they’re making an investment not looking to capitalise on travelling for work. There or there abouts.

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

I’ve had a few of those - always thought they were bollocks but never thought of checking up on them, nice one!

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By *reckledWoman over a year ago

manchester

I have had more than a few of these messages. Interesting to note that it is a common line used!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My profile just says north west which is a pretty big area yet I'm always getting messages saying 'I'm up your way'

That's nice

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"My profile just says north west which is a pretty big area yet I'm always getting messages saying 'I'm up your way'

That's nice

You must be showing up in their "Who's nearby" then

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I tell them to message me when they have moved."

Same here. Usually they want to "keep in touch and swap pics" until they supposedly move

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I normally ask them to move by me. Doesn't seem to have worked yet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My profile just says north west which is a pretty big area yet I'm always getting messages saying 'I'm up your way'

That's nice

You must be showing up in their "Who's nearby" then

I don't have it turned on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I work away from home most of the time and often check out the inhabitants of the area where I am expecting to work (I do contracts that range from 3-18 months).

People can read too much into other people’s messages sometimes and jump to the wrong conclusions.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"My profile just says north west which is a pretty big area yet I'm always getting messages saying 'I'm up your way'

That's nice

You must be showing up in their "Who's nearby" then

I don't have it turned on

Meant as their excuse, lol, didn't realise that you could turn it off??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"most of us get these messages occasionally

"hey im moving to blah blah blah, fancy a chat and getting to know each other and maybe a meet" (not the exact message can i add)

out of curiosity i added a few to hot list and kept and eye out (research purposes and im a nosy bugger)

not moved or moved profiles in locations

does this trick work, or is it me who thinks just another chat up line?

thoughts

Honestly it's worked for me a few times

it's one of my main tricks....along with "oh her I think I recognise you from the club last night"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I normally ask them to move by me. Doesn't seem to have worked yet!

That’s a surprise

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

There seems to be a sudden influx of men, who are going to be working in my area for the next 3-4 months, and looking to meet, for purely social reasons.

Call me skeptical.....

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