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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them. "
Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.
Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!! "
Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies! |
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over a year ago
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"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.
Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!
Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!"
That would be inconvenient, I've got other stuff to do in my life. ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.
Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!
Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!"
Boo!! Not fair!! Mind you if I had one and used it, knowing my luck there'd have been a fly caught in the teleporter pod at the other end!!![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.
Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!
Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!
That would be inconvenient, I've got other stuff to do in my life. "
I have tea, poetry, and I like hanging out without constant chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.
Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!
Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!
That would be inconvenient, I've got other stuff to do in my life.
I have tea, poetry, and I like hanging out without constant chatting. "
In that case, forget the other stuff in my life. How do we make this teleportation thing happen? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?
Maybe it wasn't free to join ??
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I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified
As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms
Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?
Maybe it wasn't free to join ??
I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified
As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms
Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought "
I'd stop using my hotlist and block people who put me on there's who I wasn't interested in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I posted the other day about swipe left, right function for compatible people, couples could be an app in there somewhere x"
That would mean faces showing. I'd opt out of that. I feel that is more for hook up and dating sites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simulation trial. You identify your prey...sorry potential meet...you can have a practice simulation of snippets of their performance.
Lie back and feel a snippet of their fuck, switch positions etc and decide if you’d like to continue the meet.
It’d be a slight refund for a no show too.
I’m debating whether you should both consent to the simulation trial or not. But then I realise there’s plenty of people I’d like to trial who may not allow me if I had to get their consent.
Oh dear, this goes against all my ethics but I still want it. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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Maybe some meet planning tools? Like sending a map and pin point to a group? Or individual? Videos is a good one? More ways to pay secretly for premium? Lots of people don't want friends etc finding them? Profile masking to keep yourself hidden to friends? Sections where people want to meet today live chat for when you just want to itch that urge and see who's local without offending anyone? ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?
Maybe it wasn't free to join ??
I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified
As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms
Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought
I'd stop using my hotlist and block people who put me on there's who I wasn't interested in. "
It would only flag up if mutual hotlisting ...not informing you of everyone thats hotlisted you ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?
Maybe it wasn't free to join ??
I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified
As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms
Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought
I'd stop using my hotlist and block people who put me on there's who I wasn't interested in.
It would only flag up if mutual hotlisting ...not informing you of everyone thats hotlisted you "
That could work. Depending on why I've hotlisted them ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?
Maybe it wasn't free to join ??
I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified
As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms
Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought "
We'd all be bankrupt if we paid everytime we posted on a forum ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A whole bunch of women all wanting to have sex with me. And a helicopter service "
A fab helicopter is a good idea. Shared loads up and down the country ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Simulation trial. You identify your prey...sorry potential meet...you can have a practice simulation of snippets of their performance.
Lie back and feel a snippet of their fuck, switch positions etc and decide if you’d like to continue the meet.
It’d be a slight refund for a no show too.
I’m debating whether you should both consent to the simulation trial or not. But then I realise there’s plenty of people I’d like to trial who may not allow me if I had to get their consent.
Oh dear, this goes against all my ethics but I still want it. "
Ah this sounds bloody epic. It will stop me from getting my hopes up and going for a /get more excited for the actual event. |
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"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.
Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!
Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!"
And then my cock will be in Glasgow and my magical fingers, the west end.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.
Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!
Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!
And then my cock will be in Glasgow and my magical fingers, the west end.
"
Or not. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?
Maybe it wasn't free to join ??
How would that make it better?"
If it wasn't free to join you wouldn't get all the idiots coming in from the pub on a Friday night, joining up and leaving before their partners realised, oh yea and sending numerous offensive messages and arranging meets before profile left site. Just one suggestion why fab would be a little better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A quick multi choice respond option for emails...
- thanks but no thanks
- you’re not my type
- I am not desperate
A filter option for email inbox, sort by distance, age, verification?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I would like to see is some kind of size filter in the search. My preference is ssbbws. I do like skinny women too, but it would be nice to be able to search for whatever size I want to |
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We'd definitely appreciate more filters on who can contact / wink / view you, and indeed search filters.
That would make it easier to handle the inbox if people who are too [insert perameter] or not [insert perameter] can be sorted at source. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Simulation trial. You identify your prey...sorry potential meet...you can have a practice simulation of snippets of their performance.
Lie back and feel a snippet of their fuck, switch positions etc and decide if you’d like to continue the meet.
It’d be a slight refund for a no show too.
I’m debating whether you should both consent to the simulation trial or not. But then I realise there’s plenty of people I’d like to trial who may not allow me if I had to get their consent.
Oh dear, this goes against all my ethics but I still want it. "
That would be brilliant, definitely save me the disappointment of a few meets x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People should have to be photo verified to even access the site. Should be able to block sexes from viewing your profile, not after the fact! Should be able to add videos. Should have a rate option with different options such as rating conversation, rating meet and so on so you dont get your time wasted. Should show how many times you have arranged meets and not turned up e.g 10 arranged meets 4 now shows so you know if people are reliable. I could go on all night me ha |
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"People should have to be photo verified to even access the site. Should be able to block sexes from viewing your profile, not after the fact! Should be able to add videos. Should have a rate option with different options such as rating conversation, rating meet and so on so you dont get your time wasted. Should show how many times you have arranged meets and not turned up e.g 10 arranged meets 4 now shows so you know if people are reliable. I could go on all night me ha"
Yours doesn't sound so much fun however ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
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I can’t really see why the forums should be accessible to non members, I know the photos and first letter of the name are hidden but that’s not exactly much. Maybe something to do with web traffic or something but i may be inclined to post more if it was more private. Especially as we choose not to show up on Google on privacy settings too.
And it gets a bit confusing on the forums too when someone quotes something but you can’t see who it was without scrolling back to find the original message. Not sure how you could sort that one?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A build your own meet. Like a sexy Mr potatoe head. His bottom, his cock. That torso ...etc etc
And a Mrs potato head for us men
Of course "
I read a few forum posts where people claim they have reported someone for being abusive. Either nothing has been done or the abuser has rejoined with a new profile. Claims of abuse should be taken seriously and the site should be able to block IP addresses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People should have to be photo verified to even access the site. Should be able to block sexes from viewing your profile, not after the fact! Should be able to add videos. Should have a rate option with different options such as rating conversation, rating meet and so on so you dont get your time wasted. Should show how many times you have arranged meets and not turned up e.g 10 arranged meets 4 now shows so you know if people are reliable. I could go on all night me ha"
Someone cops the hump with you and says you were a no show, then gets her friends to no show you too. You're gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!"
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!"
There are too many men on dating sites that think they are instashag x |
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
"
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate. |
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over a year ago
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate."
Sounds like I'm aying for a golf membership ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
Sounds like I'm aying for a golf membership "
Oi cheeky, don't you start![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps set up 50000 seperate sites so each can pander to their own prejudices and pretend others aren't here if they don't meet your personal criteria : ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate."
The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here! |
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!"
Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo! ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!"
Swinging is shagging around. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Modify the geographical search areas. For instance, North East includez anywhete from the Scottish borders to Hull. Far too large. Needs to be split into smaller zones so searches can be more defined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!
Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo! "
Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!
Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!
Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?
"
No it's a different audience.
It would just sort the wheat from the Chaff. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!
Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!
Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?
No it's a different audience.
It would just sort the wheat from the Chaff. "
I don't think you'll find much of the wheat you seek here, no matter what you do. |
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!
Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!
Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?
No it's a different audience.
It would just sort the wheat from the Chaff.
I don't think you'll find much of the wheat you seek here, no matter what you do."
Hence the reason for our initial comment.
This is just a window into the lifestyle but it’s being smeared by the small minded people on here who seem to have an axe to grind.
Their loss (they can’t class themselves as swingers as they are small minded).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
Sounds like I'm aying for a golf membership
Oi cheeky, don't you start "
Let me know when I can start then. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
Sounds like I'm aying for a golf membership
Oi cheeky, don't you start
Let me know when I can start then. "
I,d putva nice warm coat on first as going out like that you might get frost bite ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Make it a Swingers site!
It already is. You're swingers aren't you?
We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.
There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!
They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.
It’s easy to,police it.
Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.
Simple.
Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.
The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!
Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!
Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?
No it's a different audience.
It would just sort the wheat from the Chaff.
I don't think you'll find much of the wheat you seek here, no matter what you do.
Hence the reason for our initial comment.
This is just a window into the lifestyle but it’s being smeared by the small minded people on here who seem to have an axe to grind.
Their loss (they can’t class themselves as swingers as they are small minded).
Prefer the clubs anyway "
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"I'd like the ability to see if the people on my friends / hot list had posted in the forums or where currently in chat room.
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Yeah it would be good to be able to click someone’s green arrow direct from their profile page, rather than having to locate an old post of theirs on the forum to track latest postings (there are some people who make me laugh so I like to see when they posted last etc). ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?
Maybe it wasn't free to join ??
I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified
As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms
Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought
I'd stop using my hotlist and block people who put me on there's who I wasn't interested in.
It would only flag up if mutual hotlisting ...not informing you of everyone thats hotlisted you
That could work. Depending on why I've hotlisted them "
Mutual hotlist indicator. I like it. Isn't that a tinder feature? |
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"I'd like the ability to see if the people on my friends / hot list had posted in the forums or where currently in chat room.
Yeah it would be good to be able to click someone’s green arrow direct from their profile page, rather than having to locate an old post of theirs on the forum to track latest postings (there are some people who make me laugh so I like to see when they posted last etc). "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any man who can't get a meet within 6 months is deleted. "
Is that who hasn't had a meet or can't get one?
*shuffling nervously around the 5 month mark* |
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over a year ago
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"Couples have to have public pics of both of them on show.
You're complaining about what others show in their profile but hide your own "
In the words of Alanis - Ironic. |
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Why does paying to join make it better. Are you suggesting the idiots don't have the cash? Or perhaps those lacking sufficient funds to pay should be excluded
And just how does photoverified prove anything other than some one held up a pic with a site name on it.
Surely the way to make it better is in your personal gift. Use it the way that works for you...
And don't try to impose your prejudices on other users?
There is of course anothef option. If you don't like it as it is..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Profiles have more specifications similar t the way dating sites work.
So you can block people your not looking for and they can block you.
a time water tick box so people can tick a box on people profiles and the people with the most ticks go on a list. The more ticks they have the higher on the list so the moderators can find the time wasters and delete them.
A better messaging system so friend and people on hotlist go into a different inbox from the regular mail.
A site calendar so it's easier to see dates of socials.
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"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?
Maybe it wasn't free to join ??
How would that make it better?
Is this guy for real? "
Why wouldn't I be for real? It's a fair question. The money to join a swinger's site is no barometer of integrity and would do nothibg to eliminate time wasters and fakes. Similarly photo verifications achieves little, holding up a piece of paper doesn't make people more genuine.
It may deter a handful of time wasters but would also see a lot of genuine members wave goodbye to the site |
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