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By *ools and the brain OP Couple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Obviously everyone to their own and if that's your thing crack on.

But just curious to find out if women actually enjoy being referred to in such a demeaning way?

Or is that all part of the link ?

Please enlighten me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No. I'm a woman who loves sex. Why does everything have to come with a label?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't its degrading but all of us like different things .id slap a man if he called my whore or slut

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By *ools and the brain OP Couple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Obviously everyone to their own and if that's your thing crack on.

But just curious to find out if women actually enjoy being referred to in such a demeaning way?

Or is that all part of the link ?

Please enlighten me."

*Kink*. Not link doh !

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By *rSuave88Man over a year ago

Mirfield

"I don't its degrading but all of us like different things .id slap a man if he called my whore or slut

He might like it haha

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By *wisted2000Woman over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

It depends on my mood and the dynamic we have going at the time, it can be a very horny experience but it’s something both sides need to enjoy, if someone randomly said it I’d probably slap them to be honest lol

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

No I wouldn’t appreciate it in any way. Liable to get a poke in the eye with a sharp stick if someone spoke to me in that way I’m afraid. It’s not my thing at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a male friend who tries to sext me now and then buts he gets a bit BDSM in tone like "how's my filthy cock sucking whore today? Bet you'd love to suck my cock wouldn't you ya filthy whore?"

I'm like no, fuck off it's 7 o'clock in the morning, go have a wank and text me when you're less horny.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes like it if I've allowed it to happen, if that makes sense.

If someone just starts calling me a slut I find it offensive, but if in the context of a conversation I'm being slutty and they use the term then fine

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By *ussetdevilCouple over a year ago

Swindon

"It depends on my mood and the dynamic we have going at the time, it can be a very horny experience but it’s something both sides need to enjoy, if someone randomly said it I’d probably slap them to be honest lol "

My thoughts exactly

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By *ty31Man over a year ago

NW London

I suppose some do, as a form of role playing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a male friend who tries to sext me now and then buts he gets a bit BDSM in tone like "how's my filthy cock sucking whore today? Bet you'd love to suck my cock wouldn't you ya filthy whore?"

I'm like no, fuck off it's 7 o'clock in the morning, go have a wank and text me when you're less horny.

yes that's how I usually feel too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In general terms no but if he calls me his little slut as he's taking me from behind with my hair tight in his fist and his fingers clawing at my flesh then who am I to argue?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, you put it much better than I did

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women do. I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends who’s saying it and what we are doing at the time.

I met a guy, not from here, and during sex he’d call me his slut and it was a big turn on.

He was very respectful at all other times and never used any derogatory words to me in normal conversation.

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

Some girls do.

Some girls like it cause it makes them feel bad, so.e girls like it cause it makes them feel good, and some girls normally don't like it but this one particular guy saying it turns them wild.

Then some girls don't like it.

Some guys like to be called a naughty little slut too.

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By *reckledWoman over a year ago

manchester

Precisely this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wonder if men like being called short fat fucker .lol

Same thing not nice is it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder if men like being called short fat fucker .lol

Same thing not nice is it

It’s not the same thing at all

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By *oachman 9CoolMan over a year ago

derby

"Wonder if men like being called short fat fucker .lol

Same thing not nice is it

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Its obvious some people can be quite happy useing it has a type of roleplay, I,m happy to say I don,t like it in anyway and perhaps strangely to some the ladies who do like it in roleplay I steer clear of it (never sounds)nice to me.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

By the right person at the right time.... Yes

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By *easingtessWoman over a year ago

waterford

In the right situation I love being called a filthy slut or whore. It's not a turn on if slow and sensual sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In general terms no but if he calls me his little slut as he's taking me from behind with my hair tight in his fist and his fingers clawing at my flesh then who am I to argue? "

exactly this x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know a few women that love to be called a cum swallowing little slut,but it’s all to do with the context and the moment,surely??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. I'm a woman who loves sex. Why does everything have to come with a label?

Erm, no labels! a woman, loves sex, sorry I'll fetch my coat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't its degrading but all of us like different things .id slap a man if he called my whore or slut

Your right it's whores's for course's as some women I know might like their bums slapped and been called a whore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

By a partner or someone I knew well enough yes I quite like it, if it's all in the moment. As long as they don't mind being called a dirty fucker back? Wouldn't appreciate it from someone I didn't know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the right moment with the right guy it can be hot a hell....

Other times it makes my vagina want to seal shut never to be reopened....

All depends on the mood I'm in.... fickle beast that I am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends who I,m meeting, I like different stuff with different men xxx

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By *entileschiWoman over a year ago

Norwich

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know one who loves it in the right context.

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By *easingtessWoman over a year ago

waterford

"I know one who loves it in the right context."

Lucky her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder if men like being called short fat fucker .lol

Same thing not nice is it

It’s not the same thing at all

Nasty and degrading same nasty names .has same effect on people as been called slut or whore

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By *abmummy27Woman over a year ago

up north

Mmm nothing wrong with having your bum slapped and been called slut/whore I find it sucha tturn on (In the bedroom)

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By *carlettxWoman over a year ago

Essex

Some do but I most certainly don’t

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Obviously everyone to their own and if that's your thing crack on.

But just curious to find out if women actually enjoy being referred to in such a demeaning way?

Or is that all part of the link ?

Please enlighten me."

not me no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder if men like being called short fat fucker .lol

Same thing not nice is it

It’s not the same thing at all

Nasty and degrading same nasty names .has same effect on people as been called slut or whore

Yes some blokes love degrading I would think...not my thing though.

But the big word here is Consensual.

As long as both enjoy it it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes when the moment takes but not a regular thing. It can be off putting if you talk too much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder if men like being called short fat fucker .lol

Same thing not nice is it

It’s not the same thing at all

Nasty and degrading same nasty names .has same effect on people as been called slut or whore

Only to some as posts above have shown.

A lot of women enjoy being called a slut in the right context.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wonder if men like being called short fat fucker .lol

Same thing not nice is it

It’s not the same thing at all

Nasty and degrading same nasty names .has same effect on people as been called slut or whore

Yes some blokes love degrading I would think...not my thing though.

But the big word here is Consensual.

As long as both enjoy it it's all good."

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Not a woman, but yes, yes I do

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Right person, right time. Yes.

Wrong person, wrong time. Run.

In a first message. Blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the right circumstances I like it but only Mr calling me it. If anyone else did on a meet they would be on their arse x

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

"Some girls do.

Some girls like it cause it makes them feel bad, so.e girls like it cause it makes them feel good, and some girls normally don't like it but this one particular guy saying it turns them wild.

Then some girls don't like it.

Some guys like to be called a naughty little slut too."

Not me though.

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By *unguya2zMan over a year ago

coventry..ish

Kicked out of tescos earlier for saying this very same thing....Some people just don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like using these words .I've been asked to say them but it's not for me . Even though we ate have great dirty sex I like to think I'm with a lady lol .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In the right circumstances I like it but only Mr calling me it. If anyone else did on a meet they would be on their arse x"

Exactly this x ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It only feels right with one person, who I've known for a long time.

With anyone else it does nothing for me.

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

In the heat of the moment I can't get enough of it

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Nope i certainly dont,but each to their own

Miss

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman over a year ago

Nope!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only 2 people can call me slut and not lose their teeth. It's part of dirty talk for one and a term of endearment from the other. I don't expect everyone to understand that but it's our kink and we like it and it's not harming anyone else.

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nope. I think they are loaded words that we have been conned into thinking are cool or sexy or ok...when the meaning behind them is actually pretty demeaning ...and there are no equivalents for men..wonder why that is..hmmm...and why is it if a woman enjoys sex she has to be labelled/buy in to being labelled?

I don't find that sexy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Quite simply....no

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

As long as the guy saying it doesn't mind the Missing tooth and black eye look, then its fine!

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Not my thing, kick in the privates would be my reaction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In general terms no but if he calls me his little slut as he's taking me from behind with my hair tight in his fist and his fingers clawing at my flesh then who am I to argue?

exactly this x "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like it when we are in sub/dom roles. But only him saying it to me. I wouldnt like any other guy calling me that without my permission. But its the enjoyment of being used and being called that as my face is being forced into a pillow and fucked from behind

in the right circumstance its great. I hated the idea...but love it now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nope. I think they are loaded words that we have been conned into thinking are cool or sexy or ok...when the meaning behind them is actually pretty demeaning ...and there are no equivalents for men..wonder why that is..hmmm...and why is it if a woman enjoys sex she has to be labelled/buy in to being labelled?

I don't find that sexy. "

The meaning behind slut is just a woman who has many casual partners, nothing demeaning about it in itself, it's just generally used and seen as a derogatory term.

I guess the male equivalent would be lethario or philanderer or such, which don't seem to cut quite as deep.

Technically though, I am a slut

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Yes I do. But it’s all done at appropriate times in the right context. Same as all our play. Otherwise Sir is a gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a no from me I'm afraid x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham