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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.
2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.
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"1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.
2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.
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I would choose a border collie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.
2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.
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Neither. Unless they filled all the criteria you mention, they wouldn't be my partner anyway. |
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"1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.
2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.
Neither. Unless they filled all the criteria you mention, they wouldn't be my partner anyway."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2. I don't mind tagging along when men do their men things. We can always do something neutral to spend time together and I don't do much that warrants a man's input anyway. |
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"1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.
2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.
I would choose a border collie "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Neither. I need passion and compatability within a relationship.
I wouldn't be attracted to someone who couldn't give me both.
It's different if they lose interest temporarily through illness or something, but for me to be happy within a relationship i need hot sex, lots of laughs and a lorra lorra love and affection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ideally neither. But I've experience both and if I had to choose then 1 everytime. 2 is a horrible way to live"
For you perhaps.
For me it's made life (and my wife) interesting. I'd never have put up with somebody just like me! |
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I know the option isn't there but for me it would have to be:
1.5) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common, totally sexually compatible with - and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny.
One can only dream  |
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2 - I normally pick people who dont have the same interests as me to date anyway. I find its not sharing stuff, but respecting each others different interests that makes people happy.
I'd be bored stiff if my girlfriend shared every vanilla interest I have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd choose No. 1.
Then I'd join Fab Swingers  "
Me too
That's what a lot of "singles" on here are doing.
They want the best of both worlds.
I had a relationship with a number 1 for many years.
We loved each others company, shared a lot of interests and generally got on like a house on fire.
But our sex life was awful!
I think we tried to make it a sexual relationship because we got on so well.
But it just didn't work in the bedroom.
I miss his company though x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ideally neither. But I've experience both and if I had to choose then 1 everytime. 2 is a horrible way to live
For you perhaps.
For me it's made life (and my wife) interesting. I'd never have put up with somebody just like me!"
I think I'm the same. It's a yin yang thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Neither.
From personal experience I need a mixture of the both to make the relationship work for the long term."
I think most people do. But that's not possible in this situation. It's 1 or 2 or neither.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Neither. I need passion and compatability within a relationship.
I wouldn't be attracted to someone who couldn't give me both.
It's different if they lose interest temporarily through illness or something, but for me to be happy within a relationship i need hot sex, lots of laughs and a lorra lorra love and affection."
This.
My ex was 1. |
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