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I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way.. "
My hero  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah you mean this -
Guy - hi fancy a meet
Lady - no thanks not my type
Guy - I didn’t want to meet you anyway you double bagging fat arsed walrus
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Yep, I've had something similar on numerous occasions!
But I've also had some lovely messages also after I've expressed no interest, some really good guys on here too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah you mean this -
Guy - hi fancy a meet
Lady - no thanks not my type
Guy - I didn’t want to meet you anyway you double bagging fat arsed walrus
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There’s my next username right there  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Anybody who feels the need to shame/ insult another person whether on here or in the vanilla world, whether or not they feel rejected, says a lot more about themselves than about the person they have just tried to shame.
Only insecure people feel the need to shame other people, need to make themselves feel better by trying to make others feel bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've not been on here long but have also been very lucky. No one turning nasty if they’ve had a knock back. Imagine there xan be some right nasty buggers though.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way.. "
I’m afraid this type of thread has been
White Knighted to death in the past several times. People will never learn. You just need to understand that if you put yourself out there, prepare to be praised and ridiculed in the same sentence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way..
I’m afraid this type of thread has been
White Knighted to death in the past several times. People will never learn. You just need to understand that if you put yourself out there, prepare to be praised and ridiculed in the same sentence. "
Would you like me to praise or ridicule you?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block them straight after telling them I don't want to meet them for whatever reason, often distance. I started doing that after a bloke miles away got snotty and said I was expecting too much from the site, after I told him sorry too far.
I am a fat walrus though xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd not really experienced it (being a single guy previously) until we created this couples profile. We've had a few people totally flip-reverse what they've been saying, and it's just... odd, I think is the best word 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow ?? to some of this if I message someone and they do get back to me and say sorry no thanks I just thank them for their honesty and wish them well on here I don’t see the point of being nasty ! You’re never gonna be everyone’s cup of tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a polite, not looking to meet right now... Reply came in...Youre on a fuck site, you should take what u get.
I declined, apparently I'm a fussy cunt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way..
I’m afraid this type of thread has been
White Knighted to death in the past several times. People will never learn. You just need to understand that if you put yourself out there, prepare to be praised and ridiculed in the same sentence.
Would you like me to praise or ridicule you? "
Ooo. A good ridiculing please |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a polite, not looking to meet right now... Reply came in...Youre on a fuck site, you should take what u get.
I declined, apparently I'm a fussy cunt "
I'd get that put on a t-shirt and where it to your next meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a polite, not looking to meet right now... Reply came in...Youre on a fuck site, you should take what u get.
I declined, apparently I'm a fussy cunt
I'd get that put on a t-shirt and where it to your next meet."
Rarely meet off here.. Real world yields better quality. |
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The replies have been great... A fussy cunt... Lol I like that one
And I wasn't trying to white knight anything.. Just got a little pissed about it.. Most of the time I get ignored.. Sometimes blocked but when I get a response I generally say okay well have a good day... Or something polite.. And some of those ended up being a friend on here or we chat outside of fab. Hell there times I really like what's person's profile says.. And I won't be what they are looking for but I say something nice about the profile and I get a response that is nice and that's the end of the conversation... Oh well though. Haha Inga a random message from a parson I never looked at or anything send me nasty little message my only response was " I will sleep better tonight knowing how you feel about me, a person you never met" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way.. "
Middle Aged -check-
No meets -check-
Claims he's a nice guy -check-
Fairly average -check-
Makes sycophantic "look at me" threads in hope of positive affirmation -check-
You guys are starting to get a little predictable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way.. "
People have been doing it for years, it's a pretty inevitable reaction from people wired in a certain way. Some people hate rejection amd deal with it by projecting it on to others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way..
Middle Aged -check-
No meets -check-
Claims he's a nice guy -check-
Fairly average -check-
Makes sycophantic "look at me" threads in hope of positive affirmation -check-
You guys are starting to get a little predictable. "
I started a thread the other day about the UK's friendliest places. I nominated Birmingham...you must have been out the day I visited!
Top marks to the OP for trying to spread a little love. And whatever the motivation... he's right!
Have you been in touch with that gorgeous lady you called a cunt yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had similar replies from guys hence why I do not respond anymore to messages I’m not interested in.
Also I have reported every single one of these men and not one of them was removed from the site. Makes me wonder what the point in reporting people is sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shouldn't let the opinion of people you don't respect get you down. Understand they are just strangers being assholes, and they showed their true colours and you got to avoid them."
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"We've not been on here long but have also been very lucky. No one turning nasty if they’ve had a knock back. Imagine there xan be some right nasty buggers though.
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We tend not to say 'no thanks, we just don't respond if not interested (prob get someone say we 'should') but so far - no issues and very sweet interactions x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never had a guy body shame me but have been subjected to bitchy comments from other women.
I smile and wave.  "
That's the only reaction they deserve |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way..
I’m afraid this type of thread has been
White Knighted to death in the past several times. People will never learn. You just need to understand that if you put yourself out there, prepare to be praised and ridiculed in the same sentence.
Would you like me to praise or ridicule you? "
I’m sure a woman of your calibre could do both without ruffling a feather. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way..
Middle Aged -check-
No meets -check-
Claims he's a nice guy -check-
Fairly average -check-
Makes sycophantic "look at me" threads in hope of positive affirmation -check-
You guys are starting to get a little predictable. "
To be fair, so are you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anybody who feels the need to shame/ insult another person whether on here or in the vanilla world, whether or not they feel rejected, says a lot more about themselves than about the person they have just tried to shame.
Only insecure people feel the need to shame other people, need to make themselves feel better by trying to make others feel bad."
That's about 90% of the men on here |
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