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So I’ve put a meet for today, well for anytime this week actually as I’m unexpectedly work free this week, but I’m wondering is there any point?
Putting aside the number of ‘male meets’, I’m not sure if I’ll be very successful. You see I seek a classy lady, not someone who’s gonna drop her pants because I put a meet request. Yes I’ve put up a social meet only, so will hopefully catch the eye of someone suitable, but do you ladies really check out the ‘meet section’ anyway?
So come on girls, is there any point to the meet now adverts by us fellas??
HG
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You never know. I don’t check out the meets section, but I do look on the updates newsfeed and local meets show up on there. You might just catch someone’s eye.
Good luck!
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over a year ago
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"There are no classy ladies on here. They all drop their drawers in the end  "
Do they, who, where do they live, with anyone.....oh, so many questions, will they message me? I haven't being this excited since joining Fab! |
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over a year ago
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"So I’ve put a meet for today, well for anytime this week actually as I’m unexpectedly work free this week, but I’m wondering is there any point?
Putting aside the number of ‘male meets’, I’m not sure if I’ll be very successful. You see I seek a classy lady, not someone who’s gonna drop her pants because I put a meet request. Yes I’ve put up a social meet only, so will hopefully catch the eye of someone suitable, but do you ladies really check out the ‘meet section’ anyway?
So come on girls, is there any point to the meet now adverts by us fellas??
HG
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Ifi see a meet flag on aprofile and im freeto meet i will message.
But i rarely look in meet section |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kinda what I expected tbh, not really worth the effort
But you never know...
HG"
But it's not a massive effort to fill in the thing, and as others have said someone who has you on a friend list or hotlist might see it and get in touch.
We have a look once in a while at listed meets, don't think we've ever met off the back of one though. |
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It rarely works for single ladies and couples so I'm assuming single men will find it nigh on impossible to get a meet that way.
I would suggest you just keep on searching and messaging people in the usual way.
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It's a few minutes of effort - less than sending one well composed personalised message - so it all depends upon your outlook and commitment to meeting.
People see them and if searches are done, it's one thing that could be searched upon |
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"Kinda what I expected tbh, not really worth the effort
But you never know...
HG"
You don't it's true.
Some clubs open in the day, if you make it clear you're there socially you might meet someone. |
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"So I’ve put a meet for today, well for anytime this week actually as I’m unexpectedly work free this week, but I’m wondering is there any point?
Putting aside the number of ‘male meets’, I’m not sure if I’ll be very successful. You see I seek a classy lady, not someone who’s gonna drop her pants because I put a meet request. Yes I’ve put up a social meet only, so will hopefully catch the eye of someone suitable, but do you ladies really check out the ‘meet section’ anyway?
So come on girls, is there any point to the meet now adverts by us fellas??
HG
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You'll find out later today when you see how well the adve...sorry. Thread has gone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the 2 years on n off I've never succeeded with a meet by posting on here. I've tried many times.
Only meets I've had are from chatting long n hard. I think it's different types that respond to meets posted rather that chatting and getting to know the other
I'm sure many others have succeeded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont look at the meets thingy but I do look at local updates.
You might have more luck changing your status OP.
Whether you'll find someone "classy" enough for you is another thing  |
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I sometimes look at meets to see if anybody is looking for a social but almost all of them add "maybe more". Like the op we look to have a social only first and feel that responding to a request where a person is hoping for more would be unfair of us.
I also think women who meet on the spur of the moment might be in the minority. |
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"So I’ve put a meet for today, well for anytime this week actually as I’m unexpectedly work free this week, but I’m wondering is there any point?
Putting aside the number of ‘male meets’, I’m not sure if I’ll be very successful. You see I seek a classy lady, not someone who’s gonna drop her pants because I put a meet request. Yes I’ve put up a social meet only, so will hopefully catch the eye of someone suitable, but do you ladies really check out the ‘meet section’ anyway?
So come on girls, is there any point to the meet now adverts by us fellas??
HG
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I've posted in the meets section a few times now, and never received anything more than an occasional profile view, but it's always worth it for a chuckle  |
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"So I’ve put a meet for today, well for anytime this week actually as I’m unexpectedly work free this week, but I’m wondering is there any point?
Putting aside the number of ‘male meets’, I’m not sure if I’ll be very successful. You see I seek a classy lady, not someone who’s gonna drop her pants because I put a meet request. Yes I’ve put up a social meet only, so will hopefully catch the eye of someone suitable, but do you ladies really check out the ‘meet section’ anyway?
So come on girls, is there any point to the meet now adverts by us fellas??
HG
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Shame that you are so far away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has worked for me twice before, once locally and once when working away. More often than not nobody of interest would come forward but it does work, just occasionally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have stopped putting up meet requests as never get a response. Much easier to go to a club as akways have a great night even if we don't play with others x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never look
I have also posted meets on my joint profile and we've never had any success with those.
Any meets I've had have been from chatting to people and then arranging something directly with them
Good luck and hope you get a meet in your unexpected week off x |
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"I never look
I have also posted meets on my joint profile and we've never had any success with those.
Any meets I've had have been from chatting to people and then arranging something directly with them
Good luck and hope you get a meet in your unexpected week off x"
Thank you, fingers crossed x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No responses so far for any of my social meets, even for Wednesday's 0 meet club. Will be posting for same again this week, thought someone would jump at the chance of a veri, but obviously not. |
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over a year ago
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If we were available to play, we might respond to a 'meet' status posted by someone we have met before or would like to meet. But that would flash up on our 'friends' updates. It would be out of our comfort zone to respond to a 'meet' status from someone we have never communicated with before, and I'd be afraid of them not turning up or cancelling. We tend to contact select people directly when we know we're going to be available - at least there is a sense of loyalty with people we know. But we do find the 'meet' section of a Fab is exellent for finding out about events and who might be attending.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It rarely works for single ladies and couples so I'm assuming single men will find it nigh on impossible to get a meet that way.
I would suggest you just keep on searching and messaging people in the usual way.
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Has never failed to work for us. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"So I’ve put a meet for today, well for anytime this week actually as I’m unexpectedly work free this week, but I’m wondering is there any point?
Putting aside the number of ‘male meets’, I’m not sure if I’ll be very successful. You see I seek a classy lady, not someone who’s gonna drop her pants because I put a meet request. Yes I’ve put up a social meet only, so will hopefully catch the eye of someone suitable, but do you ladies really check out the ‘meet section’ anyway?
So come on girls, is there any point to the meet now adverts by us fellas??
HG
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I always check the meets section before posting, but no luck with that or my current post lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a sniff, zero interest......sighhhhh.....  "
Sorry dude, that's me not bothering again then. I did put one up early in my fab life, same thing, nothing. |
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"Is the Meets section the one at the back of the store next to the Bakery ?
Oops sorry wrong type of Meat "
 brilliant x
But in all seriousness, kinda makes me take stock of the whole swinging scene and is there any point!?!
HG
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"What you want is a bum pic OP 
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
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I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab  |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
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I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab
You are too kind Jo x"
It was me hinting you need to put some pics on as I've fabbed all your others |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
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I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab
You are too kind Jo x
It was me hinting you need to put some pics on as I've fabbed all your others "
Maybe some private ones especially for you?? If you’d accept my friend request... |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
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I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab
You are too kind Jo x
It was me hinting you need to put some pics on as I've fabbed all your others
Maybe some private ones especially for you?? If you’d accept my friend request..."
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Is the Meets section the one at the back of the store next to the Bakery ?
Oops sorry wrong type of Meat
brilliant x
But in all seriousness, kinda makes me take stock of the whole swinging scene and is there any point!?!
HG
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I'm beginning to think the same to be honest |
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"Is the Meets section the one at the back of the store next to the Bakery ?
Oops sorry wrong type of Meat
brilliant x
But in all seriousness, kinda makes me take stock of the whole swinging scene and is there any point!?!
HG
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Stick with it HG.
If it reaps its rewards its so worth it |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
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I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab
You are too kind Jo x
It was me hinting you need to put some pics on as I've fabbed all your others
Maybe some private ones especially for you?? If you’d accept my friend request...
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When you’re ready xx |
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"Is the Meets section the one at the back of the store next to the Bakery ?
Oops sorry wrong type of Meat
brilliant x
But in all seriousness, kinda makes me take stock of the whole swinging scene and is there any point!?!
HG
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Stick with it HG.
If it reaps its rewards its so worth it "
Really, beginning to loose the will to live with it tbh!?! |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
X
I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab
You are too kind Jo x
It was me hinting you need to put some pics on as I've fabbed all your others
Maybe some private ones especially for you?? If you’d accept my friend request...
When you’re ready xx"
I'm getting to it ...keep getting distracted |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
X
I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab
You are too kind Jo x
It was me hinting you need to put some pics on as I've fabbed all your others
Maybe some private ones especially for you?? If you’d accept my friend request...
When you’re ready xx
I'm getting to it ...keep getting distracted "
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I don't look but if a friend puts one up it'll show on my updates and I'll consider it.
My problem is I'm looking for a classy guy and they are very rare....well around here they are anyway!!
Good luck HG x |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
X
I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab
You are too kind Jo x
It was me hinting you need to put some pics on as I've fabbed all your others
Maybe some private ones especially for you?? If you’d accept my friend request...
When you’re ready xx
I'm getting to it ...keep getting distracted
Pervert "
Yep and I admit it
And mission accomplished |
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"I don't look but if a friend puts one up it'll show on my updates and I'll consider it.
My problem is I'm looking for a classy guy and they are very rare....well around here they are anyway!!
Good luck HG x"
Damn those miles and your no hotels... thank you LL x exceptional arse BTW xx |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
If mine was half as sexy as yours then perhaps I’d agree, but sadly...
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I have a feeling your telling a fib as all your pics are fab
You are too kind Jo x
It was me hinting you need to put some pics on as I've fabbed all your others
Maybe some private ones especially for you?? If you’d accept my friend request...
When you’re ready xx
I'm getting to it ...keep getting distracted
Pervert
Yep and I admit it
And mission accomplished "
Blimey, wow, wow and more wow |
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I once put a status saying I really feel like a chicken ball deal from the Chinese. Had about 50 guys offering to get me one.
Was ill before and put a meet request asking if anyone would get me a tin of pineapple rings, again loads of guys offering to buy me pineapple rings and bring them to me.
Think meet requests and status updates work better for women than men. |
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"I once put a status saying I really feel like a chicken ball deal from the Chinese. Had about 50 guys offering to get me one.
Was ill before and put a meet request asking if anyone would get me a tin of pineapple rings, again loads of guys offering to buy me pineapple rings and bring them to me.
Think meet requests and status updates work better for women than men. "
Could you put up a meet request for a fellow who goes by the name of _ertsguy2000 by any chance ??? Pretty please? X |
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"I once put a status saying I really feel like a chicken ball deal from the Chinese. Had about 50 guys offering to get me one.
Was ill before and put a meet request asking if anyone would get me a tin of pineapple rings, again loads of guys offering to buy me pineapple rings and bring them to me.
Think meet requests and status updates work better for women than men.
Could you put up a meet request for a fellow who goes by the name of _ertsguy2000 by any chance ??? Pretty please? X"
You want me to put a meet request up asking guys to meet you? They probably would if they thought it would get them a meet with me! |
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"Is the Meets section the one at the back of the store next to the Bakery ?
Oops sorry wrong type of Meat
brilliant x
But in all seriousness, kinda makes me take stock of the whole swinging scene and is there any point!?!
HG
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Try going to a club or to any socials organised in your area. They're a great place to meet like minded people without any pressure and an easier way to get to know people x |
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"I once put a status saying I really feel like a chicken ball deal from the Chinese. Had about 50 guys offering to get me one.
Was ill before and put a meet request asking if anyone would get me a tin of pineapple rings, again loads of guys offering to buy me pineapple rings and bring them to me.
Think meet requests and status updates work better for women than men.
Could you put up a meet request for a fellow who goes by the name of _ertsguy2000 by any chance ??? Pretty please? X
You want me to put a meet request up asking guys to meet you? They probably would if they thought it would get them a meet with me! "
I meant you put up a meet asking to see me, but would still bet you’d get bombarded with offers !! |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
And tits and a pussy
He doesn't have tits or a pussy though
So a bit difficult "
Yup, could always put the old chap between behind my clamped thighs and run around like that.... wait I’m trying to attract the girls right!?!??  |
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"What you want is a bum pic OP
And tits and a pussy
He doesn't have tits or a pussy though
So a bit difficult
Yup, could always put the old chap between behind my clamped thighs and run around like that.... wait I’m trying to attract the girls right!?!?? "
Lol yep ....ssssshhhh about that |
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Maybe it’s timing and luck of the draw. I posted a meet earlier within 15 mins I had 100 people look at me. A few messages not many but two social meets (but op I guess it’s going to be hard for you as a man  )
I know there’s a London social next sat afternoon posted by whiterabbits) other than that I don’t know what to suggest. |
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