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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don’t enjoy sexy with a condom on. Don’t get me wrong I know it’s to keep us safe. But noting better that the feeling when sliding it inside a woman. Feeling her walls wrap your cock and the warmth of it.
As soon as you put a condom on you loose that. If you both are clean why bother with a condom. As soon as she says put a condom on I don’t get as hard.
What’s your thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t enjoy sexy with a condom on. Don’t get me wrong I know it’s to keep us safe. But noting better that the feeling when sliding it inside a woman. Feeling her walls wrap your cock and the warmth of it.
As soon as you put a condom on you loose that. If you both are clean why bother with a condom. As soon as she says put a condom on I don’t get as hard.
What’s your thoughts. "
Find a wife and stay monogamous, my friend, is it worth the risk otherwise?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try a different condom, maybe it's the size and fit that's causing your erection to dissipate.
If it is the mental act of putting one on that causes droopy time then perhaps you need to change your mindset. Act as though bareback sex isn't even on the table to start with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A) Birth control isn't 100% protection
B) unless you've waited long enough to cover the incubation period and neither of you have played with anyone else in the interim you don't "know" you are clean, only that you were at the date of the test. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say I'm shocked by some of the comments on here! This sort of naivety would would put me off having sex with someone. I wouldn't feel safe. If you're engaging in any sex, casual or regular etc., I think you have a certain responsibility to educate yourself on these matters to protect yourself and your partner(s). |
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OP if you and your partner are both exclusive to each other then bareback is amazing providing you are using other means of contraception.
However many women cannot take the pill, me included.
How do you know you can trust the other person when they claim to be "clean"? A clear sti test only proves they were not carrying an infection at the time of testing. They could have picked something up since the test and some infections have a long incubation period and don't show up on tests for a while.
How do you know they have even been tested? All you have to go on is their word to say it happened.
If you are willing to take the risk OP then great, have fun and enjoy yourself. For me personally it's not something I would be willing to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Train yourself so that putting a condom on means sex. Your cock will be standing up ready for it then
Or get the chop, get a committed relationship and your good to go
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If using a condom is causing a droop, get the lady to prepare you first and let her put it on for you as part of play. The stimulation should help keep you hard. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Train yourself so that putting a condom on means sex. Your cock will be standing up ready for it then
Or get the chop, get a committed relationship and your good to go
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Exactly this, have a posh wank now and again and you'll soon be used to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If using a condom is causing a droop, get the lady to prepare you first and let her put it on for you as part of play. The stimulation should help keep you hard."
That's why I ask a woman to wrap me up. There's something sexy about watching them do it. |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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" Exactly who would not be on birth control pill ?
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XX wouldn't be.
XY had the snip years ago. Which is part of the reason we will only play safe.
The other reason is STI's
You're only as clean as the last person you played with. Are playmates just meant to take each other's word for it too?
How do you prove you are clean? You could have had bareback sex with someone who was riddled 20 minutes after being treated, would anyone really know?
Each to their own and all that, but it's not for us and is a deal breaker. If we are aware you've played bb we will not play with you.
Yes, condoms are horrible and spoil the fluidity of play, but to us, they are necessary if you want to join us.
We use these forum threads to help grow our every expanding block list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Exactly who would not be on birth control pill ?
XX wouldn't be.
XY had the snip years ago. Which is part of the reason we will only play safe.
The other reason is STI's
You're only as clean as the last person you played with. Are playmates just meant to take each other's word for it too?
How do you prove you are clean? You could have had bareback sex with someone who was riddled 20 minutes after being treated, would anyone really know?
Each to their own and all that, but it's not for us and is a deal breaker. If we are aware you've played bb we will not play with you.
Yes, condoms are horrible and spoil the fluidity of play, but to us, they are necessary if you want to join us.
We use these forum threads to help grow our every expanding block list. "
Exactly this
Worrying naivety from OP
At 35 too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes me laugh when people say they are 'clean' and put on their profiles that they expect prospective partners to be so too
Oh, and the ones that say " we dont play with people who have lots of veris, as they are somehow dirty"
Absolutely terrifying naivety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t enjoy sexy with a condom on. Don’t get me wrong I know it’s to keep us safe. But noting better that the feeling when sliding it inside a woman. Feeling her walls wrap your cock and the warmth of it.
As soon as you put a condom on you loose that. If you both are clean why bother with a condom. As soon as she says put a condom on I don’t get as hard.
What’s your thoughts. "
Horrible things. Like swimming in chest waders |
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"Makes me laugh when people say they are 'clean' and put on their profiles that they expect prospective partners to be so too
Oh, and the ones that say " we dont play with people who have lots of veris, as they are somehow dirty"
Absolutely terrifying naivety"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Something I said OP?
think he went UNLOS 
Yes, I do so love a man who puts up a reasoned, logical, educated argument
Such a turn on"
i think he realissed what a knob he was on here and deleted out of shame |
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Maybe he's gone for the snip, so he doesn't impregnate any of the ladies who he thinks should be taking the pill.
Maybe he's gone to get tested
Or maybe he's gone to practise putting posh wanking
I'm hoping he's gone to get educated personally.
I think I have a little evil in me today, must be the prick I just had.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Methinks he realised he’s committed grievous fabicide and has no hope of getting a fuck. He’s probably already started his new profile "
And stalking this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a vascectomy and I'm clean.
I use condoms because without everyone having access to my medical records you can only take my word for it.
The lady may be on the pill or sterilised but I only have her word for that too.
Why risk it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t enjoy sexy with a condom on. Don’t get me wrong I know it’s to keep us safe. But noting better that the feeling when sliding it inside a woman. Feeling her walls wrap your cock and the warmth of it.
As soon as you put a condom on you loose that. If you both are clean why bother with a condom. As soon as she says put a condom on I don’t get as hard.
What’s your thoughts. "
get a sandwhich bag and an elastic band |
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Unless you have waited 6 months from having sex, then got a clean std test, you wont know if you're clean.
You will test negative for a long time after catching a few stds.
Anyway I bought a box of fancy condoms, supposed to be real nice, had them for about 3 months now, but I mean, I can't get anyone to try them with. So that would be a start for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Exactly who would not be on birth control pill ?
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Me!! I *cant* be on any hormonal contraceptives I've always reacted badly to them, and I've tried a few! Condoms all the way! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am shocked though at how many married men do not carry on buy condoms for fab meets .( i always carry them and always play safe ).
But i have noticed so makes we wonder how many would go with these men if they haven't got protection on them . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am shocked though at how many married men do not carry on buy condoms for fab meets .( i always carry them and always play safe ).
But i have noticed so makes we wonder how many would go with these men if they haven't got protection on them . "
Not just married men surely?! All people should have them for a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am shocked though at how many married men do not carry on buy condoms for fab meets .( i always carry them and always play safe ).
But i have noticed so makes we wonder how many would go with these men if they haven't got protection on them .
Not just married
men surely?! All people should have them for a meet "
I agree all should but all dont .its the married men who made excuses in not having them as incase wife or girlfriend finds them.im put off at this point so dont play as i get feeling they wouldnt play safe . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am shocked though at how many married men do not carry on buy condoms for fab meets .( i always carry them and always play safe ).
But i have noticed so makes we wonder how many would go with these men if they haven't got protection on them .
Not just married
men surely?! All people should have them for a meet
I agree all should but all dont .its the married men who made excuses in not having them as incase wife or girlfriend finds them.im put off at this point so dont play as i get feeling they wouldnt play safe ."
Too right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am shocked though at how many married men do not carry on buy condoms for fab meets .( i always carry them and always play safe ).
But i have noticed so makes we wonder how many would go with these men if they haven't got protection on them .
Not just married
men surely?! All people should have them for a meet
I agree all should but all dont .its the married men who made excuses in not having them as incase wife or girlfriend finds them.im put off at this point so dont play as i get feeling they wouldnt play safe .
Too right! "
Something else that startled me was a male friend i chat too meets 2 couples .he always plays safe and one of the women wanted him to go bareback .He didnt and he was put off the couple .wonder how many times this is asked . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am shocked though at how many married men do not carry on buy condoms for fab meets .( i always carry them and always play safe ).
But i have noticed so makes we wonder how many would go with these men if they haven't got protection on them .
Not just married
men surely?! All people should have them for a meet
I agree all should but all dont .its the married men who made excuses in not having them as incase wife or girlfriend finds them.im put off at this point so dont play as i get feeling they wouldnt play safe .
Too right!
Something else that startled me was a male friend i chat too meets 2 couples .he always plays safe and one of the women wanted him to go bareback .He didnt and he was put off the couple .wonder how many times this is asked . "
Quite often, judging by the amount of threads about it on here. I’d never go bb with anyone apart from my husband and if anyone asked or expected me to that would be the end of that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am shocked though at how many married men do not carry on buy condoms for fab meets .( i always carry them and always play safe ).
But i have noticed so makes we wonder how many would go with these men if they haven't got protection on them .
Not just married
men surely?! All people should have them for a meet
I agree all should but all dont .its the married men who made excuses in not having them as incase wife or girlfriend finds them.im put off at this point so dont play as i get feeling they wouldnt play safe .
Too right!
Something else that startled me was a male friend i chat too meets 2 couples .he always plays safe and one of the women wanted him to go bareback .He didnt and he was put off the couple .wonder how many times this is asked .
Quite often, judging by the amount of threads about it on here. I’d never go bb with anyone apart from my husband and if anyone asked or expected me to that would be the end of that! "
Yes dont blame you id do the same .im single and so hard as no men can be trusted on fab or the vanilla world .i wish i had someone who i trusted . |
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