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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many of us search for local swingers? And recently I heard a women in the forums wrote how difficult she finds it meeting locally. Distance is the one thing that gets in the way but can be easily overcome.
Drop someone's name that you admire that you would love to meet up with that appears too far away.
[Or pm them if they already know  ]
See if we can get meeting. Rules - you've got 3 months to make it happen. That's more than enough time to make arrangements if you all match up.
This is not a 'I'd love to fuck you' thread it's more of a 'Let's fuck soon' thread.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are 2 or 3 little ladies no more than 20 odd miles for me Mr B. They all know I wanna get my paws on them already in fact plans have been made and unfortunately cancelled before now... I live in hope   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get guys message every day saying they will drive miles for a meet.
It doesn’t work for me because they’re more likely to cancel at the last minute because a 2 hour drive is too much and they can’t be arsed and weren’t as horny as when they offered. Also, I prefer a regular, a quickie sometimes, escort to a club, spontaneous meets etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn't this what everyone does anyway?  There isn't enough room on this thread for our list but I think they already know, I'm not a sit back and wait sort of person...
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get guys message every day saying they will drive miles for a meet.
It doesn’t work for me because they’re more likely to cancel at the last minute because a 2 hour drive is too much and they can’t be arsed and weren’t as horny as when they offered. Also, I prefer a regular, a quickie sometimes, escort to a club, spontaneous meets etc. "
This might attract someone that's prepared to comit. I've never said I'll be there and never not turned up. I'm not the only person that must live like this. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I have and will travel quite a distance for a meet if there's an obvious connection and chemistry there through messaging etc, and so long as an agreeable meeting place can be found
As for naming them...a gentleman never tells |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question, do you think the rising costs of fuel and public transport have an effect on how far we are prepared to travel  "
They probably do to some but I would imagine it would depend on who your meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trips to Scotland and Ireland are on the cards...but probably not before February, so I'll take my punishment early of that's OK Bee?
Peach x"
I think I should administer the punishment in Feb myself |
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
"This requires careful thought.
I ended up in Milton Keynes once!
Could have been worse, you could have ended up in Birmingham, oh, oops, sorry?  "
We've spoke about this. You need to adhere to the injunction.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Trips to Scotland and Ireland are on the cards...but probably not before February, so I'll take my punishment early of that's OK Bee?
Peach x"
You can't take that back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This requires careful thought.
I ended up in Milton Keynes once!
Could have been worse, you could have ended up in Birmingham, oh, oops, sorry?
We've spoke about this. You need to adhere to the injunction. "
I've found a new loophole! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately there's alot of people on here who love the thrill of the chase but then always cancel when the time comes
I live in hope someone around Yorkshire will ride me into oblivion lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Local can become too ‘convenient’.
When you start bumping into each other in Tesco then it’s not always the best idea.
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Tesco Local stores, maybe fab needs another site along side this one, Fab Local |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This requires careful thought.
I ended up in Milton Keynes once!
Could have been worse, you could have ended up in Birmingham, oh, oops, sorry?
We've spoke about this. You need to adhere to the injunction. "
Got to admit, not the best place in the world. |
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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago
Lincoln |
I say if the chemistry and wanting to meet up is that strong then distance no matter how far would be a prob. I’ve met as far north as Aberdeen and as far south as Dover and a hell of a lot of places in between. I personally think we are blinkered if we see distance as a factor as cars, trains and even planes which I’ve jumped on for a meet were invented a long time ago to overcome this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally  "
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a bit of a hard one tbh
To close no way I'd have a fit if they know a family member
To far and there's the what if we don't connect issue
So roughly 20/30 miles works for me |
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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago
North Colchester |
"How many of us search for local swingers? And recently I heard a women in the forums wrote how difficult she finds it meeting locally. Distance is the one thing that gets in the way but can be easily overcome.
Drop someone's name that you admire that you would love to meet up with that appears too far away.
[Or pm them if they already know ]
See if we can get meeting. Rules - you've got 3 months to make it happen. That's more than enough time to make arrangements if you all match up.
This is not a 'I'd love to fuck you' thread it's more of a 'Let's fuck soon' thread. "
Good idea ! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Being as I'm looking for a regular lover distance is an important factor for me. There are a few guys on here I'd love to meet, but it wouldn't work as a regular thing if they were miles away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being as I'm looking for a regular lover distance is an important factor for me. There are a few guys on here I'd love to meet, but it wouldn't work as a regular thing if they were miles away."
Exactly this for me too.
I want regular - one off meets are fine - but I might as well do that locally  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being as I'm looking for a regular lover distance is an important factor for me. There are a few guys on here I'd love to meet, but it wouldn't work as a regular thing if they were miles away."
But doesn’t it also depend on how regular you’re looking for and each other’s life commitments ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Distance hasn't stopped me being able to see someone regularly but then I guess that also depends on your definition of regular.
If there is a real connection and the sex is that good then I think most people will be a bit more flexible on distance and regulatory than they might initially plan to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Distance hasn't stopped me being able to see someone regularly but then I guess that also depends on your definition of regular.
If there is a real connection and the sex is that good then I think most people will be a bit more flexible on distance and regulatory than they might initially plan to be."
*Regularity! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck."
Ahh but I have good reason as to why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'regular' is an ambiguous word, means different things to different people, so how often does regular mean to you?
I think committing to regular meets would be changeable depending on the person/s you're meeting, if that makes sense
Peach x |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"'regular' is an ambiguous word, means different things to different people, so how often does regular mean to you?
I think committing to regular meets would be changeable depending on the person/s you're meeting, if that makes sense
Peach x"
Yes, it makes sense. Regular to me is a couple of times a month, maybe more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck."
Depends how particular you are I guess, if there's nobody locally of the type you want to fuck or offering what you desire then you have no choice. There's plenty I could fuck locally but I don't want them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck.
Depends how particular you are I guess, if there's nobody locally of the type you want to fuck or offering what you desire then you have no choice. There's plenty I could fuck locally but I don't want them."
I understand this but I’d rather go without sex then than travel miles.
I think I’m just seeing having nsa sex as less and less important to me at the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The UK is tiny. Just hours to get almost anywhere yet people discuss a few hours travel like it was a polar expedition. There are roads, trains busses and coaches..have a day out people. Enjoy seeing somewhere new, live a little. This country it tiny, explore it, it's easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck."
It’s never just a fuck, not for me anyway. I always have to have a connection. It’s not just the physical, has to be a mental attraction too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The UK is tiny. Just hours to get almost anywhere yet people discuss a few hours travel like it was a polar expedition. There are roads, trains busses and coaches..have a day out people. Enjoy seeing somewhere new, live a little. This country it tiny, explore it, it's easy "
The county and the people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being as I'm looking for a regular lover distance is an important factor for me. There are a few guys on here I'd love to meet, but it wouldn't work as a regular thing if they were miles away.
Exactly this for me too.
I want regular - one off meets are fine - but I might as well do that locally "
I agree, but if the guy is prepared to travel to you and pick you up, would that change your view?
Say a guy who is less than 20 miles away and not a knob head!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck.
It’s never just a fuck, not for me anyway. I always have to have a connection. It’s not just the physical, has to be a mental attraction too. "
It’s still just sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck.
It’s never just a fuck, not for me anyway. I always have to have a connection. It’s not just the physical, has to be a mental attraction too.
It’s still just sex."
Not friendships for you then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck.
It’s never just a fuck, not for me anyway. I always have to have a connection. It’s not just the physical, has to be a mental attraction too.
It’s still just sex.
Not friendships for you then ? "
I don’t think many on here are looking for friends. No matter how nice and friendly they may be at the beginning it all boils down to them wanting sex. And I’m not interested in travelling hours for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"'regular' is an ambiguous word, means different things to different people, so how often does regular mean to you?
I think committing to regular meets would be changeable depending on the person/s you're meeting, if that makes sense
Peach x"
Yes it does. Regular what? Regular sex/regular filthy sex/regular passionate sex? We all crave different things, maybe, and I've said before with different people. So I agre, maybe regular is a little fuzzy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck.
It’s never just a fuck, not for me anyway. I always have to have a connection. It’s not just the physical, has to be a mental attraction too.
It’s still just sex.
Not friendships for you then ?
I don’t think many on here are looking for friends. No matter how nice and friendly they may be at the beginning it all boils down to them wanting sex. And I’m not interested in travelling hours for sex. "
I'm sorry to say that I agree with you on this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally
Funnily enough, I’m the opposite.
I am only interested in local men.
There’s just something very desperate in my opinion about someone travelling miles just for sex.
A relationship I can understand people travelling for, but not just for a fuck.
It’s never just a fuck, not for me anyway. I always have to have a connection. It’s not just the physical, has to be a mental attraction too.
It’s still just sex.
Not friendships for you then ?
I don’t think many on here are looking for friends. No matter how nice and friendly they may be at the beginning it all boils down to them wanting sex. And I’m not interested in travelling hours for sex.
I'm sorry to say that I agree with you on this"
I like to have some sort of connection before sex, if the sex is good and we both want it again then the friendship develops from that connection. Sex with a friend is the best scenario for me, although I didn't join fab to make friends I've found it goes hand in hand with the kind of sex I want and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many of us search for local swingers? And recently I heard a women in the forums wrote how difficult she finds it meeting locally. Distance is the one thing that gets in the way but can be easily overcome.
Drop someone's name that you admire that you would love to meet up with that appears too far away.
[Or pm them if they already know ]
See if we can get meeting. Rules - you've got 3 months to make it happen. That's more than enough time to make arrangements if you all match up.
This is not a 'I'd love to fuck you' thread it's more of a 'Let's fuck soon' thread. "
Is it a hanging offence if you try and use the forum to get round a filter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My better meets have been further away i don't have much joy with local meets always been the case have alot of joy in the midlands and further north.But hoping that might change soon |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many of us search for local swingers? And recently I heard a women in the forums wrote how difficult she finds it meeting locally. Distance is the one thing that gets in the way but can be easily overcome.
Drop someone's name that you admire that you would love to meet up with that appears too far away.
[Or pm them if they already know ]
See if we can get meeting. Rules - you've got 3 months to make it happen. That's more than enough time to make arrangements if you all match up.
This is not a 'I'd love to fuck you' thread it's more of a 'Let's fuck soon' thread.
Is it a hanging offence if you try and use the forum to get round a filter?"
No. It not.
*disclaimer. I have no idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't think of anything worse than looking locally "
Au contraire. My local man can walk to my house and on Sunday morning I sent him a message and 20 mins later he was in my bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many of us search for local swingers? And recently I heard a women in the forums wrote how difficult she finds it meeting locally. Distance is the one thing that gets in the way but can be easily overcome.
Drop someone's name that you admire that you would love to meet up with that appears too far away.
[Or pm them if they already know ]
See if we can get meeting. Rules - you've got 3 months to make it happen. That's more than enough time to make arrangements if you all match up.
This is not a 'I'd love to fuck you' thread it's more of a 'Let's fuck soon' thread.
Is it a hanging offence if you try and use the forum to get round a filter?
No. It not.
*disclaimer. I have no idea. "
*Prepares for 48 hours on the naughty step*
In my previoua visit here several years ago, I used to chat regularly with a beauty from the Bristol Area.
Ligeia, I would love to rekindle that friendship... |
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