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I did have a woman pay for the hotel, but that was because she had it booked anyway. I also had a couple pay for a hotel, but again it was because they needed to book it.
I'd be a bit uncomfortable if a woman was like "well im booking a hotel for us to have sex and Ill be coming to collect you". I'd assume I was gonna be murdered or something.
I do like a girl buying me something small though, like a cup of tea, or bottle of pepsi, or chocolate bar. It always puts me in a real good mood. |
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"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?
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Hell no, but I would be suspicious that she is infact a he !
If a woman did turn up I'd simply make an excuse to find the waiter discreetly and pay the bill |
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over a year ago
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That just wouldn’t sit right with me at all, I prefer to pay my own way, don’t mind a small contribution if she insisted but no way paying for everything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not a chance. I'd never allow a woman to pay. At the very most we would go Dutch.
I'm old school. "
Must confess so am I, wouldn't feel right, not even sure about Dutch for hotel to be honest but would be okay with being picked up. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?
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No.
I wood meet then happily.
Or thow i wood insist to at lest pay my shear |
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I'd be a bit uncomfortable if a woman was like "well im booking a hotel for us to have sex and Ill be coming to collect you". I'd assume I was gonna be murdered or something.
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And that's coming from a bloke, imagine how scary it can be for us women  |
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I am like the Queen. I don't carry anything as base as money. Just swans, and Corgis.
Being silly of course. Sure if she wanted to, and I had already, or would have the opportunity to repay the favour. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?
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Would neither turn me off nor would I not agree to a meet. However, it would not feel right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?
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Hey, I am completely in the feminist camp, we are all equal and deserving of fair treatment. Doesn't mean I'm not a gentleman. If I invite a lady, I would expect to pay... But as conventions are that women are the arbiter of their attentions, most women know that they don't need to pay for it... |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?
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If this was the first meet then I'd feel uncomfortable I wasn't contributing.
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"Not a chance. I'd never allow a woman to pay. At the very most we would go Dutch.
I'm old school. "
Not many Dutch restaurants round this neck of the woods though I'm afraid. How about a bag of chips on Skeggy beach, I'll pay for the candy floss  |
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