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That angry feeling when it's a no show
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By *oresex OP Man
over a year ago
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How do different people get over that mixture of emotions when a planned meet turns into a no show, all that excitement of looking forward to a meet, turning into the deflation of all your effort when they just don't turn up, me i just get back fab again and crack open a nice bottle of red, what's your cure.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never got angry, maybe screaming and shouting could help me shake off It off quicker. I just feel disappointed, and somehow foolish.
It took a while to get over it, but you do don't you? It's normaly time, and that is determined by how much I liked them.
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I've never been let down BUT I always have a plan....
I meet prepared to shop or see a friend and the plan is always to do those things but drop them if i meet with someone so my time isn't wasted.
Never put it to the test tho ..... cos never had to. |
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"How do different people get over that mixture of emotions when a planned meet turns into a no show, all that excitement of looking forward to a meet, turning into the deflation of all your effort when they just don't turn up, me i just get back fab again and crack open a nice bottle of red, what's your cure. "
Were they chatting right up to the meet?? I don't even get in the shower unless people are communicating freely, I never assume a first meet is still on, plenty of fantacists and picture hunters on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Up to now I’ve never turned up to a social and been left standing alone, but if it did happen, I’d be a little miffed but then just leave it, again, it depends if the person in question got in touch and explained the reasons for not being able to make it. On the other hand, my Mrs has arranged to meet guys and they haven’t turned up, which has peed her off big time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A no show I can’t even get a reply to a msg angry face moji
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My meet went wrong. She turned up and we went to the pub. After a while she said im going out for a smoke, to then never return |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A no show I can’t even get a reply to a msg angry face moji
My meet went wrong. She turned up and we went to the pub. After a while she said im going out for a smoke, to then never return"
Ouch.  this is why I insist in no smokers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been let down BUT I always have a plan....
I meet prepared to shop or see a friend and the plan is always to do those things but drop them if i meet with someone so my time isn't wasted.
Never put it to the test tho ..... cos never had to."
Same. I always have a back up plan but never had to use it.
I wouldn't have a person as a plan b sex meet though. That's just rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A no show I can’t even get a reply to a msg angry face moji
My meet went wrong. She turned up and we went to the pub. After a while she said im going out for a smoke, to then never return
Ouch. this is why I insist in no smokers. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A no show I can’t even get a reply to a msg angry face moji
My meet went wrong. She turned up and we went to the pub. After a while she said im going out for a smoke, to then never return
Ouch. this is why I insist in no smokers. "
Her drink was still there not touched so I thought fuck it and i drank it then left
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The first few times I was let down I was devastated, rejection, pride bruised etc. Now I kinda half expect a no show,so I waste no time, dust myself down and try again.
I had definitely got easier as the days go by..
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"We only do club meets, in part to avoid situations as you have described so it's never been a problem for us.
Ginger"
This. We just move on to our next victims (where's the Halloween emoji? ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only happened the once, but there was a good reason for it. I sulked alone in a hotel room for a bit, then opened a bottle of red, stuck the telly on and read my book. |
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"How do different people get over that mixture of emotions when a planned meet turns into a no show, all that excitement of looking forward to a meet, turning into the deflation of all your effort when they just don't turn up, me i just get back fab again and crack open a nice bottle of red, what's your cure. "
I'll let you know when it happens.  |
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"I've never been let down BUT I always have a plan....
I meet prepared to shop or see a friend and the plan is always to do those things but drop them if i meet with someone so my time isn't wasted.
Never put it to the test tho ..... cos never had to."
Same here. I used to meet during my lunch hour or at the station after work. Lunchtime, I was eating anyway, evening, I was heading home.
A play meet, I'd use a flexi day, I'd be at home anyway, they all turned up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only experienced a let down for the first time quite recently.
Bit that was the worst was the waiting wondering if I should just give it another five. Feel very self aware that you’re hanging about looking like you’ve been stood up.
Kinda like when your bus doesn’t show.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been let down BUT I always have a plan....
I meet prepared to shop or see a friend and the plan is always to do those things but drop them if i meet with someone so my time isn't wasted.
Never put it to the test tho ..... cos never had to."
Similar - for day time socials I fit them around what I need to do (shopping, dentist, bank etc). I've only had one no show and I didn't either (I was within five minutes of the venue waiting for him to tell me he had arrived). |
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"I've never been let down BUT I always have a plan....
I meet prepared to shop or see a friend and the plan is always to do those things but drop them if i meet with someone so my time isn't wasted.
Never put it to the test tho ..... cos never had to.
Same. I always have a back up plan but never had to use it.
I wouldn't have a person as a plan b sex meet though. That's just rude."
I couldn't have a sub on the warm up bench either...but each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never been let down BUT I always have a plan....
I meet prepared to shop or see a friend and the plan is always to do those things but drop them if i meet with someone so my time isn't wasted.
Never put it to the test tho ..... cos never had to.
Same here. I used to meet during my lunch hour or at the station after work. Lunchtime, I was eating anyway, evening, I was heading home.
A play meet, I'd use a flexi day, I'd be at home anyway, they all turned up."
I remember you saying this years ago so I do the same. Great idea and I've never had any issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting.
So many people complain about all the time wasters etc on here, yet most of you have never been let down
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Most is the key word , very few do get let down maybe, but do you think you'd pop on here to complain how good it was and how your meeting arrangements met all you expectations?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting.
So many people complain about all the time wasters etc on here, yet most of you have never been let down
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Depends on what people call time wasters. Some would call me a time waster because I just chat to people. Or I change my mind about meeting and let them know before we arrange it.
No doubt the fact that I'm a woman on here but not meeting, also means that I am a time waster. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been stood up several times and it just wastes very precious time. I wouldn't mind if I got a text or message to let me know.
I also wouldn't mind if they had seen me and did a runner' but just no show... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting.
So many people complain about all the time wasters etc on here, yet most of you have never been let down
Depends on what people call time wasters. Some would call me a time waster because I just chat to people. Or I change my mind about meeting and let them know before we arrange it.
No doubt the fact that I'm a woman on here but not meeting, also means that I am a time waster. "
I'm also a time waster and a fake according to some because I do t meet. Won't give out my number won't join kik or Skype one on one. Some can't accept that we are just here for any other reason but sex
Most of my abuse comes from wo.en and couples telling me when I go o cam I take the attention from the real swingers. That's not my problem I don't force people to view me not them . |
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"I've never been let down BUT I always have a plan....
I meet prepared to shop or see a friend and the plan is always to do those things but drop them if i meet with someone so my time isn't wasted.
Never put it to the test tho ..... cos never had to.
Same here. I used to meet during my lunch hour or at the station after work. Lunchtime, I was eating anyway, evening, I was heading home.
A play meet, I'd use a flexi day, I'd be at home anyway, they all turned up.
I remember you saying this years ago so I do the same. Great idea and I've never had any issues. "
Seven years I've been saying the same thing! Glad it's worked for you too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who do no shows are just rude and aragent. When i have a no show i just think to myself they arnt the person ide want to shag now anyway. Cant stand rudness. |
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It's got to the point now that when I arange a dogging meet with the person or persons I now make it clear I don't want them to say they will be there but only that they may pop over becoz unespected things can happen where they are no longer able to meet that way I can carry on with my night |
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