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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a person come up to me and ask if they can take a picture for a college project.
I refused, politely.
Now I feel really bad  .
Anyone else experiences similar things? |
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Your choice, but I have done stuff like this and it's been fun, not naughty stuff just normal pics but where I've been suitable for the project, I've also modelled for art classes - again not nude though I would but leggings and tight top allows students to study musculature etc. |
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"Your choice, but I have done stuff like this and it's been fun, not naughty stuff just normal pics but where I've been suitable for the project, I've also modelled for art classes - again not nude though I would but leggings and tight top allows students to study musculature etc. "
I have too |
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"Your choice, but I have done stuff like this and it's been fun, not naughty stuff just normal pics but where I've been suitable for the project, I've also modelled for art classes - again not nude though I would but leggings and tight top allows students to study musculature etc.
I have too"
I've always been treated really well by the people I'm helping too hope you were as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You didn't feel like it at the time, no need to feel bad! I'm sure they will have found some one else.
Things like that have happened to me. Sometimes I've said yes, some times no depending on my mood or what I've been doing. It's cool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your choice, but I have done stuff like this and it's been fun, not naughty stuff just normal pics but where I've been suitable for the project, I've also modelled for art classes - again not nude though I would but leggings and tight top allows students to study musculature etc.
I have too
I've always been treated really well by the people I'm helping too hope you were as well. "
Yeah usually fun too as they like piercings and ink when drawing
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a person come up to me and ask if they can take a picture for a college project.
I refused, politely.
Now I feel really bad .
Anyone else experiences similar things?"
That's fab paranoia for you  x |
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"I had a person come up to me and ask if they can take a picture for a college project.
I refused, politely.
Now I feel really bad .
Anyone else experiences similar things?"
Never been asked to have my photo taken but I don't think you should feel bad. We're conditioned to an extent to be agreeable and saying "no" goes against the grain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a person come up to me and ask if they can take a picture for a college project.
I refused, politely.
Now I feel really bad .
Anyone else experiences similar things?"
Go with your gut
Was it a college projet? They could have just thought you were hot and wanted a pic (or is that my filthy mind)  |
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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago
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I'd have said no too, I hate having my photo taken. There is no point me feeling awkward, and them not getting what they want, when there's so many other people they can ask who would have great fun. |
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"Your choice, but I have done stuff like this and it's been fun, not naughty stuff just normal pics but where I've been suitable for the project, I've also modelled for art classes - again not nude though I would but leggings and tight top allows students to study musculature etc.
I have too
I've always been treated really well by the people I'm helping too hope you were as well.
Yeah usually fun too as they like piercings and ink when drawing
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Whereas I get chosen as no ink or piercings apart from ears and that's becoming unusual.
Also long haired but older
But yea op don't feel bad it's not for everyone, they'll have found someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know why but it just makes me feel bad, probably will bug me for the rest of the day!
Should have said yes."
Never second guess yourself...
There is a reason you said no ...or you would have said yes. It makes no difference if you can't rationalise that reason and you cannot change the past...
So why worry about it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fred got asked to have his picture taken at a concert, he agreed and was told it would be part of an exhibition in London and would be notified as and when. Never heard anything, and forgot all about it, roll on a few years later and flicking through a national paper to see him in a set of photos ahead of a book launch.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a person come up to me and ask if they can take a picture for a college project.
I refused, politely.
Now I feel really bad .
Anyone else experiences similar things?"
Well tbh if it was a genuine study they should of shown you credentials and details of a contact at wherever their study was based at for you to verify. That's standard code of ethics. |
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