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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant |
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Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why "
Thanks a sensible answer. Just wondering what I do to attract them. Please check profile for clues |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Evil is a strong word 
It a strong emotion when you know you have been played
What happened? How were you played?"
I think it was some female I turned down as she was on here looking for a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why "
I have to agree with you. They pimp the woman out, practically, then moan when people direct their messages at the woman. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Evil is a strong word
It a strong emotion when you know you have been played
What happened? How were you played?
I think it was some female I turned down as she was on here looking for a relationship."
And wots rong with looking for a relationship on hear. ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Evil is a strong word
It a strong emotion when you know you have been played
What happened? How were you played?
I think it was some female I turned down as she was on here looking for a relationship."
You've lost me
You think?
You were played, but you arent sure how?
Call me thick ( youre very thick, Sappy) but I don't understand |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Evil is a strong word
It a strong emotion when you know you have been played
What happened? How were you played?
I think it was some female I turned down as she was on here looking for a relationship.
You've lost me
You think?
You were played, but you arent sure how?
Call me thick ( youre very thick, Sappy) but I don't understand"
I'm a bit confused to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Evil is a strong word
It a strong emotion when you know you have been played
What happened? How were you played?
I think it was some female I turned down as she was on here looking for a relationship.
You've lost me
You think?
You were played, but you arent sure how?
Call me thick ( youre very thick, Sappy) but I don't understand"
Me neither... but..
If it walks like a rant
If it sounds like a rant
If it rants like a rant...
Then perhaps it really is a...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why
I have to agree with you. They pimp the woman out, practically, then moan when people direct their messages at the woman. "
I think that's a fair comment, but I'd suggest it's a vocal minority that moan and whinge. |
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Unless people have agreed a day and time, it's reasonable to assume that people are investigating the potential for meeting but it's not at the point where it's certain to happen with us. People need to evaluate others and probably most people chatted with won't progress to becoming shags ot friends.
If you've been deceived, report to admin but also ensure that your expectations are sound |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant"
It's very strongly worded for an observation.
I've been accused of being one of those people with no intention of meeting, wasting time etc. when it hasn't resulted in a meet. So, I'll give you just what happens with me, for illustrative purposes only.
I start exchanging messages to get to know the man and to help decide whether I want to meet him. Sometimes it pans out and I have every intention of meeting but life gets in the way or we can't make diaries match or it turns out we have different expectations for that first meet. Other times the messages mean that it is clear I really would be bored or offended or both if I met the man. Either way it means that a meet didn't happen.
But if you want to go with 'evil' and 'being played' for your recent experience then nothing said will stop you from feeling that and extending that feeling to every rejection.
You can't change other people but you can change your response to them and the situation.
Good luck finding what you seek.
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why "
really!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant"
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling. |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant"
I'm interested in what way you feel the fab community reflects on society.
I think you might be expecting too much from what is essentially an on line hook up site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling. "
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why
really!?"
Yes really. You have pics of both of you on your profile.
The amount of times I’ve read on the forums some male half of a couple moaning because a message wasn’t addressed to both of them and guess what, all the pics are of the wife baring all and none of him.
It’s not bloody rocket science to work out why the messages are geared towards the woman |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling. "
On a website where women outnumber men hugely it's not the ladies desperate to gain attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over."
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful. |
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why
really!?
Yes really. You have pics of both of you on your profile.
The amount of times I’ve read on the forums some male half of a couple moaning because a message wasn’t addressed to both of them and guess what, all the pics are of the wife baring all and none of him.
It’s not bloody rocket science to work out why the messages are geared towards the woman "
It was more the whingeing, unfriendly bit I was surprised at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling. "
Your observation goes for men too.
It’s obvious you don’t feel you’re as important in your normal life as you think you should be so use Fab and sex to try to exert some power and authority.
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"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over.
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful."
How do you define a time waster? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why
really!?
Yes really. You have pics of both of you on your profile.
The amount of times I’ve read on the forums some male half of a couple moaning because a message wasn’t addressed to both of them and guess what, all the pics are of the wife baring all and none of him.
It’s not bloody rocket science to work out why the messages are geared towards the woman
It was more the whingeing, unfriendly bit I was surprised at. "
Personal experience |
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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts"
Its not their hearts they worried about if you mentioning vibrator |
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why
really!?
Yes really. You have pics of both of you on your profile.
The amount of times I’ve read on the forums some male half of a couple moaning because a message wasn’t addressed to both of them and guess what, all the pics are of the wife baring all and none of him.
It’s not bloody rocket science to work out why the messages are geared towards the woman
It was more the whingeing, unfriendly bit I was surprised at.
Personal experience"
Fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts"
Not really.
And please dont try to apply sexually liberated to yourself. You're not. Not even close.
The idea that men are "threatened" by sexually open women is erroneous and pushed by those who are more likely to use sex as a method of approval or validation than for the joy of the act itself. I have come across pornstars, "greedy girls" and plenty other types of promiscuous women who are in happy relationships with men on the same wavelength.
The problem is those who masquerade as liberal but, as mentioned, are really just desperate and in need of attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts
Not really.
And please dont try to apply sexually liberated to yourself. You're not. Not even close.
The idea that men are "threatened" by sexually open women is erroneous and pushed by those who are more likely to use sex as a method of approval or validation than for the joy of the act itself. I have come across pornstars, "greedy girls" and plenty other types of promiscuous women who are in happy relationships with men on the same wavelength.
The problem is those who masquerade as liberal but, as mentioned, are really just desperate and in need of attention."
Have we met? Spoken? Do you know anything about me?
I'm confused as to how you are qualified to decide how liberated I am? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
I'm interested in what way you feel the fab community reflects on society.
I think you might be expecting too much from what is essentially an on line hook up site. "
Its like a good offer in a sale or advertising only to find the offer dont exist |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think the problem with meeting or not meeting is that it's very easy to get wires crossed. I thought I had real interest off someone and I'd invested time in them. But then it all seemed rather off. Suddenly they were busy. So I suggested that this year was probably out and they seemed kind of annoyed that I'd stated the situation so frankly.
I still think most people are here to type rather than fuck, if I'm honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
I'm interested in what way you feel the fab community reflects on society.
I think you might be expecting too much from what is essentially an on line hook up site.
Its like a good offer in a sale or advertising only to find the offer dont exist "
Offer? Sale? ....
Oh dear...
I think this may be another pre unlos thread...
Off to get my rock and sit a while |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts
Not really.
And please dont try to apply sexually liberated to yourself. You're not. Not even close.
The idea that men are "threatened" by sexually open women is erroneous and pushed by those who are more likely to use sex as a method of approval or validation than for the joy of the act itself. I have come across pornstars, "greedy girls" and plenty other types of promiscuous women who are in happy relationships with men on the same wavelength.
The problem is those who masquerade as liberal but, as mentioned, are really just desperate and in need of attention."
You are so supremely qualified to judge someone's liberation from a post, are you? Have you views and argue your case but don't presume to know someone from a single post.
Your arrogance undermines any point you may be trying to make. What were you saying about accountability? As my old vicar used to say, when you point a finger at someone you are pointing three back at yourself. |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling. "
If women use sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention , what do men use sex for ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts
Not really.
And please dont try to apply sexually liberated to yourself. You're not. Not even close.
The idea that men are "threatened" by sexually open women is erroneous and pushed by those who are more likely to use sex as a method of approval or validation than for the joy of the act itself. I have come across pornstars, "greedy girls" and plenty other types of promiscuous women who are in happy relationships with men on the same wavelength.
The problem is those who masquerade as liberal but, as mentioned, are really just desperate and in need of attention."
I dunno. I've had some men act like a rabbit caught in headlights when I've got them in my clutches  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
If women use sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention , what do men use sex for ?"
To prove they still "got it"  |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
I'm interested in what way you feel the fab community reflects on society.
I think you might be expecting too much from what is essentially an on line hook up site.
Its like a good offer in a sale or advertising only to find the offer dont exist "
If you're seeing the people on here in that context you will feel let down and disappointed.
There is absolutely no guarantee that you're going to get meets from fab. Nobody is obliged to meet you because they have a profile that is offering something you would like.
Even if you've been chatting it still doesn't mean you're entitled to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
I'm interested in what way you feel the fab community reflects on society.
I think you might be expecting too much from what is essentially an on line hook up site.
Its like a good offer in a sale or advertising only to find the offer dont exist
Offer? Sale? ....
Oh dear...
I think this may be another pre unlos thread...
Off to get my rock and sit a while "
I get what he meant. There are men on here who do the same thing. All they want is some wamk materials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts
Not really.
And please dont try to apply sexually liberated to yourself. You're not. Not even close.
The idea that men are "threatened" by sexually open women is erroneous and pushed by those who are more likely to use sex as a method of approval or validation than for the joy of the act itself. I have come across pornstars, "greedy girls" and plenty other types of promiscuous women who are in happy relationships with men on the same wavelength.
The problem is those who masquerade as liberal but, as mentioned, are really just desperate and in need of attention."
But...attention...isn't that what everyone uses fab for?
Sexual, emotional, physical, cerebrial...it's attention that we fabbers seek. Whatever it's form |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over.
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful."
No. It's definitely a man. Ask the thousands of men who have been tricked into sending pics and wank talk. These faux women realised that real women don't fall for their promises, when all they want is something to wank over. So,they pretend to be women and get gullible men to send them pics and wank chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are undoubtedly people on here who imply, promise or offer more than they intend to deliver because their satisfaction is achieved from gaining attention or just a virtual interaction.
It's just the online version of flirting. Some women and men have always led others on well before internet sex sites.
The term 'prick tease' was here long before Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Viewing it as a 'community' is where you might be going wrong. No one is under obligation to take things further if they don't choose to.
Is it being played or is it a case of somebody else came along who ticked more boxes, was available etc etc etc.... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
If women use sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention , what do men use sex for ?"
I was writing this (with some depersonalisation now):
Intellectually feeble... hmmm.
Men making assumptions that they are all the same with heternormativity blinding them to how some men use this site precisely for attention.
Naked, full body avatars designed precisely to garner attention. It doesn't suggest intellect or wit. They will, no doubt, justify that as ensuring they are better able to compete against those hordes of other men, why wouldn't you take the competitive advantage?
Some men play the same game the OP is accusing women of playing. They want the attention of a some chat with someone they don't know with a view to enticing them to meet and then the power thrill of knowing that they have won fair maiden. The fantasy ends there.
Others play the game further to get the woman to become attached because that is where the power thrill is for them. Then they can safely pull away citing that this is all just NSA.
Most men on here are so sexually liberated that they are up for anything but freak out if a cock gets too close during play. They are so sexually liberated that they come here because they wouldn't want to be married to a sexually liberated woman.
Finally, stop being so denigrating about women, their sexuality and their intellect. Misogyny will do more to put people off than the competition. It must get annoying when the Mr Average keeps getting meets.
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"Unless people have agreed a day and time, it's reasonable to assume that people are investigating the potential for meeting but it's not at the point where it's certain to happen with us. People need to evaluate others and probably most people chatted with won't progress to becoming shags ot friends.
If you've been deceived, report to admin but also ensure that your expectations are sound "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
If women use sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention , what do men use sex for ?
I was writing this (with some depersonalisation now):
Intellectually feeble... hmmm.
Men making assumptions that they are all the same with heternormativity blinding them to how some men use this site precisely for attention.
Naked, full body avatars designed precisely to garner attention. It doesn't suggest intellect or wit. They will, no doubt, justify that as ensuring they are better able to compete against those hordes of other men, why wouldn't you take the competitive advantage?
Some men play the same game the OP is accusing women of playing. They want the attention of a some chat with someone they don't know with a view to enticing them to meet and then the power thrill of knowing that they have won fair maiden. The fantasy ends there.
Others play the game further to get the woman to become attached because that is where the power thrill is for them. Then they can safely pull away citing that this is all just NSA.
Most men on here are so sexually liberated that they are up for anything but freak out if a cock gets too close during play. They are so sexually liberated that they come here because they wouldn't want to be married to a sexually liberated woman.
Finally, stop being so denigrating about women, their sexuality and their intellect. Misogyny will do more to put people off than the competition. It must get annoying when the Mr Average keeps getting meets.
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What she said
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over.
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful."
Or maybe, just maybe someone quite genuine talked to the OP for a while, perhaps with the intention of possibly meeting. Then on getting to know him better decided no way. Which given the confrontational nature of his posts seems entirely plausible. It's always someone else's fault... So is this them using the 'pussy power' for evil? Time-wasting? Or just exercising their right to only fuck who they want to fuck. Cos surely the OP isn't suggesting he is entitled to be fucked as part of the 'fab community'. Or is he?? Yeah kinda sounds like he does think that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are undoubtedly people on here who imply, promise or offer more than they intend to deliver because their satisfaction is achieved from gaining attention or just a virtual interaction.
It's just the online version of flirting. Some women and men have always led others on well before internet sex sites.
The term 'prick tease' was here long before Fab."
Cunt tease wasn't. Is that just an online thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are undoubtedly people on here who imply, promise or offer more than they intend to deliver because their satisfaction is achieved from gaining attention or just a virtual interaction.
It's just the online version of flirting. Some women and men have always led others on well before internet sex sites.
The term 'prick tease' was here long before Fab.
Cunt tease wasn't. Is that just an online thing?"
First time I've heard that term. In the past I remember women accusing men of being gay if they felt they'd been led on by a man who then chose not to deliver. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over.
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful.
Or maybe, just maybe someone quite genuine talked to the OP for a while, perhaps with the intention of possibly meeting. Then on getting to know him better decided no way. Which given the confrontational nature of his posts seems entirely plausible. It's always someone else's fault... So is this them using the 'pussy power' for evil? Time-wasting? Or just exercising their right to only fuck who they want to fuck. Cos surely the OP isn't suggesting he is entitled to be fucked as part of the 'fab community'. Or is he?? Yeah kinda sounds like he does think that"
The chats in question were not initiated by me. I expect nothing but to be treated fairly as I would be to others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over.
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful.
Or maybe, just maybe someone quite genuine talked to the OP for a while, perhaps with the intention of possibly meeting. Then on getting to know him better decided no way. Which given the confrontational nature of his posts seems entirely plausible. It's always someone else's fault... So is this them using the 'pussy power' for evil? Time-wasting? Or just exercising their right to only fuck who they want to fuck. Cos surely the OP isn't suggesting he is entitled to be fucked as part of the 'fab community'. Or is he?? Yeah kinda sounds like he does think that
The chats in question were not initiated by me. I expect nothing but to be treated fairly as I would be to others."
Then it's definitely men wanking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over.
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful.
Or maybe, just maybe someone quite genuine talked to the OP for a while, perhaps with the intention of possibly meeting. Then on getting to know him better decided no way. Which given the confrontational nature of his posts seems entirely plausible. It's always someone else's fault... So is this them using the 'pussy power' for evil? Time-wasting? Or just exercising their right to only fuck who they want to fuck. Cos surely the OP isn't suggesting he is entitled to be fucked as part of the 'fab community'. Or is he?? Yeah kinda sounds like he does think that
The chats in question were not initiated by me. I expect nothing but to be treated fairly as I would be to others."
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts"
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
Best Greggs in Cheshire East |
"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
I'm interested in what way you feel the fab community reflects on society.
I think you might be expecting too much from what is essentially an on line hook up site.
Its like a good offer in a sale or advertising only to find the offer dont exist
Offer? Sale? ....
Oh dear...
I think this may be another pre unlos thread...
Off to get my rock and sit a while "
Dude. The number of times i see someone comparing messages from men to junk mail I think we can forgive this analogy! |
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"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over.
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful.
Or maybe, just maybe someone quite genuine talked to the OP for a while, perhaps with the intention of possibly meeting. Then on getting to know him better decided no way. Which given the confrontational nature of his posts seems entirely plausible. It's always someone else's fault... So is this them using the 'pussy power' for evil? Time-wasting? Or just exercising their right to only fuck who they want to fuck. Cos surely the OP isn't suggesting he is entitled to be fucked as part of the 'fab community'. Or is he?? Yeah kinda sounds like he does think that
The chats in question were not initiated by me. I expect nothing but to be treated fairly as I would be to others.
Then it's definitely men wanking. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts"
Incredibly patronising and untrue of all men. It's attitudes like this that the OP is referring to. It's clear from your comments you have a low opinion of men, I have met sexually liberated women and none of them have had that attitude towards men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant"
By the way you write you come through as articulate so I'd imagine I would not waste your time if it it was me.
HOWEVER, lately I have been a bit more proactive than normal here on this site I now too have experience with writing with people where we haven't met up or I gave up on meeting them.
Some men seem to think their working position is the most important in the world therefore they only have two times slot per months that they could fit a meeting in, it has to be exactly when they dictate, and with very short notice. This narrows the odds. Also, they miss the fact that other people work too, we are not all ladies of leisure.
Second, I sometimes go cold about what people write. To many 'wot you doing', 'wot u up to', or 'how has your day been' and I back out. I'm not after a string of meaningless one-liners online I actually wish to meet, have a coffee, and then meet again for sex if there's attraction.
Alas, we all waste out lives away online at times! |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts"
Agree 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its an observation not a rant"
This is at least the 2nd thread of yours I have seen with this comment on ... you do seem to complain - sorry "observe" many negatives on Fab.
Why not just treat it as a bit of fun and if you get any success - great!
You come across rather bitter for some reason
Oh, and it's an observation not a rant! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the problem with meeting or not meeting is that it's very easy to get wires crossed. I thought I had real interest off someone and I'd invested time in them. But then it all seemed rather off. Suddenly they were busy. So I suggested that this year was probably out and they seemed kind of annoyed that I'd stated the situation so frankly.
I still think most people are here to type rather than fuck, if I'm honest. "
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More likely that you have been chatting with fake profiles OP
the majority of people on here know what they are looking for.
That said it's different for everyone too.
It's not as easy as people think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people don’t play games intentionally. People sometimes chat just out of politeness so as not to get abuse if they ignore. People sometimes change their minds about meeting, a variety of reasons could be valid.
Sometimes people chat away and decide to meet, only to see someone’s character revealed in a negative way in the forums  |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant"
Absolutely agree. The couples on this site are just here to wind single guys up. All those single guys who put themselves out and sign up here to help the couples fulfill their fantasies and what thanks do we get, none. I think all us single guys should go on strike and refuse to meet until we are treated as the generous, giving gods that we are. In fact I think we should all delete our profiles and go on tinder where we will be welcomed with open arms and treated with the defference we deserve. Damn those couples.........oh, just remembered
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those females are probably men but I agree with you about couples.
I think the majority of couples are whinging, unfriendly people who only put pics of the female up to entice men to message them and then the man gets all upset because he’s not acknowledged in messages.
It’s pretty bloody obvious why
I have to agree with you. They pimp the woman out, practically, then moan when people direct their messages at the woman. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
If women use sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention , what do men use sex for ?
I was writing this (with some depersonalisation now):
Intellectually feeble... hmmm.
Men making assumptions that they are all the same with heternormativity blinding them to how some men use this site precisely for attention.
Naked, full body avatars designed precisely to garner attention. It doesn't suggest intellect or wit. They will, no doubt, justify that as ensuring they are better able to compete against those hordes of other men, why wouldn't you take the competitive advantage?
Some men play the same game the OP is accusing women of playing. They want the attention of a some chat with someone they don't know with a view to enticing them to meet and then the power thrill of knowing that they have won fair maiden. The fantasy ends there.
Others play the game further to get the woman to become attached because that is where the power thrill is for them. Then they can safely pull away citing that this is all just NSA.
Most men on here are so sexually liberated that they are up for anything but freak out if a cock gets too close during play. They are so sexually liberated that they come here because they wouldn't want to be married to a sexually liberated woman.
Finally, stop being so denigrating about women, their sexuality and their intellect. Misogyny will do more to put people off than the competition. It must get annoying when the Mr Average keeps getting meets.
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over a year ago
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant"
My impression of this messege is that you have been chatting to couples or fems to maybe arrange a meet. Then after chatting for a while they decide they are no longer interested in meeting you so they stop chatting. That's how it works on here ... people chat then make a decision on whether or not they like the person. I doubt they had no intention of meeting, they just realised you weren't what they want ! |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little heartsIncredibly patronising and untrue of all men. It's attitudes like this that the OP is referring to. It's clear from your comments you have a low opinion of men, I have met sexually liberated women and none of them have had that attitude towards men"
Where did I say "all men?" Show me. Where did I say it?
I have a low opinion of men that purport to be open minded, and then get all upset and sexist when I mention certain things
Yes indeed, I do!! |
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"Evil is a strong word
It a strong emotion when you know you have been played
What happened? How were you played?
I think it was some female I turned down as she was on here looking for a relationship."
Right.... ahem.....
Let me get this shit straight, you turned down a person who you think was female but don't know for sure, because they were looking for a relationship.
And you feel like your time has been wasted etc etc. You think that women use their fandango for evil.  Dude... Have I woken up in the twilight zone or something?
So you think your time has been wasted coz you turned her down.
I'm fucking crying here
There's gotta be more to it.
You weren't compatible. Shit happens.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Evil is a strong word
It a strong emotion when you know you have been played
What happened? How were you played?
I think it was some female I turned down as she was on here looking for a relationship.
Right.... ahem.....
Let me get this shit straight, you turned down a person who you think was female but don't know for sure, because they were looking for a relationship.
And you feel like your time has been wasted etc etc. You think that women use their fandango for evil. Dude... Have I woken up in the twilight zone or something?
So you think your time has been wasted coz you turned her down.
I'm fucking crying here
There's gotta be more to it.
You weren't compatible. Shit happens.
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant"
Did they have veris, did the veris have more than one, did you speak to the "female" early on, was the female or coil to good looking to be true etc
Sounds harsh but us guys can do a lot to suss out blokes wanking while pretending to be a female.
Or maybe they got a better offer
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"Evil is a strong word
It a strong emotion when you know you have been played
What happened? How were you played?
I think it was some female I turned down as she was on here looking for a relationship.
Right.... ahem.....
Let me get this shit straight, you turned down a person who you think was female but don't know for sure, because they were looking for a relationship.
And you feel like your time has been wasted etc etc. You think that women use their fandango for evil. Dude... Have I woken up in the twilight zone or something?
So you think your time has been wasted coz you turned her down.
I'm fucking crying here
There's gotta be more to it.
You weren't compatible. Shit happens.
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Strange, I was thinking the very same, last night
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts
Not really.
And please dont try to apply sexually liberated to yourself. You're not. Not even close.
The idea that men are "threatened" by sexually open women is erroneous and pushed by those who are more likely to use sex as a method of approval or validation than for the joy of the act itself. I have come across pornstars, "greedy girls" and plenty other types of promiscuous women who are in happy relationships with men on the same wavelength.
The problem is those who masquerade as liberal but, as mentioned, are really just desperate and in need of attention.
Have we met? Spoken? Do you know anything about me?
I'm confused as to how you are qualified to decide how liberated I am? "
Don't be offended you need to remember at 28 he hasn't fully matured yet.
Genuinefreak... you are offending a lot of women here, be careful. |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts
Not really.
And please dont try to apply sexually liberated to yourself. You're not. Not even close.
The idea that men are "threatened" by sexually open women is erroneous and pushed by those who are more likely to use sex as a method of approval or validation than for the joy of the act itself. I have come across pornstars, "greedy girls" and plenty other types of promiscuous women who are in happy relationships with men on the same wavelength.
The problem is those who masquerade as liberal but, as mentioned, are really just desperate and in need of attention.
Have we met? Spoken? Do you know anything about me?
I'm confused as to how you are qualified to decide how liberated I am?
Don't be offended you need to remember at 28 he hasn't fully matured yet.
Genuinefreak... you are offending a lot of women here, be careful. "
That's Freak's default setting here on Fab. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"It's not a woman. It's a man, wanting something to wamk over.
No...its a woman. Its been women many times.
A deeply worrying trend in modern society is to remove just about any form of accountability from anyone who is either a female or of minority status. Its fucking tragic. This idiotic idea that all the timewasters here are just men in disguise is incredibly unhelpful.
How do you define a time waster?"
Someone who doesn't turn up for an arranged meet. |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant"
Did you not think it suspicious at all ?
Baring in mind us guys aren't inundated and you get messages from couples and a female all wanting to meet you ? |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts"
Very much a be careful watch you wish for thing...
Personally I think any dating/meeting/swinging website will be populated by 95% bullshit profiles. The keyboard elite who are all mouth and no trousers. There are probably quite a few genuine honest people on here (with some loose morals obviously) but the vast majority of the profiles are either lies or attention seeking with no intent on meeting.
Quite a few years ago I frequented another site that may have had the initials aff (ok, I know it’s shit and full of even more chancers - hey I was young!). Out of a several years of paid subscription and countless chat/messages/ pic swap I met up with a grand total of ONE lady. Glad I did tho, she was amazing and very liberated!!!
Guess what I’m trying to say is - take as it’s all bullshit and lies until your sat infront of the person naked, that way you won’t get burnt.
P.S. my aff fuck buddy liked her vibrator although I asked her to bring it my place. That wa a fun evening... |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
You're right. Maybe not about it being "evil" but it is right. Often you tend to find those in society who feel they lack any kind of power will use sex as a last resort. Its very rare to meet a truly sexually liberated woman on here...they're definitely out there. But they're not at all common. Vast swathes are simply using sex in a desperate attempt to gain attention or to keep a dying relationship from crumbling.
Trouble is, when some guys DO meet a sexually liberated woman, they cant cope with her.
Too much of a threat to their fragile ego
Ive known men to run for the hills at the mention of the word 'vibrator'
Love their little hearts
Very much a be careful watch you wish for thing...
Personally I think any dating/meeting/swinging website will be populated by 95% bullshit profiles. The keyboard elite who are all mouth and no trousers. There are probably quite a few genuine honest people on here (with some loose morals obviously) but the vast majority of the profiles are either lies or attention seeking with no intent on meeting.
Quite a few years ago I frequented another site that may have had the initials aff (ok, I know it’s shit and full of even more chancers - hey I was young!). Out of a several years of paid subscription and countless chat/messages/ pic swap I met up with a grand total of ONE lady. Glad I did tho, she was amazing and very liberated!!!
Guess what I’m trying to say is - take as it’s all bullshit and lies until your sat infront of the person naked, that way you won’t get burnt.
P.S. my aff fuck buddy liked her vibrator although I asked her to bring it my place. That wa a fun evening..."
Oh, I do. I know bullshit when I read it. Jeez, I've had enough practice!
I usually ask them " I have a few male friends, who love a bit of bum sex. Would you be interested?"
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
Did you not think it suspicious at all ?
Baring in mind us guys aren't inundated and you get messages from couples and a female all wanting to meet you ?"
Yup. To be honest I doubt his nose would be out of joint if he had turned someone down! |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
Did you not think it suspicious at all ?
Baring in mind us guys aren't inundated and you get messages from couples and a female all wanting to meet you ?
Yup. To be honest I doubt his nose would be out of joint if he had turned someone down!"
that's exactly what I was thinking |
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I haven't been able to take my knickers off since I learned that it's housing a triangle of evil.
Last time I peeked over the 'lastic there were golden flames , a demonic figure and unremitting low growling ........
It's not easy being a gatekeeper !! |
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"In the last few days couples and female think its fine to play games with chat and the prospect of meeting without ever having any intention. Ladies have the power of the triangle but use it for evil. Very disillusioned with the fab community and its reflection on society. Its an observation not a rant
I'm interested in what way you feel the fab community reflects on society.
I think you might be expecting too much from what is essentially an on line hook up site.
Its like a good offer in a sale or advertising only to find the offer dont exist "
No it's not, we're not sex workers advertising ourselves and willing to sleep with anyone who asks so disabuse yourself of the notion it's false advertising pronto. And if you want to compare it to a contract to sell something I think you'll find that an advert or having goods on display is an invitation to treat, you can go into a shop, make an offer to buy and they can say no, sorry, not to you - acceptance of your offer is down to the vendor.
The fact they contacted you is irrelevant, by and large people on here want to get a bit of a feel for the other person before agreeing to allow them to enter the triangle of evil/play with the make equivalent - spear of doom? If you chat for a bit and something puts you off everyone is entitled to change their mind. That's not time wasting, that's good sense and probably time saving - why on earth would you want to make an effort to meet someone who had no interest in you? |
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"I haven't been able to take my knickers off since I learned that it's housing a triangle of evil.
Last time I peeked over the 'lastic there were golden flames , a demonic figure and unremitting low growling ........
It's not easy being a gatekeeper !!"
You can get a cream for that  |
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