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Ok so long

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Right so due to me making a simple typo which happens due to me having sight loss I've been called a few names that I could deal with. But I'm not going to stand by and let someone cause me shit over my sight loss. I'm not in the best of places at the moment and I have tried to be nice to everyone who I've spoke to. So due to this we are leaving as it's greatly upset me and my wife to the point where we feel we can no longer be on here.

I will message my friends to say a proper qoodbye in the next few hours but we will be leaving fabs for good.

It was nice talking to all you nice people

PandMp Xxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

What shit have they caused you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone has been abusive report them. I don't know what happened. Sometimes a break is good. Hugs to you both anyway. There's nice people in the world too. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aw guys

Why not hide your profile instead for a while?

We all get stick on here for one reason or another, try and ignore it rather than let it push you out?

You’ve always come across as decent friendly people on here, would be a shame to let someone else get in the way of something you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If someone has been abusive report them. I don't know what happened. Sometimes a break is good. Hugs to you both anyway. There's nice people in the world too. xxxx"

This.

Op, hide your profile, and have a think, the baddies are a minority.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Right so due to me making a simple typo which happens due to me having sight loss I've been called a few names that I could deal with. But I'm not going to stand by and let someone cause me shit over my sight loss. I'm not in the best of places at the moment and I have tried to be nice to everyone who I've spoke to. So due to this we are leaving as it's greatly upset me and my wife to the point where we feel we can no longer be on here.

I will message my friends to say a proper qoodbye in the next few hours but we will be leaving fabs for good.

It was nice talking to all you nice people

PandMp Xxx "

DON'T YOU DARE GO xxx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

To be fair you kind of gave as good as you got on that thread. Insults were thrown on both sides. You could have just stepped away of it was causing you such angst

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

Is this regarding the other thread?

If you feel it's got out of hand, report it to the mods. They are quite good at sorting out things. Debates are all well and good until they become personal.

Hide your profile until you feel a bit better and try not to worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair you kind of gave as good as you got on that thread. Insults were thrown on both sides. You could have just stepped away of it was causing you such angst "

What thread? I'd love to have a nosey

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair you kind of gave as good as you got on that thread. Insults were thrown on both sides. You could have just stepped away of it was causing you such angst "

This!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sorry guys this is p, m's wife. He's so cut up about what they accused him of that along with not being in the greatest place mentally since he lost his guidedog pax over the summer and this we just feel that it's not worth putting M through. He's very fragile at the minute due to things he has had to deal with in the past couple of years that I feel it's best if we leave. Now I know M will miss all those who he has spoke to and found a common ground with and said to tell you all that he's had a great laugh with you all and will miss you all too but for now we're going to leave. We may be back in the future but right now I need to keep M from getting to low.

PandMp Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair you kind of gave as good as you got on that thread. Insults were thrown on both sides. You could have just stepped away of it was causing you such angst

What thread? I'd love to have a nosey "

Just a load of old waffle about the Army!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry guys this is p, m's wife. He's so cut up about what they accused him of that along with not being in the greatest place mentally since he lost his guidedog pax over the summer and this we just feel that it's not worth putting M through. He's very fragile at the minute due to things he has had to deal with in the past couple of years that I feel it's best if we leave. Now I know M will miss all those who he has spoke to and found a common ground with and said to tell you all that he's had a great laugh with you all and will miss you all too but for now we're going to leave. We may be back in the future but right now I need to keep M from getting to low.

PandMp Xxx "

Understand but still don't think you should let others force you out xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

PandMp Xxx

Understand but still don't think you should let others force you out xx"

Forcing them out??

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"To be fair you kind of gave as good as you got on that thread. Insults were thrown on both sides. You could have just stepped away of it was causing you such angst "

yeah I just read some of it from where it turned bad and OP you are not blameless. You told one guy to go fuck himself and called another guy a dick. That was in response to them accusing you of bullshit.

So I think it’s poor form to now write this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just ride it out and don't worry about it. I've done loads of stupid embarrassing stuff on here over the years and been involved in drama. It will pass. That thread will be deleted as soon as a mod sees it. You'll get a timeout and then just come back like nothing has happened. It will be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Were not. We are leaving for m's mental state. When he first go medically discharged from the army he took to drinking really bad and it's took him a couple of years to get himself straight but I know because of him having lost his guidedog and a few other things that have happened recently that if we stay and he carrys on getting stick over what's happened that he will hit the bottle again and he can't afford to do so because of certain health factors that he is at risk from.

But thank you all for your kind words and for wanting us to stay. We will miss you all lots

PandMp Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take a break but please come back, all the best, don’t let the idiots win x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I haven't read the other thread so don't know what's gone on,but hopefully you feel in a better place soon.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"To be fair you kind of gave as good as you got on that thread. Insults were thrown on both sides. You could have just stepped away of it was causing you such angst

So I think it’s poor form to now write this thread. "

Just this

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By *hatterbox 2Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

There are some cruel people on here but dont let them get to you we had a good chat on forum yesterday x if you would like to chat at any time just pm us

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

I agree that if your mental health is suffering then perhaps this isn't the place for you to be right now. The reaction on the other thread shows that perhaps the online world is not a place for you to be right now.

Not excusing the other guy involved at all as he just wouldn't let it drop but either one of you could have walked away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair you kind of gave as good as you got on that thread. Insults were thrown on both sides. You could have just stepped away of it was causing you such angst

So I think it’s poor form to now write this thread.

Just this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree that if your mental health is suffering then perhaps this isn't the place for you to be right now. The reaction on the other thread shows that perhaps the online world is not a place for you to be right now.

Not excusing the other guy involved at all as he just wouldn't let it drop but either one of you could have walked away. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair you kind of gave as good as you got on that thread. Insults were thrown on both sides. You could have just stepped away of it was causing you such angst

So I think it’s poor form to now write this thread. "

I'm inclined to agree with this.You gave as well as received and now you're crying butthurt?Poor show old bean,poor show.If the comments on the thread you're referring to are so traumatic,then perhaps the internet isn't for you and you're making the right decision in leaving

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a bit sad and pathetic that people think the forums are the bee all and end all of fab x

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

You shouldn't let the virtual world get you down in the real world.

However it happens.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Just ride it out and don't worry about it. I've done loads of stupid embarrassing stuff on here over the years and been involved in drama. It will pass. That thread will be deleted as soon as a mod sees it. You'll get a timeout and then just come back like nothing has happened. It will be fine. "

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"It's a bit sad and pathetic that people think the forums are the bee all and end all of fab x"

For a lot there the only thing that keeps them here. It's neither sad nor pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take care both of you. And sorry to hear of the loss of Pax. Hope things brighten soon.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I hear what you are saying Mrs. O.P.

Health n happiness to you both.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Losing an argument does not mean you were bullied.

If you can't separate the (sometimes infuriating) online world from the real world it's right to delete your account

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Losing an argument does not mean you were bullied.

If you can't separate the (sometimes infuriating) online world from the real world it's right to delete your account"

if someone falsely accused me of not doing a job that I definitely had done, I would treat the comments with the respect they deserved and ignore them. The OP didn’t do this. The OP went on a tirade of abusive language to a couple of guys. When he’d had enough of that, his gf/ wife came back on the thread to take up the baton with a lot more abusive language.

No sympathy. They could have simply replied back to the other guys with a “ “well that’s your opinion”. Shit things happen in life, it’s how you deal with things that define the calibre of person that you are.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

or the illness you suffer from

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"or the illness you suffer from"

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Can someone tell me which thread has the fight in?

I require enrtertainment for the next five minutes.

Thank you.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Think the accusation of Walting had more to do with this.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Can someone tell me which thread has the fight in?

I require enrtertainment for the next five minutes.

Thank you."

I've looked. Can't find it. Boredom is a wicked bedfellow.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Can someone tell me which thread has the fight in?

I require enrtertainment for the next five minutes.

Thank you."

It’s gone to the Fab Admin archives, ready for post Xmas lunch japes. Remember the thread about......

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"Can someone tell me which thread has the fight in?

I require enrtertainment for the next five minutes.

Thank you.

I've looked. Can't find it. Boredom is a wicked bedfellow. "

THIS

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"Can someone tell me which thread has the fight in?

I require enrtertainment for the next five minutes.

Thank you.

It’s gone to the Fab Admin archives, ready for post Xmas lunch japes. Remember the thread about......

Pah! I don't suppose you copied and pasted it all?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Can someone tell me which thread has the fight in?

I require enrtertainment for the next five minutes.

Thank you.

It’s gone to the Fab Admin archives, ready for post Xmas lunch japes. Remember the thread about......

Pah! I don't suppose you copied and pasted it all?"

Yes here goes.

Dick, shit, twat, wanker, cunt.

That’s a shortened version, in case you need to get back to work

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

"Can someone tell me which thread has the fight in?

I require enrtertainment for the next five minutes.

Thank you.

It’s gone to the Fab Admin archives, ready for post Xmas lunch japes. Remember the thread about......

Pah! I don't suppose you copied and pasted it all?

Yes here goes.

Dick, shit, twat, wanker, cunt.

That’s a shortened version, in case you need to get back to work

Usually I tend to avoid abridged versions but that was scintilating and completed within my tea break! Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a bit sad and pathetic that people think the forums are the bee all and end all of fab x

For a lot there the only thing that keeps them here. It's neither sad nor pathetic."

You're making it sound even more sad and pathetic x

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"It's a bit sad and pathetic that people think the forums are the bee all and end all of fab x

For a lot there the only thing that keeps them here. It's neither sad nor pathetic.

You're making it sound even more sad and pathetic x"

Ooo your a lovely pair aren't you.

Suggest you enjoy fab your way and let others enjoy it theirs.

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