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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought that swingers of all the different types were a community like bikers joggers campers etc. Its a shame that most seem to have the happy I'm not you attitude as I established here. An hour out of someone's day to help someone get started would change someone's life instead of being quick to use the block option. Lets face it pics dont usually reflect the real person. This isnt a rant just an observation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some folk are quite welcoming to the new,some aren't, you do see a bit of snobbery going on bit I find it's easy to sidestep  do what you you feel is right and hopefully it will rub off on others but meanwhile don't tie yourself in knots over the behavior of others that you can't change.
Chuck d once said. If I can't change the people around me, I'm gon' change the people around me |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Some folk are quite welcoming to the new,some aren't, you do see a bit of snobbery going on bit I find it's easy to sidestep do what you you feel is right and hopefully it will rub off on others but meanwhile don't tie yourself in knots over the behavior of others that you can't change.
Chuck d once said. If I can't change the people around me, I'm gon' change the people around me "
Chuck D is so fuckin wise |
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"Its hard to get face to face verification it seems. If someone has shown effort to contact others surely they deserve a break? "
Nobody is obliged to meet you no matter how much effort you have made.
Have a look for organised socials in your area or go to a club. You can get a verification that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its hard to get face to face verification it seems. If someone has shown effort to contact others surely they deserve a break? "
Ah...there are a lot of answers to this..all of them end at the FAQ's here...tells you to consider a no reply as a polite no thank-you, saves replying to loads of messages all the time for some people. You have to get round not being replied to, it's par for this course
There are other ways to get face to face verified too blah blah but yeah..
Keep on plodding dude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its hard to get face to face verification it seems. If someone has shown effort to contact others surely they deserve a break? "
I understand your frustration and certainly am not negating your genuineness, but why does someone have to give up their time to meet you if they're not interested in you? Why are they not deserving of their choice to not want to?
Hope you find someone that would be joyful at meeting you and you them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its hard to get face to face verification it seems. If someone has shown effort to contact others surely they deserve a break? "
I can have 30 messages in an hour. Should I give them all a break? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its hard to get face to face verification it seems. If someone has shown effort to contact others surely they deserve a break?
I can have 30 messages in an hour. Should I give them all a break? "
Community servicing? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only you can decide that
If you use the little tab below that says 'reply and quote' it helps people know who your replying too "
Sorry first attempt on the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some folk are quite welcoming to the new,some aren't, you do see a bit of snobbery going on bit I find it's easy to sidestep do what you you feel is right and hopefully it will rub off on others but meanwhile don't tie yourself in knots over the behavior of others that you can't change.
Chuck d once said. If I can't change the people around me, I'm gon' change the people around me
Chuck D is so fuckin wise "
Man's deep  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only you can decide that
If you use the little tab below that says 'reply and quote' it helps people know who your replying too
Sorry first attempt on the forum"
No worries, was just a pointer,saves confusion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was wondering was sort of greating we would get as swinging bikers with a classic vw? A nod? A headlight flash? A "oi you two dirty bastards we saw you on fab" |
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