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By *uicy2sum OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
So I just wanted to ask peoples opinions on this.....please be nice!
I danced between the ages of 19-21 and now fast forwarding to nearly 20 years I'm thinking of possibly going back for a year or two to add a bit of extra cash to our family, especially with the run up to Christmas!!
My body obviously isn't quite the same (I've had 3 kids!) but I'm wanting to know if people think there's a market for someone of my age?? Or should I just leave it to the spring chickens??
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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago
Nr LOUTH Lincolnshire |
"So I just wanted to ask peoples opinions on this.....please be nice!
I danced between the ages of 19-21 and now fast forwarding to nearly 20 years I'm thinking of possibly going back for a year or two to add a bit of extra cash to our family, especially with the run up to Christmas!!
My body obviously isn't quite the same (I've had 3 kids!) but I'm wanting to know if people think there's a market for someone of my age?? Or should I just leave it to the spring chickens??
XX"
You go for it sexy girl 
It’s your body that’s important not your age 
Fabulous body as well
Big thumbs up from me xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look like you have a great body, so why not if you enjoy it. If I went to strip clubs i personally would be more interested in the older women dancing to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the others say... go for it! Stunning figure in the pics! I’d personally rather have a private dance from a real woman than a young inexperienced girl. Gorgeous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh thanks for all your lovely positive comments guys!
I guess you sometimes think that most would go for the younger model but I suppose I'm not passed my sell by date just yet, haha! X"
Nowhere near it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you feel confident enough to do it then why not!!! I must admit that I'm not so turned on by younger girls (under 22ish) but I do like confident women and find the confidence a huge turn on
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
Henley Arden |
"Oh thanks for all your lovely positive comments guys!
I guess you sometimes think that most would go for the younger model but I suppose I'm not passed my sell by date just yet, haha! X"
Vintage wine is better and more expensive.
Pretty sure your sell by date is a long way off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I just wanted to ask peoples opinions on this.....please be nice!
I danced between the ages of 19-21 and now fast forwarding to nearly 20 years I'm thinking of possibly going back for a year or two to add a bit of extra cash to our family, especially with the run up to Christmas!!
My body obviously isn't quite the same (I've had 3 kids!) but I'm wanting to know if people think there's a market for someone of my age?? Or should I just leave it to the spring chickens??
XX"
If I looked like you I’d be slipping on the g-string & heels! Then shimmying up that pole to collect my money with my mouth whilst inverted!
Do it 
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I was in a lap dancing bar last Saturday. Spent all my money. I regret nothing!
Hottest girl in there who i thought was about 30 told me she was actually 42. She was stunning with awesome banter too!
If you’ve got sex appeal (which you definitely have) then age means nothing at all.
It’s all about the chat and charm.
Let me know where you’ll be so I can buy you some drinks and you can take all my money in the vip booth! X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought you were going to say you were 78!
You've obviously kept yourself well and if you can physically do it, then go for it. Age should be irrelevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just let 'slip' on here which bar... looks like you could have quite an audience  "
If it's not to far away I know me and the wife would go to show our support................and a perv lol
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"So I just wanted to ask peoples opinions on this.....please be nice!
I danced between the ages of 19-21 and now fast forwarding to nearly 20 years I'm thinking of possibly going back for a year or two to add a bit of extra cash to our family, especially with the run up to Christmas!!
My body obviously isn't quite the same (I've had 3 kids!) but I'm wanting to know if people think there's a market for someone of my age?? Or should I just leave it to the spring chickens??
XX"
You look fabulous, go for it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I just wanted to ask peoples opinions on this.....please be nice!
I danced between the ages of 19-21 and now fast forwarding to nearly 20 years I'm thinking of possibly going back for a year or two to add a bit of extra cash to our family, especially with the run up to Christmas!!
My body obviously isn't quite the same (I've had 3 kids!) but I'm wanting to know if people think there's a market for someone of my age?? Or should I just leave it to the spring chickens??
XX"
You have a superb body x |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I went to a manchester lapdancing bar for my 'stag' do. The women were all ranges of body types and shapes, and ages.
You are gorgeous and certainly in better shape then some I saw that night... If I was more confident I would do it. I'm tempted with bar work though...
What I would say is this... If you're willing to dance for a woman, treat her like you would a man, if you can't/don't want to, don't tout for her business...
(I was disappointed not one, but twice) |
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By *uicy2sum OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"I went to a manchester lapdancing bar for my 'stag' do. The women were all ranges of body types and shapes, and ages.
You are gorgeous and certainly in better shape then some I saw that night... If I was more confident I would do it. I'm tempted with bar work though...
What I would say is this... If you're willing to dance for a woman, treat her like you would a man, if you can't/don't want to, don't tout for her business...
(I was disappointed not one, but twice)"
Oh I definitely would!! I've been into clubs with my other half and I love to have a dance although he gets upset if they pay more attention to me than him, haha x |
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By *inaryGuyMan
over a year ago
Near the River |
"I went to a manchester lapdancing bar for my 'stag' do. The women were all ranges of body types and shapes, and ages.
You are gorgeous and certainly in better shape then some I saw that night... If I was more confident I would do it. I'm tempted with bar work though...
What I would say is this... If you're willing to dance for a woman, treat her like you would a man, if you can't/don't want to, don't tout for her business...
(I was disappointed not one, but twice)
Oh I definitely would!! I've been into clubs with my other half and I love to have a dance although he gets upset if they pay more attention to me than him, haha x"
Absolutely, go for it, you look great! |
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"Oh thanks for all your lovely positive comments guys!
I guess you sometimes think that most would go for the younger model but I suppose I'm not passed my sell by date just yet, haha! X"
Went to a few lap dancing clubs in Birmingham a few months ago for a friend's birthday night out. The girls age ranges were varied from 18 to some women in their 40's. They all looked great, and I've met you in Townhouse at the Allure 2 event OP you certainly have the body for it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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looks and sounds like a shite way too live in my opinion.
While your pictures look delicious and you’ve obviously got all the tools for the trade I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable advising you to do it.
I have never and will never hand money over to another human for personal sexual gratification be it visually or physically and have little respect for anyone who does.
I’d be interested in a truthful answer as to whether you’d explain to your family where this new source of money is coming from and if so whether you’d be happy for your husband and children to follow your example and get into the trade ?
Hey... it’s your life, do whatever makes you happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looks and sounds like a shite way too live in my opinion.
While your pictures look delicious and you’ve obviously got all the tools for the trade I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable advising you to do it.
I have never and will never hand money over to another human for personal sexual gratification be it visually or physically and have little respect for anyone who does.
I’d be interested in a truthful answer as to whether you’d explain to your family where this new source of money is coming from and if so whether you’d be happy for your husband and children to follow your example and get into the trade ?
Hey... it’s your life, do whatever makes you happy."
L&S, is sex-working (of all the spectrum of work within this field) not capable of being legitimate a d ethical work if done consenually and safely, whether or not you personally like it or would want to utilise services? Just wondering if the lack of respect you mention is extended to those that offer such services or just to those who procure. And should those legitimately sex-working (I reiterate ethical, safe, consensual sex-working) be ashamed of their work so that they should not tell their nearest and dearest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looks and sounds like a shite way too live in my opinion.
While your pictures look delicious and you’ve obviously got all the tools for the trade I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable advising you to do it.
I have never and will never hand money over to another human for personal sexual gratification be it visually or physically and have little respect for anyone who does.
I’d be interested in a truthful answer as to whether you’d explain to your family where this new source of money is coming from and if so whether you’d be happy for your husband and children to follow your example and get into the trade ?
Hey... it’s your life, do whatever makes you happy.
L&S, is sex-working (of all the spectrum of work within this field) not capable of being legitimate a d ethical work if done consenually and safely, whether or not you personally like it or would want to utilise services? Just wondering if the lack of respect you mention is extended to those that offer such services or just to those who procure. And should those legitimately sex-working (I reiterate ethical, safe, consensual sex-working) be ashamed of their work so that they should not tell their nearest and dearest? "
Not at all, it could well be considered legitimate under your definition Estella and I’m glad you point this out.
It is not my aim to shame anyone out of anything but merely to give my view.
It’s a strong view and is formed from experiences of being dragged around these kinds of places in my younger years with a sports team as a new guy trying to fit in.
With regard to your question about people who use these facilities my lack of respect comes from witnessing the lack of honesty displayed by the people I’ve known to use them.
With regard to the ‘workers’ being ashamed, it was merely a question I’d like answered truthfully by someone with experience...the op.
It is not for me to say that they should be ashamed. |
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By *uicy2sum OP Couple
over a year ago
Manchester |
"looks and sounds like a shite way too live in my opinion.
While your pictures look delicious and you’ve obviously got all the tools for the trade I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable advising you to do it.
I have never and will never hand money over to another human for personal sexual gratification be it visually or physically and have little respect for anyone who does.
I’d be interested in a truthful answer as to whether you’d explain to your family where this new source of money is coming from and if so whether you’d be happy for your husband and children to follow your example and get into the trade ?
Hey... it’s your life, do whatever makes you happy."
When I danced back in my late teens/early 20's my partner and mum were well aware of what I did and didn't have a problem with it at all.
I think people can have a misconception of dancing and to what goes on similar to the world of swinging I suppose.
To me if people are happy to throw money at me whilst I dance then in my eyes I'm not hurting anyone at all. Be it ethically or morally right?....I'd be there of my own free will and so would they!
If my daughter chose to go down that route, it wouldn't be my chosen profession in life for her, but I certainly wouldn't look down upon her.
Each to their own I suppose!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looks and sounds like a shite way too live in my opinion.
While your pictures look delicious and you’ve obviously got all the tools for the trade I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable advising you to do it.
I have never and will never hand money over to another human for personal sexual gratification be it visually or physically and have little respect for anyone who does.
I’d be interested in a truthful answer as to whether you’d explain to your family where this new source of money is coming from and if so whether you’d be happy for your husband and children to follow your example and get into the trade ?
Hey... it’s your life, do whatever makes you happy.
When I danced back in my late teens/early 20's my partner and mum were well aware of what I did and didn't have a problem with it at all.
I think people can have a misconception of dancing and to what goes on similar to the world of swinging I suppose.
To me if people are happy to throw money at me whilst I dance then in my eyes I'm not hurting anyone at all. Be it ethically or morally right?....I'd be there of my own free will and so would they!
If my daughter chose to go down that route, it wouldn't be my chosen profession in life for her, but I certainly wouldn't look down upon her.
Each to their own I suppose!
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As I said in my original post, it’s your life Choice. I’d love to wish you every success should you decide to do it but I couldn’t possibly.
Instead I’d like to wish you every safety.
You didn’t answer my question about explaining your new income to the family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I just wanted to ask peoples opinions on this.....please be nice!
I danced between the ages of 19-21 and now fast forwarding to nearly 20 years I'm thinking of possibly going back for a year or two to add a bit of extra cash to our family, especially with the run up to Christmas!!
My body obviously isn't quite the same (I've had 3 kids!) but I'm wanting to know if people think there's a market for someone of my age?? Or should I just leave it to the spring chickens??
XX"
You know what, I don't think you should ask anyone, if somewhere is willing to take you on and you want to do it ... just fucking do it ... it's nothing to do with anyone else! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looks and sounds like a shite way too live in my opinion.
While your pictures look delicious and you’ve obviously got all the tools for the trade I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable advising you to do it.
I have never and will never hand money over to another human for personal sexual gratification be it visually or physically and have little respect for anyone who does.
I’d be interested in a truthful answer as to whether you’d explain to your family where this new source of money is coming from and if so whether you’d be happy for your husband and children to follow your example and get into the trade ?
Hey... it’s your life, do whatever makes you happy.
L&S, is sex-working (of all the spectrum of work within this field) not capable of being legitimate a d ethical work if done consenually and safely, whether or not you personally like it or would want to utilise services? Just wondering if the lack of respect you mention is extended to those that offer such services or just to those who procure. And should those legitimately sex-working (I reiterate ethical, safe, consensual sex-working) be ashamed of their work so that they should not tell their nearest and dearest?
Not at all, it could well be considered legitimate under your definition Estella and I’m glad you point this out.
It is not my aim to shame anyone out of anything but merely to give my view.
It’s a strong view and is formed from experiences of being dragged around these kinds of places in my younger years with a sports team as a new guy trying to fit in.
With regard to your question about people who use these facilities my lack of respect comes from witnessing the lack of honesty displayed by the people I’ve known to use them.
With regard to the ‘workers’ being ashamed, it was merely a question I’d like answered truthfully by someone with experience...the op.
It is not for me to say that they should be ashamed."
Thanks for clarifying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I just wanted to ask peoples opinions on this.....please be nice!
I danced between the ages of 19-21 and now fast forwarding to nearly 20 years I'm thinking of possibly going back for a year or two to add a bit of extra cash to our family, especially with the run up to Christmas!!
My body obviously isn't quite the same (I've had 3 kids!) but I'm wanting to know if people think there's a market for someone of my age?? Or should I just leave it to the spring chickens??
XX"
If you want to do it then hell yes, of course you should go for it! There's more than enough guys out there with any amount of wide ranging tastes. I say do it! |
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4 what night you fee?
Amazing body hun, you go for it.....
