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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How long does it take to arrange a meet for you ?
From first point of contact to actually meeting .
I find it can drag on for ages with some people and yet some meet after a few messages.
I know which I prefer , over to you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long does it take to arrange a meet for you ?
From first point of contact to actually meeting .
I find it can drag on for ages with some people and yet some meet after a few messages.
I know which I prefer , over to you ?"
Most my meets are arranged quite quickly. Often the same day. If they are arranged too far in advance, or arrangements drag on, they rarely end up taking place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And something that puts me off bigtime is being bloody pushy..
go on, you knows you want to....oh go on...go on...go on...  ffs  "
Is that after the first message lol
I usaully give it at least 3 messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i recently met a lovely couple id known for years chatwise but it just wasnt as easy to get things organised...
I dont rush anything...dont chase wildly either. I assure myself of my fun when i want it, or are able to have it and thats regardless of how long ive been talking to someone.
Im not here to wait for the right girl or couple...FUCK that, i wanna play when i can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends how much i like them and want to meet them
if i have seen them on cam and really like them i meet as soon as possible, next day usually, but if they only send pics that arnt that clear or they are nice but nothing great it can drag out as i feel no rush to meet them, and even if we have been chatting and in the mean time i see someone else on cam that stands out i will jump them the queue
If im going to be honest you more likely to get a quick meet out of me if i have seen you on cam, pics dont really interest me that much as you never know how alike they still look to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, I can get a good idea about someone after a few minutes chatting on MSN.
If the conversation is not free flowing and resembles pulling teeth, then I am unlikely to meet them.
And if the other person says he thinks we would be great together as playmates before I have a warm and fuzzy feeling about him, then I would switch off and loose interest immediately!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree it really does depend
distance, work (both sides) life,
my weekend plans, I have done same day meets, however have been chatting with someone a while and am patiently waiting to 'meet' him.
For me this site isn't so much about getting to know someone, more over finding the non pushy good 'lover' and I have been lucky to yet :P |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Just depends on how busy we are with work & family.
Some within a few weeks, others a few months and some has taken a year or more.
On a couple of rare occasions we have met within a couple of days....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long does it take to arrange a meet for you ?
From first point of contact to actually meeting .
I find it can drag on for ages with some people and yet some meet after a few messages.
I know which I prefer , over to you ?"
So far less than a fortnight although some people have to make arrangements for an evenings travel or to sort out accommodating. |
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"How long does it take to arrange a meet for you ?
From first point of contact to actually meeting .
I find it can drag on for ages with some people and yet some meet after a few messages.
I know which I prefer , over to you ?"
Depends
6 hours quickest, 9 months slowest(they lived in wales, but it was a fab week  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I cannot imagine waiting years to arrange an nsa meet, that seems incredible to me!
For me it happens relatively quickly or not at all.
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yeah im a bit like that
If i talk to someone for a couple of weeks and we still havnt met i loose interest
I mean lets be honest if you both really want to meet your going to meet before that time
If after weeks you still havnt met or set a deff. date it usually means one of you isnt that interested
So may as well move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My OH works in Germany a lot so sometimes our meets are last minute but they tend to be off our friends list, some of those friends have been chatting for months.
That's not always the case, sometimes if the time is right and all parties in agreement, it can happen quickly.
Otherwise, and this sounds really bad, but I have a lot of guys who I want to meet with on my friends list, but time is against us and so I have a waiting list in effect (sorry I know that sounds so pretentious) so I'd like to meet those guys that I've been wanting to meet for ages
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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for me it takes as long as it takes.... simple as!
I want to feel 110% sure and comfortable to do this, and I want the other person/people to feel 110% sure they want to do this... so for me it doesn't matter that process happens over hours/days/weeks/months/years....
sometimes real life gets in the way, be that children, schedules, emergencies, or a million other things.... and sometimes some of the best things are worth waiting for....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me it takes as long as it takes.... simple as!
I want to feel 110% sure and comfortable to do this, and I want the other person/people to feel 110% sure they want to do this... so for me it doesn't matter that process happens over hours/days/weeks/months/years....
sometimes real life gets in the way, be that children, schedules, emergencies, or a million other things.... and sometimes some of the best things are worth waiting for....
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i thought you were just a slow reader and indecisive like me Fabio |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I cannot imagine waiting years to arrange an nsa meet, that seems incredible to me!
For me it happens relatively quickly or not at all.
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Exactly my thought  |
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) to arrange it or a few hours has no relevance really
its about the person - not the timescale
