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Don't be afraid of who you are or what you want.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Be honest on here. Let your profile and photos give a real insight as to the person behind the profile.
Me for one would rather not meet anyone if it was based upon half truths and lies..
Long term, your lies and half truths will find you out.
I know I won't be most couples or single womens cup of tea.
But at least I have the balls to say "this is me, you decide"
If someone doesn't like me for who I am, then meeting is an exercise in futility. Happy in my own skin.
Will bide my time patiently, one day my match may come along. Age, experience and two divorces have given me a different viewpoint on life, sex and relationships. Not jaded, but much more in tune. |
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Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Anyone that has met us either for a social or in a club can vouch for that.
We see endless threads on fakes etc and have experienced it first hand so know where you are coming from OP.
not so naive nowadays so not so easily duped, thankfully.
Really don't get what people get from it TBH as like you have said the truth always finds its way out.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find that most profiles and pictures reveal the real person even if that isn't the intention. There are lots of little tells that give things away."
Even the ones with 20 cock pick selfies..
They only think with their cock.. avoid |
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One of things I pride myself on, is my honesty.
Partly due to way I was raised, partly due to the fact I have ADHD.
I can't remember somedays what I actually/physically did an hour ago, so making up lies, then having to remember what I made up.
Nope, never gonna work! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Anyone that has met us either for a social or in a club can vouch for that.
We see endless threads on fakes etc and have experienced it first hand so know where you are coming from OP.
not so naive nowadays so not so easily duped, thankfully.
Really don't get what people get from it TBH as like you have said the truth always finds its way out.
Mr M
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Thanks..
And Mrs is fit as fuck..
You should be proud Mr  |
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Anyone that has met us either for a social or in a club can vouch for that.
We see endless threads on fakes etc and have experienced it first hand so know where you are coming from OP.
not so naive nowadays so not so easily duped, thankfully.
Really don't get what people get from it TBH as like you have said the truth always finds its way out.
Mr M
Thanks..
And Mrs is fit as fuck..
You should be proud Mr "
Thank you, I am very proud and still smile when I wake up every day, even after 33 years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find that most profiles and pictures reveal the real person even if that isn't the intention. There are lots of little tells that give things away."
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Also I do understand that it is so hard to encapsulate the essence of yourself in a few written paragraphs (although many don't manage a few sentences)
Myself, I am multi faceted, complicated, both black and white and many shades inbetween. Still exploring who I am, as are we all. But the journey and exploration is half the fun. |
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Mr M
You're both one person then?"
Why because we only have pics of Mrs M?
We prefer to be discrete and if we plan on meeting then they get to see me beforehand |
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I think if you are a woman, hide who you are and what you want. But write it down private.
If a woman on here says she is a dominatrix, guys will tell her they are submissive.
If she says submissive, same guys will tell her they are dominant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Mr M
You're both one person then?
Why because we only have pics of Mrs M?
We prefer to be discrete and if we plan on meeting then they get to see me beforehand "
It's just that first sentence didn't make any sense to me. Our profile and pics of mrs m are exactly who we are.
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Mr M
You're both one person then?
Why because we only have pics of Mrs M?
We prefer to be discrete and if we plan on meeting then they get to see me beforehand "
You are mentioned in the profile text so your profile does represent both of you
But if you need to be discreet wouldn't anyone who recognised Mrs M know you were here too?
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is a big thing for me. I think/hope my profile gives a somewhat accurate description of who I am, along with the photos of me. I spend a lot of time feeling different from the norm, having piercings, which some of are stretched. But I hate to hide it from people, because it's who I am, and have been for a lot of my life. I'd rather be known as that nice but anxious guy with the piercings and tattoos than just another guy hiding behind dick shots and text about how great he apparently can fuck |
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"I think if you are a woman, hide who you are and what you want. But write it down private.
If a woman on here says she is a dominatrix, guys will tell her they are submissive.
If she says submissive, same guys will tell her they are dominant."
True. We get a lot of men contacting us claiming to be interested in what we offer. On chatting it frequently turns out they aren't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you are a woman, hide who you are and what you want. But write it down private.
If a woman on here says she is a dominatrix, guys will tell her they are submissive.
If she says submissive, same guys will tell her they are dominant."
The thing that's most important to me I've mentioned on my profile cos if guys aren't into it then there's no point us meeting. I want to know that the guy will let me stick my tongue up his arse because it's one of my most favourite things to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you are a woman, hide who you are and what you want. But write it down private.
If a woman on here says she is a dominatrix, guys will tell her they are submissive.
If she says submissive, same guys will tell her they are dominant."
Yep. This is why I give very little away. I can't stand messages from guys claiming to be everything I want... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think if you are a woman, hide who you are and what you want. But write it down private.
If a woman on here says she is a dominatrix, guys will tell her they are submissive.
If she says submissive, same guys will tell her they are dominant.
Yep. This is why I give very little away. I can't stand messages from guys claiming to be everything I want... "
I wouldn't claim that, I'm everything you want and more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if you are a woman, hide who you are and what you want. But write it down private.
If a woman on here says she is a dominatrix, guys will tell her they are submissive.
If she says submissive, same guys will tell her they are dominant.
Yep. This is why I give very little away. I can't stand messages from guys claiming to be everything I want...
I wouldn't claim that, I'm everything you want and more "
Every woman's dream allegedly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Anyone that has met us either for a social or in a club can vouch for that.
We see endless threads on fakes etc and have experienced it first hand so know where you are coming from OP.
not so naive nowadays so not so easily duped, thankfully.
Really don't get what people get from it TBH as like you have said the truth always finds its way out.
Mr M
Thanks..
And Mrs is fit as fuck..
You should be proud Mr
Thank you, I am very proud and still smile when I wake up every day, even after 33 years "
I.do think it strange that there are no photos of you on your profile Mr.. but yet you reply on this thread about honesty..
Me thinking what do you have to hide? I would not go see a used car off eBay with no photos.
Why you hide yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Mr M
You're both one person then?
Why because we only have pics of Mrs M?
We prefer to be discrete and if we plan on meeting then they get to see me beforehand
You are mentioned in the profile text so your profile does represent both of you
But if you need to be discreet wouldn't anyone who recognised Mrs M know you were here too?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fakes will always get found out..
Their choice. I don't want just one go on the rollercoaster before they discover I was (too short, too young etc) and kick me off.
I want unlimited free rides on the fucker.. hehe  |
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Anyone that has met us either for a social or in a club can vouch for that.
We see endless threads on fakes etc and have experienced it first hand so know where you are coming from OP.
not so naive nowadays so not so easily duped, thankfully.
Really don't get what people get from it TBH as like you have said the truth always finds its way out.
Mr M
Thanks..
And Mrs is fit as fuck..
You should be proud Mr
Thank you, I am very proud and still smile when I wake up every day, even after 33 years
I.do think it strange that there are no photos of you on your profile Mr.. but yet you reply on this thread about honesty..
Me thinking what do you have to hide? I would not go see a used car off eBay with no photos.
Why you hide yourself?"
How do you consider us having no pics of me as being dishonest?
Who in their right mind would buy a car of Ebay anyway??
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"Be honest on here. Let your profile and photos give a real insight as to the person behind the profile.
Me for one would rather not meet anyone if it was based upon half truths and lies..
Long term, your lies and half truths will find you out.
I know I won't be most couples or single womens cup of tea.
But at least I have the balls to say "this is me, you decide"
If someone doesn't like me for who I am, then meeting is an exercise in futility. Happy in my own skin.
Will bide my time patiently, one day my match may come along. Age, experience and two divorces have given me a different viewpoint on life, sex and relationships. Not jaded, but much more in tune."
Well said that man. |
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"Our profile and pics of Mrs M are exactly who we are.
Anyone that has met us either for a social or in a club can vouch for that.
We see endless threads on fakes etc and have experienced it first hand so know where you are coming from OP.
not so naive nowadays so not so easily duped, thankfully.
Really don't get what people get from it TBH as like you have said the truth always finds its way out.
Mr M
Thanks..
And Mrs is fit as fuck..
You should be proud Mr
Thank you, I am very proud and still smile when I wake up every day, even after 33 years
I.do think it strange that there are no photos of you on your profile Mr.. but yet you reply on this thread about honesty..
Me thinking what do you have to hide? I would not go see a used car off eBay with no photos.
Why you hide yourself?
How do you consider us having no pics of me as being dishonest?
Who in their right mind would buy a car of Ebay anyway??
You play your way, we play ours "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera. |
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"I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera."
And if we were planning on meeting then you would see me before as we would send pics,so don't see where the issue is TBH??
If its that off putting then you aren't on the same page anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our number 1 pet hate is a couples profile with no picture of the male half "
Mine too..
Their profiles should be downgraded to
"Probably, maybe a couple, but we will never know. Click and delete. |
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"I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera."
People can run their profile any way they want. If it's not to your taste it just means you're not compatible. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've spent too much of my life having to pretend to be someone I'm not. I've wasted too much of my life being who other people wanted me to be.
It's no fun living a lie.
It's also no fun trying to change that lie, you certainly find out who else is a liar when you change (those who pretended to be you friends/"supportive" family). But at least you don't have to worry about slipping up and being caught out and it's so freeing. In the long run it is so worth the work.
So whether it's "real" life or fab life, just be yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think if you are a woman, hide who you are and what you want. But write it down private.
If a woman on here says she is a dominatrix, guys will tell her they are submissive.
If she says submissive, same guys will tell her they are dominant."
That's exactly why I never say what I'm looking for! |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
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I believe my profile is a good insight into me and will not be for probably 95% of ladies on here. I really don't think it's possible to give you the whole me but it's enough to have a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera.
People can run their profile any way they want. If it's not to your taste it just means you're not compatible."
You still have not properly answered my question. How come there are no photos of you on your profile,?
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"I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera.
People can run their profile any way they want. If it's not to your taste it just means you're not compatible.
You still have not properly answered my question. How come there are no photos of you on your profile,?
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He is under no obligation to offer you an explanation and commenting on another users profile is against forum rules unl they've requested it. I suggest you leave it there. |
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"I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera.
People can run their profile any way they want. If it's not to your taste it just means you're not compatible.
You still have not properly answered my question. How come there are no photos of you on your profile,?
He is under no obligation to offer you an explanation and commenting on another users profile is against forum rules unl they've requested it. I suggest you leave it there."
I did not comment directly on your profile other than to say that Mrs was hot.
I only asked a genuine question as to why, on a couples profile (and for any couples profile for that matter), are there no photos of Mr?
Hardly an offensive question me thinks |
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"I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera.
People can run their profile any way they want. If it's not to your taste it just means you're not compatible.
You still have not properly answered my question. How come there are no photos of you on your profile,?
He is under no obligation to offer you an explanation and commenting on another users profile is against forum rules unl they've requested it. I suggest you leave it there.
I did not comment directly on your profile other than to say that Mrs was hot.
I only asked a genuine question as to why, on a couples profile (and for any couples profile for that matter), are there no photos of Mr?
Hardly an offensive question me thinks"
You aren't replying to the profile with no pictures of the guy on it.
I say again commenting adversely on another users profile unless relevant is against forum rules and will result in a ban as will disputing a moderators decision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We are here for a fantasy. It's a chance to express an alter ego. What you see in our profile is certainly not the real me. The real me isn't so sexy.
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"I find that most profiles and pictures reveal the real person even if that isn't the intention. There are lots of little tells that give things away."
I’m intrigued now as to what my profile and pics tell you what the real person is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The real me is sitting here in my lounge wearing cordery trousers and a woolly jumper, no make up, feeling stressed out from a horrible day at work. The me in our profile is wearing lingerie or revealing dresses and high heals. When I play I will be seductive, I will make people want me, I will look sexy, I will be a man's fantasy. Do you think I'm a man's fantasy in real life. No way, no one looks at me as I walk down the street. What the fuck do people want to see the real me in our profile?
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"I find that most profiles and pictures reveal the real person even if that isn't the intention. There are lots of little tells that give things away.
I’m intrigued now as to what my profile and pics tell you what the real person is "
Same about mine. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"The real me is sitting here in my lounge wearing cordery trousers and a woolly jumper, no make up, feeling stressed out from a horrible day at work. The me in our profile is wearing lingerie or revealing dresses and high heals. When I play I will be seductive, I will make people want me, I will look sexy, I will be a man's fantasy. Do you think I'm a man's fantasy in real life. No way, no one looks at me as I walk down the street. What the fuck do people want to see the real me in our profile?
Mrs"
So you fake it every time you meet someone from here? The person described and shown in your profile is not you? When someone meets you they will meet a completely different person from what your profile shows and tells them?
Or are they meeting another side of the real you and so meeting the real you?
It's not like you are pretending to be older or younger, fatter or thinner, single when you are not, pretending to be straight or bi depending on which you think will get you more meets...
Maybe this is more the real you than what you are confined to be outside of Fab?
Or maybe your profile is just full of lies and half truths?
Most of the people who contact me say they are straight and single, now 9 times out of 10 they are at least half lieing there, now that's faking it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera.
People can run their profile any way they want. If it's not to your taste it just means you're not compatible.
You still have not properly answered my question. How come there are no photos of you on your profile,?
He is under no obligation to offer you an explanation and commenting on another users profile is against forum rules unl they've requested it. I suggest you leave it there.
I did not comment directly on your profile other than to say that Mrs was hot.
I only asked a genuine question as to why, on a couples profile (and for any couples profile for that matter), are there no photos of Mr?
Hardly an offensive question me thinks"
I think you have asked this question about four times now in various combinations of words..
Let me type this slowly for you...
It's called personal choice...
As is their decision not to respond.
It's their profile their way...
What business us that if yours..
If you disapprove it's simple just move on and ffs give them a break...
They like everyone else on here is not answerable to your preferences
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"I find that most profiles and pictures reveal the real person even if that isn't the intention. There are lots of little tells that give things away.
I’m intrigued now as to what my profile and pics tell you what the real person is
Same about mine. "
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"I find that most profiles and pictures reveal the real person even if that isn't the intention. There are lots of little tells that give things away.
I’m intrigued now as to what my profile and pics tell you what the real person is "
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"I never said you was dishonest Mr..
But you have not answered my question..
Why don't you have any photos of you on your profile?
It comes across as shady tbh.
I would not even entertain meeting you as a couple nor even getting into a conversation with you as regards to a meet, unless I had seen the guy behind the camera.
People can run their profile any way they want. If it's not to your taste it just means you're not compatible.
You still have not properly answered my question. How come there are no photos of you on your profile,?
He is under no obligation to offer you an explanation and commenting on another users profile is against forum rules unl they've requested it. I suggest you leave it there.
I did not comment directly on your profile other than to say that Mrs was hot.
I only asked a genuine question as to why, on a couples profile (and for any couples profile for that matter), are there no photos of Mr?
Hardly an offensive question me thinks
I think you have asked this question about four times now in various combinations of words..
Let me type this slowly for you...
It's called personal choice...
As is their decision not to respond.
It's their profile their way...
What business us that if yours..
If you disapprove it's simple just move on and ffs give them a break...
They like everyone else on here is not answerable to your preferences
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Would just like to say a very big thank you for the support from you both.
We choose to remain discreet (Mr) and that will not change.
Those that have met us know he is real and our verification's speak for them self. |
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"Would just like to say a very big thank you for the support from you both.
We choose to remain discreet (Mr) and that will not change.
Those that have met us know he is real and our verification's speak for them self. "
But nobody has said that Mr is not real! There has certainly been an intrigue and curiosity expressed in a few threads as to why his photos have to be kept discrete until a meet agreed, but her photos do not. And some have questioned what you are hiding and alluded to dishonesty. But if doesn't matter what random people on the Internet think, and its none of anybody business. But nobody has said he's not real. And it's obvious from the verications that he exists.
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